vooyour:
lol not necessarily. The trick is to find a guy you know you'd never date and ride them and kick them out the next morning. that way you won't fall for them. Also don't screw them for more than 8 months. Worked for me

may i make bold to tell you that you havent met a guy who is worth his onion yet? all you have been with so far are all boys toys. when you meet a guy that can upturn your whole world with his J rod, make u start vibrating and speaking in strange languages when his swings on, u go pouring btw 2-5 times at a stretch, and thereafter sleep off like a babe, u wud ball in here singing a very diff tone.

till den, u are still a learner boss lady

Hahahahaha, I gbadun her jare. It makes some sense. She's just saying ladies shouldn't be leeches after sex and I respect that view. I'm no chauvinist.

Exponental:
If women can proudly brag about they sex lives then the op is making sense but if not,..... once debe, ever debe is applicable!

Hmmm, I remember that Okafor's rule...'once debe, always debe'. Guys baaad!

At this juncture, we are putting the bill to a click vote:

All the ladies in the house that support and shall implement this "chop and clean mouth" policy, click share.

All the ladies against it, click like.

lebete3000:


A white woman may not need to date you first but EVERY woman has to Love you first b4 dey feel like it. Every Woman! except she's doing it for d cash or kind favour from ya or she's simply very sex-starved and will accept any rubbish dat comes her way. Otherwise most girls must feel something for ya first.

that is naija believe, come to the Europe or America and you'll know what I am talking about.

lilmax:
She's not making brain


Most guys pay for sex, having sex with a guy once is not chop and clean mouth but one night stand which most guys are looking for

Ladies please take her advice and give us free sex

@Truckpusher, na your thread be this

I'm with the love of my life , can't afford to be caught here typing trash.

Speechless3:


Where did social constructs come from? how come? am a lady, educate me

What do you mean?

I wonder what sensible, mature and responsible girl would post such a trash if not a shameless prostitute. ......

HARDDON:


yea, after all said and done, gurls need it more. kudos boss lady

unfortunately, u guys aint wired like guys. you are emotional beings and once you spread your leg for a guy, it means something to you.

only in naija

CaroLyner:
victoria onwuchekwa..your mom must be so proud.

Atta gurl!!!...Decency pays,making it hard for cheap guys ,,,Me likey!

Gaborone:
How about we closed our legs like a pair of scissors till we got married?

Wanton sex is easy, let's try something hard but dignifying this time - closing those legs.

How about that?

wao...this ur post is too nice dear

at least somebody with sense is made a brave statement.

infact i don follow u

faustinalove:
This girl is so on point..wonder when 'some' nigerian ladies will learn....we ladies r mostly d ones loosing. Ladies, learn to surprise any useless guy who thinks he will be d one to dump u first as usual.

it seems most of u gals dont understand men esp u in particular...if u noticed the comment from the guys here they so much like it...u will be doing the best service to guy to quit on ur own after u both have screwed yourselves

better get sense!!!

x6blade:
only in naija

Dude press dah pause on that tot... all d baby mama's spread all over d western world r Nigerians huh?

vooyour:
lol not necessarily. The trick is to find a guy you know you'd never date and ride them and kick them out the next morning. that way you won't fall for them. Also don't screw them for more than 8 months. Worked for me

abeg no vex oo....u be yoruba gal bc i doubt if any igbo gal fit do wetin u talk now bc our cultures vary....

HARDDON:


Dude press dah pause on that tot... all d baby mama's spread all over d western world r Nigerians huh?

truth is MOST baby mamas do agree to keep the baby for the guy they LOVE not the guy they had a one night stand with.

Haba...but we exist nah

Fact is even cool headed girls exist that do this, its not all about his money, personally if the sex is bad or he's not intelligent , presentable , smart and cool headed after the first night I'm done.

If he disturbs with calls I simply block the mofo cos if reverse were to be the case he won't pity me.

I'm very unique sexually so I prefer to hit on my dream man these days so I don't find myself pressured to give in to sex.

Well its only desperate ladies that get used and dump!

I agree.

I concur o... girls, like bpys shuld see sex as sex . Not as payment for love or sumtin like dat - dat way u save urself d heartache (not 2 forget d lukin foolish as f<:k).

