AfricanApple:
...BUT the question is must a woman know how to cook?...

Julietcutie:
...especially if ur husband is a glutton

iykekelvins:
Who is going to cook for your children when you get married?

saintfellow:
[b]you named yourself African apple, yet you hate cooking.
Now tell me, whats African about you?
Is it your skin or your blood?
Let me tell you all the truth, "cooking" is what defines a lady, its in our culture, as an African woman, it is your right to embrace your culture, and cooking is part of it.
We have eguisi soup, banga soup, vegetable soup, jollof rice.
meals like this are what makes you to be a unique African woman.
It is very compulsory to know how to cook.
oh!! that sweet feelings your hubby gets when he tasted your meals is way different from the feelings he got when he ate at an eatery.
And by the way, if our mothers were so lazy in the olden days when there were no restaurants, those days when they had to take their time to cook for our fore fathers, if they were lazy then, im not sure we will be here today, because those meals they cooked as a responsible family women, wanting to take care of their families, are reasons why our dads grew up to be very strong, to study and work, and that is why we are here today.
you will be doing yourself and the future family of your daughters, if you install the cooking culture as a responsibility to them at a young age, but it begins with you.[/b]

AfricanApple:
YOU

Laveda:
If you don't know how to cook, I wonder what you'll know how to do?

You even hate it? Sure you're a woman? When you give birth you'll be getting food outside for your kids?

Its a Must!

AfricanApple:
I will come and call you

not knowing how to cook doesn't mean you will never cook, like I said, its a necessity. and I believe there other options when you don't feel like it.

can't imagine entering the kitchen, morning afternoon, night because of food

AfricanApple:
very much! is it bad?

AfricanApple:

Cooking will never ever define me.
why can't my husband know how to cook so that I can have a good feeling too
Don't even use our mothers, because most were stay-at-home mum, full housewives. but now women work and also bring money to the family.

the both of us goes to work and we are both tired, then we have to share the responsibility.


Plus, i said I hate cooking, I didn't say I don't know how to Cook. difference

AfricanApple:

Cooking will never ever define me.
why can't my husband know how to cook so that I can have a good feeling too
Don't even use our mothers, because most were stay-at-home mum, full housewives. but now women work and also bring money to the family.

the both of us goes to work and we are both tired, then we have to share the responsibility.


Plus, i said I hate cooking, I didn't say I don't know how to Cook. difference

Laveda:
If you don't know how to cook, I wonder what you'll know how to do?

You even hate it? Sure you're a woman? When you give birth you'll be getting food outside for your kids?

Its a Must!

Dygeasy:
Girls/ladies of nowadays DO NOT go through as much stress as our mother did back in the days.

Quote me anywhere!! You don't have a point.

saintfellow:
Lol so you are using work as an excuse.
let me tell you something about marriage.
marriage is not something you go into if you are not ready to make sacrifices for your family.
fine the both of you are working, but its your marital responsibility to close early and make sure that you prepare meal for your husband and children.
By the way, Who told you our mothers sit at home all day?
Do you know how hard they hard to work, go to the farm and toll for hours, go to the village markets to sell for hours, yet they had to make sure that their families are well fed.
In truth, he should know how to cook but its not your hubby's duty to start cooking for the family on daily basics.
he can help out at times, that fine.
I think the problem with ladies like you is westernization and feminism but need i remind you that few days earlier "RIHANA was videod in the kitchen cooking for her family.

queencalipso:
This shouldn't be a question in the first place. It's a must for a woman to know how to cook. It's part of what defines you and also part of your glory as a woman.