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5 Beliefs Of The Successful Player (YorubaDemon Handbook) by YorubaDemon(m): 7:49pm On Oct 11, 2016
[b] Before I begin, it is necessary for me to clarify what type of guy this article is intended for.

There are those on the path of wanting to learn Game to find their ideal girlfriend or wives.

Then there are those on the path of wanting to enjoy many women over the course of their lives, maybe upgrading a few to “relationship” status as time goes on.


This article is for the latter; guys with a high sex-drive who wish to indulge fully in as much sexual variety as their circumstances and skill levels allow. This won’t be about how to pick up girls in terms of things to say or do or what to wear. Rather, this is an exploration of the beliefs of the successful player: what’s going through his mind – the foundation on which rests his entire approach to seduction. only YORUBADEMON'S WILL UNDERSTAND wink

These are in no particular order, as they are each as important as all the others. Here we go… [/b]

SLAY AND WALK AWAY

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Re: 5 Beliefs Of The Successful Player (YorubaDemon Handbook) by Presh900(m): 7:54pm On Oct 11, 2016
I wz here
Re: 5 Beliefs Of The Successful Player (YorubaDemon Handbook) by YorubaDemon(m): 7:55pm On Oct 11, 2016
#1: I Am the Prize

Our gynocentric society wants us to believe that women are the prize. Everywhere we look, we are told how much better, kinder, stronger, braver, more honest, etc. women are – all in an effort to make men believe that women have higher sexual marketplace value than men do.

The reason we’re indoctrinated in this way, by women and white knights who don’t know what’s good for them, is to get men to supplicate to women, expend time and resources on them, and give them everything they believe they want no matter the personal cost to ourselves. Feminism is just a flawed female sexual strategy being played out on a wide scale, and men who fall for it are failing the ultimate shit test.

If you genuinely believed that you are the prize, that you have what women need more than they have what you want, how much money would you spend for the pleasure of their company? Would you bend over backwards to please them? Or would you expect them to bend over backwards to please you, knowing that you are the prize, and tolerate no less in your relationships with them?

I pride myself on having never bought anything even remotely expensive for a woman in order to win her favor. I don’t think I have to, because she already gets the pleasure of my company. Why should she get the pleasure of my company AND gifts? That doesn’t sound fair to me so I don’t do it.

If you can learn to realize that you’re the prize, how much time do you think you might spend entertaining women who aren’t interested, trying to “win them over”? Answer: None! You don’t have to “win anyone over” because you’re above them in your mind. They can impress you or get out of your way. The Prize is the trophy to be fought for, the reward for which women compete with each other.

The kind of man whom women compete over is not the kind of man who competes with other men over women. Especially because valuable men, or “secret society guys”, understand how the whole sharing concept works. There’s no competition because you can both be banging her, and if you’re both secret society guys, there’s a good chance you both will be. The Prize doesn’t care what other people do when he’s not around

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Re: 5 Beliefs Of The Successful Player (YorubaDemon Handbook) by YorubaDemon(m): 7:58pm On Oct 11, 2016
[b] #2: Women are Replaceable

Years of blood, sweat, and tears in the game has taught the successful player that, as special as she seems right now, as amazing as she makes them feel, and as much as these memories will last a lifetime… they will have the same feelings, an equal amount of awesome times, and fantastic memories with the next girl, and the one after her, and the one after her.

Women are great and once you “get it” you will have pretty much the same experiences on a cycle. Eventually you’ll be with so many women that each new one reminds you of an old one, to the point where you actually have a good read on what kind of person she is just because you’ve already banged five girls just like her.

When you’ve been doing this long enough, you see patterns everywhere – but more importantly, you learn how to engage with and amplify the feminine energy as a whole. This is the energy that runs constant throughout all the girls you’ll be with. It has the same form and feel, and if it doesn’t work out with one girl, you can engage with that energy with the next one. It will feel the same way, with little variations depending on her personality and how your energies interact.

