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Re: Nigerian Lady Slams Women Who Won't For Once, Have Sex With A Guy & Tell Him Off by Nobody: 4:34pm On Nov 21, 2015
Lol. Guys will love this....
Re: Nigerian Lady Slams Women Who Won't For Once, Have Sex With A Guy & Tell Him Off by josite: 4:34pm On Nov 21, 2015
Gaborone:
How about we closed our legs like a pair of scissors till we got married?

Wanton sex is easy, let's try something hard but dignifying this time - closing those legs.

How about that?

smiley


u ,the intiator,can u afford to close ur leg?.lol
Re: Nigerian Lady Slams Women Who Won't For Once, Have Sex With A Guy & Tell Him Off by ayinde2ade(m): 4:36pm On Nov 21, 2015
grin see u wan dey chop kongi clean mouth ok make we see u go lose nd wu go win....abeg I need 'bout 10 ladies to chop me sef clean abi no be so?...AWON WEREY
Re: Nigerian Lady Slams Women Who Won't For Once, Have Sex With A Guy & Tell Him Off by adexolu: 4:36pm On Nov 21, 2015
Re: Nigerian Lady Slams Women Who Won't For Once, Have Sex With A Guy & Tell Him Off by blessedfavoured: 4:37pm On Nov 21, 2015
noblemails:
this is why u will not get married till ur 50yrs.. am sure u follow for all these olosho wey dey hand around old ojo road

You will be surprised, she'd end up with the best husband.
And not all these "chewing gum" boys that good girls end up with

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Re: Nigerian Lady Slams Women Who Won't For Once, Have Sex With A Guy & Tell Him Off by Conner44: 4:41pm On Nov 21, 2015
Bgorgeous:
Lady it not in our chemistry to bullshit , but if we get pushed to the wall l tell u , ur advice is not needed, we can leave ever lasting scare

I'm afraid of this your comment

. . . You don't bullshit. . . Push to the wall. . . No advice needed. . . Leave EVERLASTING scare (or SCAR)

OMG! PLEASE DON'T BITE THE D**K OH, I TAKE OLUWA BEG YOU. just chop and clean mouth abeg but DON'T BITE

chei! I wish your boyfriend well
Re: Nigerian Lady Slams Women Who Won't For Once, Have Sex With A Guy & Tell Him Off by Nobody: 4:42pm On Nov 21, 2015
This girl is so on point..wonder when 'some' nigerian ladies will learn....we ladies r mostly d ones loosing. Ladies, learn to surprise any useless guy who thinks he will be d one to dump u first as usual.

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Re: Nigerian Lady Slams Women Who Won't For Once, Have Sex With A Guy & Tell Him Off by OjoraFunmilola(f): 4:50pm On Nov 21, 2015
Her own cup of otapiapia
Re: Nigerian Lady Slams Women Who Won't For Once, Have Sex With A Guy & Tell Him Off by Danfuster(m): 4:52pm On Nov 21, 2015
CaroLyner:
victoria onwuchekwa..your mom must be so proud.
Dang! Girl you cute wink
Re: Nigerian Lady Slams Women Who Won't For Once, Have Sex With A Guy & Tell Him Off by Krimmy(f): 4:59pm On Nov 21, 2015
No tanx... I can't do that.
Re: Nigerian Lady Slams Women Who Won't For Once, Have Sex With A Guy & Tell Him Off by blackpriest0911: 5:02pm On Nov 21, 2015
Onwu....come and meet me and do just that...I'm game...08051086289
Re: Nigerian Lady Slams Women Who Won't For Once, Have Sex With A Guy & Tell Him Off by vooyour(f): 5:04pm On Nov 21, 2015
I personally don't se the big deal. I mean if I'm Hot I don't see why I can't get some free sex without the hassle of a relationship, just because I'm a girl. Guys do this all the time, why can't we. I'm not saying jump on every dick you see. But come on, if you have sex with a guy within a week obviously he's not looking to wife you. So just get out of that bed and thank him for his services and LEAVE!

