I swear I’ve been battling this for awhile now. I don’t know what to do. I need you guys’ advice. I’ve been friends with this particular girl for more than a year now. We are good friends and we do talk almost everyday. It get to some extent because I couldn’t continue with her being a friends. I truly love her. I wooed her but she declined and told me we can only be good friends. I have a very good plan for her and planing to help her further her education but I’m afraid to loose her to someone else. I’ve tried my best to gain her heart but she will always tell me we can only be friends. I love her more than anything in this world even my current girlfriend. I want to move and cut communications with her but it’s not been easy for me. She will beep me almost everyday and the moment I her call, I can’t help myself but to call her back. I don’t know what to do. Please I need you guys advice.

Have you gotten your PVC??

Show her your PVC I swear she will fall for you.

Honestly, you need to set your priorities right bro, if she doesn't want you, then she wants someone else. Or maybe she wants you to be there as a friend. But if that's the case, get another gf and see her reaction. Ogbomosho thunder won't be able to hold back is she acted funny. If she wanna be your friend, then give her the benefits of a friend, not the benefits of a girlfriend else you will end up loosing your mind, some girls are crazy, I repeat, some girls are mad.
Don't be a Maga pls, or worse, don't force someone to love you, love should be given freely, if it's not free, then it aint love.

You even have a "current " girlfriend.

Irresponsible generation

na wa o


3 things are involved here.......................,.it's either;


1) you've been struck by love
solution: if you get the time and patience, continue pushing for a relationship but dont go too hard on her


2) you're infactuated or in lust
solution: find a way to fucck her silly and get over your infactuation


3) you've been jazzed, charmed or juju-ed
solution: no solution

Rosebloom:
You even have a "current " girlfriend.

Irresponsible generation

What if the current gf has a current bf ??

Thuglife2020:
I swear I’ve been battling this for awhile now. I don’t know what to do. I need you guys’ advice. I’ve been friends with this particular girl for more than a year now. We are good friends and we do talk almost everyday. It get to some extent because I couldn’t continue with her being a friends. I truly love her. I wooed her but she declined and told me we can only be good friends. I have a very good plan for her and planing to help her further her education but I’m afraid to loose her to someone else. I’ve tried my best to gain her heart but she will always tell me we can only be friends. I love her more than anything in this world even my current girlfriend. I want to move and cut communications with her but it’s not been easy for me. She will beep me almost everyday and the moment I her call, I can’t help myself but to call her back. I don’t know what to do. Please I need you guys advice.

are u implying that u love her or u love her punany. check on my threads... u ll find one of them useful... DO NOT ASK A GIRL OUT VERBALLY MORE THAN ONCE ITS FRIGGIN' CRAZY... IF U MUST PRESS ON DO IT IN ACTION THAN WORDS OR BETTERSTILL USE HER CLOSEST FRIEND TO GAIN THE ATTENTION YOU SEEK EVEN IF IT MEANS PRETENDING... GET EVEN MORE CLOSER WITH HER BESTIE AND TREAT HER WITH 100% CARE AND ATTENTION... THEN SIT AND WATCH HOW IT GOES

Bluezy13:

What if the current gf has a current bf ??

You mean OP might be a sidedude...

Rosebloom:



You mean OP might be a sidedude...

Possibly.

this got me laughing...
I bet you op your foolishness is just beginning. try this simple test.
tell her you are willing to sponsor her education. she will def agree. Infact don't just tell her, spend on her like you really care. just count the spending as the price you have to pay for your foolishness. as u are training her through school she will meet and fall in love with another...you have already said it sef but your foolish feeling will still blind you...
then and only then will you learn. many have threaded this path in the name of love and come here to open threads about how ungrateful women are after being trained through school...

SenorFax:
Have you gotten your PVC??

Show her your PVC I swear she will fall for you.

Honestly, you need to set your priorities right bro, if she doesn't want you, then she wants someone else. Or maybe she wants you to be there as a friend. But if that's the case, get another gf and see her reaction. Ogbomosho thunder won't be able to hold back is she acted funny. If she wanna be your friend, then give her the benefits of a friend, not the benefits of a girlfriend else you will end up loosing your mind, some girls are crazy, I repeat, some girls are mad.
Don't be a Maga pls, or worse, don't force someone to love you, love should be given freely, if it's not free, then it aint love.

I swear I don’t know how to go about it.. I love this girl so much. She only want us to be friends and that’s all. . I’m not sure if I can accept being a friends with her. Tot she beep me, I don’t spend nothing less than 20 minuet with her over the phone.. and I don’t want to abandoned her as well.

Rosebloom:
You even have a "current " girlfriend.


Irresponsible generation

It doesn’t matter you insult me bro.

Thuglife2020:
I swear I’ve been battling this for awhile now. I don’t know what to do. I need you guys’ advice. I’ve been friends with this particular girl for more than a year now. We are good friends and we do talk almost everyday. It get to some extent because I couldn’t continue with her being a friends. I truly love her. I wooed her but she declined and told me we can only be good friends. I have a very good plan for her and planing to help her further her education but I’m afraid to loose her to someone else. I’ve tried my best to gain her heart but she will always tell me we can only be friends. I love her more than anything in this world even my current girlfriend. I want to move and cut communications with her but it’s not been easy for me. She will beep me almost everyday and the moment I her call, I can’t help myself but to call her back. I don’t know what to do. Please I need you guys advice.