When you live with an attitude of abundance, the importance you place on any one female, or any one interaction, drops significantly. Not only does this keep you happier, as it frees up more of your time and energy for other pursuits, but it’s also the single best defense against oneitis (which can strike when you least expect it, but if you know how to handle it it is not a big deal) [/b]

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Re: 5 Beliefs Of The Successful Player (YorubaDemon Handbook) by YorubaDemon(m): 8:01pm On Oct 11, 2016
[b] #3: Women Need Sex More Than They Want Relationships

successful player We are constantly inundated with the idea that women love/want/need/desire relationships. Whether it’s boyfriend/girlfriend or husband/wife, we are told everywhere we look that this is what women want. Guys want to get laid, and since women have all the vaginas, we try to figure out what women want so we can give that to them in exchange for sex.

Unfortunately, believing that women primarily desire relationships leads us to do things that waste time, money, and are ultimately counterproductive. We take them on dates, buy them flowers, write them letters and poetry, etc. We do this under the guise of giving a girl the relationship she wants in exchange for the sex we want.

It’s not true. In the modern Western world, where promiscuity is encouraged by everyone, I absolutely believe with 100% conviction that women want sex way more than they want relationships. If you go out with the understanding that women want to meet a new guy to have sex with, not to date, you will begin to behave in a way which naturally and congruently leads to this outcome.

Over, and over, and over again, you will confirm to yourself that what you believe is the absolute truth. Not only that, but if you have many female friends who you talk to about this stuff, you’ll hear the same thing from them a lot of the time (depending on their age).

Young women want to get laid. They get angry when they’re not getting any dick, so they go hunting for some (especially during the proliferative phase of her menstrual cycle, also known as “the cheating window”).

When they’re all dressed up and out with their friends at night, many of them are looking for a guy to have sex with. With this understanding in your back pocket, you will interpret her signals correctly: she wants you to escalate the encounter, spit your game, and bring her home for a night of hot sex. They want relationships in their fantasies only, and they are unable to behave in them when they get what they say they want – because it never lives up to the fantasy. Remember, women live in their imaginations. In their fantasies they want a perfect husband, but reality wants them to get some dick and make babies. [/b]

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Re: 5 Beliefs Of The Successful Player (YorubaDemon Handbook) by Nobody: 8:02pm On Oct 11, 2016
nice one boss very tempting profits
Re: 5 Beliefs Of The Successful Player (YorubaDemon Handbook) by YorubaDemon(m): 8:04pm On Oct 11, 2016
judeefcc:
nice one boss very tempting profits
trust me bro this is better girls are all the same
Re: 5 Beliefs Of The Successful Player (YorubaDemon Handbook) by YorubaDemon(m): 8:05pm On Oct 11, 2016
[b] #4: What Women Say Is Not as Important as How They Say It

It is no secret that women like to talk… a lot. Given the opportunity, they will tell you their hopes, dreams, fears, secrets, desires, opinions, etc. And learning about her, getting her to open up like this, is a vital part of building the necessary connection.

However, realize that most of what they’re saying doesn’t actually mean anything. Her words are a reflection of her emotional state at the time she says them, not a reflection of who she truly is at her core. This is why women can, and often do, say highly contradictory things back-to-back, complete with an entire arsenal of rationalizations for why what they’re saying makes sense… even though it doesn’t.

Here’s the thing: women know they’re full of shit. They’ve been women their whole lives and know plenty of other women. That being the case, they’ve learned to use and recognize words as somewhat of a smokescreen for what’s really going on in one another’s heads. Ask a close female friend about this sometime – she’ll tell you that girls are full of shit and don’t trust each other. Where do you think I started learning this? Straight from the horse’s mouth.

I highly recommend you take the same route: almost completely ignore what she’s saying, and focus your energies instead on all the rest of the communication (eye contact, body language, paraverbal, nonverbals, touching, etc). Words are the smallest part of the communication, and it is a game-killing mistake to take what women say seriously. This is true not only in the initial stages of the pick-up, but also throughout the course of your relationship with any given woman. She will demand things, tell you what she’s thinking and feeling, and every word of it is subject to change at a moment’s notice, without warning.

