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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by fergie001: 11:41pm On Apr 05, 2017
Divay22:
If you can't give, you nicely turn them down....But i have seen some very rude guys,some can even take it by force.......

This is what i do...

If i nicely refuse and you are so adamant about getting the number. I'll give it to you But it's when you call I'll tell you my phone is mine and i decide who and who not to talk to.....
I just ignore the calls and if you won't stop calling grin grin grin Oya o na to give the nearest boy let him pretend to be my boyfriend...
U are very wicked.
U no get conscience?
Oya sorry kiss kiss kiss kiss

Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by RaeMystix: 11:46pm On Apr 05, 2017
Give him my father's number

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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by SPOILT9JAOLOSHO(m): 11:47pm On Apr 05, 2017
ipodstinks:
and to think of it. you will think she's that beautiful.

Abi oh!, I tire for the matter.
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by SPOILT9JAOLOSHO(m): 11:48pm On Apr 05, 2017
RaeMystix:
Give him my father's number

U are not serious, why not give him your late great grandfather'z number. Funny you

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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by arleck(m): 11:49pm On Apr 05, 2017
RaeMystix:
Give him my father's number
SMH angry
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Divay22(f): 11:49pm On Apr 05, 2017
fergie001:

U are very wicked.
U no get conscience?
Oya sorry kiss kiss kiss kiss
lol...
Some guys are too rude when you refuse some will even abuse you....

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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by piperson(m): 11:49pm On Apr 05, 2017
Brownbarbie97:
Most of we ladies get approached by different calibers of men asking for our contacts ranging from the good, bad and ugly.

We definitely can't give out our digits to every tom, dick and harry that asks for it so my question is what is the best way of saying NO to some of these men that request for ur digits without being Rude, insulting or destroying their Ego?


that's my sis friend u used as ur dp
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by tosyne2much(m): 11:49pm On Apr 05, 2017
Waiting for a counter thread.. cool

Guys, How Do You Decline Giving Ladies Your Contact?

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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Nobody: 11:50pm On Apr 05, 2017
CreamyMoltenLar:
Until y'all clock 35 then you start creating threads on "how to tell my gateman man na man" or "ladies can you marry a blind cripple with cute dimples?" Pls continue forming superstars. I don't blame you, I blame the inventors of makeup, weaveon and other fake accessories that boosts your egos. I would love to see you do shakara with your real ugly faces and iya eko hair grin
Na so my cousin dey snap pics anyhow now dey upload for Facebook. She dey form Jenifer Lopez before but e don dey clear her eye now.

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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by tosyne2much(m): 11:50pm On Apr 05, 2017
piperson:



that's my sis friend u used as ur dp
So you mean the OP stole someone else's picture? shocked
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by fergie001: 11:51pm On Apr 05, 2017
Divay22:
lol...
Some guys are too rude when you refuse some will even abuse you....
Oya sorry,am.not rude nah



Can I......(coughs)
(Coughs again)
Look at d anger in her face

Then smiles ,summons enough calm and ask
Can I ask u sth grin grin grin grin
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by arleck(m): 11:52pm On Apr 05, 2017
tosyne2much:
Waiting for a counter thread.. cool
Guys, How Do You Decline Giving Ladies Your Contact?
confam grin dont reali knw wah dz mofo's ar feelin like
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by teevodaprinz(m): 11:52pm On Apr 05, 2017
"Backing down the first time? ", I think you're wrong here, (pls no offence) sometimes as a guy, you don't expect a lady to just give out the number just at the slap of the fingers as if she's expecting him to ask. You know how you ladies behave sometimes... "shakara, even when u really wannit give him" u go won form small make we nor dey feel say una cheap. But not withstanding, too much persistence is bad.

Thank you



Brownbarbie97:
some guys can be very annoying when it comes to this,demanding for the number like it's their birthright.Any man that knows his worth will back down the first instance the lady declines .

