Twoclans:


Lefulefu : one question for you .if a lady you love with the correct ukwu in place proposes to you ,what is likely to be your reaction?

well i won't say no but then if i was with such a girl i won't even give her that much time to propose to me cos i will already be proposing to her. For a lady to take that giant step to propose to a man means such a man has made the relationship to lose its focus hence the lady is trying to bring the relationship in the rightful direction by proposing to the man and bringing him back to reality.

hibiscus76:
It's seems to be the latest trend..
At first, I thought it was usually a staged act till it became obvious ladies don't care anymore.
As for me, I'll still stick to waiting for my man to come around cuz I'm certain he isn't far...

But lemme hear from y'all ladies. What's your take?

no

No

lefulefu:
well i won't say no but then if i was with such a girl i won't even give her that much time to propose to me cos i will already be proposing to her. For a lady to take that giant step to propose to a man means such a man has made the relationship to lose its focus hence the lady is trying to bring the relationship in the rightful direction by proposing to the man and bringing him back to reality.

Hmmmmmm,lefu this your answer is very diplomatic .Is your girlfriend on this forum?

Let me rephrase the question.If a lady you truly love proposes to you are you likely to say no, yes or babe give me some time to think about this?

lefulefu:
biko if u ain't a feminist card carrying member then u not authentic .too many imposters passing off as feminist these days.

lol. There are self centered and bitter women who are parading as feminist today.

Twoclans:



Hmmmmmm,lefu this your answer is very diplomatic .Is your girlfriend on this forum?

Let me rephrase the question.If a lady you truly love proposes to you are you likely to say no, yes or babe give me some time to think about this?

girlfriend ke? .. Biko iyam single oo. If its a girl i truly love i will say hell yes . Why will a guy refuse the proposal of a lady he fancies. But like i said b4 if i see a girl i like i won't waste time b4 i throw the proposal request at her...that is if i see the signs that she likes me oooo as much as i like her.

Martinez19:
lol. There are self centered and bitter women who are parading as feminist today.

u have to meet their charmadam here b4 we accept u as a bonafide feminist member.

Martinez19:
As a feminist, here is my take.

Male and female are equal and deserving of equal opportunities and integrity. If a man can propose, a woman can propose too. Infact, if a woman proposes to me and I like her, I will marry her. If a man can be the breadwinner of a family, a woman can be the breadwinner too. If a man can be a danfo driver.....

If a woman propose to me, I won't see anything wrong in that. Woman do fall in love and it should not be wrong for them to go after the one they love and make their intentions known to them. Feminism is a hallmark of a civilised mentality.

However if you want to stick to waiting for a man, no problem as we are all free beings.

You just spoke my mind.I agree with you a 100%.

Spasmic:


Can you give me one of these many areas where inequality is being enforced against the female gender?

Oga sir, I didn't say inequality is being forced, I only said " to introduce and enforce inequality, against the female gender, in those areas is the true subordination and subjugation of females."

Let me answer you anyways. In the case of this topic, to say women shouldn't and can't initiate the move in seeking a life-long spouse where as it's okay for males is an example of introducing inequality in both genders. A nairalander implied that.

Go to islamic countries and see the way women are treated. Though there are virtually no cases in other part s of the world.

Why should I?

I need to marry this martinez19 guy.Back to the topic I can propose I see nothing wrong there if I love you I would propose it doesn't make me lose my value or self respect.

Ladyhippolyta88:
I need to marry this martinez19 guy.Back to the topic I can propose I see nothing wrong there if I love you I would propose it doesn't make me lose my value or self respect.

Martinez19:
As a feminist, here is my take.

Male and female are equal and deserving of equal opportunities and integrity. If a man can propose, a woman can propose too. Infact, if a woman proposes to me and I like her, I will marry her. If a man can be the breadwinner of a family, a woman can be the breadwinner too. If a man can be a danfo driver.....

If a woman propose to me, I won't see anything wrong in that. Woman do fall in love and it should not be wrong for them to go after the one they love and make their intentions known to them. Feminism is a hallmark of a civilised mentality.

However if you want to stick to waiting for a man, no problem as we are all free beings.

100% right.

Ladyhippolyta88:
I need to marry this martinez19 guy.Back to the topic I can propose I see nothing wrong there if I love you I would propose it doesn't make me lose my value or self respect.

realistic and diplomatic comment

nope.