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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by YelloweWest: 6:56am On Apr 06, 2017
CreamyMoltenLar:
Meaning they shouldn't sound so arrogant about it. I know some guys can be annoying when they pester girls like 5 year olds, but that doesn't mean they should refer to us like we're dirt. Anyway we have our revenge when we marry them sha
Don't u refer to girls as whòres?

Abeg park well!

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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by metroid(m): 6:58am On Apr 06, 2017
Divay22:
hahaha...you na badoo o.... That wrote number has never done it for me

grin
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by SweetyZinta(f): 7:00am On Apr 06, 2017
tell them give me your number, I will call you. if they insist you call them there and then, tell them you have low battery or insufficient credit and just walk away.


it has worked for me
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Divay22(f): 7:04am On Apr 06, 2017
SweetyZinta:
tell them give me your number, I will call you. if they insist you call them there and then, tell them you have low battery or insufficient credit and just walk away.


it has worked for me
What about he tells you to do it the other way round....like you giving him your number He'll call
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Divay22(f): 7:05am On Apr 06, 2017
Fourwinds:
u have d best answer so far
Thanks cheesy
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by DonaTee(f): 7:10am On Apr 06, 2017
Bigsteveg:
And what were your actions afterwards? I still wonder why some men get married when they still wanna be sleeping around


lol was a very irritating experience. I dropped from d bus, he followed suit. He was following me n begging. I pretended not to hear him or reply anymore. Thank God I was wit a friend, if I were alone I would av been more irritable

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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Nobody: 7:14am On Apr 06, 2017
biuti:

Are you a Lady? The topic clearly says "ladies".

Are you in Nigeria? If you are then you'll know a lady can meet a guy anywhere e.g Park, market, street, place of worship etc.

You don't ask for advice? I didn't know anyone that asked for advice now has blocked brain. So trying to be nice to every guy that walk up to us now has turned us to block heads? And it's your type that'll still shout "Olosho" if a lady attends to every guy the way they want.

IMO, I think you need urgent medical attention if you really meant that nonsense you typed up there.

Why is almost every guy here shouting "forming"? So if you have a girlfriend, you won't mind her giving her number to anyone that asked?


chai. u are wicked walahi
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by dee02(m): 7:16am On Apr 06, 2017
calculator123:
Give them a nonexistent number or better still give them ur Friends(male esp) that way when they call and hear wrong number.you go rest

Immature response!

What happened to politely declining to give the number? It is the easiest, diplomatic and most humble way!

Simples.
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Nobody: 7:18am On Apr 06, 2017
Humility017:

they're having a heyday...
as in eh
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by pkang: 7:18am On Apr 06, 2017
It really makes men look bad when we admire you, try to call u later and then u decline giving us ur digits.
I personally have stopped asking girls for numbers except we connected well on our first me.
I remember a girl who will always stalk at me I noticed and my first approach wasn't impressive till now I haven't asked her her number. Although, she said she has a BF but am coming back for her and what d Bleep she still stalk at me.
While there are girls I take their numbers with little effort but when I connect with a lady in the first meet, it is always easy for me to collect numbers. A girl will always deny men their number if the guy did not connect well wit dem.
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Nobody: 7:21am On Apr 06, 2017
But it's important for ladies to decide whether to turn down a guy before carrying out the act lest regret o. I asked a lady her number a few times on my estate, she turned me down multiple times, instructed her younger ones the same thing, locked up totally each tym she saw me... fast forward it to 2 years now, i go on my own minding my business, she's completely disturbed, annoyed @ me. We still exchange pleasantries but the sadness is so glaring... She offered her number to me once recently, I didn't call her, mehn the look on her face each time we pass by each other is giving me heart troubles... so ladies decide if u really want to turn a guy down before carrying out the act. Moreso every guy can't have your number, also guys should not have your number easily lest it becomes too cheap, a balance is important.. Nice to learn from the ladies..

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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Mojoy88(m): 7:22am On Apr 06, 2017
See as some stupid guys collecting number upandan are making these Asunles dey run mouth anyhow. Is your numbers the code to CBN strong room or password to heaven?

I hate asking gals for number. I make them ask for mine. When i see a gal that truly worth the stress, i do it with style and I've never been turned down.







You are free to yawn dust...

