I have been dating this girl for the past 6 months.
I love her so much that I do virtually everything for her.

but i discovered something about her,
she loves money more than anything in this life.
she demands for money almost every weekend, and I don't ever say no.

I want to ask a question? Does she really love me?
Or is it my money that she loves? Please I need una advice o!

Dude you already know the answer to your question. Besides why did you buy her love by giving her money when she asks


there is a saying: never start something you dont want to continue.

omega25red:

Dude you already know the answer to your question. Besides why did you buy her love by giving her money when she asks
there is a saying: never start something you dont want to continue.

Well said.
@Poster: Relationships and money dont go well. If she really likes you and has any self esteem, she wouldnt even ask you for money cos she'l be scared you'd think she was a gold digger. And if YOU really loved her like you said, I dont think you'd be trying to buy her love. You'd makesure she understands youre her boyfriend, not a bank.
Sounds like you might both be using eachother. She's using you for money and youre using her for what? Sex? Companionship?
Its scary how the economy has driven a lot of girls and guys into thinking its alright for a woman to ask a man for money because theyre in a relationship. What happened to self-preservation?

Sit her down and tell her there's no money until the month's end.

if she loves money more than herself, then she surely loves money for than you.im sure she has been dating you because of weekend wages she has been collecting, I figured she will have another person for her salary and some other guys for daily expenses

isn't it a fair trade when all you men want is pu*sy, why shouldn't she want ur money lol (some men would wanna call it prostitution)

ima1:

isn't it a fair trade when all you men want is pu*sy, why shouldn't she want your money lol (some men would wanna call it prostitution)

Yea well actually, it IS prostitution.

stop giving her money and see how she will fade out from your life. you should know better.

Akpangbon:

stop giving her money and see how she will fade out from your life. you should know better.

I say yeah to that.

Rosabelle:

Well said.
@Poster: Relationships and money dont go well. If she really likes you and has any self esteem, she wouldnt even ask you for money cos she'l be scared you'd think she was a gold digger. And if YOU really loved her like you said, I dont think you'd be trying to buy her love. You'd makesure she understands youre her boyfriend, not a bank. Sounds like you might both be using eachother. She's using you for money and youre using her for what? Sex? Companionship?
Its scary how the economy has driven a lot of girls and guys into thinking its alright for a woman to ask a man for money because theyre in a relationship. What happened to self-preservation?

Or an ATM.

You bought her love with money, so what's wrong if she's selling more quantities of it to you in exchange for an appreciated price?

The next time she asks you for money,tell her to go and ask her father!!

Shola2009:

The next time she asks you for money,tell her to go and ask her father!!

The next time He asks her for sex . . . .
She should also tell him to ask his Mother. Right?

See Your head like ''Ask her Father''.

She likes money . . . you don't have any/like giving.
Not a good match I will say.

my guy is it becos she no dey nairaland dats why u dey post dis,be honest wit ur self how much more do u demand 4 sex from her man. the higher the sex, the higher the money demand. LAW OF SEXLOLOGY. U WEY U DEY TALK SAY MAKE SHE GO MEET HER FATHER na her father dey sex her YEYE boy wey no get eye 4 socket

She's probably used to it cos it's what u sold to her.
why make it a habit when you know it's going to be a problem down the line?

jay bee:

She's probably used to it cos it's what u sold to her.
why make it a habit when you know it's going to be a problem down the line?

Thank God a Man said this. Why go about flashing cash you dont have? Then when things get tough you complain about her being a golddigger

The next time He asks her for sex . . . .
She should also tell him to ask his Mother. Right?

haba na! thats a different thing.He is the one who brought her into this world that she'll come and be giving him high blood pressure.

The next time He asks her for sex . . . .
She should also tell him to ask his Mother. Right?

haba na! thats a different thing.He is the one who brought her into this world that she'll come and be giving him high blood pressure.

^^sry for double posting , make una no yab ooo

work hard and feed her, or get smart and dumb her.

There are many ways to fu ck a pussy without spending a dime.

hmmn

Yeah she is after your money, Stp givin her money and see what becomes of her

Thank God! At last I found someone who knows the market where is love is sold. I beg I wan send u when next u dey go

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jewman jay

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jewman jay

big time

Thanks guys 4 d advice. The problem abt this chick was that, she comes from a very very poor family.the last time i went to visit her, i was shocked to my marrow,she and her siblings (eight in number) are sharing a 10 by 12ft one room apartment (face me i face u).i felt sorry 4 her and that alone made me to conclude that i will help her by giving her money whenever she request for assistance.well, i am regreting my actions because she kept coming every weekend for money.

@Poster, well there are many girls in her situation. For a few, they decide to be as hard working as possible to get their family out of this poverty, and then for the majority, they decide to find a man with a heavy wallet to solve their problems.
If you really like her, sit her down and tell her its not happening anymore. I doubt she'l hang around, but that'l be to your advantage

neonet:

Thanks guys 4 d advice. The problem abt this chick was that, she comes fr[b]om a very very poor family[/b].the last time i went to visit her, i was shocked to my marrow,she and her siblings (eight in number) are sharing a 10 by 12ft one room apartment (face me i face u).i felt sorry 4 her and that alone made me to conclude that i will help her by giving her money whenever she request for assistance.well, i am regreting my actions because she kept coming every weekend for money.

@ Poster.
You are a boy trying to carry a mans load.RUN and I mean run fast otherwise you will go back to you village with polybag.

What seems to be the problem here?
Poster, are you running out of money?

Sell your land, cars and other properties to raise some cash now. Mumu + Maga.

ima1:

isn't it a fair trade when all you men want is pu*sy, why shouldn't she want your money lol  (some men would wanna call it prostitution)

she is trading it for the magic stick, except the girl na prostitute

u started it, u better deny her money & if she doesnt love u without money then bid her viva