I saw this, and thought I should share. Please take time to read it, it's worth it.

I hope it blesses someone.

I'll post the Charge for Women, on a new thread.

Written by Tosin Ayo A.K.A Word Bank

VALENTINE CHARGE 1...

Dear men, tomorrow is valentine's day, know ye therefore that it is not the United Nations Day of Sexual defilement, It is not African Union's day of sexual reward, It is not the World's love making day or Serpentine day. It is not a day for the exchange of gifts with 'goodies' or demanding sexual gratification for unsolicited emotional investment. It is not a day to legitimately demand sex from the one you claim to love or play the ugly card of emotional blackmail to lure a woman to bed because you bought her a gift.

If you will feel entitled to a woman's body because of how much you are spending, don't spend! Love does not always have to be romantic, touch a woman's heart, not handle with her body, don't live all your life trying to get physical with her in bed, don't empty your bank account to add to a woman's body count. Don't put yourself under undue emotional pressure because of one day of exhibitionist display of unreal affection. Your love is not your pocket, your emotion is not in your wallet. Don't break the bank to simply keep up appearance, its St. Valentine's day, not hers.

Emotion and Erection may sound alike, but kindly note the difference. If you have to ruin a woman's dignity before you can appreciate her gift, your affection is questionable. If you specially require a day to express your love to the one you love, your hypocrisy is matchless. It is demonic to celebrate ten years' Valentine's day with a woman who you are too dishonourable to make your wife. Stop wasting the poor woman's time, put a ring on it or let her go. Love is not only blind, it is deaf, it neither sees nor hears, its only felt. Love does not consist in empty boasts of flowery, ruinous words, it is manifested by little but consistent action of kindness and humanitarian gestures. Love is not a synonym for sex, it is a biological imperative for tender care, affection and mutual respect. If your love needs the proof of sexual endorsement for its genuineness, it is a genetic failure.


P.S: Images culled from Google

All that fuss on valentine, it's just another day for some of us

may God save us from this val madness..everywhere val dis val that....ladies beware of shark-like guyz

Noted!

The two young lovers dated for a year and the lady never for once cooked for the guy during courtship. Finally they got married, the lady had to cook for her husband, just then the husband knew his wife missed it in cooking, the meals were always over salted...
Three months after marriage, the husband's family i.e mother and two siblings came visiting, the wife prepared the meal, egusi soup with vegetables and many more spices, the food's aroma was inviting, the appearance was tempting, just then the husband blessed the food and tasted it, then he asked everyone to hold on, ''Dear, can you please pass me the salt''?
He requested of the wife, ''of course dear'' she replied and handed him the salt, he then applied a little salt to the over salted meal and said "lets dine". When the family members began eating, they screamed, ''you've spoil the poor woman's meal with your arrogance'' ''you've over-salted it now''..

All the blame went to the man, and his wife got the
cuddles. I declare to you this day, a man that can't protect you won't come your way... A woman that won't value you will never run across your part.....click like

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Here we go again.

As far as I know, it's just a Sunday where I get to watch football, nothing more.


Nairaland front page from today until tomorrow will be filled with topics like:

1. Where did you go for Valentine?
2. Things to do this Valentine
3. Memes on Valentine
4. What I saw this Valentine
5. How did your church celebrate Valentine?
6. See what my neighbour did this Valentine

e.t.c... Thankfully, it ends today.

Thank you Op...

Today is my birthday... Can i get some LIKES please...?

what a generation that can't mention valentine without mentioning sex.

Am in first service already, 4 to go, den house fellowship will take over.. Back to back.. Leaving val for lawma abeg

Go make money men! My only valentine charge

True love is being true to yourself and your spouse...

Happy valentine day..

Nice "charge" but what if I told you that most of the guys will only see this after the deed has been done or some will continue with their plans cos is too late to turn back now?
The only option left now is to compose another "charge " for the ladies to avoid things that will make guys achieve their "mission impossible "

Happy Vals.

Valentine koor Volley ball ni...Nigeria dey crash daily
Na val remain make una dey worry about..


Smh

1stluv:
All that fuss on valentine, it's just another day for some of us

Don't know whats so special about today self.

So muchVAL madness everywhere

nonsense!

come Tell Rose make she no open for me na

Even the ladies that comment on this tread won't be spread in the Val scandal

What is val? I am in lent!!!

'if you specially require a day to express your love to the one you love, your hypocrisy is matchless.'

Best line of the write-up

Val ko,Vali ni.

Today Satan be like, chilling let them go ahead with immorality, nobody should blame me when the result comes out.

missingrib:
may God save us from this val madness..everywhere val dis val that....ladies behave of shark-like guyz

MY missing rib is that you? Thank God I found you.

Likewise!

See them all the LONELY one wey no get person who love them
Pele .. "Just another day " common gerraout of here before u no get bae come dey depress we wey get gift up n down


Its just another day ko .. Awon lonely hearts e pain dem

ok

Val is not in mai dictionary

See talk oh