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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Lordkylie(f): 2:29am On Apr 06, 2017
[quote author=goingape1 post=55305085][/quote]lord have mercy!! This is all you got and you have the nerve to call another ugly and unintelligent?

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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by goingape1: 2:30am On Apr 06, 2017
Lordkylie:
lord have mercy!! This is all you got and you have the nerve to call another ugly and unintelligent?
thought I gave you one!

Anyway! Just take this!

Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Lordkylie(f): 2:36am On Apr 06, 2017
goingape1:
thought I gave you one!

Anyway! Just take this!
hun you're confused ,when you say "bye" to someone you don't look back. Let me show you how it's done---- get the fuc.k out of my mentions!

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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by goingape1: 2:37am On Apr 06, 2017
Lordkylie:
hun you're confused ,when you say "bye" to someone you don't look back. Let me show you how it's done---- get the fuc.k out of my mentions!

Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Nobody: 2:50am On Apr 06, 2017
obontami:


Aderola u can share post on NL for Africa. Hian! grin

Iyamm a cheerful sharer cheesy grin tongue

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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by ussy09(m): 3:02am On Apr 06, 2017
ToriBlue:
You tell them your phone is switched off.
wat if it ring n another person picked
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by bizzy500: 3:16am On Apr 06, 2017
see dere comments,chai guyz don suffer
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Nobody: 3:18am On Apr 06, 2017
If you give him what he wants immediately, you don't have to worry about giving him your number...problem solved, thank me later cool
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by AreaFada2: 3:23am On Apr 06, 2017
CreamyMoltenLar:
Meaning they shouldn't sound so arrogant about it. I know some guys can be annoying when they pester girls like 5 year olds, but that doesn't mean they should refer to us like we're dirt. Anyway we have our revenge when we marry them sha

Ol@ boy.

And when boys begin walking past them as if they do not exist, they'll say things like "I think guys are intimidated by my carriage & confidence they do not even try approach me".
Then you know its nearly time for Shiloh. grin cheesy

@ Ladies,
Lots of guys approaching girls do it for fun, some to try their new chat up lines, some looking for opportunistic f-buddy.

A very few mean business. But you can hardly tell which is which.

Whatever the situation, remain polite. Except the guy is rude. It cannot be too hard to say no to most. If you have a bf or married, why not just say so and move on?

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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Nobody: 3:39am On Apr 06, 2017
Brownbarbie97:
Most of we ladies get approached by different calibers of men asking for our contacts ranging from the good, bad and ugly.

We definitely can't give out our digits to every tom, dick and harry that asks for it so my question is what is the best way of saying NO to some of these men that request for ur digits without being Rude, insulting or destroying their Ego?

Just say no. What's with the drama?
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by kaffy4tope(m): 3:47am On Apr 06, 2017
Bumbae1:

Wahlahi guys just fear me i don tire grin




shocked shocked

Perhaps you have been meeting kids. Real men don't fear Jack!
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by samhay: 4:06am On Apr 06, 2017
vicfuntop:
Brownbarbie, tell him you are flattered that he is interested but you are not looking for a relationship or friendship at the moment, hence you are not able to share your number.

NB. Don't feel bad. I mean don't apologize. It's means that you feel sorry for him.

Love dis

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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by RaeMystix: 4:14am On Apr 06, 2017
arleck:

gud gal... i was shopping @ shoprite and i just run in2 you, and i was like, hello "lady am bobby can i have ur num? what wud ur response be?
Hummmm. Sure!. I'll give you either my home number or Dad's. My home phone is synced into my cell phone, and I can pick up calls for my home phone on my cell.
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by jclassiq(m): 4:20am On Apr 06, 2017
vicfuntop:






No offence, but you sound like a teenager. I mean does this make any sense

does it really matter
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by sisisioge: 4:25am On Apr 06, 2017
I say..sorry, I do not want to do that. Finish.

If he insist and I see he's not bad, I give him. If he turns out to be a jerk, I block him. If he insist and I don't like him one bit, I look at him squarely and say again 'No'. Most people don't argue when I bring on the headmistress attitude. Life is really too short to be spent dragging unnecessary things.

