JuanDeDios:

Go with the lazy guy. Lazy guys rock. Besides, it's not easy to find half-Oyinbos these days. Since he's comfortable placing his hands between his legs while a woman picks his bills, I think he will transform into a hardworking person once he sets foot in America. He won't find another mugu girl there. He will send for you and you two will get married. You will hold hands and walk off into the sunset, into Happily-Ever-After where he will take good care of you.

Like they say, in every decision there are two choices: What is, and what you want; that is, what is good for you and what your emotions crave.

ironically the message is passed..op u got dat op

pweetychyka:

Thanks Boss!


Biko.... what is it I do?

Go jor.

gudbadgyal:
Hello Nairalanders, I wouldn't wanna bore you, So I'll just go straight to the point. I've been dating this guy for sometime now (just date oo) but his mom knows about our relationship and his sisters too. He's such a mama's boy and doesn't wanna work. He says he doesn't like Nigeria and he's waiting for his visa to get ready. He's dad is actually a white. He's idle and depends on me to foot the bills saying he'll reward me when things go well for him. He isn't willing to work and this is really pissing me off. However some one is gradually stealing my heart because he has been doing things my bf doesn't do for me, I'm so confused right now... Dunno who to go for
Need your advice please

how would a man not want to work?!!How does he intend to care for the family na wa o. a man needs to be responsible

Berlynn:

No worry....

firstking01:
No worry....

firstking01:
Go jor.

how's u doing?

Berlynn:

Told you before i can't disclose anthing to you here, you know what to do, dnt even give me that look unless you wanna further convince me the rumour is true.

pweetychyka:

how's u doing?

Pretty well, just weather sha...hope you are doing well??

party:
How come he still needs a visa when he's father is white and obviously a citizen. That automatically qualifies him for a foreign passport.
Do you mean the dude is an halfcaste @Op?

Yes he's an half caste. The country he applied for isn't his dad's country

I can swear I read this crap on another platform last yr...haba?

Why will people just rush to paste "other peeps story"? For comments abi waaaa?

Back then I posted anonymously a confession on naijapals just after graduation, lo n behold sum niqqa lifted it and posted it as "his" story.

I was stunned not only cos he lifted it but because he was responding to the comments and adding 'sauce' like it was his own life experience

Many mad people roaming very few psychiatrists

LorDBolton:
I can swear I read this crap on another platform last yr...haba?

Why will people just rush to paste "other peeps story"? For comments abi waaaa?

Back then I posted anonymously a confession on naijapals just after graduation, lo n behold sum niqqa lifted it and posted it as "his" story.

I was stunned not only cos he lifted it but because he was responding to the comments and adding 'sauce' like it was his own life experience

Many mad people roaming very few psychiatrists

So u saying more than two people can't find themselves in similar situations. Mr mad man, what'd I gain in posting some one's story. Abeg if u gat nothing to say, you can just skip instead of wasting ur MB typing crap. As matured as u look, U acting like some one with a child's brain

firstking01:
Told you before i can't disclose anthing to you here, you know what to do, dnt even give me that look unless you wanna further convince me the rumour is true.

well anything you feel you wanna know is yours for the asking

firstking01:
Pretty well, just weather sha...hope you are doing well??

Yea....i am!

Berlynn:

No need to stress myself further, just gotten what 've been looking for, and btw, thanks for helping to actualise it

pweetychyka:

Yea....i am!

Adios

gudbadgyal:
Hello Nairalanders, I wouldn't wanna bore you, So I'll just go straight to the point. I've been dating this guy for sometime now (just date oo) but his mom knows about our relationship and his sisters too. He's such a mama's boy and doesn't wanna work. He says he doesn't like Nigeria and he's waiting for his visa to get ready. He's dad is actually a white. He's idle and depends on me to foot the bills saying he'll reward me when things go well for him. He isn't willing to work and this is really pissing me off. However some one is gradually stealing my heart because he has been doing things my bf doesn't do for me, I'm so confused right now... Dunno who to go for
Need your advice please

You are in the best position to decide buh I think every guy has this spectacular trait of being there for a lady and enticing her just to get her attention and love. I won't advise you to stay with the MaMa's boi or the Golden heart Stealer buh to be vigilant and vibrant in yur quest .God be wit yu #Justsayingnoni

firstking01:
No need to stress myself further, just gotten what 've been looking for, and btw, thanks for helping to actualise it

okay!

gudbadgyal:
So u saying more than two people can't find themselves in similar situations. Mr mad man, what'd I gain [/b]in posting some one's story. Abeg if u gat nothing to say, you can [b]just skip instead of wasting ur MB typing crap. As matured as u look, U acting like some one with a child's brain

*Similar situation doesn't equal THE SAME EXACT situation

*what will you gain? I don't know, only you would(could be extrinsic or intrinsic)

*waste my MB? Well the lady I buy cred from ain't complaining...

*mature look? Would imply u have seen my pic pls paste it here I got nothing to hide. Besides if I was 'immature' i'd report u for calling me 'mad' lol

*childs brain? I'm not the one who came online to post someone else's story. Smh

I took some behavioural lessons in school so I know how liars behave. And ur case is plain as day.

