SO DISVIRGIN GIRLS IS BETTER THAN MARRIAGE , CHAI THERE IS GOD OH , EH KOBI

Kingx4sure:
Nevertheless, go for what you want and desire. You never can tell

Exactly! we never can tell but sometimes what we desire is not within reach and then we keep on dreaming and wishing and dreaming and wishing until we suddenly realize how unrealistic we have been.

sirfee:
Oga Toks,you are among the few I respect on Nairaland but we are living in the 21st century.Everything is changed,the point and kill you are talking about is what we have now.


Marriage is overhyped and it shouldn't be a do or die affair,money is a key factor in marriage.

There is always a point and kill according to your level even if you dont have money.

chronique:


this start from one room talk,get as e be for mouth o.

Another strange thing i cant just decipher..a man scrws you front back and center in one room,you pass nights with him in one room but ou cant marry him into one room and plan from there. Women are their own problem.

A PROVERB SAYS , TIME WAIT FOR NO ONE, OUR WOMEN IS WAITIN FOR US , NOT FOR FINE GIRL, BUT TO B A WIFE, LETS NOT WASTE , HOW DO U MANAGE TIME .(WISDOM IS THE KEY)

LORD EL HAS SPOKEN +-I SEI

CHRONIQUE E TIRE ME SEF

Toks2008:


Prove wettin? i be woman?

That a lady that will wait patiently and see you through hustle still exists in our society.
Tell me about one and I ll be glad to meet her.

Toks2008:


Another strange thing i cant just decipher..a man scrws you front back and center in one room,you pass nights with him in one room but ou cant marry him into one room and plan from there. Women are their own problem.

screwing a lady codedly in one room,and marrying her to start a family in one room,are two different things. anyways,i dont know much about stuffs like this but i'm very sure i wont attempt starting life wit anybody in one room(irrespective of the love we share). a duplex or at worst,3 bedroom flat is ok. i like to live in a house with a lot of space.

TOKS2008 THERE STILL ARE , MAY I ASK U , WHAT REALLY MAKES A WOMAN STIFF OUT HER NECK FOR A MAN , EVEN TO FIGHT

RETIREDMUMU:
op do u mean i should marry when i don't have the resources to be called a father and a husband.


do u know the meaning of hunger

God forbid bad thing, it Is well on you and things will get better, you can read and write so ur better off still!, don't be negative minded, stay positive and keep your hands clean Don't do bad things. That's all Good luck bro (change your mindset, it will help you a whole awful lot)

Toks2008:


That is another issue. A hustling guy is the best bet for women who truly want to settle down cos most made guys know they are made and will most likely treat you with no regard except the lady is also made.

no, I disagree with you. Made guys are busy hustling for the future of there wife and kids, not to treat there lady with no regard because they yv made it.

[quote author=Franco2017 post=62535196]I recently observed that most women are in a relationship, and most men are single, how can this equation be balanced.[/quote most guys hv like three or four girlfriends while some guys are busy hustling for the future of there unborn children and don't even hv time for any stupid relationship.

Franco2017:
I recently observed that most women are in a relationship, and most men are single, how can this equation be balanced.

Because some of those women live under the illusion that they are into relationship while the concerned guys dont give a hoot ....

Marriage is good when a man can take care of his family and not otherwise. Poverty is bad .

Franco2017:
I recently observed that most women are in a relationship, and most men are single, how can this equation be balanced.

Many men date multiple women

This one wey no lady comment for this thread...


Toks2008,wetin happen

Homeboiy:


U have a spirit wife oga
Visit MFM asap

haba guy u funny

The truth of the matter is decadence and rapid changes in changing world. Imagine the era of our fathers is too easy to make a choice of a wife. And they stay true to the marriage till death do them apart. Nowadays some marriages lasts two months, some three weeks some three days [DECADENCE], so until we cure our lusts and greed we can have this trends for a long time. Take a time out and ask urself BOLD QUESTION, why am I still single? Write down the three answers that first struck your heart. What type of lady can i marry in my now? Write it down. If we can change our attitude we can settle down God willing. This truth is applicable to bot male and female. God help us!

