funmisticqueen:
you do deserved to be loved by your mother, not another man's daughter cos you want somebody to share your suffering all in the name of 'prospect'. Smart ladies dont gamble abeg

Bjrokenhear003:
i am going through that same fate but mine is different

i have over 3 million cash in bank, i am worth over 80 million with inherited properties from my late dad and investment in real estate i love this girl, she knows all my investment, i believed her till today she broke up with me because she said she cant be in a unstable emotionally relationship..."when she asked for finance somewhere and she knew my money tied into a an investment at that period, so couldnt give her, she said she would ask somewhere else, FUNNY ITS JUST 2K ITEM, i kept shut and never said anything to avoid issues, she then told me they were able to help her, i called her and she's its just my bad mind that didnt allow the ITEM to be transfered, i expalined to her, she broke up, already saw the signs that when i ping, she no reply me, she read chat and even though not call me and i have done lots more for her just because i was low at that period.

You've learned a hard lesson about women. This is a lady you gave so much to in the past, now, she breaking up with you because of 2k, saying she can't be in a emotionally unstable relationship. Ma nigga, that is womanese(women's coded language to stupid men) for 'I can't be in a relationship that doesn't benefit me'. The girl is either testing you to see if you will beg her and pay for the pleasure of her presence in your life or she's found a better mumu than you, who is willing to pay for her pusssy. Either way, you have yourself a biitch.

A typical woman don't GIVE a poo about you. YOU the man. She might like how ur dick feels inside of her, she might like your abilities to hustle, roll dough and bring bread, she might like how u make her feel emotionally.... But she cares not for you bro.

Meditate on this shiit.

Women are by default, HYPERGAMOUS. Learn this word. Hypergamy is the nature of Woman. It means women, like chimps, always want to swing from the strongest branch, they want the best man possible for themselves. Women date up, not down. Women marry up not down. If a woman is with a struggling dude, she's seen a king in the making. Women are very good at evaluating a mans prospects. If a woman is dating a man and another higher value man comes into the picture, guess what she's naturally inclined to do...yes...u got it. That's a woman. U mad? No need to be. She can't help it.
The woman will simply begin to act funny. Lol. You've lost her.

i wanted her to feel pain and called her my friend and said she should come pack her things, how will somebody i risk for be treating me so foolishly because of i love, she told me of her tenant hitting on her and i saw the way he looks at her earlier.

its not been easy just less than 24 hours i have cried my eyes out, just within a month i dont have much finance, a month investment, which she knows about she called it quit she needed a stable relationship.

i feel pained as i type this because somebody u feel u can go through lots to please her, planning to risk it all despite she older than me, yet she not feel the same about u & last week she promised me of her undying love for me and how i made her feel that she cant trade me for anything in this life, i wondered how my life is being fooled and cant sleep since 4am

Women CANNOT love.

READ

THEY ARE INCAPABLE OF LOVE

Write that on your bathroom mirror.

They cannot love. God didn't make them to be capable of love. Only you, oh man, has that ability. God made you like that. that's why God requires men to love (cause he enabled men to do it) their wives and for women to honour their husbands. Women are not commanded by God to love because they are incapable of it. He made it like that.

What is love??

When a bitch tells , I love you, what she's saying is I love the feelings inside of me that you are causing or I love how u make me feel. That's it. You have utilitarian value to her. Nothing more. It is what you can do for her. Not who you are.

A man, you, is capable of love.

What is love?

Love is action, forgiveness, sacrifice, patience, gentleness. A man will put up with a woman's poo for years, a man will stay with a woman's ugly ass for years, a man will share his LIFE and all his shiit with a woman until death, a man will die for his kids and his wife, he will sell his soul just to please his wife and family. A women will please herself period.

Thank God for men.

here am i, taking solace to alchohol thats how some men would turn to a devil and girls be saying YORUBA DEMON, its people who bring out that demon wicked part in somebody life.

i feel like dying but knowing well i am the only son child of my mother i must pass through this phase and buy what makes me happy

i will buy my iphone 8 and my honda crosstour to be driving at least to make sure the car is my new babe during december

money isnt all... finding someone who is patient and can accommodate u is the KOKO, my lesson to u is not all about money sometimes u might have more than enough but she might feel she has lots of security and finance with another..

