If the sweet sex was not done or annouced on social media, why bring the relationship issues to social media?

Who specifically are you reporting your ex to?

We all know you had a fault in the fracas- even if you did not do "anything wrong" you are guilty of making a bad choice, choosing a "crazy, deadbeat, broke... Patner- so why are you reporting only a part of the story that will sway sentiments to your side?


Few points from me:
1. Wedding is not marriage therefore if you are not emotionally matured to handled differences in a relationship, then you are not ripe for the blessed institution of marriage no matter how old you are. Over grown Sindren!

2. A baby Daddy, baby Mama is not a committed relationship and your attitude towards your ex may rightly or wrongly determine their response to you. The committed loving relationships of marriage were not started by idiots and it was done for the purpose of mutual responsibility, nurture and growth.

3. More important than planning a Banky W wedding is the task of planning an Olu Jacob marriage. Its not all about sex, dick size, ukwu, curves...not it is much more. A toxic family and life situation will permanently kill your prick and dry your Toto for good.

4. If you can successfully find someone to blame for a failed project then chances are that you will never learn from that failure and will never improve the quality of your decisions and choices. Na the two of una fail for the relationship! This the first time in my life that I see FAILURE being celebrated.

5. The Victimhood mentality abounds where a partner will curse, abuse, hit, insult, cheat, disgrace, met out inhuman treatment, do all sorts of evil and then run to social media crying Domestic Abuse, violence survivor, claim ing strong person, cry crocodile tears... The victim is always the hero no matter their role or crime.
All you need to qualify as distinguished victim is to be first on social media ranting.

6. When you are called out for your careless sex driven lifestyle then it is "judgement". What happened to correction?
You use the Innocent children as human shield even when you are at fault.


THE KEY FACTOR IN THE BACKWARDNESS OF THE BLACK AMERICAN POPULATION HAS BEEN FOUND TO BE THE HIGH INCIDENTS " CHILDREN OUT OF WEDLOCK "...IT IS NOT RACISM... I LIVE THERE SO I KNOW WHAT I AM SAYING!

NOW IT IS THE NEW COOL IN NIGERIA TO GO YOUR ON INDISCRIMINATE PROCREATION... BABY DADDY AND BABY MAMA HOLD SWAY EVEN THOUGH THEY DO NOT GIVE A HOOT ABOUT THE FUTURE OF THE FRUITS OF THEIR HEDONISTIC LIFESTYLE S

That’s the new normal, you cannot control people but only yourself , there’s minimal hold you can have on your own child after she/he clocks 16 sef. My own is; you’re solely accountable for consequences of your bad choices.

I get the rant but get used to it.