Anyway continue. You could also jump n pass but u replied, so madam POT don't call This KETTLE black....literally.

Wrong post

Berlynn:

Yep

Opt for the guy willing to work and attending to your needs.

Follow thy heart. listen to your inner voice

gudbadgyal:
Hello Nairalanders, I wouldn't wanna bore you, So I'll just go straight to the point. I've been dating this guy for sometime now (just date oo) but his mom knows about our relationship and his sisters too. He's such a mama's boy and doesn't wanna work. He says he doesn't like Nigeria and he's waiting for his visa to get ready. He's dad is actually a white. He's idle and depends on me to foot the bills saying he'll reward me when things go well for him. He isn't willing to work and this is really pissing me off. However some one is gradually stealing my heart because he has been doing things my bf doesn't do for me, I'm so confused right now... Dunno who to go for
Need your advice please

lazy? go for the 2nd guy.

did u knw why his mother is in naija and d husband in abroad? am sure they got separated. who tell u he will work during hard times.. pls go fr d 2nd one and b safe 4ever

OP, DO YOU MIND IF I SHOCK YOU, YOUR HUSBAND IS NONE OF THE ABOVE.
TYPICAL OF WHAT CONFUSES ALMOST ALL LADIES: FINANCIAL SECURITY AND EMOTIONAL SECURITY.

He had either man up or you walk. When he leaves naija, is he going to take you with him? I doubt that. Its It's not a woman's place to foot the bill.

onyekachee:
date the second one my sister on a low key though,don't let the first one know,just play your game coded until the second guy proposes,then you can share your wedding card
from the look of things the first one is not serious

I hate people like u, just imagine the kind advice ur giving. Someone can't trust Nigerian girls to be faithful. The OP wanted to make a choice not to keep both.

gudbadgyal:
but he's begging me to be patient with him, that things gonna get better when he leave Nigeria and his mom is so close to me, that's one issue

Let me tell you the bitter truth.


My gf and I been dating for a year before I left for school.

Just common school I go, I forget my gf for house when I see so many beautiful babes.

Talkless about outside country.

God knows nothing go make me remember my naija gf if I travel out for masters.

And know all thses half cast be like it was just a one night stand, just a fun thing no emotions attached. They hardly commit. Continue to they do like say you never see half cast before.

I rest my case.

JuanDeDios:

Go with the lazy guy. Lazy guys rock. Besides, it's not easy to find half-Oyinbos these days. Since he's comfortable placing his hands between his legs while a woman picks his bills, I think he will transform into a hardworking person once he sets foot in America. He won't find another mugu girl there. He will send for you and you two will get married. You will hold hands and walk off into the sunset, into Happily-Ever-After where he will take good care of you.

Like they say, in every decision there are two choices: What is, and what you want; that is, what is good for you and what your emotions crave.

I suggest you start writing fiction. You nailed it.

You are too nice

JuanDeDios:

Go with the lazy guy. Lazy guys rock. Besides, it's not easy to find half-Oyinbos these days. Since he's comfortable placing his hands between his legs while a woman picks his bills, I think he will transform into a hardworking person once he sets foot in America. He won't find another mugu girl there. He will send for you and you two will get married. You will hold hands and walk off into the sunset, into Happily-Ever-After where he will take good care of you.

Like they say, in every decision there are two choices: What is, and what you want; that is, what is good for you and what your emotions crave.

gudbadgyal:
Hello Nairalanders, I wouldn't wanna bore you, So I'll just go straight to the point. I've been dating this guy for sometime now (just date oo) but his mom knows about our relationship and his sisters too. He's such a mama's boy and doesn't wanna work. He says he doesn't like Nigeria and he's waiting for his visa to get ready. He's dad is actually a white. He's idle and depends on me to foot the bills saying he'll reward me when things go well for him. He isn't willing to work and this is really pissing me off. However some one is gradually stealing my heart because he has been doing things my bf doesn't do for me, I'm so confused right now... Dunno who to go for
Need your advice please

choose me

JuanDeDios:

Go with the lazy guy. Lazy guys rock. Besides, it's not easy to find half-Oyinbos these days. Since he's comfortable placing his hands between his legs while a woman picks his bills, I think he will transform into a hardworking person once he sets foot in America. He won't find another mugu girl there. He will send for you and you two will get married. You will hold hands and walk off into the sunset, into Happily-Ever-After where he will take good care of you.

Like they say, in every decision there are two choices: What is, and what you want; that is, what is good for you and what your emotions crave.

from this day forward I shall not pass ur comment without reading. Infact Bar man give this person five medium stout

JuanDeDios:

Go with the lazy guy. Lazy guys rock. Besides, it's not easy to find half-Oyinbos these days. Since he's comfortable placing his hands between his legs while a woman picks his bills, I think he will transform into a hardworking person once he sets foot in America. He won't find another mugu girl there. He will send for you and you two will get married. You will hold hands and walk off into the sunset, into Happily-Ever-After where he will take good care of you.

Like they say, in every decision there are two choices: What is, and what you want; that is, what is good for you and what your emotions crave.

Well said. Op na mumu sharr