Naija dudes make me laff.
How are words like "multinational company", "new generation bank", "duplex" relevant to the discussion about some bloody Corper knacking your woman?

Hahahaha oo n pe!! Mr Poster of topic you neva hear of Snoop Dogg's 'Drop it like its hot'. Please drop this broad like a hot potato! WTF is she Bella Adenuga or na Dangote or Abacha pikin? Dem no dey take light for her papa house?? I had a female friend whose apartment caught fire as in burnt to the ground and she had no immediate family around but still she refused my offer and any other guy for that matter to sleepover and ended up temporarily squatting with a classmate in a female hostel so how can you buy a flimsy reason like PHCN failure to sleep over at a corper's place (A Corper!!) this girl clearly doesn't respect you and na bone wey go hook you for throat in the future. What would be her next excuse her bed is too small?

why u no tell her to enjoy herself.

thats what she went out for. next time she gives you that story tell her "ENJOY".

so what was the update?

mama-gee:
Poster. . .
It's downright proper, it's even proper for the both of them to sleep on the same bed.

firewood is talking. See her mouth.

It is sooooooooo just not proper. If not for any reason at all, see the kind of confusion this guy has been thrown into, recieving contributions n counter-contributions frm different angles. Whatever he decides to do now, he won't be on the loosing side. Wether Bleep or no Bleep, na who we go ask? Today in our society, trust no longer comes on a platter so we shld be careful of the moves we make. The bible deeply meant something when it said "flee frm any APPEARANCE of sin". My girl once did this, n our relationship cld only continue after I had in turn invited n banged another girl in my house. Kc, pls keep ur head up. She might be wife worthy but no girl is worthy enof to put u in this kind of emotional mess. If u like, break-lose, break-even or let the whole thing go with the wind n still stay with her. Ur the man. The choice is urs. Thumbs up bro.

freeman191: Forget it, i dont care even she's an angle, the fact that she has the courage to go and sleep in another man's room gives room for anything to happen, even if she doesn't have intention, the guy in question may have intention, and since it has happened once, it would happen frequently maybe for the whole service year, no lady will tell u the truth, they are double daters. A proper girl would not sleep in another man's room for such a flimpsy escuse.

Haba i justed finished service from ebonyi, i stayd where there was no light throughout my service year, and i had ladies as neighbours, they managed, and i know of ladies who are about to marry who fall into this same situation u talked about, and trust corpers, sharp young men, who no dey mugu nor maga, she should avoid it immediately

freeman191: Forget it, i dont care even she's an angle, the fact that she has the courage to go and sleep in another man's room gives room for anything to happen, even if she doesn't have intention, the guy in question may have intention, and since it has happened once, it would happen frequently maybe for the whole service year, no lady will tell u the truth, they are double daters. A proper girl would not sleep in another man's room for such a flimpsy escuse.

Haba i justed finished service from ebonyi, i stayd where there was no light throughout my service year, and i had ladies as neighbours, they managed, and i know of ladies who are about to marry who fall into this same situation u talked about, and trust corpers, sharp young men, who no dey mugu nor maga, she should avoid it immediately

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I served in ebonyi in 06 too,and bleepin was wat kept us company,@ poster dump d bitch he is bleepin her we sef do NYSC.

sir t: Wonder they say, shall not end. See ladies talking as if they can take such rubbish from their b/f. Even, if theirs
(Ladies )are understandable, what about guys that should know better. U all disappointed me.

I recall my experience during my service year. The first lady I dated was an Ibo girl and she was telling me she had no relationship at that time. I remember the day I talked to her after a CDS, she was crying that her b/f cheated on her while she was still an undergraduate and she doesn't want to enter into another relationship cos of past experience. After little pressure she agreed and the relationship started. Could u believe that this lady had serious relationship in Lagos and had even sent one of the female corpers to the guy in Lagos may be to collect something for her or something like that. Though, all this happened b4 I got to the place ( She was a batch B, while I was a batch A )

When I got the gist, I called her and she denied and was telling me that they ( other female corpers ) were jealous of her ( cos we were talk of the town then )

When I got to know her true picture, trust Male Corpers, I f**k hell outa her life.

When Batch B left, new batch B were posted and I also found my way to get another pretty chick ( trust me now, Lagos Boy ) This lady was caring and will do anything for me. But do u know what, she was not to be trusted based on some certain issues. One day, I was with her on bed, after some rounds, and my g/f called from Lagos. After the conversation, she said " LOVE U" and I replied. My corper g/f was not comfortable with that and she asked who she was. What do u expect from me, I quickly lied that she was my Twin sister from America and that we always end our conversation like that. Do u know it culd be the other way round?

What am i driving at, corpers are not to be trusted. Both female and male. They are all and the same. I was not the only person that experienced what I told u. Can I say, the behaviour was peculiar to Igbo ladies ( all my g/f during service year were from the east ), HELL NO. Even the yorubas are not spared. Enough experience. Service year na Bleep year.

@ Poster

Based on the scenario above, pick one or two things together and draw ur conclusion.

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LWKMD me guy oh BADT gan!!!omo eko, @ poster go watch UNFAITHFUL by RIchard Gere

Is it proper that a 30 year old Naija dude will ask such questiob. Bro u grow up for Cameroun? Until the cut with light in his room starts shining his light into your girls innermost parts then you'll know its not right. God forbid though. Sit your gal down and let her know what is not to be expected of her.

