So na because of woman you dey work for better life?! It is a pity

Which kind of analog write up be this... How person go manage gonji

OP just stylishly advertised that he is single. Awon NL babes PM him

Good one there so let us work hard as guys b4 babes

What works for you doesn't work for everyone.
When you do not have a serious relationship before getting the paper, after you get the paper, you won't believe that the girls who come after you are truly in love with you if not for your paper.

I'm sorry but I kinda disagree... You are technically saying a guy shouldn't be in a serious relationship if he isn't with money... What about stories of guys who went from grass to grace and had a girl who was with him through it all..... Being in a relationship won't stop him from working hard, at least for most guys

I am tired of this relationship topics everyday. Leave everybody to do what he or she deems fit.
Moreover, OP, there is nothing bad having an understanding girl when u aint financially bouyant . The only foolishness I see some of my broke coleagues do is when they keep chasing everything under skirt when they know they are still broke. I just SMH as their priority in life is just women. Well by his grace, I will be leaving that broke community very soon by his grace..

Good advert. Hope enough girls on NL will submit their cv.

thefirst:
I have read about guys who fall in love and hold on to serious relationships when they are not comfortable because they don't have good jobs, and I think this is really bad.

If a girl stays with you when you are struggling, you feel relaxed and won't strive to be better than you are. I never had a serious relationship when I was struggling. Now that I'm fine, I'm looking for a serious relationship and I know I will find soon.
When I was struggling, I did not even think of having any serious relationship as I was only preoccupied with making it in life.

Guys, work first on becoming comfortable before having a serious relationship. A serious relationship is not a Hollywood hoax.

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thefirst:
I have read about guys who fall in love and hold on to serious relationships when they are not comfortable because they don't have good jobs, and I think this is really bad.

If a girl stays with you when you are struggling, you feel relaxed and won't strive to be better than you are. I never had a serious relationship when I was struggling. Now that I'm fine, I'm looking for a serious relationship and I know I will find soon.
When I was struggling, I did not even think of having any serious relationship as I was only preoccupied with making it in life.

Guys, work first on becoming comfortable before having a serious relationship. A serious relationship is not a Hollywood hoax.

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thefirst:
I have read about guys who fall in love and hold on to serious relationships when they are not comfortable because they don't have good jobs, and I think this is really bad.

If a girl stays with you when you are struggling, you feel relaxed and won't strive to be better than you are . I never had a serious relationship when I was struggling. Now that I'm fine, I'm looking for a serious relationship and I know I will find soon.
When I was struggling, I did not even think of having any serious relationship as I was only preoccupied with making it in life.

Guys, work first on becoming comfortable before having a serious relationship. A serious relationship is not a Hollywood hoax.

The point in red invalidated all your posts

True

Who broke your heart?

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So you want me to work hard, live comfortably before thinking of a serious relationship meanwhile the said girl will play hard, makeup hard and flirt hard, then when am comfortable I will start eating leftovers or I will post on IG, that I need a wife.

Everyone deserves a fulfilling relationship whether broke or not.

Completely wrong, you are simply saying guys should work hard and make money, then use it as baits to attract a partner. I meet my girl when i couldn't boost of 100k in my account. She stood by me during trying times and today I'm far better off and earn a decent living to take care of a family. But my ex-left me over a guy who owns's a carmey 2.2 because she felt he had a better future than me because of the useless car he owns. Now she keeps calling me like kilode and begging for me to accept her, for where? You can simply say guys work hard to better your living and your future. But work hard to impress a lady? my brother, your case tire me in fact.

thefirst:
I have read about guys who fall in love and hold on to serious relationships when they are not comfortable because they don't have good jobs, and I think this is really bad.

If a girl stays with you when you are struggling, you feel relaxed and won't strive to be better than you are. I never had a serious relationship when I was struggling. Now that I'm fine, I'm looking for a serious relationship and I know I will find soon.
When I was struggling, I did not even think of having any serious relationship as I was only preoccupied with making it in life.

Guys, work first on becoming comfortable before having a serious relationship. A serious relationship is not a Hollywood hoax.

bros calm down o only the fear of loosing her to someone else is making me panic , and i'm working my ass off just to see that everything works .baba no go there some no enter serious relationship , them still no dey comfortable .

It is true to some extent.OP they can still sack a great employee tomorrow morning by 9.15 am and then he goes back to the very beginning.So what will happen to the so called "serious and steady" relationship?

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thefirst:
I have read about guys who fall in love and hold on to serious relationships when they are not comfortable because they don't have good jobs, and I think this is really bad.

If a girl stays with you when you are struggling, you feel relaxed and won't strive to be better than you are. I never had a serious relationship when I was struggling. Now that I'm fine, I'm looking for a serious relationship and I know I will find soon.
When I was struggling, I did not even think of having any serious relationship as I was only preoccupied with making it in life.

Guys, work first on becoming comfortable before having a serious relationship. A serious relationship is not a Hollywood hoax.

I laughed at u, galz go suck dry! na small pikin mentality dey worry u! gal go collect ur money go take am feed & cloth another guy wey dey gve dem nice fvck

thefirst:
I have read about guys who fall in love and hold on to serious relationships when they are not comfortable because they don't have good jobs, and I think this is really bad.

If a girl stays with you when you are struggling, you feel relaxed and won't strive to be better than you are. I never had a serious relationship when I was struggling. Now that I'm fine, I'm looking for a serious relationship and I know I will find soon.
When I was struggling, I did not even think of having any serious relationship as I was only preoccupied with making it in life.

Guys, work first on becoming comfortable before having a serious relationship. A serious relationship is not a Hollywood hoax.

Since you wrote this, please, how much is much for the sustainability of you and the wanna-be?

Broke guys will not like this

What do you mean by"hard work" and "comfortable"?
So many men that subscribe to this your mentality spent 30-45 years of their life without getting married and no any tangible achievement. I'm still a master degree student and I'm getting married already.
Guys marry when your mind move you, don't wait for any mirage "comfort"

Guys should stop this BS. It's really not a solid way of thinking.

I mean... the momentum is present, the morale is high, the records are filled with success.....and then you, op, want a guy who already has the world at his feet to slow the pace of his game by getting a dam who wasn't his teammate when it all started?

If clubs like Man. City and Barca can be hungry to still bang in goals in games which they are already leading by three goals to nothing....that should tell every success-mad guy out there something...

"THE GIRL CAN WAIT...OR GET MARRIED OFF TO SOMEONE ELSE....THE CONQUEROR DOESN'T CARE. A MODERN-DAY ALEXANDER THE GREAT KNOWS THAT IT IS NOT ENOUGH TILL YOU HAVE CONQUERED THE WORLD"

I totally agree with OP. Be financially stable before going into one. 70% of babes dont like their guys are not doing so well and the crazy thing, they leave you for someone better...

Why does this sh!!!t happen tho

This our generation sha,,,, money is in control,,,, so u must make money b4 you are allowed to fall in love,,,, a gurl shud love u bcus of ya money?

thefirst:
Your arguments about finding a good woman or not and being cheated on whether rich or impecunious are different arguments entirely.

so ur salary is ur visa to a serious relationship

Is money everything?


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