LOVE IS JUST A DECEIT..i can never go back to her with the way i feel

Adisaowalla:


You are dumb!!


No offence though....

Blackhawk01:
It swings both ways. Ladies shouldn't think there's a man out there ready to put up with a jobless arse all because she's pretty, watch him dump you when he's done.

Votukpa:


Nigga please...

You obviously don't understand the female species. The second sex. U don't know them. Your ignorance might be your undoing.

Solomon said in Ecclesiastes... I find it MORE BITTER than death, a Woman who's heart is a trap...

Listen son, let me school u.

A typical woman don't GIVE a shit about you. YOU the man. She might like how ur dick feels inside of her, she might like your abilities to hustle, roll dough and bring bread, she might like how u make her feel emotionally.... But she cares not for you bro.

Meditate on this shiit.

Women are by default, HYPERGAMOUS. Learn this word. Hypergamy is the nature of Woman. It means women, like chimps, always want to swing from the strongest branch, they want the best man possible for themselves. Women date up, not down. Women marry up not down. If a woman is with a struggling dude, she's seen a king in the making. Women are very good at evaluating a mans prospects. If a woman is dating a man and another higher value man comes into the picture, guess what she's naturally inclined to do...yes...u got it. That's a woman. U mad? No need to be. She can't help it.
The woman will simply begin to act funny. Lol. You've lost her.

If a King marries a commoner, she becomes a queen. She's upgraded. If a queen marries a commoner he remains a commoner. There is no king of England. He is styled 'Duke' of Edinburgh. Sorry Philip. If his grandson becomes King, the wife will become Queen. Women want to always date or marry up.

Meditate on this shiit.

If a woman thinks you are better than her husband in every way. If she's married, she might not necessarily divorce her husband, but she will be DTF [down to Bleep] if u put the moves on her while no one is looking. Sneaky biitches they are. You don't even have to have more money than her husband. Dress better, look, better, be more socially intelligent, more funny etc. She will bang. This is a woman. Thank God for societal rules, church, etc, else women will cheating everywhere. Our forefathers knew how female hypergamy could ruin society, so they set up rules to rule over women and ruthlessly oppress and dominate them. Things have changed today. I spare you. Just observe and see. If married women are DTF, what do u think single biitches can do.

Women CANNOT love.

Write that on your bathroom mirror.

They cannot love. God didn't make them to be capable of love. Only you, oh man, has that ability. God made you like that. that's why God requires men to love (cause he enabled men to do it) their wives and for women to honour their husbands. Women are not commanded by God to love because they are incapable of it. He made it like that.

What is love??

When a bitch tells , I love you, what she's saying is I love the feelings inside of me that you are causing or I love how u make me feel. That's it. You have utilitarian value to her. Nothing more. It is what you can do for her. Not who you are.

A man, you, is capable of love.

What is love?

Love is action, forgiveness, sacrifice, patience, gentleness. A man will put up with a woman's shit for years, a man will stay with a woman's ugly ass for years, a man will share his LIFE and all his shiit with a woman until death, a man will die for his kids and his wife, he will sell his soul just to please his wife and family. A women will please herself period.

Thank God for men.

Men, because of love have come up with the most genius inventions, have go to war to DIE protecting their women and kids. Men have advanced the course of civilization and history. Men will die just please someone else.

Carefully read the story of Adam and Eve and you will understand my narrative.

Adam didn't want to be alone, so he 'took the fruit' too. He knew of the consequences of his action but he went down with the biitch Eve, who not only disobeyed God and rebelled against her husband but also fuccked the serpent and his his child. Adam was a stupid muthaafuccka.

Meditate on this shiit.

Satan has now made his home in society just like the garden of eden. Women are now free to do as they please. They have been liberated and men are still doing the same shit Adam did. Men are still watching like mumus. Society and the world as we know it is now on the verge of collapse.

Men wise up.

