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Because it has noting to do with religion, marriage is a part of islamic way of life thus everything about must be viewed in the light of islam. Deceive yourself you may but ring is a culture of non muslims peculiar to christains europeans or not. You can paint it all you want the truth remains the truth.
Finally for those quoting me that I said its haram.., I have not said such in all of my statements but I have mentioned that anyone that copies the ways of dis believers would be raised with them. Finally I would categorically mention here that wearing ring in it self is not haram as its sunnah to wear bronze (azirfa) precisely making sure you avoid gold or gold plaited rings expecially for men. "But wearing a ring as a symbol of marriage constitute bidia as marriage is part of the religion and in the least constitute imitation of non muslim cultures" this is my view to the best of my knowledge. Those mentioning guns,pants,suits are just ignorant of what bidia means in sharia and not in lug-ga (language). Above all Allah knows best

What people don't understand here is that marriage is part of the deen, its an aspect of the religion thus emphasising on what islam didn't bring to be part of it constitute innovation expecially if it involve a culture known historically to be associated with non muslims cultures,. Even the church stole its from pagans...

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Lol may Allah guide you. If only you knew the consequence of calling a muslim kafir.
Anyway noting is unexpected from an ignorant person. I have giving the op evidence from quran and sunnah for the questioned ask. Its up to him to act on guidance or self desire. Our hisab is with Allah afterall

AlBaqir:


# Thanks for using the word "sign of love".

1. Indeed, Love is in the heart and sometimes it manifest through words and deeds. Often time, a man/woman tells his wife/husband "I love you", and when indecency (extramarital affair) presented itself to either of them, that "sign of love" they carry remind them of their commitment. Even those who engage in extramarital affairs do put off the ring and keep it somewhere. Wearing it while engaging in indecent act makes their conscience beat. Only s/he who sincerely fear God, do not need any symbol or sign to keep him/her away from indecency and evil acts.


2. In this society of ours, it is very necessary if not important for women to wear wedding ring for that "sign of love" introduced them to the society as married i.e a responsible individual. Therefore, wayward men should back off because she's in love, engaged and married to someone. Why do society change title from "miss" to "Mrs" after wedding? Why do our culture embrace change of name to that of husband knowing fully well that's not the wife's real surname? Its a way of recognition of your status. And society gives more respect to the married.


# Wife of a friend had a serious problem at the airport when she was about to meet her husband abroad. Her two children bears their father's name but the wife continue to maintain her own father's name (in line with Arabian culture and practice: Arabian woman continue to maintain her father's name after being married). The woman has nothing (identification) to show she's married to whom she claimed to be her husband - no wedding ring, not bearing husband's name. The children are too babies to defend their mum either. At the airport, insinuation of child trafficking was suspected and she was arrested. Only after few investigations saved the day. That's few importance of wedding ring as far as common people and this society is concerned.

"Even those who engage in extramarital affairs do put off the ring and keep it somewhere. Wearing it while engaging in indecent act makes their conscience beat" why such treatment if not that they believe that it has somethin to do with their marriage. What type of believe is that, they fear ring instead of Allah? how did they kno that ring has somethin to do with love or marriage? Allah says in Quran: "You do not worship besides Him but only names which you have named (FORGED), you and your fathers, for which Allah has sent down no AUTHORITY. The command (or the judgement) is for none but Allah. He has commanded that you worship none but Him (i.e. His Monotheism), that is the (true) straight religion, but most men know not Q12v40. So who authorised the WEDDIN RING?

They said: "You have come to us that we should worship Allah Alone and forsake that which our fathers used to worship. So bring us that wherewith you have threatened us if you are of the truthful."

(Hud) said: "Torment and wrath have already fallen on you from your Lord. Dispute you with me over names which you have named - you and your fathers, with no authority from Allah? Then wait, I am with you among those who wait." Q7v70-71. Is it Allah that introduced weddin ring? is it Allah's fear or wedding ring that will protect your marriage or that will prevent men or women from zina? As pa airport issue you mention, it is mata of weddin cert

hamzeiy:

Because it has noting to do with religion, marriage is a part of islamic way of life thus everything about must be viewed in the light of islam. Deceive yourself you may but ring is a culture of non muslims peculiar to christains europeans or not. You can paint it all you want the truth remains the truth.
Finally for those quoting me that I said its haram.., I have not said such in all of my statements but I have mentioned that anyone that copies the ways of dis believers would be raised with them. Finally I would categorically mention here that wearing ring in it self is not haram as its sunnah to wear bronze (azirfa) precisely making sure you avoid gold or gold plaited rings expecially for men. "But wearing a ring as a symbol of marriage constitute bidia as marriage is part of the religion and in the least constitute imitation of non muslim cultures" this is my view to the best of my knowledge. Those mentioning guns,pants,suits are just ignorant of what bidia means in sharia and not in lug-ga (language). Above all Allah knows best

What has ring got to do with weddin?

hamzeiy:

Those mentioning guns,pants,suits are just ignorant of what bidia means in sharia and not in lug-ga (language). Above all Allah knows best

# You are the ignoramus here. Is Jihad not part of religion? Why don't you continue to fight with horse, sword and arrow while your Kuffar opponent are using guns, armoured tank and all modern artillery manufactured by Kuffar.

AlBaqir:


# You are the ignoramus here. Is Jihad not part of religion? Why don't you continue to fight with horse, sword and arrow while your Kuffar opponent are using guns, armoured tank and all modern artillery manufactured by Kuffar.