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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by SPOILT9JAOLOSHO(m): 11:53pm On Apr 05, 2017
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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by chukagates(m): 11:54pm On Apr 05, 2017
chronique:
Lol. As a guy, I rarely ask ladies for their numbers cos I don't dig that system of just walking up to a total stranger to start asking her out. For us to exchange numbers, we must have been discussing something meaningful and luckily for me, they usually request my number first. The periods I have asked for digits, I can't remember being denied. If I ask you for your number and you turn me down, I won't ask a second time and the next time I see you, I'd just mind my business like I ain't seeing you. Your declining my request sends a strong message and I wouldn't want to ridicule myself before anyone.
you na sure boy in all my life i have never done that shit ..i must have met you conversed with you several times see you steady before getting your digits

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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by tosyne2much(m): 11:55pm On Apr 05, 2017
arleck:

confam grin dont reali knw wah dz mofo's ar feelin like
Be like say na you go create the thread baba cheesy
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by teevodaprinz(m): 11:56pm On Apr 05, 2017
"Backing down the first time? ", I think you're wrong here, (pls no offence) sometimes as a guy, you don't expect a lady to just give out the number just at the slap of the fingers as if she's expecting him to ask. You know how you ladies behave sometimes... "shakara, even when u really wannit give him" u go won form small make we nor dey feel say una cheap. But not withstanding, too much persistence is bad.

Thank you

Brownbarbie97:
some guys can be very annoying when it comes to this,demanding for the number like it's their birthright.Any man that knows his worth will back down the first instance the lady declines .
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by tosyne2much(m): 11:58pm On Apr 05, 2017
bjhaid:
like they all belong to ugly ladies association, cos almost all are damn ugly including the op.
Baba take am easy nah cheesy cheesy
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by arleck(m): 12:00am On Apr 06, 2017
tosyne2much:
Be like say na you go create the thread baba cheesy
I go reason am,,
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Ade3000yrs(m): 12:02am On Apr 06, 2017
hmmm
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by obontami: 12:02am On Apr 06, 2017
Aderola15:


Ehnehn, o gbe gidigan nii angry tongue

Bring ya head home angry

Aderola u can share post on NL for Africa. Hian! grin
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Igbouwanile(m): 12:04am On Apr 06, 2017
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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by goingape1: 12:04am On Apr 06, 2017
biuti:

Are you a Lady? The topic clearly says "ladies".

Are you in Nigeria? If you are then you'll know a lady can meet a guy anywhere e.g Park, market, street, place of worship etc.

You don't ask for advice? I didn't know anyone that asked for advice now has blocked brain. So trying to be nice to every guy that walk up to us now has turned us to block heads? And it's your type that'll still shout "Olosho" if a lady attends to every guy the way they want.

IMO, I think you need urgent medical attention if you really meant that nonsense you typed up there.

Why is almost every guy here shouting "forming"? So if you have a girlfriend, you won't mind her giving her number to anyone that asked?

Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by goingape1: 12:06am On Apr 06, 2017
bjhaid:
like they all belong to ugly ladies association, cos almost all are damn ugly including the op.
ugly is an understatement!

gorilla are beautiful than them (including the op)

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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by biuti(f): 12:11am On Apr 06, 2017
goingape1:
Very unintelligent reply.

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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by ahahnow: 12:11am On Apr 06, 2017
The simplest thing for me to do is to give them my number then block them with trucaller and block them on whatsapp

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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by goingape1: 12:15am On Apr 06, 2017
biuti:
Very unintelligent reply.

Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by jaxxy(m): 12:16am On Apr 06, 2017
Brownbarbie97:
some men are very persistent,they will demand for the phone number only even to the extent that they will follow you to your destination if possible,it's very embarrassing and I try so much to avoid being rude or insultive

Ure right! If u really don't want to give ur num then don't. Or give any of ur social media handles. If e insist on ur num. tell him bluntly u don't do such. Now if u guys make conversation on social media and and its fine u can now drop ur num. if ure not on social media 2bad. Give him ur brodas num or smtn.

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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by okanlawon94(m): 12:19am On Apr 06, 2017
CreamyMoltenLar:
Meaning they shouldn't sound so arrogant about it. I know some guys can be annoying when they pester girls like 5 year olds, but that doesn't mean they should refer to us like we're dirt. Anyway we have our revenge when we marry them sha

Choi...your wickedness qo qet qrade o
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by peekeeks(m): 12:19am On Apr 06, 2017
slimthugchimee2:
i give them my number, allov of them undecided
unlike most
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Amenphx: 12:23am On Apr 06, 2017
Some guys can be stupid especially the "good for nothing ones" I don't collect number from girls; I give them my complementary card.
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Nobody: 12:23am On Apr 06, 2017
Afam4eva:

Then you have to be someone will a strong character because conversing with someone you don't intend to acquiesce to their request can make you develop a soft spot for them.
I am a strong willed person. Mostly when I don't want something. Btw, our conversation ends where we met, if I don't give my number we'll definitely not talk for too long.

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