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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by Yewandequeen(f): 9:01am On Aug 30, 2016
ViktorMartins:


Yewande baby, you are a fine somebori grin

Make I send pm?

shocked shocked shocked

Hehe
I dont want your Pm biko.

You want to disvirgin me bah? No no no

Am following in Op's footsteps.
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by ViktorMartins(m): 9:03am On Aug 30, 2016
Yewandequeen:


shocked shocked shocked

Hehe
I dont want your Pm biko.

You want to disvirgin me bah? No no no

Am following in Op's footsteps.

Lol... What's our own with what Op's saying?

Na you go disvirgin me with what my eyes are seeing oh cheesy
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by Yewandequeen(f): 9:05am On Aug 30, 2016
ViktorMartins:


Lol... What's our own with what Op's saying?

Na you go disvirgin me with what my eyes are seeing oh cheesy

I am not available try next door.
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by arosunshine(m): 9:07am On Aug 30, 2016
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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by ViktorMartins(m): 9:07am On Aug 30, 2016
Yewandequeen:


I am not available try next door.

Where's the next door?

Hmm, that was harsh oh embarassed
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by Nobody: 9:09am On Aug 30, 2016
freecocoa:
Yes she be zombie and you be vampire.

Anyway, I don't understand how a girls decision to have sex is a function of boys requesting for sex... Dats chicken logic, in fact, that's why virgins are so special isn't it, because they refused to succumb to pressure, innit?
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by Yewandequeen(f): 9:10am On Aug 30, 2016
ViktorMartins:


Where's the next door?

Hmm, that was harsh oh embarassed
undecided undecided
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by ViktorMartins(m): 9:11am On Aug 30, 2016
Yewandequeen:
undecided undecided

Just wanna be friends naw wink
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by Yewandequeen(f): 9:13am On Aug 30, 2016
ViktorMartins:


Just wanna be friends naw wink

I AM NOT INTERESTED.

CAN SOMEONE HELP ME TELL THIS DUDE TO LEAVE ME ALONE? Please!
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by freecocoa(f): 9:15am On Aug 30, 2016
njokusboy:


Anyway, I don't understand how a girls decision to have sex is a function of boys requesting for sex... Dats chicken logic, in fact, that's why virgins are so special isn't it, because they refused to succumb to pressure, innit?
Who cares whether virgins are special or why they are? I'm simply saying that, if there were no boys to have sex with, then we might as well all be virgins. Let the boys keep their pricks away, if they want to see more virgin women, how hard is that to understand?

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by ADBOK: 9:18am On Aug 30, 2016
Laido:
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Why was this not affecting them those days? Abi nah these days the itchin start? Bro, I can't lie you, don't believe everything u see or hear, real eyes realise real lies. I'm a Genetic student. Even if you start having sex, it doesn't stop the itchin! Iv seen many mothers itchin codedly their Toto. I would rather blame the girls less. I would rather blame it on Civilization. The Dis-advantages is much more than the Advantages on the ladies. And that's what Feminism is all about. Ladies are suffering from everything Men created. I do feel for them o. Although, Naturally and abnormally, some ladies appears to be wild due to some other reasons!
If you are truly a student of genetics like you claimed you would know that genetics has an accomplice called environment, and environment they say 'pulls the trigger'. The heartbreaking thing here really is not the rampant promiscuity amongst our ladies these days rather it is the fact that you didn't pick the pun intended. Sad!...
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by ViktorMartins(m): 9:18am On Aug 30, 2016
Yewandequeen:


I AM NOT INTERESTED.

CAN SOMEONE HELP ME TELL THIS DUDE TO LEAVE ME ALONE? Please!


Lol

Stop being harsh naw..... Might be your dream guy oh
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by uwajeh(m): 9:20am On Aug 30, 2016
The simple answer is that people are marrying much later than before due to the fact that most women desire to complete their education before marriage.

When people say that our mothers and grandmothers married as virgins I'm not impressed cos most of them married in their teens.