I have realised its a waste of time to engage in a meaningful discussion with an insulting uncut,low iq individual like you. I shall quote you no more nor shall I try to reason with you as i have noticed all you want is to win the argument not to get educated by what you dont know. I have better things to do with my time

hamzeiy:

I have realised its a waste of time to engage in a meaningful discussion with an insulting uncut,low iq individual like you. I shall quote you no more nor shall I try to reason with you as i have noticed all you want is to win the argument not to get educated by what you dont know. I have better things to do with my time

# Sometimes, I wonder how people like you feel comfortable calling yourselves followers of Islam when the religion warned you against lying, ill-manner etc.

For a fact, here's your first comment where you open up with an insult:

hamzeiy:


In as much as am trying not to be emotional on your response, am compelled to call you a jahil as there is no other way to say it more polite,

# And we have exposed all the copy-paste fatawa of your Ibn Uthaymeen et al and discovered it is you that have comprehension problem, that those shuyukh made clear conditions on their rulings.

# As if that is not enough, you also have audacity to accuse people:

hamzeiy:

Those mentioning guns,pants,suits are just ignorant of
what bidia means in sharia and not in lug-ga (language).
Above all Allah knows best

# Alhamdulillah, the moment you met a reasoning stronger than your "lug-ga", you never disappointed by responding with what people like you know how to do best - Insulting and insulting and insulting:

hamzeiy:

I have realised its a waste of time to engage in a meaningful discussion with an insulting uncut,low iq individual like you

* Don't you have manners at all?!

Please brothers, let's leave the argument. Whoever Allah guides will never go astray and whoever Allah leaves to stray will never find the path.

Albaqir is is Shia so he will keep showing hatred for Sunnah, Sunni and Salafy/Salafiyah.

Queen of Nepal is an aspiring Kaafir or an extreme ignorant Muslim.

some talk from their whims and desires just to flow with the west.

As far as I believe Islam is concerned, rings are part of a woman's adornment that should be covered if used. By rings I mean ear rings, necklace, leg ring, anklets, etc.

Wedding rings i.e. rings that signify marriage, monogamy, eternal love, etc is not allowed in Islam.

And Allah knows best.

madridguy:
Stop displaying your extremism in a public forum like NL. Half baked knowledge is cancerous, look for knowledge and stop saying jargons.

Mr Madrid you're wrong. There is nothing like wedding ring in Islam. Ring is not what bound the couples as husband and wife. Wedding ring is Bid"a.

A husband can dash his wife a ring to wear and vice versa. Nothing wrong with that but not wedding ring.

May be you don't know the meaning of wedding ring. Nothing like extremism in his post.

Do you read the op submission very well?

FriendNG:



Mr Madrid you're wrong. There is nothing like wedding ring in Islam. Ring is not what bound the couples as husband and wife. Wedding ring is Bid"a.

A husband can dash his wife a ring to wear and vice versa. Nothing wrong with that but not wedding ring.

May be you don't know the meaning of wedding ring. Nothing like extremism in his post.

madridguy:
Do you read the op submission very well?

Yes I do.

May Allah forgive our shortcomings.During my wedding ceremony, the officiating man, has to ask if the ring we gave each other is for better for worse or that I shall not marry another wife. I simply responded that it is just an expression of love. So what about this action of ours, and our intention?

slimtoney:
May Allah forgive our shortcomings.During my wedding ceremony, the officiating man, has to ask if the ring we gave each other is for better for worse or that I shall not marry another wife. I simply responded that it is just an expression of love. So what about this action of ours, and our intention?

# So, do you think its a sin to promise your wife you will not marry another wife, and that your love is "until death do us part"? Its neither a sin nor have you violated any law. It becomes a sin the moment you break that promise.


# And giving a ring to your wife as an expression of love! How on earth will you think its a sin? Even the troglodyte scholars that made their own rules on "wedding ring" declared it "sin" within their own thinking conditions none of which is not yours.

* There's nothing wrong with your intention and actions o except you have other thing you are not revealing out.

AlBaqir:


# Sometimes, I wonder how people like you feel comfortable calling yourselves followers of Islam when the religion warned you against lying, ill-manner etc.

For a fact, here's your first comment where you open up with an insult:


# And we have exposed all the copy-paste fatawa of your Ibn Uthaymeen et al and discovered it is you that have comprehension problem, that those shuyukh made clear conditions on their rulings.

# As if that is not enough, you also have audacity to accuse people:


# Alhamdulillah, the moment you met a reasoning stronger than your "lug-ga", you never disappointed by responding with what people like you know how to do best - Insulting and insulting and insulting:


* Don't you have manners at all?!

Keep finding faults instead of debating the point.copy or paste offcourse our understanding of the sharia is based as it is understood by the companions and those who follow their path. Our guided scholars of sunnah inclusive thus am not expected to be giving blind meanings to the quran as even during the time of the companions some of them are known to have better understanding if the tafsir of quran than others, and the others go to learn from them.
Ignorance is not an insult but a word describing someone who know noting about an issue. You can quote all you want but on the issue of ring for a muslim woman, permitung a culture known to non muslims and that has become a symbol of marriage for non muslims in nigeria..telling a muslima to engage in it is noting but pure jahiliya. I might not have manners but You are a JAHIL thats the fact here. May Allah guide you

The African woman is God.