NO LADY COMMENTED ON THIS THREAD...WOW

Franco2017:
I recently observed that most women are in a relationship, and most men are single, how can this equation be balanced.

In a relationship with married men, Aristos and Baba Alaye!

Toks2008:
There are two types of worlds. The real world and the fantasy world.

There is absolutely nothing wrong in dreaming big,aiming for the "ideal" partner,elaborate wedding,a faithful man,virtuous woman,wealthy spouse,tall,handsome,romantic man,curvy and sweet looking lady and on and on and on...

But until we all learn to draw a line between our fantasy and the real world,until we meticulously make a decision to go for what we can get rather than what we dream about,then many of us who are mature and unmarried may remain in that position for a veeery long time.

My opinion.

OP are you a Yoruba man ? Because it's only in Yoruba land that I see a man that still stays in his father's house with a room inside and still has the audacity to get married or impregnate a woman


Before Marriage balance first

I want the best for my unborn kids,I don't want them to suffer like my parents made me to
I won't marry unless I hammer [color=#006600][/color]

U b tif

Am looking for a woman,she must me a graduate. Kindly submit your cv..... i dont need slay queens abeh[/quote]

Better to be single and live in peace, than marry the wrong person and live in regret.

Chuzzyone:
The truth of the matter is decadence and rapid changes in changing world. Imagine the era of our fathers is too easy to make a choice of a wife. And they stay true to the marriage till death do them apart. Nowadays some marriages lasts two months, some three weeks some three days [DECADENCE], so until we cure our lusts and greed we can have this trends for a long time. Take a time out and ask urself BOLD QUESTION, why am I still single? Write down the three answers that first struck your heart. What type of lady can i marry in my now? Write it down. If we can change our attitude we can settle down God willing. This truth is applicable to bot male and female. God help us!

You are correct

life most times does not give us what we desire or want but we have to know what we want before getting what we want or desire..

I will say a guy and a lady should be fully prepared before walking down the aisle

Toks2008:


Excatly the point,nothing bad in looking for a graduate but you just might be brushing off Ngozi the homely and virtuous girl from the village who could make you very happy all the days of your life.

This village girl stereotype isn't for villages like mine o. So many teenage moms everywhere and annoying part is most of them are in secondary school, mostly JSS. Let's not even get started with the boys & cultism.

You definitely made sense with your posts though.

OP, u are one of the reasons there are broken marriages today. You would come and advice people to get married and when its time to provide resources u disappear.
Please, everybody have their own plan drawn out and coupled together with Nigeria's economic realities, please let the sleeping dog lay.

arnold123:
God forbid bad thing, it Is well on you and things will get better, you can read and write so ur better off still!, don't be negative minded, stay positive and keep your hands clean Don't do bad things. That's all Good luck bro (change your mindset, it will help you a whole awful lot)

But he was talking about money,which is keeping some of us away from relationship & eventually marriage. Ceralac is #2500 per tin & that lasts for days, baby diaper is about 6k for 100 pieces, house rent for a couple and their kid(s) can vary but ideally 300k especially in lag. Let's not even talk about school fees when the child comes of age.

Being able to read and write is barely anything. It's not being negative, it's being realistic.

Toks2008:


Even me,I'm just too picky. But for how long?

My brother I prefer marrying someone who gives me peace of mind...... but from what I have observed most of these ladies who are academically sound won't give you peace of mind. But those who aren't opportuned to get a good and sound education are the ones trained and cultured. I have seen one who is a hair stylist but isn't privileged to go to a university.

adeblow:
OP, u are one of the reasons there are broken marriages today. You would come and advice people to get married and when its time to provide resources u disappear.
Please, everybody have their own plan drawn out and coupled together with Nigeria's economic realities, please let the sleeping dog lay.

Toks2008 is a divorcee who is still bitter.
Take his advice with a teaspoon of salt.