A lot of ladies today are still virgins at the age of twenty.

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by Yewandequeen(f): 9:21am On Aug 30, 2016
ViktorMartins:



Lol

Stop being harsh naw..... Might be your dream guy oh
U wish.
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by ViktorMartins(m): 9:22am On Aug 30, 2016
Yewandequeen:

U wish.

Lol

I know
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by ADBOK: 9:23am On Aug 30, 2016
Laido:
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Why was this not affecting them those days? Abi nah these days the itchin start? Bro, I can't lie you, don't believe everything u see or hear, real eyes realise real lies. I'm a Genetic student. Even if you start having sex, it doesn't stop the itchin! Iv seen many mothers itchin codedly their Toto. I would rather blame the girls less. I would rather blame it on Civilization. The Dis-advantages is much more than the Advantages on the ladies. And that's what Feminism is all about. Ladies are suffering from everything Men created. I do feel for them o. Although, Naturally and abnormally, some ladies appears to be wild due to some other reasons!
Environment my brother, environment! The sad part really is you didn't get the banter...
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by kaycito: 9:25am On Aug 30, 2016
freecocoa:
Who cares whether virgins are special or why they are? I'm simply saying that, if there were no boys to have sex with, then we might as well all be virgins. Let the boys keep their pricks away, if they want to see more virgin women, how hard is that to understand?
Exactly, wonder why silly topics like this come up here, do girls disvirgin themselves? If its difficult to find virgin girls what does that tell us about the guys? You people should drop this hypocrisy
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by Nobody: 9:26am On Aug 30, 2016
freecocoa:
Who cares whether virgins are special or why they are? I'm simply saying that, if there were no boys to have sex with, then we might as well all be virgins. Let the boys keep their pricks away, if they want to see more virgin women, how hard is that to understand?

Not hard to understand, just doesn't make sense..
Even when virginity was a fad, boys still requested for sex, the babes simply decided not to give it as easily as they do now.... It's simply too basic to assume that the reason people sell lands is because there are people bidding for it, whatever happened to choice??
Sex would not happen, if girls do not open their legs....

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by ganie(m): 9:27am On Aug 30, 2016
To me I think the reason why we don't have virgins like it used to is the society.Back in the days our mothers marry very early say 16,17,18 years, but this days a lady is early if she marries at 27 and before this age she would have been pressured into having sex say by peers,social media,her hormones and also the GUYS. My ex lost her virginity to me even when she has told me right from the start that she wants to keep it till her wedding day and which I accepted only for her to beg me for sex in our third year together because she always have menstrual pains and she said the cause of it is because she is a virgin as she was told by friends. My own point.
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by purity22(f): 9:28am On Aug 30, 2016
Who are the ladies sleeping with? During our forefathers days men too were virgins. So I think the question should be, Why did our youth finds it difficult to keep their virginity till marriage?
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by Nobody: 9:30am On Aug 30, 2016
kaycito:

Exactly, wonder why silly topics like this come up here, do girls disvirgin themselves? If its difficult to find virgin girls what does that tell us about the guys? You people should drop this hypocrisy

You guys better drop this hare-brianed assertion that girls are having sex because boys are asking for sex....
It makes you guys come across as brainless zombies

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by Nobody: 9:37am On Aug 30, 2016
freecocoa:
Who cares whether virgins are special or why they are? I'm simply saying that, if there were no boys to have sex with, then we might as well all be virgins. Let the boys keep their pricks away, if they want to see more virgin women, how hard is that to understand?

Taaa. It's few guys who have just cornered the market. There are more girls having sex than guys. You can take that to the bank.

Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by freecocoa(f): 9:38am On Aug 30, 2016
njokusboy:


Not hard to understand, just doesn't make sense..
Even when virginity was a fad, boys still requested for sex, the babes simply decided not to give it as easily as they do now.... It's simply too basic to assume that the reason people sell lands is because there are people bidding for it, whatever happened to choice??
Sex would not happen, if girls do not open their legs....
And we are comparing having sex to selling lands, isn't that just great? Smh.