Don’t make the mistake of taking what they say seriously. Listen for themes and ideas you can use as jumping-off points to take conversations in the direction you want them to go. Sitting there nodding while she blathers on endlessly is not winning you any points with her; she wants an authority figure, someone who controls the direction of the conversation and the interaction.

This is doubly true when she’s emotional, in which case you should ignore the communication completely because what she’s telling you will no longer be true the moment she calms down. [/b]

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Re: 5 Beliefs Of The Successful Player (YorubaDemon Handbook) by YorubaDemon(m): 8:08pm On Oct 11, 2016
[b]5: My Feelings are More Important Than Hers

Her feelings are important, just not as important as yours. For example, if she deeply desires that you perform some action for her that would make you feel poorly about yourself, which person’s agenda would you allow to win?

Many guys answer incorrectly, mistakenly believing that sacrifice proves how much they love her. In reality, all it proves is that you don’t respect yourself. When you put yourself first, demonstrating your respect for yourself, you will begin to notice that other people begin to treat you with more respect as well. Women may become angered by your refusal to play their game, but as soon as they calm down, they will remain highly attracted to you with even more respect than they had before you stood up to her.

In any relationship, whether casual or more serious, you are the priority. It is far too easy to prioritize the other person at the expense of your own well-being. I’ve certainly been there, and that experience is what led to my article on How to Avoid Cluster B Women. Once you truly understand and internalize that you are the first priority in any relationship (and hopefully the girl you’re with also prioritizes herself), you will begin to enjoy far healthier relationships than the codependent, one-sided ones that I see everywhere I look. [/b]

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Re: 5 Beliefs Of The Successful Player (YorubaDemon Handbook) by Nobody: 8:11pm On Oct 11, 2016
YorubaDemon:
trust me bro this is better girls are all the same
what about enjoying love cry
Re: 5 Beliefs Of The Successful Player (YorubaDemon Handbook) by YorubaDemon(m): 8:13pm On Oct 11, 2016
judeefcc:
what about enjoying love cry
forget about that till you are married believe me
Re: 5 Beliefs Of The Successful Player (YorubaDemon Handbook) by Nobody: 8:14pm On Oct 11, 2016
You lot don't get tired. Enough of this Yoruba demon shii already
Re: 5 Beliefs Of The Successful Player (YorubaDemon Handbook) by Nobody: 8:14pm On Oct 11, 2016
YorubaDemon:
forget about that till you are married believe me
abeg my gf is too innocent cheesy
Re: 5 Beliefs Of The Successful Player (YorubaDemon Handbook) by YorubaDemon(m): 8:15pm On Oct 11, 2016
judeefcc:
abeg my gf is too innocent cheesy
unless its your wife dont ever be faithful thats foolisness believe me
Re: 5 Beliefs Of The Successful Player (YorubaDemon Handbook) by Nobody: 8:17pm On Oct 11, 2016
YorubaDemon:
unless its your wife dont ever be faithful thats foolisness believe me
well she dey innocent she doesn't deserve such treatment i done run before you spoil my mind
Re: 5 Beliefs Of The Successful Player (YorubaDemon Handbook) by Nobody: 8:20pm On Oct 11, 2016
YorubaDemon:
unless its your wife dont ever be faithful thats foolisness believe me
Really!.
Re: 5 Beliefs Of The Successful Player (YorubaDemon Handbook) by decatalyst(m): 8:20pm On Oct 11, 2016
Kai! Women of this 21st century don suffer! grin grin

Na on top their matter you write this encyclopedia of YorubaDemon? grin

Kai, sole soyinka no write on a topic this much before he won noble beret or lauret dem dey call am.
Re: 5 Beliefs Of The Successful Player (YorubaDemon Handbook) by YorubaDemon(m): 8:21pm On Oct 11, 2016
herbie27:
Really!.
complete waste of emotional resources

