Sam Milla:

@H202

This is not a topic to argue with girls. They will never subscribe to our Views on mattes like this.
I have given my advice to the guy who asked for advice,
Trying to argue with GL here is useless, trust me.
Change the above question to

"MY BOYFRIEND SLEEPS IN A GIRLS HOUSE"

The same GL will come crying foul here. How the boy is a cheat. how he is silly and all that.

i might react that way if the OP's girlfriend was spending nights in the guy's house. but the issue here is she spent just one night and i don't think that's enough reason to end a relationship. even if she spent more than one night, it's better to talk about it rather than just break up.

Sam Milla:


I try to make jokes out of such things because if i am the guy,
I will call the girl and tell her to put a stop to that ASAP.
If it happens again, i will put my coat on my shoulder and slowly walk away.

that's the idea, talk to her about it and let it go. then if she does it again you can walk out on the relationship.

I am angry because it was when the boy called that the girl told him about it.
She should have called and say that. The boy would have felt so much better.

Plus  there is always a part that is left out. That part that we personally hate to believe happened.

WAAT!! and U did not ask to speak with the boy so u can atleast hear the reaction?
If you confront her with this issue, she will lie to you henceforth,
NEPA taking the light is never an excuse
So what you should do now is, in yor mind

hahaha. it is normal for him to Bleep another man

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Hey guy,wake up nd stop being childish.u need not 2 be told by a pastor or prophet dat u babe is messing around.she only wish 2 tell u dat one,what of the other attrocities she has being keeping from u,pls be wise n dont be foolishly blind folded by luv.

Sam Milla:

I am angry because it was when the boy called that the girl told him about it.
She should have called and say that. The boy would have felt so much better.

Plus there is always a part that is left out. That part that we personally hate to believe happened.

Lol help me ask the girl o. What the heck is she talking about.

There is no big deal

Sarah a:

There is no big deal

if it were to be the Guy no body we hear of it.but one thing am sure of, is that, this lady mean no harm

Sarah a:

if it were to be the Guy no body we hear of it.but one thing am sure of, is that, this lady mean no harm

What nonsense. How are you so sure? Are you the girl in question or were you there with her?

Birds of the same feather.

igrod:
DONT U EVER TRUTH A B**TCH.IF THE FELLOW CORP MEMBER IS SOMEONE LIKE ME,THEN your GIRL HAS BEEN F***KD.GUYS LIKE U DEY FALL MY HAND.SEE QUESTION WEY U DEY ASK AND SOME GIRLS HERE WANT TO DECEIVE U.WAKE UP MAN

U too much, true that

This doesnt sound convincing to me dt cos dr was no lite,she spent the nite wt sum guy.but for her to ve told u it mite realy be nothin unless u caught her redhanded ot forced it outa her mouth.cos if she actually had sometin 2 hide,she wdnt tel u in the first place


Advice.wen next she is feeling so hot she shd go to any female corpers room or better still sleep in her own room naked but lock the door.thank God say harmattan don come sef,no excuses again.

I don't think it's proper in this specific situation (unless there were a group of corpers who went to the guy's house to spend the night). However, I doubt she would have told you if anything suspect was happening there unless of course as someone has already said, she's a smart liar.

Sam Milla:

I am angry because it was when the boy called that the girl told him about it.
She should have called and say that. The boy would have felt so much better.

Plus  there is always a part that is left out. That part that we personally hate to believe happened.

true dat

sucker!

no game!!

You still need to come ask us for advise, ?

Do your mind and get it done boy!

I have two questions for you:

(1) Did you ever do youth service?

(2) Did you ever pass a night with a girl during that time?

If both answers are yes, then you know that your girl was certainly porked that night, unless the guy is impotent.

I have never seen guys more desperate for pork than youth corper guys.

I believe you know the answer already. I suspect you just need "muscle" to let her go.

galatico:

It is biblically and morally wrong .

where this one come from?

where in the bible is it wrong. where does it say 'thou shalt not sleep in another corper's house?'

abeg come off the herb you are smoking sir!

@ Tatase, God bless U!
@ poster, 1st off, U dserve a slap 4 asking such foolish question. Nw ask urself dis- is NEPA enough reason 4 her 2 leave her house n pass d 9te @ a guy's crib? 2ndly, y didnt she alert U of D move until u called her? Anyways its ur girl n D bal is in ur court, Bt if luv is blind, i suggest U use BINOCULARS!!!

