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6 Things You Should Know About Hookups And Online Dating by ceecia(f): 7:26pm On Jun 05, 2016
Generally, hook-ups have become more common in these times that we live. As people are getting older and desperation sets in, these things become more common. A lot of people now turn to getting hooked up with friends, relatives, and online dating sites. In as much as these things are not bad but one needs to be careful when choosing to settle for people they meet through these mediums. There are challenges associated with hook ups.

First of all, you need to be satisfied with the life you are living as a single person that when you decide to settle down it should be an upgrade of the life you currently live. You do not need to get into a relationship because you like the idea of being in a relationship or you see people in relationships and envy them. Here are reasons you should be weary of online hook ups:
1. When it comes to online dating and hooking up, everybody and anybody qualifies. You most likely don’t have a choice, taste or class. Anyone can apply and try to get to you.

2. It usually portrays the idea that you are desperate. For you to offer yourself to be hooked up online it means you are desperate. Anybody, you meet online will not treat you special because they will perceive you as desperate.

3. The chances for deception is very high. The person you are meeting will most likely not show you their real character. There is no way to even know the person’s attribute, flaws, and weaknesses. People write things that are not true.

4. When you do hook ups or online dating, you quicken the process of a real relationship. In a real relationship, there is a process that takes place, that process is usually helpful when the relationship matures. You have quickened the process of mystery and real friendship.

5. You are usually an option to the person. The principles of hook-ups require one to have more than one choice. It is never only you in the picture.

6. You usually do not know the person you are meeting as sometimes they do not show you their real identity. They only show you what they want you to see.

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Re: 6 Things You Should Know About Hookups And Online Dating by Cutehector(m): 7:35pm On Jun 05, 2016
If these points aren't true, leme shitt nail...





Especially number 3.. and 6!




Lalasticlala!
Re: 6 Things You Should Know About Hookups And Online Dating by fingard02k(m): 7:42pm On Jun 05, 2016
ok
Re: 6 Things You Should Know About Hookups And Online Dating by Nobody: 8:03pm On Jun 05, 2016
Cutehector:
If these points aren't true, leme shitt nail...





Especially number 3.. and 6!




Lalasticlala!


they aren't oya shit nail and wood too
Re: 6 Things You Should Know About Hookups And Online Dating by Cutehector(m): 8:08pm On Jun 05, 2016
teddieee:


they aren't oya shit nail and wood too
lol they are so true jor.


People see me here as one bad, flirtatious guy online here.. buh I swear, offline, i'm directly opposite. Buh wen I tell them, dey think i'm lying or smth, so I just go with the flow.

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Re: 6 Things You Should Know About Hookups And Online Dating by Nobody: 8:53pm On Jun 05, 2016
Cutehector:
lol they are so true jor.


People see me here as one bad, flirtatious guy online here.. buh I swear, offline, i'm directly opposite. Buh wen I tell them, dey think i'm lying or smth, so I just go with the flow.
i see!! you are a good guy that decides to go with the flow....Hmm
Re: 6 Things You Should Know About Hookups And Online Dating by Cutehector(m): 8:58pm On Jun 05, 2016
teddieee:
i see!! you are a good guy that decides to go with the flow....Hmm
looool.. it's not waht u think jooor cheesy.. u duno hw complicated it is convincing a babe i'm not like d rest of those guys..
Re: 6 Things You Should Know About Hookups And Online Dating by EscobarSnipes(m): 9:11pm On Jun 05, 2016
[color=#000099][/color]Every dating site you visit, you'll notice that ladies always outnumber guys 2:1. Is it desperation? Does an online relationship even count? The net is full of fakes, liars, etc. I wonder what gives many rest of mind when they put their trust in someone they haven't even seen before. Crazy world.
Re: 6 Things You Should Know About Hookups And Online Dating by Nobody: 9:29pm On Jun 05, 2016
Cutehector:
looool.. it's not waht u think jooor cheesy.. u duno hw complicated it is convincing a babe i'm not like d rest of those guys..
i know esp a pretty one wink
Re: 6 Things You Should Know About Hookups And Online Dating by Cutehector(m): 9:35pm On Jun 05, 2016
teddieee:
i know esp a pretty one wink
especially wen she's got cute eyes wink
Re: 6 Things You Should Know About Hookups And Online Dating by ceecia(f): 10:10pm On Jun 05, 2016
EscobarSnipes:
[color=#000099][/color]Every dating site you visit, you'll notice that ladies always outnumber guys 2:1. Is it desperation? Does an online relationship even count? The net is full of fakes, liars, etc. I wonder what gives many rest of mind when they put their trust in someone they haven't even seen before. Crazy world.
It is really a crazy world I must say.
Re: 6 Things You Should Know About Hookups And Online Dating by Nobody: 8:28am On Jun 06, 2016
Cutehector:
especially wen she's got cute eyes wink
Ohlala grin

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