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Re: My View: Nigerian vs Carribbean Women by nihun(m): 10:35pm On Feb 24, 2010
ifedy:


OK. u still dey, stay there dey yarn okpas.
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Re: My View: Nigerian vs Carribbean Women by latch(m): 10:55pm On Feb 24, 2010
@furacao , slight error there: 'it doesnt appear' , Jamaicans in the UK are VERY different from the ones in the US. The ones here in UK, 'gererally speaking' are a waste of space. Of course there will be exceptions.
Re: My View: Nigerian vs Carribbean Women by na2day2(m): 11:00pm On Feb 24, 2010
latch:

@furacao , slight error there: 'it doesnt appear' , Jamaicans in the UK are VERY different from the ones in the US. The ones here in UK, 'gererally speaking' are a waste of space. Of course there will be exceptions.

some in the usa are just the same, go to queens and u will see what i mean
Re: My View: Nigerian vs Carribbean Women by SwtzMinx(f): 11:06pm On Feb 24, 2010
.*yawn*.
Re: My View: Nigerian vs Carribbean Women by Keran: 11:26pm On Feb 24, 2010
Jamdowners,Yardies  and Jamos are all slang words. People should all be allowed to call themself what they wish.

This is a pointless issue who cares what you call yourself.

The slaves were taken from all over Africa, Nigeria included.

Mind you give the guy his papers fast fast.


I know that it is all about slang words. Jamos is the insulting word that Jews used towards Jamaicans. U are trying to be insulting but know that the slave for Jamaica was from Ghana. Go and know the history as for this guy he as to prove himself do you think am one of those silly girls who will jump on a plane because the man say he love. There is Godly love and there is in love. I have been inside this Nigerian community long enough to know that Nigerian men are smart and will say anything to get what they want. Their mouth is sweeter than the sugar from the cane. Takia
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Re: My View: Nigerian vs Carribbean Women by nihun(m): 11:32pm On Feb 24, 2010
Keran:

Jamdowners,Yardies  and Jamos are all slang words. People should all be allowed to call themself what they wish.

This is a pointless issue who cares what you call yourself.

The slaves were taken from all over Africa, Nigeria included.

Mind you give the guy his papers fast fast.


I know that it is all about slang words. Jamos is the insulting word that Jews used towards Jamaicans. U are trying to be insulting but know that the slave for Jamaica was from Ghana. Go and know the history as for this guy he as to prove himself do you think am one of those silly girls who will jump on a plane because the man say he love. There is Godly love and there is in love. I have been inside this Nigerian community long enough to know that Nigerian men are smart and will say anything to get what they want. Their mouth is sweeter than the sugar from the cane. Takia



What are you talking about do you know that slaves came from all over Africa.

Better  free the guy, give him   his papers fast  fast. Godly love my black backside, it's papers, wait and see.
Re: My View: Nigerian vs Carribbean Women by Leilah(f): 11:40pm On Feb 24, 2010
Its all down to the cultural differences. Nigeiran men have to be treated like kings, wife does everything domestically and work F/T, doesnt drink, dosnt smoke any type of smoking. Drives him everywhere. Has millions of children and tells the welfare my husband is now 'In Nigeria' then they go rent out the social house and buy a house somewhere else.

If there is anyone in particular defrauding the system where I am you should come to Blanchardstown and see everysingle Naija woman well a large number of them claiming 'divorced ' or seperated (no such thing) they are costing the taxpayer billions! free four bedroomed houses is what they are getting plus 300 a week for OPFP, and are allowed retain income from PT work. They are f'in cleaning up man. Hard workers?

I work in the place and I'm very accurate on this matter.

MY F'ING ARSEEEEEE, then they always have to park up onto of the glass at the school and push me out of the way! always parking in the Disabillity Parking spaces too!

Are Jamo's like this.

This Govt is walkover. These people and any people for that matter, should be reported.
Re: My View: Nigerian vs Carribbean Women by agabaI23(m): 11:53pm On Feb 24, 2010
latch:

@furacao ,  slight error there: 'it doesnt appear' ,  Jamaicans in the UK are VERY different from the ones in the US. The ones here in UK, 'gererally speaking' are a waste of space. Of course there will be exceptions.

I am sure you will feel happy when you cannot get your item sent directly to a Nigerian address.

I am also sure you will be happy when an oyibo generalises about Nigerians and then come to the end his sentence to say with exceptions just to make you happy.

We feel bad that people stereotype us and yet we are here pushing the same pill down another's throat.

It tastes bitter in every mouth not just only in your own mouth.

