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Re: Why Do I Always Experience This, Please Advice by Nobody: 9:03pm On Sep 01, 2018
Eglobalma:


To answer ur question even tho I didn’t want to, I’m inside hustling looking for clients cuz I’m a yahoo yahoo , we yahoo yahoo are always indoors ! So no bitch is allowed , excepts she’s getting fuckedd ..now tell ur bitch to back offf !!!!!

I read all your post and it looks like you're putting too much pressure on yourself, I know, the economy is fucjed and now we have to work 3 times as hard as our parents to even make it through the month, but you need to relax ones in a while. What will it take to give 5mins - 1 hour a day to the people that want to be around you? You think you're going to miss something if you do give time to them? Well, YOU'RE NOT! whatever client you're meant to get, you'll get.
Re: Why Do I Always Experience This, Please Advice by Eglobalma: 9:14pm On Sep 01, 2018
TOMSY:
So even if he has a bad character (as clear in his case, then he should'nt allow anyone to change him?. Your own advice weak me o. Imagine him calling them 'psycopaths' behind their backs, just because they are nice to you. SMH for op o.

I learned a long time again that people being “nice” to u don’t mean shit!!! In my time of need only God helps me, they all ignore me but when I’m doing well they want to be nice to me? I’m not interested
Re: Why Do I Always Experience This, Please Advice by Eglobalma: 9:23pm On Sep 01, 2018
Mcy56:

You are actually looking at this from one angle. We are all different and have different personality.
Some introverts likes to be alone and not disturbed at all; they want to associate only if they feel like not when someone is pressurizing them for friendship. Some don't know how to make friends 'cos it becomes boring to them along the way.
If you read what he said well, that the lady's bf hardly greets him again. So what do you want him to do?
To keep romancing the lady all in the name of friendship till one jealous bf waylay him somewhere?
I read where someone says ladies were supporting him. I think it's for both of them's good anyway but you can enlighten me the more sha.

God bless u dear, they think they can force friendship, if someone gives u a sign they don’t want to be friends..leave them alone!!! Why is that so hard to understand? I learned a long time ago friendships mean nothing, a girl I once dated went to the us and stopped talking to me, a friend I once ate garri with made 300 million and sent me 7 thousand naira after telling him about my struggles. Friendships mean nothing to me, except I i initiate It , then stalk me at ur own peril.
Re: Why Do I Always Experience This, Please Advice by Nobody: 9:28pm On Sep 01, 2018
I understand you bro but hustling alone may not see you through in life, you need to connect once in a while. I'm a bit like you. I enjoy my own company a lot but I still go to clubs, gym, gamble in casinos(not regularly)and hang out with mostly dudes who I believe are smarter than I am. What you're sweating for everyday may just be out there at a party you're avoiding, trust me I know what I'm saying.
Re: Why Do I Always Experience This, Please Advice by Eglobalma: 9:28pm On Sep 01, 2018
Prognose:


He has not said anything that indicates he has bad character. He wants to be left alone, no be by force to make friends.

Don’t mind the fool, saying I have bad character cuz I don’t like a girl that constantly tells me how I should behave in a house I spent thousands to rent? I suffered for months saving to get my own place, I have no family support..only hardwork and God and you think I will tolerate one skinny bitchh telling me when I should or shouldn’t stay inside my own fuckinggg house ? I’m not a learner , I have seen suffer and trust me nobody can take advantage of me. Bad character untop forced friendships? Wow
Re: Why Do I Always Experience This, Please Advice by Eglobalma: 9:34pm On Sep 01, 2018
I think people that meet me assume I’m butters that I have people giving me thousands daily. My whole life none of my siblings has ever giving me up to 5k, the last time my family member gave me money was 2015 when my uncle shared 2k round cuz he sold his house for almost 10 million. Every penny I get, it’s my God in heaven that helps me get it. If I don’t work daily I won’t eat, yet society want to fight me cuz I don’t want to “play and be merry” with them Where is society when I need support? Is it not same society and friends that avoided me last year when I couldn’t afford slippers and trekked in the rain daily? Nobody should piss me off, I’m not even mean...I don’t want forced friendships cuz it’s all fake!
Re: Why Do I Always Experience This, Please Advice by Eglobalma: 9:39pm On Sep 01, 2018
Mcy56:

Lol. Don't take it personal. You don't even know him talkless of the lady in question.
I think he was been sarcastic here. Just let it slide. grin

I don’t know u but you’re so impartial and intelligent, it’s people like u I want to be friends with. Friendships should happen naturally, don’t force it. Moreover I chose my friends carefully, because ur attracted to me won’t make me ur friend...never leading anybody on again, life’s too short to waste both my time and your time. Why are people not getting this , jeez
Re: Why Do I Always Experience This, Please Advice by Eglobalma: 9:43pm On Sep 01, 2018
Dudeweedlmao:


I read all your post and it looks like you're putting too much pressure on yourself, I know, the economy is fucjed and now we have to work 3 times as hard as our parents to even make it through the month, but you need to relax ones in a while. What will it take to give 5mins - 1 hour a day to the people that want to be around you? You think you're going to miss something if you do give time to them? Well, YOU'RE NOT! whatever client you're meant to get, you'll get.


