AfricanApple:
now, isn't your post longer than mine? and you think the recession is not affecting me?

At least here is another person who understand something.
To your point above, then I must say men must also know how to cook

EveryBody should know how to cook. It's a way of life. At least know enuff to cook what you will eat yourself. Irrespective of whether u are a man or woman. If you don't know how to cook, you don't deserve to eat. It's simple

OP, must a husband be a responsible man? answer this question and you have answered your question.

nochio:
OP, must a husband be a responsible man? answer this question and you have answered your question.

that question is only relevant to must a wife be a responsible woman?

AfricanApple:
I always wonder, are there people in this world who feels joy whenever they are in the kitchen or is just a necessity for us to go into the kitchen?
as for me the latter is the case. oh! how I hate cooking most especially when the whether is hot.

BUT
the question is must a woman know how to cook? must she be that perfect chef, whom people should bite their tongue at the taste of her food?

your answer should be with reasonable reasons

I often heard this phrase that 'another woman will snatch your husband if you don't know how to cook' like uuhhh? Is food the essence of our living?

Shouldn't it be a thing of choice?

My own opinion?
she must not know how to cook
If your wife/girlfriend cannot cook, I don't think its a sin for you to teach her or better still do the cookings yourself.

it shouldn't be a thing of choice, its a must you kno how to do it or else you'll either be losing him to Iya basirat or your house maid ekaette...

[size=20pt] am sure op can't cook [/size]
If you really want to gain the heart of your husband or boyfriend or fiance. It is necessary you know how to cook. Many blissful marriages had bite the dust cause of cook or no cook.
Like it a do or die for all african ladies.

VanBommel:
it shouldn't be a thing of choice, its a must you kno how to do it or else you'll either be losing him to Iya basirat or your house maid ekaette...

because of food? I hear

@royalvalentine19. I guess you have apolo.

AfricanApple:
because of food? I hear

@royalvalentine19. I guess you have apolo.

you won't understand until you get married. I'm a very good cook, I cook better than some of the girls I've had flings with, bu still I want a girl that'll be cooking for me cos I can't be working, at the same time be thinking of what to cook when I'm home.

VanBommel:
you won't understand until you get married. I'm a very good cook, I cook better than some of the girls I've had flings with, bu still I want a girl that'll be cooking for me cos I can't be working, at the same time be thinking of what to cook when I'm home.

she nko? she won't be working?

seen, *wave*

AfricanApple:

@royalvalentine19. I guess you have apolo.

A woman who hates cooking is like a soft dick






Useless

If she does not know how to cook, then she does not know anything!!

AfricanApple:
she nko? she won't be working?

that's no excuse baby

Men should learn to cook too. Just as women hve learnt to provide for their homes

Heat bawo





Op ur jst a spoilt brat,period!!

@african apple ! What is the value of a woman if She is a failure in the kitchen department? Forget about this I love you I love you thing...In marriage it is a different ball game if you hate cooking then what is your value in the marriage ?

LuvU2:
Men should learn to cook too. Just as women hve learnt to provide for their homes

You are right men should also learn to cook but a woman who can't cook is not fit to be a wife in African settings .

samuelUMOH:
You are right men should also learn to cook but a woman who can't cook is not fit to be a wife in African settings .

The woman has no business sweating to earn for family in african settings

samuelUMOH:
@african apple ! What is the value of a woman if She is a failure in the kitchen department? Forget about this I love you I love you thing...In marriage it is a different ball game if you hate cooking then what is your value in the marriage ?

Y not get urself a cook

LuvU2:
Y not get urself a cook

Any one can cook in marriage but a woman who can't cook is not fit to marry .I am not talking boy friend and galfriend stuff .

LuvU2:
Y not get urself a cook

I guess you are single ...go catering school before you tie the knot .

It's no topic of discussion, I only sense laziness and selfish approach to responsibitity(ies)...

VanBommel:
that's no excuse baby

ehhhhn! but you used that as an excuse

samuelUMOH:
@african apple ! What is the value of a woman if She is a failure in the kitchen department? Forget about this I love you I love you thing...In marriage it is a different ball game if you hate cooking then what is your value in the marriage ?

what she can do in the kitchen does not determine her value. she might be good in other things that would move the family forward other than food.

chikajr:
If she does not know how to cook, then she does not know anything!!

if his wife contributes financially to the marriage, then he is useless

AfricanApple:
if his wife contributes financially to the marriage, then he is useless

Sweetheart, don't expose ur home to a chart room! I get it okay!!!

devonpaul:

EveryBody should know how to cook. It's a way of life. At least know enuff to cook what you will eat yourself. Irrespective of whether u are a man or woman. If you don't know how to cook, you don't deserve to eat. It's simple

Hi bro, pls i need to get some info from u... Pls mail me ur number wen u see dis. yinkard4mee@gmail.com

queencalipso:



For your self and the society and not bcz of a man. The society expects you to know, you children will expect you to know.

Look honey, there's a great joy and pride when your man tell you... Honey" I love the taste of your food, he boasts to his friends that his wife is not just a good cook but a great one. That's a plus for you cz they will look forward to taste your meal, and if unfortunately for them, their wives can't cook as you, you will become a positive example. Your kids too will say " wow our mum is a super cook".

My bros wife isn't a good cook and by extent ion, she hates cooking. But she must cook bcz no one will cook for her and her kids neither will I cook for her husband cz he's married.

But even after she cooks, the husband wouldn't like to eat it neither will her kids except there's no other available option. Now my dear, imagine how you will feel if such happens to you as a woman!!

My bro is a good cook but he can't be cooking for his family every day. He cooks whenever he want to eat a good food. You can't be feeding your family with junks under the guise of being busy.

It's one thing not to know how to cook, it's another thing to be willing to learn.

For me, I feel good when there are people around to eat my food and tell me how good it tastes.

God bless you ma'am

Lalasticla this is OK for fp

AfricanApple:
you can't even cook as much as I can as you dey form James bond so

Ok

AfricanApple:
you have moved a step forward

cooking is nobody's duty.
what if you marry me and we do it like this, you cook today I cook tomorrow

Marry yourself ni. ..stewpeed chap

AfricanApple:
harsh are you the one that one to marry me?

Just saw your display picture...black woman with inferiority complex
Even white women Cook for their husband...let alone common black woman like u

AfricanApple:
what she can do in the kitchen does not determine her value. she might be good in other things that would move the family forward other than food.

Mention those other things she could be good at...am sure u have nothing else to add