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Re: Nigerian Lady Slams Women Who Won't For Once, Have Sex With A Guy & Tell Him Off by Nobody: 5:06pm On Nov 21, 2015
i like that kind of girl... tongue

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Re: Nigerian Lady Slams Women Who Won't For Once, Have Sex With A Guy & Tell Him Off by lebete3000: 5:10pm On Nov 21, 2015
RedCapChief:
Speaking from a realist non-religious cry point of view, she is right. Many women in this part of the world equate sex to love. For many blokes, sex is sex and love is love. No matter how much you cook and clean for him, you'll just be a receptacle for his semen. Never anything more and maybe something less. All that is bangable is not wife-able

That is why I like Caucasian girls; from the outset they will tell you all they want is one night stand. In the morning, they'll make you coffee and toast if they really felt your performance and then kick you out.

Signed:

PRESIDENT MAMA MMADU BU GARI, GCFR

It's not in d female gene to chop and clean mouth even if she's a Hoe except she felt nothing for you in d first place, but if she did felt something she'll wanna stick around. A white girl is only trying to respect herself by kicking you out not dat she really wanna do dat. She'll always think of being around d kind of guy like you.
Re: Nigerian Lady Slams Women Who Won't For Once, Have Sex With A Guy & Tell Him Off by Nobody: 5:11pm On Nov 21, 2015
Brugge:
All I see on this thread is a lot of kid-men ranting on how girls are not built to 'chop and clean' mouth and how the girl will not marry until she is fifty.

Can one of you guys give me any logical psychological reason on why girls are not free to define themselves sexual other than the way society(men) had defined it for them?

Can one of you morons give me any detailed medical evidence that says that women are not built to have casual sex if she really wants it?

Can one of you 'stone-age' slowpoke given me the philosophical discuss that gives we men the right to assigns different sexual behavior between men and women, other than what men concocted to shame women, while they (men) promote their 'grandiose' sexual drive?

If you can not in anyone give me any logical answers rather than what nonsense that was passed down to you by the society in which we live in, please do not bother to respond.

AND FOR YOUR INFORMATION YOU NITWITS WHAT IS GOOD FOR THE GOOSE IS ALSO GOOD FOR THE GANDER.

Where did social constructs come from? how come? am a lady, educate me
Re: Nigerian Lady Slams Women Who Won't For Once, Have Sex With A Guy & Tell Him Off by HARDDON: 5:12pm On Nov 21, 2015
vooyour:
I personally don't se the big deal. I mean if I'm Hot I don't see why I can't get some free sex without the hassle of a relationship, just because I'm a girl. Guys do this all the time, why can't we. I'm not saying jump on every dick you see. But come on, if you have sex with a guy within a week obviously he's not looking to wife you. So just get out of that bed and thank him for his services and LEAVE!

yea, after all said and done, gurls need it more. kudos boss lady

unfortunately, u guys aint wired like guys. you are emotional beings and once you spread your leg for a guy, it means something to you.
Re: Nigerian Lady Slams Women Who Won't For Once, Have Sex With A Guy & Tell Him Off by lebete3000: 5:13pm On Nov 21, 2015
x6blade:
She's actually right in a way. A white lady would just do you for one night Nd it's casual. She doesn't have to date you or wait for love before she can have fun

A white woman may not need to date you first but EVERY woman has to Love you first b4 dey feel like it. Every Woman! except she's doing it for d cash or kind favour from ya or she's simply very sex-starved and will accept any rubbish dat comes her way. Otherwise most girls must feel something for ya first.
Re: Nigerian Lady Slams Women Who Won't For Once, Have Sex With A Guy & Tell Him Off by Nobody: 5:13pm On Nov 21, 2015
faustinalove:
This girl is so on point..wonder when 'some' nigerian ladies will learn....we ladies r mostly d ones loosing. Ladies, learn to surprise any useless guy who thinks he will be d one to dump u first as usual.
Lol. I hope that's what you do because that's how i roll cool

