I got the inspiration to put up this post from a bollywood movie I watched some months ago “LUKA CHUPPI” which means hide and seek. It’s a story about two lovers who were cohabiting with each other without the knowledge of their parents. Some people frowned at it while some supported it including some elderly people. This got me thinking if live in relationship is actually good or not.


Live_in relationship which can also be referred to as cohabitation is an arrangement where two people are not married but live together. Most times it involves active or frequent sexual acts. This arrangement is increasing in almost every part of the world even among the people whose religion frowns at it. Sometimes, the cohabitation can be for a long term or a short term but in most cases, it’s long term.


Religiously and morally, it’s not so cool. Cohabiting automatically means frequent copulation and this is premarital sex. Even though premarital sex is a norm nowadays, it doesn’t mean it’s right. Most married people started their Marital journey from cohabiting. It’s working for some while it’s not working for a good number of people. Some even give birth to children while cohabiting before they decide to seal the union legally while some continue to cohabit till old age or till the grim reaper comes knocking.


Looking at it from another aspect, cohabitation can actually expose some things about your lover that you are not aware of. Some hidden attitude or some shady things. Cohabitation can actually make you decide if you can live with this person for the rest of your life. There are lovers that do well while apart but the moment they are together, frequent unnecessary quarrels set in.


It’s a two way thing! Now, I want to know what you think about live-in relationship. From your own perspective, is it good or not? Give reasons.


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To me it's actually a good thing. Will always go for live in rships any day any time.

StacyO:

A sad experience?

dingbang:
To me it's actually a good thing. Will always go for live in rships any day any time.

Sometimes, it doesn't end well. You know?

bbstarr:

A sad experience?

No relationship

bbstarr:


Sometimes, it doesn't end well. You know?

yeah sometimes, you just have to understand the type of person you are living with before you through all your dice on the table. Like me for example, I tend to bond more with a girlfriend who is very much closer to me than someone who lives very far. I just like to be seeing my babe even if its not everyday buh every week. And if she happens to agree to come stay with me, I am good with it. Its even better so we do business together and make money. everything just isnt about sex

StacyO:

No relationship

I don't want to believe that, you're a beautiful lady.

StacyO:


No relationship

but you such a pretty girl. Now tell me why you are turning down guys

dingbang:
yeah sometimes, you just have to understand the type of person you are living with before you through all your dice on the table. Like me for example, I tend to bond more with a girlfriend who is very much closer to me than someone who lives very far. I just like to be seeing my babe even if its not everyday buh every week. And if she happens to agree to come stay with me, I am good with it. Its even better so we do business together and make money. everything just isnt about sex

That's sweet

bbstarr:


That's sweet

so have an open mind about it dear. It's not that bad.

bbstarr:

I don't want to believe that, you're a beautiful lady.

I don't want any


On the topic, I don't think I can ever live with a guy I'm not married to.

dingbang:
but you such a pretty girl. Now tell me why you are turning down guys

I've not seen the right person

StacyO:


I've not seen the right person

please can I know your kind of right person?

dingbang:
please can I know your kind of right person?

A free one.
Not having ulterior motives

bbstarr:
I don't want to believe that, you're a beautiful lady.

I just checked your dp. You're very pretty, I'm sure you're married.
As a lady,I know I'm just average. Lol

StacyO:


A free one.
Not having ulterior motives

by ulterior motives, you mean one dating just to have sex and go?

StacyO:


I just checked your dp. You're very pretty,
I'm sure you're married.

As a lady,I know I'm just average. Lol

I think you both are wonderfully made in God's likeness. You aren't average

dingbang:
by ulterior motives, you mean one dating just to have sex and go?

Even if I want to date,I hope I find that type.

StacyO:



Even if I want to date,I hope I find that type.

urm, you hope to find the type who wants to have sex and go?

dingbang:
urm, you hope to find the type who wants to have sex and go?

No ooooo



Funny!!!

StacyO:


No ooooo



Funny!!!

but I hope you are a good lady too?

dingbang:
but I hope you are a good lady too?

Action speaks louder than words

StacyO:



Action speaks louder than words

I see you as a smart lady, would certainly love to make a new friendship with you.

dingbang:
I see you as a smart lady, would certainly love to make a new friendship with you.

Weldone Hector

Well, I don't see anything wrong with it. You have to stay together with someone you intend to marry for atleast one month of your courtship.

bbstarr:


Weldone Hector

come, you know me what is your former moniker?

simplepee:
Well, I don't see anything wrong with it. You have to stay together with someone you intend to marry for atleast one month of your courtship.

true. Very important.

dingbang:
yeah sometimes, you just have to understand the type of person you are living with before you through all your dice on the table. Like me for example, I tend to bond more with a girlfriend who is very much closer to me than someone who lives very far. I just like to be seeing my babe even if its not everyday buh every week. And if she happens to agree to come to stay with me, I am good with it. It is even better so we do business together and make money. everything just isn't about sex

Na so una dey talk! Everything is not all about sex yen yen yen.

So that you go waste her body beyond repair, ba? If you really crave to bond with her as much as that, by all means, please, marry her. Stop living together without legitimate reasons, thereby, leading to unwarranted sex, abortion(s) in the course of staying together, and even desecrating bodily sin against the will of God.

dingbang:
I see you as a smart lady, would certainly love to make a new friendship with you.

dont Fall For Emotional Talks and Start Getting Sympathetic or Catching Feels.


Anyway Carry On

UyaiIncomparabl:


Na so una dey talk! Everything is not all about sex yen yen yen.

So that you go waste her body beyond repair, ba? If you really crave to bond with her as much as that, by all means, please, marry her. Stop living together without legitimate reasons, thereby, leading to unwarranted sex, abortion(s) in the course of staying together, and even desecrating bodily sin against the will of God.

looks like somebody with experience don land for here

UyaiIncomparabl:


Na so una dey talk! Everything is not all about sex yen yen yen.

So that you go waste her body beyond repair, ba? If you really crave to bond with her as much as that, by all means, please, marry her. Stop living together without legitimate reasons, thereby, leading to unwarranted sex, abortion(s) in the course of staying together, and even desecrating bodily sin against the will of God.

why did you follow me to this thread now