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Re: 5 Beliefs Of The Successful Player (YorubaDemon Handbook) by YorubaDemon(m): 8:22pm On Oct 11, 2016
decatalyst:
Kai! Women of this 21st century don suffer! grin grin

Na on top their matter you write this encyclopedia of YorubaDemon? grin

Kai, sole soyinka no write on a topic this much before he won noble beret or lauret dem dey call am.
yorubademon at your service
Re: 5 Beliefs Of The Successful Player (YorubaDemon Handbook) by YorubaDemon(m): 8:24pm On Oct 11, 2016
judeefcc:
well she dey innocent she doesn't deserve such treatment i done run before you spoil my mind
remember the apple that i offered you today wink
Re: 5 Beliefs Of The Successful Player (YorubaDemon Handbook) by Nobody: 8:25pm On Oct 11, 2016
YorubaDemon:
complete waste of emotional resources
When you already have this kind of mindset, trust me!, you're likely to end up with girls who reason as you do.

Both of you will be playing games.
Re: 5 Beliefs Of The Successful Player (YorubaDemon Handbook) by Nobody: 8:30pm On Oct 11, 2016
valid points cool #nice

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Re: 5 Beliefs Of The Successful Player (YorubaDemon Handbook) by YorubaDemon(m): 8:32pm On Oct 11, 2016
bbmpin:
valid points cool #nice
bro you praise me shocked thanks alot grin

Re: 5 Beliefs Of The Successful Player (YorubaDemon Handbook) by Nobody: 8:34pm On Oct 11, 2016
hmmm...
Re: 5 Beliefs Of The Successful Player (YorubaDemon Handbook) by YorubaDemon(m): 8:35pm On Oct 11, 2016
herbie27:
When you already have this kind of mindset, trust me!, you're likely to end up with girls who reason as you do.

Both of you will be playing games.
you women dont deserve such commitments when its just a relationship and what makes you think that by being this way i wll attract a girl that isnt committed that's sexist
Re: 5 Beliefs Of The Successful Player (YorubaDemon Handbook) by nikkypearl(f): 8:35pm On Oct 11, 2016
Yoruba demon any day grin

The demon you know is better than the angel you knoweth not tongue
Re: 5 Beliefs Of The Successful Player (YorubaDemon Handbook) by YorubaDemon(m): 8:37pm On Oct 11, 2016
coollabman:
hmmm...
bro done assimilate my points wink say hmmm like who chop belle full
Re: 5 Beliefs Of The Successful Player (YorubaDemon Handbook) by YorubaDemon(m): 8:38pm On Oct 11, 2016
nikkypearl:
Yoruba demon any day grin

The demon you know is better than the angel you knoweth not tongue
grin said it all kiss
Re: 5 Beliefs Of The Successful Player (YorubaDemon Handbook) by Nobody: 8:41pm On Oct 11, 2016
YorubaDemon:
you women dont deserve such commitments when its just a relationship and what makes you think that by being this way i wll attract a girl that isnt committed that's sexist
You think women are fools right?...if they don't deserve any commitment from you, hope you won't need any from them too.
Re: 5 Beliefs Of The Successful Player (YorubaDemon Handbook) by fernandoc(m): 8:46pm On Oct 11, 2016
Lol copy copy
Re: 5 Beliefs Of The Successful Player (YorubaDemon Handbook) by YorubaDemon(m): 8:46pm On Oct 11, 2016
herbie27:
You think women are fools right?...if they don't deserve any commitment from you, hope you won't need any from them too.
point number 3 women want sex more than relationship cool
Re: 5 Beliefs Of The Successful Player (YorubaDemon Handbook) by Nobody: 8:52pm On Oct 11, 2016
YorubaDemon:
point number 3 women want sex more than relationship cool
Are you speaking for women?, wake up!...sex is overrated, before you can conclude that "women want sex more than relationship", carry out an opinion poll.

As long as i'm concern this is a hypothetical statement.

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