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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by sellers4buyers(m): 7:23am On Apr 06, 2017
My father told me to purse my dreams with all my energy and in my pursuit, beautiful woman will pursue me. When you are up there, they will give you their contact even when you don't ask.
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Nobody: 7:28am On Apr 06, 2017
SweetyZinta:
tell them give me your number, I will call you. if they insist you call them there and then, tell them you have low battery or insufficient credit and just walk away.


it has worked for me


sista u never jam. I walked into this exact scenario ona day coming back from church. When i saw the misery in the guy's face, i had to plead with the girl the guy gave her his phone and a sim inside as dash, was almost on his knees. I waded in as an elder, pleading that she should just accept and see how the journey unfolds, she accepted. I walked off.. smiling... if guys rily rily like ladies, they can go gaga o...
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Nobody: 7:28am On Apr 06, 2017
if you say no and he insist...just take his number politely and promise to call him . .
I remember collecting one Guy's number. . he thought I was typing d number when he was calling it unfortunately for him I was replying message on WhatsApp... that's how I left without giving and collecting.
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Nobody: 7:29am On Apr 06, 2017
sellers4buyers:
My father told me to purse my dreams with all my energy and in my pursuit, beautiful woman will pursue me. When you are up there, they will give you their contact even when you don't ask.


I agree 100%. I did this and now na me dey form hard so i dont... tongue grin cheesy
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Nobody: 7:29am On Apr 06, 2017
Mojoy88:
See as some stupid guys collecting number upandan are making these Asunles dey run mouth anyhow. Is your numbers the code to CBN strong room or password to heaven?

I hate asking gals for number. I make them ask for mine. When i see a gal that truly worth the stress, i do it with style and I've never been turned down.







You are free to yawn dust...


Lol.. bad guy

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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by messiedidylakes(f): 7:29am On Apr 06, 2017
give me yours I will give you a call :Pgive me yours I will give you a call
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Idoko619(m): 7:34am On Apr 06, 2017
vicfuntop:






No offence, but you sound like a teenager. I mean does this make any sense

Does the topic itself make any sense atall?
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by fergie001: 7:34am On Apr 06, 2017
Divay22:
Sure cheesy cheesy.Good morning
Morning My Dear grin
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Nobody: 7:39am On Apr 06, 2017
much ado about nothing.
Give him the number.
picking and responding to him is now your choice.
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Nobody: 7:39am On Apr 06, 2017
Brownbarbie97:
Most of we ladies get approached by different calibers of men asking for our contacts ranging from the good, bad and ugly.

We definitely can't give out our digits to every tom, dick and harry that asks for it so my question is what is the best way of saying NO to some of these men that request for ur digits without being Rude, insulting or destroying their Ego?
OP, Is your number a kind of gold? Or are you fond of attracting desperate losers?

It's never a big deal to get approached by a lot of men. Some women do ask for phone numbers too. I guess you're an instigator!
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Edusouls(m): 7:46am On Apr 06, 2017
calculator123:
Give them a nonexistent number or better still give them ur Friends(male esp) that way when they call and hear wrong number.you go rest
woman wrapper,they ask women question,you answer..
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Hallenjay: 7:48am On Apr 06, 2017
Brownbarbie97:
some guys can be very annoying when it comes to this,demanding for the number like it's their birthright.Any man that knows his worth will back down the first instance the lady declines .
some girls wanna see how u valued dem bfor dem gve u... Forming until u do enuf bfor de can gve out
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by muhakeem(m): 7:50am On Apr 06, 2017
ToriBlue:
Tell them I lost my phone.


Give them fake number.


Tell them I'm married.
its not good to lie oh, why not just tell them 'i am not giving' finish.
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by muhakeem(m): 7:53am On Apr 06, 2017
Brownbarbie97:
Ive tried the fake number thing but most of them will call it to confirm in ur presence?what will u do in that situation?
na by force to be fake ni? Just tell them you ain't giving, except he is the one who bought the fone for u

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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Kc3000: 7:55am On Apr 06, 2017
Most guys can handle rejection, it's part of the terrain of asking women out. You ain't the first or the only chick he's asking out. So, if you're not interested, tell the guy without being rude or insulting.
On the other hand, women cannot handle rejection oh! Turn a chick down and she'll start acting like you physically stabbed her...she'll almost kill you with evil looks whenever she sees you.
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Sarah20A(f): 7:59am On Apr 06, 2017
Simply say ''am sorry am not interested and I don't want to waste your time so you can't have my contact".
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Kingston6: 7:59am On Apr 06, 2017
Lol babes here no dy smile atal. Common to gv out number. Gv d guy number simple na wen en cal u u go knw weda u go pick am or nt, y lying.
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Kingston6: 8:03am On Apr 06, 2017
Kc3000:
Most guys can handle rejection, it's part of the terrain of asking women out. You ain't the first or the only chick he's asking out. So, if you're not interested, tell the guy without being rude or insulting.
On the other hand, women cannot handle rejection oh! Turn a chick down and she'll start acting like you physically stabbed her...she'll almost kill you with evil looks whenever she sees you.





No mind dem. Fr a guy to follw a bae or feel feel rejectd cus a gal no gree gv am number na en b sey d guy stl dy new fr d game. Imaging if na a guy wey gt up to five bae number n d six one no gree gv number u go sey d guy go feel bad?

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