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Pls A Reasonable Advice by Tare1(f): 6:13pm On Oct 19, 2009
plz advice me oooo am to judge wen i get home and i dont know wat to say my friend called me crying on the fone that her boyfriend slaped her on asking wat happened all i can heaar is dat the guy slapped just because of not helping her in cooking in which she jokingly accuse of and that produced a ddirtyy slap.

wat if u are in the position wat will u do,
Re: Pls A Reasonable Advice by Godmother(f): 6:49pm On Oct 19, 2009
I want to believe your friend has not told you the entire story, cos I dont see why her bf would hit her for jokingly suggesting he help her out. Hear the full gist and then we can advise you
Re: Pls A Reasonable Advice by POSAKOSA1(m): 8:08pm On Oct 19, 2009
ONLY FOOLS HIT WOMEN. Tell your friend to leave him and move on but yet she needs to see a mental health counselor regarding her mental health/domestic violence issues
Re: Pls A Reasonable Advice by chic2pimp(m): 8:17pm On Oct 19, 2009
POSAKOSA1:

ONLY FOOLS HIT WOMEN. Tell your friend to leave him and move on but yet she needs to see a mental health counselor regarding her mental health/domestic violence issues
Is that really necessary? undecided. I agree she should leave him but mental. . . . . . .? undecided
Re: Pls A Reasonable Advice by POSAKOSA1(m): 8:52pm On Oct 19, 2009
chic2pimp:

Is that really necessary? undecided. I agree she should leave him but mental. . . . . . .? undecided

Research shows the victims/survivors of domestic violences[b] need [/b]mental health related services to deal with the trauma of such experience.
Re: Pls A Reasonable Advice by chidipupay(m): 9:43pm On Oct 19, 2009
I suggest you tell your friend to move on. cos the guy will do it again and again and again. Most guys feels that hitting women is the best treatment for them. So if your friend,love her face and body, she should quit now
Re: Pls A Reasonable Advice by Duduknight(m): 10:43pm On Oct 19, 2009
chidipupay:

I suggest you tell your friend to move on. cos the guy will do it again and again and again. Most guys feels that hitting women is the best treatment for them. So if your friend,love her face and body, she should quit now

What kind of guys do you know?
Re: Pls A Reasonable Advice by kugaba(m): 10:51pm On Oct 19, 2009
your friend should have read the mood of her pugilist boyfriend. She probably invited it cos she wanted it. She may be beaten to coma if she allows a next time to show up. Tell her to Flee from him as fast as she can.
Re: Pls A Reasonable Advice by kellorah: 11:13pm On Oct 19, 2009
Has something similar happened before?

Dude sounds scary sha. shocked shocked She might wanna leave his ass before he knocks her teeth out next time. sad
Re: Pls A Reasonable Advice by Tare1(f): 11:12am On Oct 20, 2009
i really really appreciate all comments and advice imagine they still fight in my presence yesterday with another complain and title the guy said the lady took her money and the guy had to seize her bag and take away 300naira from her bag. when i get to their house the girl eyes swolen up and on asking the guy how much the girl took away from her he said 70naira so yesterday night topic is 70naira, in the evening was cooking and not cooking beating.

so in conclusion i settled everything not blaming anyone and they both realise their mistakes and i thank everyone who has contributed and i pray such to not happen to each eeryone of us.

thanks
Re: Pls A Reasonable Advice by Ben13: 11:20am On Oct 20, 2009
Never knew girlfriends cook for boifriends cheesy expect more slaps, please.
Re: Pls A Reasonable Advice by yme1(f): 11:33am On Oct 20, 2009
slap because of food shocked shocked what is this world turning into undecided
Re: Pls A Reasonable Advice by abbeyemmy(f): 12:49pm On Oct 20, 2009
pls someone shd let me know if ui xtend thr online reg 4 DE am anxious i jst got d in4matn ystday
Re: Pls A Reasonable Advice by kugaba(m): 8:52am On Oct 21, 2009
Tare1:

i really really appreciate all comments and advice imagine they still fight in my presence yesterday with another complain and title the guy said the lady took her money and the guy had to seize her bag and take away 300naira from her bag. when i get to their house the girl eyes swolen up and on asking the guy how much the girl took away from her he said 70naira so yesterday night topic is 70naira, in the evening was cooking and not cooking beating.

so in conclusion i settled everything not blaming anyone and they both realise their mistakes and i thank everyone who has contributed and i pray such to not happen to each eeryone of us.

thanks

Bravo. That was good of you. But i bet you, you'll return to tell us again that the battle has resumed ; this time, taking a different dimension. Untill that pugilist is beaten either by Area fathers or very angry policemen, the battering of his girl would not stop( dont mean to sound prophetic ) That's a fact.
Re: Pls A Reasonable Advice by Lionzheart(m): 2:44pm On Oct 22, 2009
It's a pity and quite unfortunate for a guy to hit a lady. Not to mention his girl,
he must be insane and he needs medical attention urgently.
Re: Pls A Reasonable Advice by galatico(m): 3:09pm On Oct 22, 2009
Godmother:

I want to believe your friend has not told you the entire story, cos I dont see why her bf would hit her for jokingly suggesting he help her out. Hear the full gist and then we can advise you

Yeah I beleive you the story is incomplete .

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