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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by summerflame(m): 4:39am On Apr 06, 2017
3 FEELINGS
what is the diference b/w stress,tension & panic?
Stress is when wife is pregnant,
tension is when girlfriend is pregnant &
panic is when both r pregnant
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by LOVEGINO(m): 4:52am On Apr 06, 2017
For this recession, who dey collect number again?
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by SNOWCREAM(m): 4:53am On Apr 06, 2017
vicfuntop:



And you had to call me Ode for me to get the message, cool. Use part of ur mb to check how and when to use sound. I believe when we read people's comment, they are automatically talking to us.
like how God is talking to you when you read the Bible or Quran huh? So tell me, what does God sound like? undecided
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by ennytemple: 5:02am On Apr 06, 2017
its as simple as YES, I CAN or NO, I CANT politely..then excuse yourself...care not about his reaction even if he decides to insult u
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by kosisokosi48(m): 5:03am On Apr 06, 2017
TrapQueen717:
grin


So far i never had an encounter with such rude boiz asking my number.. cheesy grin

But i chatted with few men who are so rude in the middle of the conversations...i juz hit the block botton without saying anything..stuppid ppol dont need further explanations wink grin gerrout what are you forming ...Olosho sad
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Bigsteveg(m): 5:06am On Apr 06, 2017
lastclaire4:

If u don't want to give ur digits for any reason it is very simple. U don't have to lie just say this "sorry I don't give my number out but if u don't mind I can give u my mail address.

Not all guys can understand this. Some guys are extremely rude and callous. I have seen some ladies decline respectfully while the guy will start embarrassing them.
And I think they have the right to chose whoever they wanna give their number to, girls in relationship can't start giving out their number to all. If she does this. Y'all will start calling her prostitute again.


It's their choice.

With the way u sound in your earlier post, u seem pained. Seems u have had your share from girls. Don't worry, yours will come.

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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by timmykaydude: 5:11am On Apr 06, 2017
Bumbae1:
Nobody ask for mine Soo grin
lemme woo you,bae since I have set my eyes on you,you are doing me strong thing,and I want you to be my africa queen,you see the love I get for you naa jangilova and I just want you to be there..give me your number since no1 is asking for it.
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Bigsteveg(m): 5:14am On Apr 06, 2017
rimijoshua:
If I were you...i will remain humble..i feel this way for two main reason...firstofall...a time will come wen ur beauty will fade and u will drop ur numba on 95.5fm.........
Moreover..u shd be greatful to God because those in d lagoon which they cld Av dat opportunity....beautyfades...

Go through the initial post again to understand the question. I want to believe you are offering English language presently. Don't go and write Waec like this.

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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Bigsteveg(m): 5:17am On Apr 06, 2017
ennytemple:
its as simple as YES, I CAN or NO, I CANT politely..then excuse yourself...care not about his reaction even if he decides to insult u

Care not about the reaction!!!! It's okay for the guy to insult the girl, but it's not okay for the girl to talk back at the guy.

Oya.....clap for your self

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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Bigsteveg(m): 5:20am On Apr 06, 2017
arleck:

Stranger?? i dont know what u gurlz problem really is... what if you met him @ shoprite and he was like hi lady can i have your num? what wud be ur response oya tell me.. b4 i go disgrace u

Do u know her 'AjiChris' before? Seems there's something going on between you two.
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by annyberry: 5:22am On Apr 06, 2017
I just answer NO, if am bin ask my reasons I also reply back NO reason.

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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by ennytemple: 5:22am On Apr 06, 2017
Bigsteveg:


Care not about the reaction!!!! It's okay for the guy to insult the girl, but it's not okay for the girl to talk back at the guy.

Oya.....clap for your self

what r u saying?....some guys r c*nt when it comes to d issue of phone number.when d lady refuses dey get angered nd start calling d gal names...best thing 4 a matured lady to do is quietly walk out
.

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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Bigsteveg(m): 5:24am On Apr 06, 2017
And what were your actions afterwards? I still wonder why some men get married when they still wanna be sleeping around

DonaTee:


sadly d first 2 works better dan "im married" these days.
even with a ring on ur finger, a man will b pursuing you.
I flashed one of dem my ring. He also flashed me his. Says it doesn't matter. I jus weak lipsrsealed
At dat point being rude paid off n I don't care
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Nobody: 5:25am On Apr 06, 2017
piperson:



that's my sis friend u used as ur dp
Like seriously undecided
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Bigsteveg(m): 5:27am On Apr 06, 2017
ennytemple:


what r u saying?....some guys r c*nt when it comes to d issue of phone number.when d lady refuses dey get angered nd start calling d gal names...best thing 4 a matured lady to do is quietly walk out
.

Now I understand what you mean.

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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Bigsteveg(m): 5:29am On Apr 06, 2017
Brownbarbie97:
Most of we ladies get approached by different calibers of men asking for our contacts ranging from the good, bad and ugly.

We definitely can't give out our digits to every tom, dick and harry that asks for it so my question is what is the best way of saying NO to some of these men that request for ur digits without being Rude, insulting or destroying their Ego?

Let your NO be NO and your YES be YES. Be firm. Immediately a guy sense a weakness in your tone, he uses that against you and pester you more.

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