please, am not posting to seek attention, rather for an advise.
I meant this guy about 5years ago, we became friends and I was OK with it, because I wasn't looking for a serious relationship and based on the distance, I was fine. about 2years agos, he travelled down for the first time to come see me, I was so excited becos he actually took the risk of coming over to come see me, I felt love and was willing to give him a try.
we started dating and we decided on seeing at least once in 2month, since I was schooling and he was working, I later needed to see him more often, and he started giving all sort of excuse that he can't come, he has spend enough this weeks, even with my own help of funding his trip he still would come up with an excuse. now I feel am disturbing him, the way he respond to my calls, my chat and all, make me feel am disturbing him. I don't know what to do, he actually stop calling, i seriously don't know what to do right now, because I do love him.
please friends what do you think/feel I should do, please I beg you don't insult me if u have no advise for me,

He don change mind. He is no more into you.

My dear it's time to move on but first be sure he's not acting that way because he has a lot running through his mind. Remember no matter how busy a person is, he will always create time for the one he loves

Ashleydolls:
Remember no matter how busy a person is, he will always create time for the one he love.

Ekiti

Kondomatic:
Ekiti

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Ashleydolls:
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Your quote is not always true

Kondomatic:
Your quote is not always true

Really? Wanna prove it?

Ashleydolls:
Really? Wanna prove it?

You have a soldier friend?

Kondomatic:
You have a soldier friend?

yeah

oselydia:
please, am not posting to seek attention, rather for an advise.
I meant this guy about 5years ago, we became friends and I was OK with it, because I wasn't looking for a serious relationship and based on the distance, I was fine. about 2years agos, he travelled down for the first time to come see me, I was so excited becos he actually took the risk of coming over to come see me, I felt love and was willing to give him a try.
we started dating and we decided on seeing at least once in 2month, since I was schooling and he was working, I later needed to see him more often, and he started giving all sort of excuse that he can't come, he has spend enough this weeks, even with my own help of funding his trip he still would come up with an excuse. now I feel am disturbing him, the way he respond to my calls, my chat and all, make me feel am disturbing him. I don't know what to do, he actually stop calling, i seriously don't know what to do right now, because I do love him.
please friends what do you think/feel I should do, please I beg you don't insult me if u have no advise for me,

There are lots of possible reasons.
Long distance relationship might work for others and fail some others. So ermm that means you are now single abi In that case, let's hook up, we might be uploading our pre-wedding pictures soon.
I'll be Joker and you can be Harley

Ashleydolls:
yeah

There is no time for loved ones when they're at the war front

Kondomatic:
There is no time for loved ones when they're at the war front

Not always. Some of them will still find time to talk to you

Ashleydolls:
Not always. Some of them will still find time to talk to you

When they're given time and not when they're fighting

Kondomatic:
When they're given time and not when they're fighting

At least he'll have you at the back of his mind when fighting and talk to you at any given opportunity. The boyfriend in the given scenerio is not a soldier

oselydia:
please, am not posting to seek attention, rather for an advise.
I meant this guy about 5years ago, we became friends and I was OK with it, because I wasn't looking for a serious relationship and based on the distance, I was fine. about 2years agos, he travelled down for the first time to come see me, I was so excited becos he actually took the risk of coming over to come see me, I felt love and was willing to give him a try.
we started dating and we decided on seeing at least once in 2month, since I was schooling and he was working, I later needed to see him more often, and he started giving all sort of excuse that he can't come, he has spend enough this weeks, even with my own help of funding his trip he still would come up with an excuse. now I feel am disturbing him, the way he respond to my calls, my chat and all, make me feel am disturbing him. I don't know what to do, he actually stop calling, i seriously don't know what to do right now, because I do love him.
please friends what do you think/feel I should do, please I beg you don't insult me if u have no advise for me,

where do u reside