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MNM by skyone(m): 11:00am On Apr 20, 2010 |
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Re: MNM by alafin(m): 11:17am On Apr 20, 2010 |
I think every child is a gift from God and it doesn’t matter whether it is female or male. We should learn to appreciate our children the way they come. Who can tell which sexes of children would be more useful to the family? Whether it’s a male or female child, the important thing is: the child is given the right training. When I say right training, I’m not necessarily saying the child must be sent to the United Kingdom or United States of America to study. If a child is given the right morals and values, that child is bound to be useful to the society and I think that is what is necessary. I think we should stop talking about female and male children in this present generation. We’ve gone past that age where issues like this should be our major headache |
Re: MNM by dollz(f): 12:38pm On Apr 20, 2010 |
ask ur friend if he has not seen people who dont have children at all.abeg let him go and sit down jo.sides everyone knows dat d sex genes come mainly from the man. |
Re: MNM by Liss: 12:42pm On Apr 20, 2010 |
hmmmm, see life? Person way get head no get cap and person way get cap no get head. Your cousin has two beautiful daughters and he is looking for a son? Hmmm, it is well. Has he blessed God for the gift of having children at all Lots of people want a child (not children o) and can't get; whether girl or boy they'ld be grateful to called Papa something, Mama something. I'ld say your cousin should first be grateful for having children. BTW, who is to say if he'll EVER have a male child? It doesn't matter if he impregnates 20 other women, if God doesn't deem it fit for him to have a male child, he certainly wouldn't. Abi, na him dey determine the sex him child go come? Let him first be faithful in little and he might be given more. Being faithful in this case is loving his two children and blessing God for giving him the opportunity to have children!!! |
Re: MNM by iice(f): 2:39pm On Apr 20, 2010 |
Chaii destination no dey rid ignorance. He is the one who cannot get the male child not his wife. Men are the ones who determine the sex not the women. |
Re: MNM by Nobody: 3:52pm On Apr 20, 2010 |
Is Michelle Obama a male child? how many people know what her brother looks like? anyway, dem no dey hear. |
Re: MNM by Sissy3(f): 2:05am On Apr 21, 2010 |
iice: thank you dear! me sef i tire. OP tell yourself/cousin that his spermatozoa is the problem not the eggs |
Re: MNM by fiore: 3:15am On Apr 21, 2010 |
Agree, with Sissy the sex of a baby is determined by the sperm so if he is displeased with the lack of a boy he shouldn't find another woman but rather go to a dr. and Spin his sperm, sure it's a little unconventional but surely God will not frown upon this in the same manner, |
Re: MNM by agathamari(f): 8:53pm On Apr 21, 2010 |
with all the people who raise children with sever birth defects or learning disabilities. all the people who struggle with the pain of stillborns and misscarriages or infertility and this mans biggest issue is if he has a male child? this isn't the 1500 where male children were expected to work the farm, for all he knows he could end up with a deadbeat son and two millionaire daughters. he should be grateful his children are HEALTHY and not what their gender is. if he wants a male child so bad let his wife have the affair since the man is the one who determines gender |
Re: MNM by ucheawesom: 2:11am On Apr 22, 2010 |
I heard abt a man who did rhe same thing.He put away his wife cos she had 3 girls.Unkown to him the wife was pregnant at that time. Meanwhile,he went ahead and married the woman that will give him the male child he needs. Alas wife numberone that was sent away put to bed a set of twins both boys,while wife number two in due course had a set of triplets all girls. the husband met the first wife at the clinic where she went to immunize their sons and guess wat happened he went back to her pleading. ur friend might end up getting many more girls from the elsewhere.Cos everything depends on him. BTW wen are we ladies going to start blaming the men for not giving us sons/daughetrs? Everything that happens in the home the woman bears the blame. I tire |
Re: MNM by usbcable(m): 3:22am On Apr 22, 2010 |
Maybe his biology teacher dint tell him that he is the alpha determiner in this scenario. By the way, the only dumb reason people of his type give is they dont want their family name to be erazed from the earths surface as if they are the only ones bearing the name. What does he do to his parents that his sisters cant match up to. if God wan show am sef make he impregnate another woman make that wan too born am female, na then hin go no say water don pass garri. |
Re: MNM by Hotstepper(f): 5:25am On Apr 22, 2010 |
NONSENSE! Adopt a son if you want one PERIOD! |
Re: MNM by nikinash(f): 11:14am On Apr 22, 2010 |
This is sad. In this day and age. Please advise your friend well that every child is a blessing from God. No one knows which will be what in future, that is why we should appreciate them when we have them. There are folks out there who would be glad to have triplet girls. A friend is still looking for kids almost 13years now. Another just had a child after 7 years. For all he knows his wife probably feels the pain of not having a boy more than he does, so he should appreciate what he has. |
Re: MNM by Pennywise(m): 11:27am On Apr 22, 2010 |
Is your cousin half the man that Barrack Obama is? I dont think so. Neither George Bush's nor Bill Clinton's. |
Re: MNM by Nobody: 11:42am On Apr 22, 2010 |
Re: MNM by Nobody: 2:29pm On Apr 22, 2010 |
he went back to her pleading I hope she ignored him and his pleading? |
Re: MNM by ucnduka(f): 3:07pm On Apr 22, 2010 |
Honestly, your cousin is just being paranoid and ungrateful. He has just two daughters and he is already shouting,abegi! What of those that have seven daughters or those that do not have children?Please, tell him that he should be grateful for the ones he has and pray for a son.come to think of it, stories like this make me wish that men should be the ones going through the stress of pregnancy and child birth. |
Re: MNM by skyone(m): 1:29pm On Apr 28, 2010 |
Thanks to all of you and guess what ' he has joined the " great nairaland " and now a complete changed man after reading through your comments. With time you will all get to know his identity. |
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