Change your moniker title. A thug has no feelings

delugajackson:
You are suffering from chronic bítch dependency. And bítch dependency is no laughing matter. Addiction to a bítch can mess with your brains, your health and scaring off even your money. It's a disease, bro.

Do you know that scientists now believe that some people are actually born with the genetic pre-disposition to bítch dependency? You literally do not have to act like a pússy all the time. If a woman says "NO" to you more than once, believe me there's nothing you can do to change her mind.

Get over this infatuation of yours and focus on your current girlfriend. She needs more of the attention. Else, you will lose them both.

I think it’s time to move on. Although I met his girl when I was in school before I lost her contact. When I found it back, it was around early last year. Since then we move been a good friends. But when she told me everything about her situation, about her family (she lost her mom a couple of years back), I can’t help but to bury the thought of wooing her then. Not until a couple of months back when I told her my mind. She was like why didn’t I tell her this all this while and why just telling her now. But I had to explained to her that I can’t tell her then because of what she told me. Although I used to send her some money but I never promise to sponsor her education (but I have that in mind) I can’t be friends with her. That’s the problem I’m having with her and I let her know.

samysmoothfresh:
na wa o


3 things are involved here.......................,.it's either;


1) you've been struck by love
solution: if you get the time and patience, continue pushing for a relationship but dont go too hard on her

No bro. I wasn’t charmed. Let me say. It’s love from the first sight. I so much love her. And I made it clear to her.

2) you're infactuated or in lust
solution: find a way to fucck her silly and get over your infactuation


3) you've been jazzed, charmed or juju-ed
solution: no solution

No bro. I wasn’t charmed. Let me say. It’s love from the first sight. I so much love her. And I made it clear to her that I truly love her but her excuse was that. Why wouldn’t I tell her all this while. I’ve never spend much on her tho. I thought of buying her a good phones (I even got her one but chose not to give her). I’m trying my best to forget her and move on but she won’t stop calling me. I once told her I can’t be friends with her. I even promise to pay for her clearance fee when she’s ready. That’s my only promise to her. I thought of giving her the money and stop talking to her again because I promised her already. And she still call me a couple of days and reminded me of the money for her clearance

Bluezy13:
Possibly.

I see

chenzen:
are u implying that u love her or u love her punany. check on my threads... u ll find one of them useful... DO NOT ASK A GIRL OUT VERBALLY MORE THAN ONCE ITS FRIGGIN' CRAZY... IF U MUST PRESS ON DO IT IN ACTION THAN WORDS OR BETTERSTILL USE HER CLOSEST FRIEND TO GAIN THE ATTENTION YOU SEEK EVEN IF IT MEANS PRETENDING... GET EVEN MORE CLOSER WITH HER BESTIE AND TREAT HER WITH 100% CARE AND ATTENTION... THEN SIT AND WATCH HOW IT GOES

I’ve done what I could. Tho I doesn’t entice her with money. The highest money I think I sent her is 5k.

Thuglife2020:

It doesn’t matter you insult me bro.

No insults brov

Thuglife2020:


I’ve done my best I could. Tho I doesn’t entice her with money. The highest money I think I sent her is 5k.

That is the problem we have with girls when you become too close to them. they dont ever want to date you. I know what you are feeling cos I have been there before.

just disappear from her presence and watch her reaction.

OneSentence:
this got me laughing...
I bet you op your foolishness is just beginning. try this simple test.
tell her you are willing to sponsor her education. she will def agree. Infact don't just tell her, spend on her like you really care. just count the spending as the price you have to pay for your foolishness. as u are training her through school she will meet and fall in love with another...you have already said it sef but your foolish feeling will still blind you...
then and only then will you learn. many have threaded this path in the name of love and come here to open threads about how ungrateful women are after being trained through school...

Bro take it easy. I only seek for advice here. It doesn’t matter you insult. To pass judgment or draw conclusion without thought is a vital mistake. I didn’t promise to sponsor her school. I didn’t let her know my plan for her. I wouldn’t do anything stupid in the name of love.

sorry bro.. You like her and she likes another guy who doesn't like her back....

BestDude:
That is the problem we have with girls when you become too close to them. they dont ever want to date you. I know what you are feeling cos I have been there before.

just disappear from her presence and watch her reaction.

Bro I swear some of my friends adviced me not to woo her because of our closeness. But I can’t just watch myself being friends with her because I truly and sincerely love her. We talk almost every day and we used to spend nothing less than 20 minutes with her over the phone. If she has a problem, I would be the first person to call. I love her but anytime I tried to convince her. She will tell me we can be friends. I stopped myself from sending her money because I doesn’t want her to feel I want to entice her with money..

delugajackson:
You are suffering from chronic bítch dependency. And bítch dependency is no laughing matter. Addiction to a bítch can mess with your brains, your health and scaring off even your money. It's a disease, bro.