Is it proper that a 30 year old Naija dude will ask such question. Bro u grow up for Cameroun? Until the cut with light in his room starts shining his light into your girls innermost parts then you'll know its not right. God forbid though. Sit your gal down and let her know what is not to be expected of her.

Muhehehe corpers strike again.
Mehn, if i were in naija sha and single and was already working, I would look for babe that is done with the nysc thing.
Toooooo much goes on there..,.

K_c: I will be 30 years of age by November of this year. I have a good job with a multinational company and planing on settling down soon to my girlfriend of two and a half years who is currently serving with a New Generation Bank @ Ibadan. I called her as usual last night and asked if she was in bed already and was shocked by her response. That she was passing the night in another guys house who is also a corp member. Her reason was that there was no light at her place. Please, NL, I need your advise on this one before I go crazy as I intend walking down the aisle with this girl on completion of my Duplex which is 99% complete.

the other guy was busy pounding her yam
na wa for u sha.girl wey u wan marry na youth corpers jus dey busy dey pound her yam

K_c: I will be 30 years of age by November of this year. I have a good job with a multinational company and planing on settling down soon to my girlfriend of two and a half years who is currently serving with a New Generation Bank @ Ibadan. I called her as usual last night and asked if she was in bed already and was shocked by her response. That she was passing the night in another guys house who is also a corp member. Her reason was that there was no light at her place. Please, NL, I need your advise on this one before I go crazy as I intend walking down the aisle with this girl on completion of my Duplex which is 99% complete.

Find girl go sleep for her room! She might not really have anything to do with the young man, she's with but..... Dude, don't do that, don't stress ur brain thinking of what might have been! You will die, when ur ready and u know she's ur all in all, take d bold step and take her in, make babies as u want and live ur life.

Women can either make u or break you, but one thing I'm sure of is " if we let them" .

I dnt she is saying d fact, as she jst wants to knw ur reaction over her statement though d kind of joke is very expensive as may cause a break-up in any nascent courtship.

@poster: so ur gf does not have girlfriends she could go to huh? Omo u r really sleeping on top bicycle ! HER ACTIONS WERE SO WRONG WHETHER THEY DID ANYTHING OR NOT.. Tell her not to try it again... Bye #

K_c: I will be 30 years of age by November of this year. I have a good job with a multinational company and planing on settling down soon to my girlfriend of two and a half years who is currently serving with a New Generation Bank @ Ibadan. I called her as usual last night and asked if she was in bed already and was shocked by her response. That she was passing the night in another guys house who is also a corp member. Her reason was that there was no light at her place. Please, NL, I need your advise on this one before I go crazy as I intend walking down the aisle with this girl on completion of my Duplex which is 99% complete.

wow! I would v said mayb she couldn't make it to her house or sth,bt believe she shld v other female frds.anyway,I dnt knw her,poster,u shld knw d gal u r dating,whether she cn do an undo.bt to ans u,is completely wrong.

Poster, it depends on mutual understanding.
It is common practice these days for girlfriends to sleep over, especially for weekends.
Some even move to become live in lover.
If you love her, don't go over the hill, because she spent the night in another guy's house.
A female friend passed the night in my place and nothing happened.

If my gf tells me this, she knows the relationship is automatically over. If ur girl were mine, she wouldn't tell me unless she's tired of the relationship. Be that as it may, it's very possible nothing happened. Tell u what, it has actually happened to me b4. Not once. Way back,when I was somewhat a badt guy, I had a principle: any girl in a serious relationship was off limits to me no matter what. Karma tinz. There were two or three of my female friends who slept in my house without me making any romantic move. I had this particular female friend I really clicked with who used to stay late and crash at my place. Her fiance would sometimes call and she'd claim to be in her hostel.Make no mistake, d girl is attractive and heavily endowed. But d girl was lucky cos I was a principled and disciplined guy.Still is. Unfortunately, there r some guys who have wild libidos and can't let this kinda opportunity pass them by and even grab it by force- rape. Ur babe did a wrong thing to call a spade a spade.

cold: Plzz u peeps shld stop poisonin the guy's mind.Nothin is happenin,she is as honest as they come.what if she had told u she was in her house what wld u hav thought otherwise?

Exactly. Guys are so suspicious these days ...what happen to trust

OgidiBoy:


Just because she slept in the bobo's house don't mean her and the bobo had sex.

Oga, ur right oh! But since u don't eat fish, what are you doin with a fishing hook?

But, OP. What if she did not tell you where she was?

body no be firewood, i know wat some corpers can do.even if she did not have the intension to do rubbish. a whole nite nothing happen, guy wakeup. imaging going to a pastor's house without been prayed for?hummmmmmmmmmmmm

michelin89: @ poster

If she had anything to hide, she wouldn't have told you she was there in the first place. Unless she is smart type "honest deceiver", I don't think there is much to worry about.

The truth remains dt being honest is nt enough. It's sheer disrespect for her relationship & d guy in question. I would have preferred her asking her guy for permission 1st b4 taking such decision herself. If the guy is ok wt it, no probs. That's plain honesty.