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10 tips that Strenghten your Relationship the more by Nobody: 4:58am On Nov 02, 2017
1. Do the things you did the first year you were dating.
As the months and years roll on, we tend to slink into our
proverbial sweatpants and get lazy in our relationship. We
lose our patience, gentleness, thoughtfulness,
understanding and the general effort we once made toward
our mate. Think back to the first year of your relationship
and write down all the things you used to do for your
partner. Now start doing them again.
2. Ask for what you want.
Over time, we assume that our partner knows us so well
that we don’t need to ask for what we want. What happens
when we make this assumption? Expectations are set and
just as quickly, they get deflated. Those unmet expectations
can leave us questioning the viability of our partnership
and connection. Keep in mind that “asking for what you
want” extends to everything from emotional to sexual
wants.
3. Become an expert on your partner.
Think about who your mate really is and what excites him
or her (both physically and emotionally). We can become
consumed by what WE THINK he/she wants, as opposed to
tuning in to what truly resonates with the other person.
Remember that if it’s important to your partner, it doesn’t
have to make sense to you. You just have to do it.
4. Don't ask "how was your day."
At the end of a long day, we tend to mentally check out of
our lives and consequently, our relationship. We rely on
the standard question, “How was your day?” Generally,
that boring question will yield a boring answer such as,
“Fine, how was yours?” This does nothing to improve your
connection and instead, can actually damage it because
you're losing the opportunity to regularly connect in a
small way.
Instead, try asking things like, “What made you smile
today?” or “What was the most challenging part of your
day?” You’ll be amazed at the answers you’ll get, with the
added benefit of gaining greater insight into your
significant other.
Read full article at www.olubamznews.com/2017/09/tips-on-how-to-get-healthy-relationship.html?m=1
Re: 10 tips that Strenghten your Relationship the more by Nobody: 5:35am On Nov 02, 2017
Everyone is a relationship expert now. Buhari asked youths to become self employed. See how they 'employed' themselves now. Buhari why?

OP, most of your points aren't valid, with the exception of points 3 and 4 (my opinion). Most gurls undergo major change in hairstyle, dress style or other ways just to impress their boyfriends. It's then unfair for the guy to start thinking she's doing it for another guy outside.

A girl being nicer to you in anyway can't be misread as a sign that she has become a cheating partner.

Anyway, what do i know? Inexperienced Bush boy like me cheesy
Re: 10 tips that Strenghten your Relationship the more by Lalas247(f): 6:44am On Nov 02, 2017
Simple write up sad who will read that ?
Are you scared of leave space or starting new paragraph
Re: 10 tips that Strenghten your Relationship the more by Nobody: 7:20am On Nov 02, 2017
Lalas247:


Simple write up sad who will read that ?
Are you scared of leave space or starting new paragraph
Just what I wanted to ask? grin

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Re: 10 tips that Strenghten your Relationship the more by Nobody: 8:04am On Nov 02, 2017
I can't read that... u should have left spaces or used paragraphs
Re: 10 tips that Strenghten your Relationship the more by Sierusvirus(m): 8:06am On Nov 02, 2017
Didn't leave any space but good write up its simply the truth.
Nice one
Re: 10 tips that Strenghten your Relationship the more by henrylowe(m): 8:07am On Nov 02, 2017
A little spacing will make it easier to read your article OP
Re: 10 tips that Strenghten your Relationship the more by Lalas247(f): 8:48am On Nov 02, 2017
Lawlahdey:
Just what I wanted to ask? grin
Lol I tire dear ... didn’t even bother
Happy new month
Re: 10 tips that Strenghten your Relationship the more by Augustap(f): 10:11am On Nov 02, 2017
Op it's not a must you create a thread. No 2, 5 nd 6 are not true at all
For no 2, a lady may want to spice up her dressing, her hairstyles, her appearance just to look good for the man she loves.
5. A good relationship should be based on some things especially good communication. You should have said when the lady reduces her narration of how her day went, then it could be a problem.
6. A lady may not be buoyant enough to get her man stuffs, but if she lands a good job or gets other means of making money (in a decent and genuine way) then she's free to spoil her man.
Re: 10 tips that Strenghten your Relationship the more by Nobody: 11:04am On Nov 02, 2017
op your write up is too jagajaga to read undecided
Re: 10 tips that Strenghten your Relationship the more by Nobody: 3:39pm On Nov 02, 2017
Am sorry for how the post looks like Have posted a new topic..... so sorry for the previous post
Re: 10 tips that Strenghten your Relationship the more by Nobody: 3:40pm On Nov 02, 2017
Am sorry for how the post looks like, Have posted a new topic..... so sorry for the previous post

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