If u av dat mindset, wen u av sex u wont start expecting more. Nd when u dont, no amount of coaxing or brainwashing will work. Have some sense and take her advice.
A lot of girls are happier for it.

69MissedCalls:
hmm. End time advice

Girls were not built to chop and clean mouth. only a HoE can do that always

We are not built to do anything. We are conditioned to do be that way.

And it does not make a woman a hoe. There are women who do this and are still modest and well-disciplined than all the women in your love put together.

chalondk:
I concur o... girls, like bpys shuld see sex as sex . Not as payment for love or sumtin like dat - dat way u save urself d heartache (not 2 forget d lukin foolish as f<:k).

If u av dat mindset, wen u av sex u wont start expecting more. Nd when u dont, no amount of coaxing or brainwashing will work. Have some sense and take her advice.
A lot of girls are happier for it.

Answering pm is stressful let's do it here straight away , how may I be of help?

MrsChima:


Awww...the bish used you?

I am too smart to be used.

agarawu23:
I am too smart to be used.

And I am a virgin.

MrsChima:


And I am a virgin.

ediot
After mrchima don fvck all your future comot

Let the OP come and use me and dump me

Brugge:


What do you mean?

How did the society come to see women as weaker vessels as well as limit their tendencies of exploration. Its difficult to dismiss biology here cos this has been so as far back as Adam. I may be wrong.

You think brainwashing did?

Well I did that, had a wonderful time with guy, deleted his number and life went on. Guy kept calling and calling, 3 years later he became my husband. Sometime girls just wanna have fun no strings attached.

Endtime girls

True talk, Sex is Sex and nothing else, don't get it when you've phucked a girl and she looks for sth else, sister! we both are meant to enjoy it and NSA

This is the kine gal I like, we both know watsapp. Just chop clean mouth and say thank you mam or sir, can I come again tomorrow?

Speechless3:


How did the society come to see women as weaker vessels as well as limit their tendencies of exploration. Its difficult to dismiss biology here cos this has been so as far back as Adam. I may be wrong.

You think brainwashing did?

I can't give you any specific timeline without digging around for the supporting materials.

But just think about all you have been told by your parents about what makes an excellent young lady.

Most of the sexual sins which you parents may find unforgivable if committed by you will be treated with some level levity if any of your brother does it.

Then come the lectures from moms to their daughters on how they should only give up the cookie to someone they love and want to spend the rest of their lives with, and how passing it around too often makes you a LovePeddler and that does not portray you or the family in good light. And in addition if you get pregnant no one will marry you and you will be sent away with the pregnancy. While for the male-child in addition to how sex is sin, such gospel from parents always end with if you must do it always remember to use protection and do not get any girl pregnant.

Messages like these coming from parents, whom the kids hold in high esteem, start shaping the kids perception of sex and what is expected of him/her. Unknowingly the girl-child is being programmed such that she view sex and the consequences differently than the male-child.

To the female-child she starts associating sex with relationship and the hope that it works this time so that she would not have many stars to her badge. The more stars she got the more dishonor she brings to herself and to her family, while to the male-child that is a proof of his manhood and virility.


On a different clime, like in the west where mothers take their daughter to health clinic to shop for the best birth control suitable for their daughters once they attain the age of sexual maturity, girls are more expressive in terms of who, when and why they have sex. The society is adjusting to the fact that just like male, female should be allowed to explore their sexual sides in a safe way. I have met countless girls who walk into a bar and wanted nothing other than a one night stand. In fact here girls/boys are being shamed by their sexual naivety, the few number of sexual partner they have had the more naive they are assumed to be sexually.

Personally am neither a moralist nor an 'ethicst' but am all for equality, equality based on scientific findings. I am not in anyway advocating that science should dictate how a society if being run, but that society should make its decisions based on solid scientific findings.

daretodiffer:


We are not built to do anything. We are conditioned to do be that way.

And it does not make a woman a hoe. There are women who do this and are still modest and well-disciplined than all the women in your love put together.

lol. do you know the meaning of "modest"? what is modest" about chop and clean mouth? these kind of women end up single or divorced because they've seen it all and it can be hard to satisfy such a woman

it's really sad that people can believe any crap on the internet just because it was written in good English. do you know she may not even believe what she is saying?

"chop and clean mouth" sounds like the solution but trust me, it can destroy you

She's actually right in a way!.