You will come to tell me it is the fact as if to say those who accuse you do not have facts also.
No nation is perfect. Stop all these mudslinging.

@Keran
I know you don't want to be associated with Nigeria probably because of bad media image but there is nothing you can do about it.
Many Jamaicans are descendants of Igbos and Yorubas. I do not doubt that some may come from Ghana. However trying to dissociate your history from Nigeria while patronising Ghana in the same way most AA prefer to do business with Ghana will not change your history.

The so-called Ghanaian Ancestors (the GAs) of Jamaicans were originally Nigerians Igbos so you cannot run away from Nigerian association. grin grin
Re: My View: Nigerian vs Carribbean Women by na2day2(m): 12:36am On Feb 25, 2010
Leilah:

Its all down to the cultural differences. Nigeiran men have to be treated like kings, wife does everything domestically and work F/T, doesnt drink, dosnt smoke any type of smoking. Drives him everywhere. Has millions of children and tells the welfare my husband is now 'In Nigeria' then they go rent out the social house and buy a house somewhere else.

If there is anyone in particular defrauding the system where I am you should come to Blanchardstown and see everysingle Naija woman well a large number of them claiming 'divorced ' or seperated (no such thing) they are costing the taxpayer billions! free four bedroomed houses is what they are getting plus 300 a week for OPFP, and are allowed retain income from PT work. They are f'in cleaning up man. Hard workers?

I work in the place and I'm very accurate on this matter.

MY F'ING ARSEEEEEE, then they always have to park up onto of the glass at the school and push me out of the way! always parking in the Disabillity Parking spaces too!

Are Jamo's like this.

This Govt is walkover. These people and any people for that matter, should be reported.

ah! just knew i will find ur nigerian hateful self here. longest time leilah
Re: My View: Nigerian vs Carribbean Women by Keran: 2:08am On Feb 25, 2010
@Keran
I know you don't want to be associated with Nigeria probably because of bad media image but there is nothing you can do about it.
Many Jamaicans are descendants of Igbos and Yorubas. I do not doubt that some may come from Ghana. However trying to dissociate your history from Nigeria while patronising Ghana in the same way most AA prefer to do business with Ghana will not change your history.

The so-called Ghanaian Ancestors (the GAs) of Jamaicans were originally Nigerians Igbos so you cannot run away from Nigerian association.



Answer: Until this can be proven then I will agree. Since my history told me that my African descendant is Ghana I will stick to what was taught to me. You know I am running away from any association with Nigerians. My dear your assumption is totally wrong. I spend my time in the Nigerian community and my prospective husband is Igbo so why should I be running away from something that I had prayed for. lmao

Better free the guy, give him his papers fast fast. Godly love my black backside, it's papers, wait and see.

My dear am not holding no papers for him. If he is desperate for papers then it would be wise for him to look inside the country he reside because the citizen there would be quicker to give it to him than me seeing that am not living in the country he reside in. My dear it is not everyone searching for citizenship some persons are genuinely looking for love and happiness. But let me inform you I do nothing without my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. takia
Re: My View: Nigerian vs Carribbean Women by agabaI23(m): 2:20am On Feb 25, 2010
Re: My View: Nigerian vs Carribbean Women by Keran: 2:29am On Feb 25, 2010
@agabaI23 (m)

A section of Belize City is known as Ebo Town. Most of the African captives arriving in Belize were imported from Jamaica and in turn it is acknowledged that[b] the African captives of Jamaica primarily came from Ghana.
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The Jamaican Festival Jonkonnu evolved out of the Ga Festival of Homowo and thus the African descended population of Jamaica can trace their Igbo origins through the Ga and the Ebo-Mina tribes as they became known

I hope that the bold allowed you to see that Jamaica African descendant are from Ghana. Thank you for confirming what I had been telling you guys.
Re: My View: Nigerian vs Carribbean Women by agabaI23(m): 2:35am On Feb 25, 2010
^ did you read my last post well esp the last sentence?
Re: My View: Nigerian vs Carribbean Women by Nobody: 4:49am On Feb 25, 2010
madlady:

Check out what you are talking about before you chat ,  do you Know Sean Paul, him na black, him is a Jew, you never know dat.
What's the JA motto you you have on your profile,well then.


grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin  DIS WELL  FUNNY . GAL YU NO EASY. GALANG

My girl a yu a chat pure fuckrey Sean Paul seh fi im muma black an chiney an him fada a portugese. my girl mi kno weh mi a chat seh a yu nuh kno weh yu mada come from nor fi ar ethnicitiy. Mis a smart ooman so mi kno seh Jew is an ethnicity NOT a race, yu seh yu muma a Jew an den yu seh she black mi seh it nuh matta if she 'jew', black, chiney mix up a Jamaican is a Jamaican an all a we kno wat Yardie mean. So low mi. Yu a pree mi from day one, yu a bantan Yardie.
Re: My View: Nigerian vs Carribbean Women by Nobody: 4:56am On Feb 25, 2010
hubgirl:

OH MY GOODNESS I AM SO ANGRY I DONT EVEN KNOW WHERE TO START!!!!!