I guess we also forgot that girls are also humans who can have urges too, you woo her, seduce and turn her on and still expect her to say no to having sex, because you expect her to be a virgin, man get da feck outta here with your double standards. angry

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by sammieguze(m): 9:39am On Aug 30, 2016
Lol..... You talk of something you know nothing about.



endtimeshit:

From your comments., I can bet my BSc certificate that you haven't seen puna before. Iranu
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by freecocoa(f): 9:42am On Aug 30, 2016
Timbuktou:


Taaa. It's few guys who have just cornered the market. There are more girls having sex than guys. You can take that to the bank.
Nobody cares really, I know I don't.tongue

Whether girls be having sex more than guys, all I sure know is, takes two to tango. Hahaha grin
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by Nobody: 9:44am On Aug 30, 2016
freecocoa:
Who cares whether virgins are special or why they are?
Guys do. We value valuable things, not a woman that has been everywhere distributing herself to everybody.

I'm simply saying that, if there were no boys to have sex with, then we might as well all be virgins.
Oh, I see. Boys must be a modern invention then? Like they were brought into society in the late 90s. I get ya.

Let the boys keep their pricks away, if they want to see more virgin women, how hard is that to understand?
The word "slut" isn't a new one. Boys have been offering their schlongs for millennia, its only girls have become too easy.
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by ganie(m): 9:45am On Aug 30, 2016
purity22:
Who are the ladies sleeping with? During our forefathers days men too were virgins. So I think the question should be, Why did our youth finds it difficult to keep their virginity till marriage?
the men too were virgins because they marry them very early and by so doing the men too are virgins. Let's say I am four years older than u and u are 17 which makes me 21 and I come to ask you out.Your response will be come and see my parents that is marriage,which I agree to that is I will be the one to break the cherry.
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by xendra: 9:46am On Aug 30, 2016
ganie:
To me I think the reason why we don't have virgins like it used to is the society.Back in the days our mothers marry very early say 16,17,18 years, but this days a lady is early if she marries at 27 and before this age she would have been pressured into having sex say by peers,social media,her hormones and also the GUYS. My ex lost her virginity to me even when she has told me right from the start that she wants to keep it till her wedding day and which I accepted only for her to beg me for sex in our third year together because she always have menstrual pains and she said the cause of it is because she is a virgin as she was told by friends. My own point.
oh dear! see how them take lie get this one down, a lot of girls keep falling fall lies till date. how can they marry as virgins
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by Prechy08(m): 9:47am On Aug 30, 2016
My dear i didnt believe there do exist until i met my present lady, she is one, dont get it wrong, she is a graduate and finished NYSC over a year now, but still 25 though. But the kind konji wey de hold me eehh lol. Am proud of her though. And we will be saying 'i do' next yr, if God keeps us alife
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by icankel: 9:47am On Aug 30, 2016
elrony:


Lol....
Buh on a lighter note,Virginity doesn't make one a better person!

I'll always pray to marry a better person someday! !!..grin
Ur out of point bro, human nature doesnt go with being virgin or not. OP just wish to knw y is so difficult for ladies of nowadays to keep their virginity till marriage unlike olden days. Even some prostitutes can make a gud home
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by Nobody: 9:49am On Aug 30, 2016
freecocoa:
Nobody cares really, I know I don't.tongue

Whether girls be having sex more than guys, all I sure know is, takes two to tango. Hahaha grin

No, you don't care. Obviously, this thread shows guys care and you know what that means.

Of course, it takes two to tango. But that's hardly relevant.
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by dhesire(m): 9:50am On Aug 30, 2016
iRyan:
she's human and every human with a sex drive has to relieve herself when the urge becomes overwhelming. So yes, she's allowed to have sex. And she's an adult.

Well, I declined, not with me!

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