I used to call the Nysc year as a year of sin,
U massacre wat size and colour of girls that comes ur way becos u know its just for 11 mths.
Probably ur girl could go there without any intentions but i bet u 99 percent that even if that male corper finished
from the seminary school of Rev. fathers, he will definately have his way . If not that day, then another day,
Dont forget they will be there for 11mths.
Its just a year of SIN ,

@Poster,
I tire for men who cant handle their biz without coming to NL. Why didnt you challenge her immediately? Why didnt you ask her where in the house she was gonna sleep? why didnt you tell her you were not comfortable? Why didnt you tell her to leave the place ASAP? Now you are thinking. Maybe cos you know her too well. I served in North and it was way hotter than Ibadan. If there is no electricity, I sleep in my room like that or outside with other girls. Anything can happen. Moreseo when you know you are in a steady relationship. It is not proper. She did a wrong thing. Maybe without thinking. But you had a choice to handle the situation when you found out (that same day for that matter) but you didnt. Both of you didnt act well.

@ Poster, relax, dont just just jump into conclusion, communication is very important in a lasting relationship. Since u were not comfortable with it, u should hv ask her to go back to her place, but u didnt, u need to lay down ur rules and be the man. Back to ur question, talk to her, but remember, if she didnt tell u where she was, u cant know, so, she told u the truth. If u decided to walk away from this relationship, oa r u so sure, d next woman wont be worse dan her?

buy her generator mumu!!!!!!!

@silent
u made a very nice and crucial points, in a relationship trust shdnt be defile cos it a main factor.
@poster
i must be frank wik u ur girl has been receiving d fu*k of her life in her fellow corps room, she might pass d nite in d guy's house out of free wills but am very such d has sometin else in mind and dats is d opportunity wich he wil av utilise it very wel to brush hell vaginal walls wit his black dick. For ur girl i tink she's useles fellow i av ever know cos while wil a grown up lady sleeps in a male friend house jus becos ders no light in her place, is dis d first she wil xperience darknes in Nigeria she jus want 2 Bleep d guy but d mistake she did is dat she shdn't av xpose such informatn 2 u or may she's tryin 2 say goodbye becos dat guy has had his way 2 her hrt and her bloosom fuckin pussy.

I have seen people break up over issues dat are more trivial dan this, and also I have seen people who actually confirmed that something did happen, forgiving d erring party and making up. Its not an easy decision to make, but as many people have said it all depends on the relationship you guys have. The trust, the love, and understanding.
In my own case, she can't even try it cause, it will be d end of it.

Dude there's always two sides to a coin. She might be honest, she might not be. But clearly ur uncomfortable wit the idea, so let her know. Truth is, everything that happens dat night depends on dat guy. If he's good, dude she'd get f, ckd, think of 8 hrs wit a girl, alone in d dark, weather's cool. She'd propably be wearing a nighty or something dat reveals her assets. There'd b touchings, then f, ckings. A playa wont let dat cup pass away. Sleep no go even cross d guy eye sef. And if he nailed her dat night, then a series of nailings follows. But dats the worst case scenario, there's a chance dat nothing happened. Girl comes in, says i go crash here 2nit. Guy says no probs, bed or floor. And so they sleep till morning, possible but whatever happened dat nit, u'd never know. Only thing u got is ur girls assurance and if u cant trust dat, how in the world will u marry her? Trust is what u need here, but ma man we all know what happens during Nysc. So

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i really dont, see anything wrong, i once served in a community that my female colleague normally comes to my house to stay even the bf then that works in lag was aware, if u are thinking there is sometin wrong just go over and see the sight of things, that what(colleague bf) the guy then did,he comes over occasionally and we go on a ride with him, that way if there was anytin wrong he wld have noticed it, so i cant really say everyone is like me, but to me it not a big deal

@amaka
u too can sleep in an opposite sex room cos der's no light in our house, if u av been do it i must tel u, it a very bad act and it doesnt speak good of u even if nothing is hapening between u and dat male friend. Guys 'r full of various thoughts wich u cant picture in ur mind and if he rape u, people wil ask what 'r u doin' in his house, dick is a respecter of no pussy xcept for d one mother/or blood sister even cousin's pussy is not save let alone of u ordinary friend.