Adam's story is an example for you... NOT TO DO AS HE DID. Be more like David in his youth. Just cared about serving the lord and developing his skills. He could kill a lion, he could sling rocks like a badass and he could control sheep (hard to do). Why do u think God chose him over his brothers.

When he became King, he was neck deep in pusssy.

Meditate on this shiit.

Focus on yourselves and develop , grow and be valuable.

alexialin:





Lol


Una make the op run away.. Chai.

He Don deactivate already? . Lol

He doesn't know to be in nairaland and open a topic and read all sorts is not for the feeble minded. Lol.

He no want una to. Spoil him mind over women

He made the right move. Correct guy.

Cos peeps here can even change the mind of a Pope!

Marxv:



Share suffering you mean?.So, the girl is not expected to bring something to the table? Or is it only pretty face and sex?

alexialin:





Ordinary girlfriend can progress and become his wife after a while.

Depends on both of them.

LordBaelish:


Hian Alex...

You no wan free the matter Sha. The fact is there's no long or short way in life.

What counts are the intangibles:
Health (Sexual also)
Intelligence
Sense of humor or amiability
Kindness
Ability to sacrifice one's pleasure for others

etc.

Most things change so most times the guy doesn't change in things that are inbuilt. It's society that makes a rich man a good husband.

The rich also suffer, it's just that their problems are different so as long as one's able to fulfill basic needs then all's good.

I don't want to go into the whole Nigerian women thing buh please y'all should read the laws of power: ALWAYS Despise the Free lunch.

Roger out

anochuko01:

thank God you call your write up shit

designVATExcel:
The OP is making sense. Though it can work both ways, but i subscribe to making money first.
Most times it makes you complacent, you get used to your current financial state and remain there.
But if your focus is on your hustle, mehn no devil can stop you, you go hammer.
Once you hammer you can then comfortably find babe.

The major downside to this however is finding the babe. It's not easy to find a partner, male or female. Its weird cos there are many single people but few partners and money can make finding the right person even harder.

darkmarky:
Its only a foolish graduate that will be chasing girls upandan

I have read about guys who fall in love and hold on to serious relationships when they are not comfortable because they don't have good jobs, and I think this is really bad.

If a girl stays with you when you are struggling, you feel relaxed and won't strive to be better than you are. I never had a serious relationship when I was struggling. Now that I'm fine, I'm looking for a serious relationship and I know I will find soon.
When I was struggling, I did not even think of having any serious relationship as I was only preoccupied with making it in life.

Guys, work first on becoming comfortable before having a serious relationship. A serious relationship is not a Hollywood hoax.

olanshi:



True love don't care!

Na WA o


Which means they can't even get a woman to call their own. They are not even stable emotionally . They want relationship but the women of other men they kpansh are not ready to leave their bfs for the big prick guys lol.

That's why they pawn On weak married women and weak gfs of other guys.

These women just they use their destinies.

That's not life

But Wat if she's not marrying him cos of car or lovely house.

Not all women marry men cause of car.


So u are saying rich Young guys should give up on love and see every potential woman coming their way as gold diggers?
Are u for real?


If am guy and am so rich, do You honestly think I will take to your advise and give up on wooing a lady I love?
Because in quote, all my friends feel any woman I date does not love me?
But love my money?
What kind of fucvked up mentality is that?

Mehn, if am a rich single guy, I won't accept the fact that I can't be loved sincerely by any woman on earth because I have money.

Cmon! Haba!

Some Guys should stop screwing their brains with fucvked up make believe about women. It's unhealthy.

LordBaelish:


Hian Alex...

You no wan free the matter Sha. The fact is there's no long or short way in life.

What counts are the intangibles:
Health (Sexual also)
Intelligence
Sense of humor or amiability
Kindness
Ability to sacrifice one's pleasure for others

etc.

Most things change so most times the guy doesn't change in things that are inbuilt. It's society that makes a rich man a good husband.

The rich also suffer, it's just that their problems are different so as long as one's able to fulfill basic needs then all's good.

I don't want to go into the whole Nigerian women thing buh please y'all should read the laws of power: ALWAYS Despise the Free lunch.

Roger out