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Re: Nigerian Lady Slams Women Who Won't For Once, Have Sex With A Guy & Tell Him Off by MrsChima(f): 5:14pm On Nov 21, 2015
agarawu23:
Dumb girl, no wonder all guys fvck and dump her cheesy

Advising girls to chop and clean mouth. Well, only the dumb guys fall victims smiley

Awww...the bish used you? grin

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Re: Nigerian Lady Slams Women Who Won't For Once, Have Sex With A Guy & Tell Him Off by Mufasa27(m): 5:20pm On Nov 21, 2015
I'm not really interested in her rant but that buhari body odour got me laughing
Re: Nigerian Lady Slams Women Who Won't For Once, Have Sex With A Guy & Tell Him Off by Nobody: 5:22pm On Nov 21, 2015
Let's be real. Sex is over hyped in Naija. Girls are taught from birth that their private parts are sacred, and as such should be given to only guys worthy of such great honor. Of course, she grows up and discovers its all hogwash, but the society watches her like a hawk, and every percieved act of immorality is branded into her soul through mockery and outright chastisement. So forget this pipe dream of Naija babes having sex for the fun of it. When a Naija babe is really h'orny, she either mas'turbates or 'gives in' to some toaster that would otherwise have never stood a chance. Remember this when that unresponsive girl you've been chyking suddenly flashes you greenlight. It just might be a bootycall.....

But then again, who cares? If she's happy, I'm happy tongue
Re: Nigerian Lady Slams Women Who Won't For Once, Have Sex With A Guy & Tell Him Off by godwin120alex: 5:29pm On Nov 21, 2015
Well spoken wish dat NG girls will start behaving like Oyibo girls
Re: Nigerian Lady Slams Women Who Won't For Once, Have Sex With A Guy & Tell Him Off by Nobody: 5:30pm On Nov 21, 2015
I think this lady is living in denial and she wants other ladies to live a lie too.

The reason men can 'chop and clean mouth' like they say and ladies cannot do the same thing, is not anyone's fault.

During orgasm, men and women release a hormone called oxytocine. The difference is, women release a higher dose of it than men. It is this hormone that makes women want to feel like they love the guy and that's what makes them to stay behind after sex and even want to begin to cook for him. It is no one's fault, it is just nature. There are, however, some women who do not show this tendency, though but they are a minority. Just as some men also show this tendency too.

For the lady to advice other women this way, it means two things: like some people here have said, its either she has been treated this way many times before and she now thinks she can get back at guys this exact same way. If that's the case, then i feel sorry for her because she will only end up hurting herself the more. The only way she can hurt a guy this way, is if the guy shows this same tendency that is rare among men, but common among women.

The other reason she could have said what she said, is if she is ignorant of how we men work. I think she is definitely ignorant. She could also be a feminist. I know several feminists see things this way. They advocate that if men are not shammed for their sexuality when they are reckless with it, then a woman should feel no shame and shpuld be free to express herself the way she feels like. So many ladies have tried to carry out advice like this lady has given here and have ended up hurting themselves.

For those of us saying white women are whatever, well i would say that we are wrong. Alot of us have never been out of the shores of Nigeria and we think we know the first things about white people. The truth is, they are exactly the same as us in this way. It is not culture that makes it difficult for women to be reckless with their sexuality, it is nature. It is hormone! This hormone exists in all women no matter the cultural background. Infact, this thing that i have explained to you was made known to me by a white woman who was trying to expose feminism for its deceptive advice to women.

Ladies, you cannot hurt a guy this way this lady is advicing you. It doesn't work that way with us. However, there are ways you can hurt a guy. If you want me to tell you, you can ask.

