It is no doubt that Nigerian men make wonderful lovers; they are sweet, kind, thoughtful, maybe not very romantic but romantic still and good in bed too. It is also no doubt that these men are very rare to come by in Nigeria. Maybe by default or societal conditioning, most Nigerian men are so not it; they are egoistic, chauvinistic and make terrible husband materials. You wonder why I think Nigerian men; at least most of them, won’t make good husbands, read the reasons listed below:



-They Are Chauvinists: pardon the strong word “chauvinists” but Nigerian men prefer to stick to their bias opinion about women and their responsibilities in the home. They take the “head” duty way too serious and often push the women aside expecting them to follow their will and do as they say. If you marry a Nigerian man, you will probably end up as the less important voice in the home rather than as the partner you are to him.



– They Are Polygamous In Nature: In Nigeria, some men believe men are entitled to as many women as they can handle and so, they are free to marry more than one wife or have affairs with other women. With a Nigerian man, it is never certain that you will be the only woman in his life. To save yourself the heartbreak of discovering condoms and hotel receipts in his pocket or worse, finding out he has secret children, please do not marry a Nigerian man.



– They Are Not Romantic: you want flowers, a guy to follow you to the salon, exotic lunches, dinners, vacations, chocolates and breakfast in bed? Then, a Nigerian man is not the man you should marry. They often consider these things as cheesy and unnecessary. Maybe they will try on your birthday and Valentine’s Day (that’s if they don’t come up with excuses to forget). The most romantic thing some Nigerian men will ever get for you is packs of food from an eatery or drinks and few back/foot rubs just right before sex.



– You Will Be A Nanny To A Grown Man: if God blesses you with a Nigerian man and a somehow scattered one, you are in soup. You’ve just graduated to being a nanny to a full grown man. You will pick his socks, shirts and what not after him when he gets back from work, even flush the toilet when he’s done. Be ready to face a sulking man if the food is not ready on time or you try to get him to do something for you when his favourite game or TV show is on. You will have to pet and stroke his ego almost all the time to make him happy.



– They Have The Wife Beating Syndrome: either by societal conditioning or home training, some Nigerian men believe it is very normal to hit a woman; that is the only way to put them back on track when they are wrong. It is no secret that some Nigerian men will beat their wives and feel no regret about it; it is somehow the woman’s fault the man is so angry to the extent he has to hit her. If you’re not ready to lose your fine skin to the itchy palms of a man, please steer clear of Nigerian men.



They are also good liars. They smoke and drink heavily and blame it on the society’s deteriorating condition; they have to “keep body and soul together”. Many Nigerian men have money problem; it is either they are misers or heavy spenders. Some prefer to show off the wealth they do not possess by living way beyond their standards. And the most annoying part is that many Nigerian men are Mr nice guy in public and Mr stingy in their homes which you will agree is not a very attractive trait especially in someone you want to spend the rest of your life with.

source: http://naijasinglegirl.com/why-you-should-not-marry-a-nigerian-man/

Bullshit

Eddygourdo:
Hmmmm, have you ever heard of actions and reactions. Maybe Nigerian men are that way cos of Nigerian women, I doubt foreign ladies have exactly same opinion of us, by the way dear with the way naija women are I believe you deserve naija men. Even to balance the equation the naija men must learn new bad characters

SirWere:
This is so hilariously stupid!!! I love it when girls come up with extremely senseless topics!! Makes me feel better when I argue against feminism

mstik:
This has NOTHING to do with feminism

SirWere:
I know, I know. But it still reeks of stupîdity, therefore I feel better

Capsice

mstik:
I beg to differ @bolded.
That assertion is wrong! You men are the way you are because of your mentality, and probably the way you were brought up. Don't blame Nigerian women for your faults.

elantraceey:
Lol , I still prefer them though


By the way they are not all like that and some of those traits are still exhibit by men all around the globe.

Richardonald:
Instead of u girls to be pleading for we men,u are saying trash,ok don't marry naija guy,maybe u will go cameroon or ivorycoast if their men will leave their queen and marry greedy sluts like u....and to END IT the other girl say she will be waiting for her brazillian bf..blonde and sexy brazillian girls still dey single not to talk of black bitches..

Estharfabian:
"" I Love this thread with passion....

...U forgot to Add they don't workout... the Average Nigerian Guy is Pot-bellied and pack-less...due to their stinginess...they can't Afford to go to A Gym-House And also a good meal..All they eat is Eba(junkfood) and palmoil soup(Another junk)..""

Nigerian Guys Are So Arrrrrgh!!! And Gggggggrh!! ...they act like they're Are God!! and blah! And ssssshhhhh!

this is the main reason why I'm getting A Brazilian Boyfriend soonest.... they're way sweet and So Romantic... And smoking Hot too! those 21-packs could make You drunk!

ernesty20:
berra go get married. Agba ya

Djhack1:
gosh! Your post has already introduced you.. I pray you dont join the sisters conventry @ the age 0f 38... potbelle sixpack ? are u still 16?

elantraceey:

Are you sure your senses are working properly?