whogoesthere:
The issue of virginity till marriage is one that I've usually wondered about. I've noticed that nowadays it's very difficult for a lady to keep herself till she gets married as compared to back in the days.

I also noticed that some of these ladies are actually good, wife material but for one reason or the other they lost their virginity.

Is it that the modern society puts so much pressure on the girl child or what?? I don't just get it.

dhesire:
I was perplexed when a lady, 22 years old stated categorically that 'do you know it's almost three months I last had sex, I am dieing under'

I was like 'are you supposed to have sex at all? When you are not married?

She sarcastically replied 'would you do me or not?

With mouth opened I said...............

lilyqueen:
I think some of these ladies lacked parental guidance and some were influenced negatively.

Nevertheless that is not enough reason for ladies to go into sexual immorality.

Ladies need to be prayerful and self determined to be able to keep themselves.

whogoesthere:
The issue of virginity till marriage is one that I've usually wondered about. I've noticed that nowadays it's very difficult for a lady to keep herself till she gets married as compared to back in the days.

I also noticed that some of these ladies are actually good, wife material but for one reason or the other they lost their virginity.

Is it that the modern society puts so much pressure on the girl child or what?? I don't just get it.

arosunshine:


do women pay for guys bride price ? No
tell me the best gift a woman would give her husband after paying d bride price ? Her virginity


go buy some sense inugo ?

Sirbun:
I can't Imagine what going on here, they Ladies responds here are bizzare,

sammieguze:
1. Ladies re not fucking themselves. Guys are. So, i think the question should be directed to us. Not the ladies.

2. In case you want to ask the guys, the answer is polygamy is nolonger allowed. We are entitled to just one girl for life nowadays hence, we want her to be beautiful, a good cook, housekeeper, mother, manager a well as good in bed. How else do we ensure she is good in bed if we dont try it first?

3. Infact, i still put it to the guys. The rate @ which child rape increases today, don't be surprised if virgins become an endangered species.

4. Who virginity help self? Does it add food to my belly?

@ op, its not about the girls. We guys re doing the cherry popping

EfemenaXY:


Perhaps if men like you were castrated, then society would be overflowing with virgins.

Or don't you know lots of virginal, untested men = lots of virginal, chaste females??

McBeal10:
why is it difficult for me to keep their virginity until marriage these days?

VolT0xic:
Of course it's the modern society. This generation is sex obsessed unlike ‘back in the days’. Premarital sex is no longer a taboo. Couples have no qualms about getting intimate in relationships. Morality - washed & degraded.

DankemzI:
To be very sincere Virgins are Abundant in Nigeria!
I had an encounter with 5, saw the ***** with my eyes. But I encouraged them as a gentleman to keep it till the right time!
One recently got married offered me a Lexus gift but I was out of the country on official business

Bitterleafsoup:

How bout you Joe?

freecocoa:
Simply because virginity never helped any woman and need I mention that, it takes two to make sure virginity stays intact? guess not .

ADBOK:
A genetic research by a group of medical scientists revealed the presence of a gene on the X-Chromosome which codes for a protein called Oboyundin responsible for inducing a 'itchy' vagina seeking the 'scratch'. The presence of this gene on the two XX-chromosomes present in women is culprit in their unnatural sex drive, which is complemented for in males due to the one X-chromosome present...

2dugged:
in all of this, it's a known fact that getting married as a virgin is no guarantee to a happy marriage,my aunty married as a virgin only to be thrown out after 16 years of marriage with her children for failing to have a male child infact her husband literally chased her out with a cutlass

whogoesthere:
The issue of virginity till marriage is one that I've usually wondered about. I've noticed that nowadays it's very difficult for a lady to keep herself till she gets married as compared to back in the days.

I also noticed that some of these ladies are actually good, wife material but for one reason or the other they lost their virginity.

Is it that the modern society puts so much pressure on the girl child or what?? I don't just get it.

Beamborla:
I'm not understanding... So virginity is bought with bride price, right? In India, the lady pays the groom price. I guess the lady should sleep around while the guy should keep his virginity.

Quit blaming the moral decadance on ladies alone. If guys choose not to pressure ladies for sex, there would definitely be high number of virgins.

Y'all keep referring to those day when our mothers married as virgins. Did they do it alone? Our fathers didn't demand for sex as a prove of love. No, they didn't disrespect our mothers in any way. And yes, they'd go to their potential in-laws to farm, they'd take the best of their farm product to their potential in-law. What's more, some of them do this right from when the girl is given birth to till they get married. And they don't see all these as a reason to demand for sex before you tell me about how guys spend on ladies these days. It has been happening from time immemorial.

I'm not exhonerating or blaming anyone but until the society stops castigating ladies and praising men for the same action, ladies won't stop lying about their status, guys won't stop their act and moral decadence would keep eating deep into our society.

Parents tell their girl child to keep it but always fail to teach their male child to respect it. Who are we deceiving? If we are to look at the emotional make up of both sexes, guys need the lecture more.