@ poster (mzdarkskin) , THIS WHOLE POST WAS PURE *BULLSHiT*  angry  ;,   I know a number of jamaican women and they are WILD, CLASSLESS and CHEAP!!!! they do wear coloured weaves and all they do is have babies for several men, ninety percent of welfare in britain goes to carribean women with britain-born babies, its almost as if they hav children so as to get free acommodation & stipend frm d  british govt!,  there are statistics to prove this.  you shudnt evn compare carribean women to Nigerian ones, Nigerian women are sooo much better. & Point of correction.;,  Nigerian men rarely ever marry carribean women, they are only good for sexual affairs; PERIOD

Nigerian Men like marrying foreign women  for d hype!!! the hype of having a woman of anoda race, & half-cast children, or for VISA's / Citizenship,  or even because foreign women are more "trusting" than Nigerian ones especially since foreign women dont know d truth bout african culture. so dont think its cos carribean women are so special.    and i know  nigerian women are very tough and smart; we are motivated and driven and that may intimidate some nigerian men into going after foreign women. but let me assure u that the BEST of Nigerian Men ALWAYS date & marry Nigerian Women. carribean girls u can hav d rest!



You are a hater, you are ignorant and obviously biased and illiterate. I have nothing more to say to you, chat to mi back sketel.

MadLady yu read dis? Aoh. So you gwan. Yea defend dat bloodclat! Mi a try but mi soon get rahtid in ya! Yu see weh mi a talk bout? from day one mi a write dem ppl ya an a try wid dem but, my girl you can gwan a try fi build friendship while dem a slanda Jamaican ppl esp Jamaican ooman, yu claim seh yu a JA but yet still yu a pree mi an a let dem fuckry fool fool gyal chat suh. Bet yu a nanny dem wouldnt try dat poo deh inna mi face! Dem a pree we. Bloodclat bright! Girl I am trying! I am trying so hard to maintain but its like each time I try to be the better woman they try to drag me down I am proud to be a Jamaican woman, nobody on this planet can take away the prideI have in my country. God blessed me when he gave me to a Jamaican woman to raise me as my culture is among the RICHEST! I have my dignity and my pride. Men from all over see my potential and appreciate it and BOTTOM LINE all who dont like me because I am firm and a Jamaican bombshell can GO TO HELL. I said it. I came here with mad love and respect, added my two cents and I am being attacked ONLY because I am not Nigerian, atleast I have class.  To the idiot SKETEL who wrote the above, you are SAAAAAAAD!


ITS AMAZING how some of you read what you WANT to read. My message was NOT an attack! Anyone with COMMON SENSE and half a brain could see that. Ppl, BLACK PEOPLE want to be OUTRAGED just to be OUTRAGED, no wonder w are viewed as inferior. We cry and judge before we try to understand. You all see me and know I am Jamaican and because of that fact ALONE everything I say is critiqued and remixed to be offensive and foreign but let me tell ALL of you this, you all have left a bad taste in my mouth. I was sad at the division but now the reason as to why is EVER SO CLEAR to me! Grow up and understand yourselves. I'm Jamaican to the BONE and wont change no NO HUMAN BEING and its like this because you all came at me with disrespect I disregard all of your opinions, I do NOT care, I said what I said deal with it. Ive been shown more much acceptance, wanting of understanding and sincerity from WHITE people more than I have since I've been here and that is SAD!
Re: My View: Nigerian vs Carribbean Women by Nobody: 4:57am On Feb 25, 2010
oyinda.:

respect and acceptance my behind  grin
your motive is really clear from your posts. your here to bash naija women. so pls commot for here, yardie. lol

Girl learn to read and get your head out of your backside "Naija". Childish,
Re: My View: Nigerian vs Carribbean Women by Nobody: 4:59am On Feb 25, 2010
Tcrack:

Omo, i did not want to read this loooong essay before but after i did, i am very glad i did.you help me finish all this niaja girls.this girls that only know how to demand for this and demand for that. infact, if i personally see you, i will personally date you. ha, my belle sweet. ton ba gun eshin ninu mi ko ni kose
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Okaaay, lol.
Re: My View: Nigerian vs Carribbean Women by Nobody: 5:01am On Feb 25, 2010
what is the bull about where we Jamaicans come from? we did not come from ONE country in Africa, get real. Africa was divided into territories/regions in those times not countries. We came from all over. From the Congo and Angola all the way up to Senegal.
Re: My View: Nigerian vs Carribbean Women by Nobody: 5:02am On Feb 25, 2010
ifedy:


OK. u still dey, stay there dey yarn okpas.