Do you know that scientists now believe that some people are actually born with the genetic pre-disposition to bítch dependency? You literally do not have to act like a pússy all the time. If a woman says "NO" to you more than once, believe me there's nothing you can do to change her mind.

You say you want to further her education. Like seriously bro? Who does that these days?? If you like, send her to Cambridge University, if her heart is not for you then it's not for you. You will only end up being her maga for life! Next you will create another thread on how how ungrateful she is and all that shít.

Get over this infatuation of yours and focus on your current girlfriend. She needs more of the attention you're giving away. Else, you will lose them both.

Chrinic Bitch Dependency!!! Truly spoken. love-vendor Slickback

Thuglife2020:
I swear I’ve been battling this for awhile now. I don’t know what to do. I need you guys’ advice. I’ve been friends with this particular girl for more than a year now. We are good friends and we do talk almost everyday. It get to some extent because I couldn’t continue with her being a friends. I truly love her. I wooed her but she declined and told me we can only be good friends. I have a very good plan for her and planing to help her further her education but I’m afraid to loose her to someone else. I’ve tried my best to gain her heart but she will always tell me we can only be friends. I love her more than anything in this world even my current girlfriend. I want to move and cut communications with her but it’s not been easy for me. She will beep me almost everyday and the moment I her call, I can’t help myself but to call her back. I don’t know what to do. Please I need you guys advice.

Only fools love people that do not love them in return.

Thuglife2020:


Bro I swear some of my friends adviced me not to woo her because of our closeness. But I can’t just watch myself being friends with her because I truly and sincerely love her. We talk almost every day and we used to spend nothing less than 20 minutes with her over the phone. If she has a problem, I would be the first person to call. I love her but anytime I tried to convince her. She will tell me we can be friends. I stopped myself from sending her money because I doesn’t want her to feel I want to entice her with money..

That is the problem. talking everyday, being too close... ladies are attracted to this opposite of this . You dig? Dont ever think there is anyone out there that will value this your attribute. I swear. there is none. so if you wanna date a girl, never go close to her.

Thuglife2020:


Bro take it easy. I only seek for advice here. It doesn’t matter you insult. To pass judgment or draw conclusion without thought is a vital mistake. I didn’t promise to sponsor her school. I didn’t let her know my plan for her. I wouldn’t do anything stupid in the name of love.

that's my point exactly. it doesn't start with the promise. it only starts with the thought...sorry for the insults but my advice is don't even dream of sponsoring her through school because you want to show her love. it will backfire. don't answer any lady who will come here to tell you to do it since you can afford it and not with anything attached

Thuglife2020:


I swear I don’t know how to go about it.. I love this girl so much. She only want us to be friends and that’s all. . I’m not sure if I can accept being a friends with her. Tot she beep me, I don’t spend nothing less than 20 minuet with her over the phone.. and I don’t want to abandoned her as well.

Girls are soft hearted than guys, if you guys have been together for a year I got some questions for yah

1. Does she get jealous when she sees you with other chicks
If yes, she's keeping you as a spare (one year no be moinmoin)
2. Have you seen her with other dudes, expecially fine boys
If yes maybe you are not her taste.
3. Does she call you as much as you call her, be honest pls
If yes, human invest where they think they can profit.
4. What value did she plan on adding to you or added to you since you've been friends.
If none, guy, just delete her number quickly. Vampires alert

Truth is bitter bro, and the maths is simple. Those questions might guide you better.

Choose to be the number 1 and never a spare tire.

front4line:


Only fools love people that do not love them in return.

Some people are so entrenched in their beliefs that they failed to notice things that are in plain view.

BestDude:
That is the problem. talking everyday, being too close... ladies are attracted to this opposite of this . You dig? Dont ever think there is anyone out there that will value this your attribute. I swear. there is none. so if you wanna date a girl, never go close to her.

Thanks bro. I think sometimes in life it’s a good idea to make a U-turn. This won’t happen to me again

You are still inexperienced, try to be around women most times and try have female as friends too. You will stop been desperate. You acting as someone who has never seen women before. Come with me let go to "Ivory Coast Republic " for one week.... I bet You when you come to Nigeria that girl will look like old witch in your face. Nothing move me anymore have Seen girls.. ...............

OneSentence:

that's my point exactly. it doesn't start with the promise. it only starts with the thought...sorry for the insults but my advice is don't even dream of sponsoring her through school because you want to show her love. it will backfire. don't answer any lady who will come here to tell you to do it since you can afford it and not with anything attached

No I won’t do that. One thing about life. You don’t force people to love you. She used to tell me then that she doesnt have time for relationship as what she’s going through won’t make her want to jump into any relationship then. If she calls me at times and trying to explain things to me, she will be crying like a baby. So the thought of wooing her then, I buried it. Tho she never for once ask me for help but I used to send me some money.. I promise to send her some money for her clearance. I will only be giving her that since I promised her already and I will cut ties with her and move on.