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Re: Nigerian Lady Slams Women Who Won't For Once, Have Sex With A Guy & Tell Him Off by Bom4Real: 5:37pm On Nov 21, 2015
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Re: Nigerian Lady Slams Women Who Won't For Once, Have Sex With A Guy & Tell Him Off by vooyour(f): 5:39pm On Nov 21, 2015
HARDDON:


yea, after all said and done, gurls need it more. kudos boss lady

unfortunately, u guys aint wired like guys. you are emotional beings and once you spread your leg for a guy, it means something to you.
lol not necessarily. The trick is to find a guy you know you'd never date and ride them and kick them out the next morning. grin that way you won't fall for them. Also don't screw them for more than 8 months. Worked for me tongue cool

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Re: Nigerian Lady Slams Women Who Won't For Once, Have Sex With A Guy & Tell Him Off by francizy(m): 5:42pm On Nov 21, 2015
Am always full of laughter seeing this "Buhari's Body Odour" statement, knowing fully well that I started it here on Nairaland when mumu Garba attributed power supply improvement to "Buhari's Body Language"... grin grin cheesy grin grin grin shocked

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Re: Nigerian Lady Slams Women Who Won't For Once, Have Sex With A Guy & Tell Him Off by menxer: 5:43pm On Nov 21, 2015
So in this case now, the lady is the winner, abi?

Let her try it with 1,2,3 guys and let's see how emotionally stable she is.

As if ladies can easily differentiate sex from love, without falling into the olosho category
Re: Nigerian Lady Slams Women Who Won't For Once, Have Sex With A Guy & Tell Him Off by Nobody: 5:47pm On Nov 21, 2015
craziebone:
I think this lady is living in denial and she wants other ladies to live a lie too.

The reason men can 'chop and clean mouth' like they say and ladies cannot do the same thing, is not anyone's fault.

During orgasm, men and women release a hormone called oxytocine. The difference is, women release a higher dose of it than men. It is this hormone that makes women want to feel like they love the guy and that's what makes them to stay behind after sex and even want to begin to cook for him. It is no one's fault, it is just nature. There are, however, some women who do not show this tendency, though but they are a minority. Just as some men also show this tendency too.

For the lady to advice other women this way, it means two things: like some people here have said, its either she has been treated this way many times before and she now thinks she can get back at guys this exact same way. If that's the case, then i feel sorry for her because she will only end up hurting herself the more. The only way she can hurt a guy this way, is if the guy shows this same tendency that is rare among men, but common among women.

The other reason she could have said what she said, is if she is ignorant of how we men work. I think she is definitely ignorant. She could also be a feminist. I know several feminists see things this way. They advocate that if men are not shammed for their sexuality when they are reckless with it, then a woman should feel no shame and shpuld be free to express herself the way she feels like. So many ladies have tried to carry out advice like this lady has given here and have ended up hurting themselves.

For those of us saying white women are whatever, well i would say that we are wrong. Alot of us have never been out of the shores of Nigeria and we think we know the first things about white people. The truth is, they are exactly the same as us in this way. It is not culture that makes it difficult for women to be reckless with their sexuality, it is nature. It is hormone! This hormone exists in all women no matter the cultural background. Infact, this thing that i have explained to you was made known to me by a white woman who was trying to expose feminism for its deceptive advice to women.

Ladies, you cannot hurt a guy this way this lady is advicing you. It doesn't work that way with us. However, there are ways you can hurt a guy. If you want me to tell you, you can ask.

I am sorry to disappoint you, am sure you are aware that world wide there are more female prostitute than there are male prostitute and going by the logic in your first paragraph, those prostitutes would probably have stayed back each time they go see a client and clean out his place and bla bla bla.

Of course you called the lady ignorant because she does not know how the mind of men work. I will concur with you on that but then you are the biggest ignorant if you after agreeing that a woman does not understand the psychology of men only for you(man) to proclaim yourself an expert of female psychology by telling her how women feel and should feel about sex. Going by the qualification of you and the lady in question I think she is in a better position to speak for women when it comes to sex and not you.

