A family member had been in hospital and as a support i've been going along to support them in their excercise class, i met the excercise instructor, a young guys, extremly cute and the nicest person every and at first i tried to ignore these facts but now my relative is out of hospital the instructor is not out of my mind.  He used to be really sweet to me, and i was too shy to hold the conversations he started. I wonder if he was only doing his job when being friendly,

My relative took his mobile number in front of me incase it was needed, and i recently found searched his name and found him on facebook,  I want to thank him for all his help and strike up a friendship, but am scared in case i seem strange for finding him online.  To me his like the most amazing guy i've met this year, handsome, sweet, patient, wow, his so perfect, help, would you make contact if it were you

so would you make contact, am thinking about doing so later tonight,

@Poster, I would not.
You may be more relaxed about using facebook than i. You have had some contact with this guy in person already so maybe fine.

Ummm am a guy so it's expect that I would if it were me. For u however u must be very discrete in making that contact. FB might not get u the notice u wanted if he doesn't remember your name. I would have suggested a brief call or a sms.

thanks guys, i know he would remember me, it's been less than a week since we saw each other, am just not sure how he would react to contact on his facebook profile by someone he doesn't really know, but then i really like him,
and i know he'll be going on holiday to africa in a matter of days, don't want to leave it for too long incase someone else declares feelings for him, the situation we met made it hard to talk more, but if you see this guy *wow*

Aren't u under an illusions,i mean u nvr realy know d true him,i may act up nice on d outside,i'll advise u take it ur time before u make ur move.

@poster
you have absolutely nothing to loose by getting in contact with this guy, whether it be via Facebook or sending him a text msg to get the convo going. . . . . . . . . . the problem is what you will do the day you get face to face(or are you that shy?!).

you seem to be worrying about all the wrong things,what you should worry about is:
is he married/in a relationship or not? no need wasting your time on a man already taken.

Oluchi21:

thanks guys, i know he would remember me, it's been less than a week since we saw each other, am just not sure how he would react to contact on his facebook profile by someone he doesn't really know, but then i really like him,
and i know he'll be going on holiday to africa in a matter of days, don't want to leave it for too long incase someone else declares feelings for him, the situation we met made it hard to talk more, but if you see this guy *wow*

Aww cmon it's FB we talking about he either adds u up or not. Don't be afraid to make dat contact.

MRbrownJAY:

@poster
you have absolutely nothing to loose by getting in contact with this guy, whether it be via Facebook or sending him a text msg to get the convo going. . . . . . . . . . the problem is what you will do the day you get face to face(or are you that shy?!).

you seem to be worrying about all the wrong things,what you should worry about is:
is he married/in a relationship or not? no need wasting your time on a man already taken.

Do you think she cares about that?

I don't have a clue if he is in a relationship or not, but i would regretif i didn't make the contact, am sure he wouldn't be annoyed to hear from me, it's just the fact that i know he won't be expecting my msg, i think i'll take the risk, i've never done anthing like this, am used to it being the other way , i know how that sounds but it is true

wish me luck, lol

xynerise:

Do you think she cares about that?

I think she you would.
This is why I would NEVER do said, the guy could get the wrong idea. I have heard guys say all sorts about facebook and dating/contact.

@poster

If you like, you let him know how you eat, who cares?

@ Mama Gee, HI HATER. BYE HATER

Oluchi21:

@ Mama Gee, HI HATER. BYE HATER

Dear babes, i was asking for advice, if you don't have anything helpful to say then don't post. Afterall i didn't beg you, did i,

Contact him to say Thank You--- even if he ignores you who cares. You are doing the right thing by saying Thank you.

I laugh in Bagada!!!
Just because you didn't beg repliers,
doesn't give you the infantry to open dumb threads.
I'm done with you, move on.

Mama Gee go and sleep. You too like attention. Moreover I have viewed your pic and seen that I am easily finer than you, i have also read your replies and seen that i am more intellegent, am asking NL users for advice, if you can't help then mind your business lady, enjoy the lead up to 2010

I think i'll do it now, deep down i know he would be pleased to hear from me, will let you all know how it goes, lol

Is it that you are wet underneath for him ? All in your mind is how he would phunk ur apuna. No wonder i believe in sex on first day. Don't screw ur ass babe. The guy could be faster than you can imagine.

Go and get an education JCOB, nawa for some peeps on this NL!

What kinda education. You are not a match 4 me.

@poster. Remember not to be desperate, guys are not always serious with desperate gals. They pretend they love you but to them you are cheap LovePeddler. Always go to him and buy him a gift one day, maybe a nice wrist watch and tell him is just for a job well done. Then watch his eyes without blinking

LMAO, trust me he will not think i am cheap, i am a classy girl, i was more worried that i was intimidating him, he doesn't need any gift, am not trying to date the guy, i could, but am more interested in getting to know him, if we could get there then i know he would like me regardless of what happens,

Then dont listen to anyone's advice just follow your heart

Are you a slut ?

jcob.:

Are you a slut ?

Who are you asking?

lol, nice comeback

ONLY HUMAN BEINGS NEED REPLY

I was asking baby oluchi. To be serious, just approach him as a casual friend. . . .and u guys can get it started from there.

I was asking baby oluchi. To be serious, just approach him as a casual friend. . . .and u guys can get it started from there.

jcob.:

I was asking baby oluchi. To be serious, just approach him as a casual friend. . . .and u guys can get it started from there.

That shouldnt made you use a rude word.

Good luck girl n come tell us how it goes, u hear?!