Gyal kiss out mi kiss out.
Re: My View: Nigerian vs Carribbean Women by baeyy(m): 5:24am On Feb 25, 2010
Please @poster get alife and stop spilling your ignorance SMH.
Re: My View: Nigerian vs Carribbean Women by madlady(f): 5:27am On Feb 25, 2010
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Re: My View: Nigerian vs Carribbean Women by madlady(f): 5:34am On Feb 25, 2010
MzDarkSkin:

My girl a yu a chat pure fuckrey Sean Paul seh fi im muma black an chiney an him fada a portugese. my girl mi kno weh mi a chat seh a yu nuh kno weh yu mada come from nor fi ar ethnicitiy. Mis a smart ooman so mi kno seh Jew is an ethnicity NOT a race, yu seh yu muma a Jew an den yu seh she black mi seh it nuh matta if she 'jew', black, chiney mix up a Jamaican is a Jamaican an all a we kno wat Yardie mean. So low mi. Yu a pree mi from day one, yu a bantan Yardie.
                                                         YOU WERE THE ONE WHO MADE LIGHT OF  WHO I AM, I KNOW MYSELF,YOU SPOKE OF RACE I CORRECTED YOU, STOP BACK PEDDLING, KNOW YOUR FACTS BEFORE YOU COME RUNNING WITH HALF TRUTHS.

I WILL NEVER DIS MY ROOTS BUT I WILL NEVER STICK UP FOR A RABBLE RAISER. STOP YOUR FOOLISH BEHAVIOUR YOU LOOK LIKE A PRICE JACKASS. !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!YOU ARE BETTER THAN THIS GIRL.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Re: My View: Nigerian vs Carribbean Women by Nobody: 5:39am On Feb 25, 2010
madlady:

                                                               SPECK ENGLISH

GIRL YOU ARE A FOOLISH CHILD GO CHECK YOUR FACTS ON THE NET YES IS FATHER IS FROM PORTUGESE DESCENTS THEY ARE "JEWS".

ITS THEY FOR ALL TO SEE CHECK THE NET. STOP SPREEDING LIES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

SPEAK ENGLISH? Foolish child?! MADLADY i mean this from the BOTTOM of my heart go f.cuk yourself! Go look up his bio your own d.amn self. You're a blasted cow. You want to tell me I am better than this YET YOU INSULT ME AND KEEP MODIFYING YOUR F.CUKING POSTS TO LOOK BETTER? JUST WHO THE bleed DO YOU THINK YOU ARE?! YOU ARE A JAMAICAN "BLACK" FACE THATS WHAT YOU ARE! NOW I AM MORE SURE THAN EVER YOU ARE A GROWN NEW FOOL! you want to jump at me, you CLAIM to be Jamaican you have assclowns calling your kind "trash, ghetto, cheap and classless" DOING EXACTLY AS I SAID THEY WERE DOING AND YOU WANT TO JUMP ON ME?!!! YOU BLASTED EDIAT! Girl I have NOTHING more to say to you, you disgust me. NEVER ONCE, I REPEAT NEVER ONCE have I DISRESPECTED, or called ANY NIGERIAN woman a name! NEVER ONCE but because of my f.ucking ethnicity despite my black skin I am attacked, rediculed, rejected, disregarded, disrespected and FOR WHAT? FOR WHAT? Just so some women who have low self esteem can feel better about themselves! I respect ALL African people ALL of them but they bleed, cry, and will die just as I, and I will NEVER let anyone walk over me, unlike yourself I have a thick backbone!
Re: My View: Nigerian vs Carribbean Women by madlady(f): 5:46am On Feb 25, 2010
MzDarkSkin:

