Roflao, ok shut up, the laughter didnt last 4 long, ok shut up, if u so bored nd u wanna exchange words, get a life instead on sittin ur 20year old ass nd exchanging words wiv a poor 17 year old, old bag

Oh well I am having fun just like you. Since you have memorized all the info on my profile, can you please make a little summary?

oh i'm honoured, i think u r a beautiful sweet lovely person, my attitude was bleeped up over the last hour, was under sum influence, knw yall r gna kick my ass out so imma leave after i read my life in history 2mrw, knw pple r defo gna curse my life, sry thou, x x

I joined this forum when I was 16 and believe me it has really helped me to grow. I understand how you feel since at your age I was involved in a similar relationship with an older guy. It takes a lot to break off but with a little courage you can.

I started dating when I was 16 but I experienced my very first relationship when I was 19. I made a lot of mistakes, some I wish I never made, but I am glad for what I learnt. I am not saying you shouldn't date but you just have to know that at your age you can't make plans like marriage or possibly long term relationship.

Don't be taken by the euphoria of having a boy who cares about you. People change and when you least expect and have be disillusioned so much that you cant distinguish between reality and fantasy, this same boy might turn his back on you.

Love but do it with your eyes opened. Not by heart alone, but by mind you shall survive.

michelin89:

I joined this forum when I was 16

Michelin . . . how old is this forum and how old are you really . . . you make it sound like this forumn has been around since like forever . . .

@poster

Please face your studies and ignore guys . . .there is time for everything.

You are too young to even be considering issues like this . . . YES I AM ALSO IN THE UK (for now) . . . AND HENCE I KNOW HOW FAST PEOPLE GROW UP OVER HERE.

I am 20, why?

oh now i feel bad, thanks a bunch, u c if ple came out nd sed it like u did, i wudnt have gotten so rude, thanks still, i gt in d relationship, but i care bout him, he's d one dat bangs on nd on bout how he wud love 2 spend d rest of his life with me, i really dnt say non of that, he's into this more than me, i actually forget sometimes dat i.v gt a man, cuz 2 b honest i gt better things 2 do, but i notice dat he cares bout me, calls me nd spends practically four hours on d phone nd we all knw calls from nigaria is bloddy expensive(my friend says dat), d distant aint the problem cus 2 b hoenst its better 4 me, its  more like i have a Bf only in summer, u c d only reason y i posted, which i'm defo regreattin, is cuz i'v realised dat i have gotten him deep into this thing, his mum is on Fb, she stays here, he's already tld her bout us, infact he's dad nd half bro's nd sis r meant 2 go america next year, but he's coming dwn here, look all im saying is dat i have gotten him deep into this whole thing, i dnt wanna hurt him, as 4 me, trust me its like a joke 2 me, so it wudnt pinch not 2 talk about hurt, i just wanna knw d possibiliteis dats all, im very stupid 4 my comments eariler one, but im apologizing 2 ony u, d rest can burn 4 all i care, i ahte wen pple think they can look dwn on pple, ya dnt knw me, dnt insult me or they gan get it, tahnsk all d same, XX

No2Atheism:



Michelin . . . how old is this forum and how old are you really . . . you make it sound like this forumn has been around since like forever . . .

@poster

Please face your studies and ignore guys . . .there is time for everything.

You are too young to even be considering issues like this . . . YES I AM ALSO IN THE UK (for now) . . . AND HENCE I KNOW HOW FAST PEOPLE GROW UP OVER HERE.

Just because you do what adults do doesn't mean you are grown up. Just take a loot at the rate of teenage pregnancies. Children playing adults without knowledge.

@ No2Atheism, thanks, funny enuf this is wen pple start 2 make sense, wuda been better if u nd michelin commented only, didnt even knw sane pple were part of this site, thanks still

no no pregnancy talk, trust me i knw hw 2 play my game, i aint gettin dwn 4 no one, trust me on dat, simple ignore dat aspect, x x

michelin89:

I am 20, why?

just curious . . .as you made it sound like nairaland has always been around since like forever.

Since you are a older and obviously more matured female, please advice the poster to please focus on her studies . . . she is at an age in which her hormones would be playing tricks on her . . . hence making it easy for guys to take advantage of her.

I am a guy and trust me it does not take a lot for sweet nothings to be said just to be able to sleep with ladies . . . hence the reason why i would prefer if the poster faces her studies instead.

ok thanks i'd face y studies, common i gt outta college last fall with 13 distincitons, trust me i nd books r lovers nothing comes between us,

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michelin89:

Just because you do what adults do doesn't mean you are grown up. Just take a loot at the rate of teenage pregnancies. Children playing adults without knowledge.

1. You are very correct . . .

2. You just earned a little respect from me just for this statement of yours . . . That does not mean i do not disagree with you on some other topics though

No2Atheism:

1. You are very correct . . .

2. You just earned a little respect from me just for this statement of yours . . . That does not mean i do not disagree with you on some other topics though

I still don't like you because of your username, religious obsessed dude.

@ poster

I am far from being sane. Ahahahhaha quite a lot of people think I am out of this world but I don't care. I just live my life as it comes.

By the way I knew everybody from my ex's family. His mum, his brother, his uncles, his friends. We dated for more than a year and yes we discussed our future together. We made plans and then we broke up. You'd believe since he was in his 20s things could actually work right, but they didn't. I don't no longer trust on a man's word to build my life. Make things happen when you want them to happen and you'll live fine. Set your goals and let people accomodate you rather than you trying to adjust to other people's lives.

You are yet to exeperience a real relationship with him. Right now things are quite idealistic and you see just the good sides of things. Wait until you see each other everyday and have the usual quarrels. If you can survive that then maybe you can say you are actually dating. Calling a boy your boyfriend isn't always equal to dating him, as in being with him for real.

nw dats sum sense being made, thanks, yer true say i forget attimes dat im meant 2 someone's gf, wen i look at boys nd say ohhh he's cute, my friend goes r u mad, u gt a man, i just dnt wanna hurt him, he's bare excited bout d whole thing, me my lyfe flows normally, but there he is, i dnt knw if i shud end the whole thing now, cuz i dnt want him thinking bout me wen i dnt, 2 b honest i serious aint in a relationship, in his head i am in, but in my head i believe its sum joke, i cant come out 2 tell him, its gna crash him, so do u advise me 2 just flow along , i like him thou, he's cute nd dat, i do actually like him but lets say 35%,

Why don't you tell him you'd like to be friends instead? A girl of 17 shouldn't be entangled in a long distance relationship. Even adults have hard times making things work.

You should be free to experience teenage crushes before diving into such a mind exhausting thing like a long distance relationship.


By the way do you want to contest for the Most Beautiful Girl on Nairaland? If so click on the link below:

MBGN 2009/2010

lool, modellin, i actually gt a skiinny bady nd modelin suits me, but i aint gt a pic on this site , dnt intend on havin one, i sure gt a lot of haterz already, i might thou, but erm r u on FaceBook,
nd thanks, i'd end it all, tell him i wanna b friends till he comes in summer, u'v been helpful,, thanks,

Whether they hate you or not they won't deny your beauty.

aww thanks, r u on Facebook thou

I am private. You can't find me but I could find you.

kk, id send u my add on FB, but i duna hw 2 do dat, message hw can i send

send me your name at michelin89mod@ymail.com

kk i have,

@17, it is advisable the poster thread slowly, cautiously but with positive attitude

kk thannks i'd b careful