My dear, our society over the years have treated women as underdogs and has done everything I mean everything both cultural and religious to subdue and treat them unjustly. Our society has succeeded in shaming them into being what they are not, we shame them if they put on weight. We shame them if at 30 they are not yet married, while most men marry in their late 30s without any qualms. We shame them when they expressed themselves sexually, because it is our god given rights to dictate how women express themselves sexually.

We even went ahead to ensure they don't keep more than one sexual partner at a time, hence, they are tagged sluts, while we men roam about like Hot dogs and dipping our joysticks into anything that moves, in the name of expressing our entitled polygamous nature. We tell them how to dress even in the hot climate we live in, should they fail to adhere to our proscribed mode of dressing for them, we termed them whores and all unspeakable names and punish them with 'deserved rape' for 'provoking' us. While doing this we forgot that before the white men came, our great grand parents why running around butt naked and never in the history of mankind was rape case as low/not in existence (though I have no hard data to refute this) as at then.

You talked about white women, my dear that you have never dealt with them does not other people have not. Bros time has changed. White women are more expressive sexually than you think. Yes some of them are still stuck in the what society thinks about me. That does not in any negate the fact that majority of them have crawled their way out of the boundaries that mischievous and sardonic men like you built for them in the name of society order and religious practices.

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Re: Nigerian Lady Slams Women Who Won't For Once, Have Sex With A Guy & Tell Him Off by Nobody: 5:47pm On Nov 21, 2015
Brugge:
All I see on this thread is a lot of kid-men ranting on how girls are not built to 'chop and clean' mouth and how the girl will not marry until she is fifty.

Can one of you guys give me any logical psychological reason on why girls are not free to define themselves sexual other than the way society(men) had defined it for them?

Can one of you morons give me any detailed medical evidence that says that women are not built to have casual sex if she really wants it?

Can one of you 'stone-age' slowpoke given me the philosophical discuss that gives we men the right to assigns different sexual behavior between men and women, other than what men concocted to shame women, while they (men) promote their 'grandiose' sexual drive?

If you can not in anyone give me any logical answers rather than what nonsense that was passed down to you by the society in which we live in, please do not bother to respond.

AND FOR YOUR INFORMATION YOU NITWITS WHAT IS GOOD FOR THE GOOSE IS ALSO GOOD FOR THE GANDER.

why don't you educate yourself before you come here and form fake activist here? A simple google search will help you out.

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Re: Nigerian Lady Slams Women Who Won't For Once, Have Sex With A Guy & Tell Him Off by Nobody: 5:51pm On Nov 21, 2015
That guy deserves to be a Nobel laureate!
Re: Nigerian Lady Slams Women Who Won't For Once, Have Sex With A Guy & Tell Him Off by menxer: 5:54pm On Nov 21, 2015
vooyour:
lol not necessarily. The trick is to find a guy you know you'd never date and ride them and kick them out the next morning. grin that way you won't fall for them. Also don't screw them for more than 8 months. Worked for me tongue cool

If you keep switching men at random, what does that make you, a mar ried woman, abi? grin
Re: Nigerian Lady Slams Women Who Won't For Once, Have Sex With A Guy & Tell Him Off by Nobody: 5:57pm On Nov 21, 2015
craziebone:


why don't you educate yourself before you come here and form fake activist here? A simple google search will help you out.

Educate myself on what? On supposedly papers written by sadistic men like you? Just the way men like you formed a caucus and made a scientific proclamation that women are not capable of having orgasm until proved wrong? Educate myself that every prostitute goes about cleaning and 'cozying' around in their clients house? Or I forgot once a lady becomes a prostitute her anatomy changes to that of a man, hence, the ability to agree to sex without any emotional involvement.

Women are human just like you and they are capable of engaging in one night stand just like men.


Einstein just because something is written does not make it true and moreover I think you should do yourself a favor. Each time you read anything, analyze critically before going with the flow it will do you a lot of good later in life, rather than forming being educated.

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