SPEAK ENGLISH? Foolish child?! MADLADY i mean this from the BOTTOM of my heart go f.cuk yourself! Go look up his bio your own d.amn self. You're a blasted cow. You want to tell me I am better than this YET YOU INSULT ME AND KEEP MODIFYING YOUR F.CUKING POSTS TO LOOK BETTER? JUST WHO THE bleed DO YOU THINK YOU ARE?! YOU ARE A JAMAICAN "BLACK" FACE THATS WHAT YOU ARE! NOW I AM MORE SURE THAN EVER YOU ARE A GROWN NEW FOOL! you want to jump at me, you CLAIM to be Jamaican you have assclowns calling your kind "trash, ghetto, cheap and classless" DOING EXACTLY AS I SAID THEY WERE DOING AND YOU WANT TO JUMP ON ME?!!! YOU BLASTED EDIAT! Girl I have NOTHING more to say to you, you disgust me.


                                          GOOD. YOUR MOUTH IS DIRTY THE TRUTH HURTS, ALL I SAY CAN BE CHECKED ON THE NET.GO CHECK.
                                         THESE ARE NOT IDIOTS YOU ARE DEALING WITH.! YOU CALLED ME INTO THIS GIRL HAVE SOME SHAME!

Re: My View: Nigerian vs Carribbean Women by Nobody: 5:47am On Feb 25, 2010
madlady:


                                          GOOD YOUR MOUTH IS DIRTY THE TRUTH HURTS, ALL I SAY CAN BE CHECKED ON THE NET.GO CHECK
                                         THESE ARE NOT IDIOTS YOU ARE DEALING WITH.! YOU CALLED ME INTO THIS GIRL HAVE SOME SHAME!


what truth? everything you said was a joke! so what can hurt me other than seeing another person sell themselves short? girl move. and read this while youre at it, http://www.chacha.com/question/is-the-reggae-singer-sean-paul-black-and-vietnamese be on your way.

i am going to move on. because i am letting this get me rowdy and it shouldnt, I am grown and I wont let girls get to this woman with good intentions. Ok. so to Nairaland i apologize for my cursing, I will move on to other posts because clearly I am too real.
Re: My View: Nigerian vs Carribbean Women by madlady(f): 5:58am On Feb 25, 2010
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Now you have calmed down, answer me 1 question what is a "BLACK FACE"


THE LINK ONLY SHOWS ONE PART OF HIS ROOTS, WHY NOT SHOW THE OTHER PART.

Re: My View: Nigerian vs Carribbean Women by Nobody: 6:03am On Feb 25, 2010
madlady:

smiley

Know you have calmed down, answer me 1 question what is a "BLACK FACE"

I'd be glad to. Back in the days of slavery even up to the civil war here in the US, white racists would perform various plays, skits and even had TV shows in which they would put black paint on their face, wear cotton in place of their eyes and with "nappy" afro. wigs would run around making monky noises to portray black people as iliterate creatures, in other words its a person who wears the outer appearance or identity of another group to mock and insult them, take a look,

& http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/5/58/Minstrel_PosterBillyVanWare_edit.jpg

heres a video:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UfiNT6AKG0s

this is what we black Americans had to endure as a result of being born with black skin, along with lynching but now our enemies ironically share the same skin color as us!!!! black ppl need to wake up. It among others was harsh of me to call you and I sincerely apologize, however it does make me wonder how someone could belong to a group and yet take insults just to "belong". Black face or Uncle Tom in America is what black ppl call other black ppl who sell themselves short to fit in.
Re: My View: Nigerian vs Carribbean Women by madlady(f): 6:13am On Feb 25, 2010
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Re: My View: Nigerian vs Carribbean Women by madlady(f): 6:17am On Feb 25, 2010
OK you just did something I really respect you said sorry.
Re: My View: Nigerian vs Carribbean Women by Nobody: 6:19am On Feb 25, 2010
madlady:




OK you just did something I really respect you said sorry.

I'm grown.
Re: My View: Nigerian vs Carribbean Women by madlady(f): 6:24am On Feb 25, 2010
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Your a young lady but you really did get cross.

Now you want go the whole hog, please post the full link showing that SEAN PAUL IS A JEW, I still have issues with you about this. sad
Re: My View: Nigerian vs Carribbean Women by Nobody: 6:30am On Feb 25, 2010
madlady:

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Your a young lady but you really did get cross.

Now you want go the whole hog, please post the full link showing that SEAN PAUL IS A JEW, I still have issues with you about this. sad





21 = grown, secondly this isnt an issue its facts yes his heritage includes ancestors of the religious faith Judaism but "Jew" isnt a race so theres nothing to post. He is Black Jamaican, Chinese Jamaican and Portuguese.

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