Bros I tried, damm I was so friendly at first. I made this babe laugh constantly cuz I kinda have a little sense of humor. Maybe she took it the wrong way and started doing too much. If u know me u would know I’m very simple and easy going,but once u start doing too much...forced convos, forced visitations...and all that unnecessary stuff, I back off cuz I know how it ends and I don’t want to be a part of it.
Re: Why Do I Always Experience This, Please Advice by Eglobalma: 9:48pm On Sep 01, 2018
MajorJeffery:
I understand you bro but hustling alone may not see you through in life, you need to connect once in a while. I'm a bit like you. I enjoy my own company a lot but I still go to clubs, gym, gamble in casinos(not regularly)and hang out with mostly dudes who I believe are smarter than I am. What you're sweating for everyday may just be out there at a party you're avoiding, trust me I know what I'm saying.

I get U bro and I try to do that also, I don’t really have a problem with anybody..it’s just this babe that’s bothering me. I’m too old for mind games , I’m trying to be somebody in life, if you’re not making me get money or better I don’t want to waste my valuable time. The person that said “time is money” was no fool else that quote wouldn’t be so widespread
Re: Why Do I Always Experience This, Please Advice by Prognose: 9:56pm On Sep 01, 2018
TOMSY:
What I'm trying to tell you is that you can't tell someone to remain rigid such that nobody would be able to HELP him adjust any part of his character that needs adjustment. Of course people have different personalities, but it's not a good thing when you're not open to corrections. Cheers...
Noted bro
Re: Why Do I Always Experience This, Please Advice by TOMSY(f): 10:05pm On Sep 01, 2018
Eglobalma:


Don’t mind the fool, saying I have bad character cuz I don’t like a girl that constantly tells me how I should behave in a house I spent thousands to rent? I suffered for months saving to get my own place, I have no family support..only hardwork and God and you think I will tolerate one skinny bitchh telling me when I should or shouldn’t stay inside my own fuckinggg house ? I’m not a learner , I have seen suffer and trust me nobody can take advantage of me. Bad character untop forced friendships? Wow
Of course, you really had to say 'FOOL' again. A bad character does not mean a bad personality or one is a bad person. Your character is just a very tiny part of your personality. Anyone that is worth improving on should be improved on ASAP. You know I've been following your posts before, though i like some them, but i noticed you don't like taking to corrections. You'll rather delete the topic. Try and see the good in everything and never the bad. God bless you bro.
Re: Why Do I Always Experience This, Please Advice by Nobody: 10:25pm On Sep 01, 2018
Eglobalma:
I think people that meet me assume I’m butters that I have people giving me thousands daily. My whole life none of my siblings has ever giving me up to 5k, the last time my family member gave me money was 2015 when my uncle shared 2k round cuz he sold his house for almost 10 million. Every penny I get, it’s my God in heaven that helps me get it. If I don’t work daily I won’t eat, yet society want to fight me cuz I don’t want to “play and be merry” with them Where is society when I need support? Is it not same society and friends that avoided me last year when I couldn’t afford slippers and trekked in the rain daily? Nobody should piss me off, I’m not even mean...I don’t want forced friendships cuz it’s all fake!
i did not want to comment on this thread but your arrogance forced me to.
As to your "where was society rants",no one owes you anything!you gotta climb that ladder till you reach the top.
If you did not care about society,why bring it here?
I think you are just an attention seeking kid that needs to pour his frustrations on someone but I'll tell you what.
WE DON'T CARE IF YOU LIVE OR DIE IN THAT TINY LITTLE DIRTY APPARTMENT OF YOURS.
Little shit!i wish you were close so I'll slap the living daylight of your smelly mouth.
Goodnight
Re: Why Do I Always Experience This, Please Advice by Nobody: 10:33pm On Sep 01, 2018
Eglobalma:


I get U bro and I try to do that also, I don’t really have a problem with anybody..it’s just this babe that’s bothering me. I’m too old for mind games , I’m trying to be somebody in life, if you’re not making me get money or better I don’t want to waste my valuable time. The person that said “time is money” was no fool else that quote wouldn’t be so widespread
Women are so afraid of silence and it makes them uncomfortable. Be silent and don't notice her, she'll pass.
Re: Why Do I Always Experience This, Please Advice by Eglobalma: 10:41pm On Sep 01, 2018
nwanneni:
i did not want to comment on this thread but your arrogance forced me to.
As to your "where was society rants",no one owes you anything!you gotta climb that ladder till you reach the top.
If you did not care about society,why bring it here?
I think you are just an attention seeking kid that needs to pour his frustrations on someone but I'll tell you what.
WE DON'T CARE IF YOU LIVE OR DIE IN THAT TINY LITTLE DIRTY APPARTMENT OF YOURS.
Little shit!i wish you were close so I'll slap the living daylight of your smelly mouth.
Goodnight

Finally someone makes me laugh, God bless u bro. Lol life’s short fam can’t even pretend to be offended cool
Re: Why Do I Always Experience This, Please Advice by Eglobalma: 10:42pm On Sep 01, 2018
MajorJeffery:
Women are so afraid of silence and it makes them uncomfortable. Be silent and don't notice her, she'll pass.

Lol they are always seeking validation ,
Re: Why Do I Always Experience This, Please Advice by Nobody: 10:44pm On Sep 01, 2018
MajorJeffery:
Women are so afraid of silence and it makes them uncomfortable. Be silent and don't notice her, she'll pass.
if you believe this story,then you can believe anything.
There is no girl anywhere.he's just a broke asshole trying to portray how he will treat women when he finally have what he daydreams of.
Nothing new here,I'll advise you to save your strength for better people
Re: Why Do I Always Experience This, Please Advice by Eglobalma: 10:44pm On Sep 01, 2018
Welcome to earth where being real, speaking your mind gets you hated. Guess what, u don’t know peace and joy till u speak ur mind everytime. Sure u would stop attracting people, but the advantage is the few u would attract would be real !
Re: Why Do I Always Experience This, Please Advice by Eglobalma: 10:46pm On Sep 01, 2018
nwanneni:
if you believe this story,then you can believe anything.
There is no girl anywhere.he's just a broke asshole trying to portray how he will treat women when he finally have what he daydreams of.
Nothing new here,I'll advise you to save your strength for better people

Who hurt u? Lol you sound so unhappy and bitter. It’s ok bro u win, please stop being so sad. Love u bro, even tho u insulted me
Re: Why Do I Always Experience This, Please Advice by Nobody: 10:48pm On Sep 01, 2018
Eglobalma:


Finally someone makes me laugh, God bless u bro. Lol life’s short fam can’t even pretend to be offended cool
you know the truth!guess what,i do too.
But you know what i did?i worked my way out of lack.
So do same and stop all this fuckery.
Like i said,we don't care about you so you can die now and save us some air.
Re: Why Do I Always Experience This, Please Advice by Eglobalma: 10:50pm On Sep 01, 2018
This type of people bring out the worst in me. I’m not perfect but I’m not one to create a thread and start insulting people, no one deserves to be talked down on. Life’s hard, everyone is struggling to survive but please I won’t take someone taking me for a fool because they are trying to be petty. If I fail in life it’s yall that will still mock me, I just want my space and hope to God I’m able to work till I make my momma proud. I’m not mean or rude, sorry if I insulted u, but I’m not just in a place where people can make me miserable cuz they think they like me. It’s petty, it’s immature and I’m old now, it was cool when I was younger but I have to try and not fail in life.
Re: Why Do I Always Experience This, Please Advice by Eglobalma: 10:51pm On Sep 01, 2018
nwanneni:
you know the truth!guess what,i do too.
But you know what i did?i worked my way out of lack.
So do same and stop all this fuckery.
Like i said,we don't care about you so you can die now and save us some air.

Still love u bro cool
Re: Why Do I Always Experience This, Please Advice by Eglobalma: 10:59pm On Sep 01, 2018
MCY56 God bless u, ur impartial and u try to see the best in people. Love u sis, keep being real. It’s hard to find a real one these days smiley

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Re: Why Do I Always Experience This, Please Advice by Mcy56(f): 11:11pm On Sep 01, 2018
Eglobalma:
MCY56 God bless u, ur impartial and u try to see the best in people. Love u sis, keep being real. It’s hard to find a real one these days smiley
God bless you too. Just keep being yourself and dont allow society or anyone to dictate who you should be to you.
I tried to accept people for who they are and I respect a person's wish a lot.
I believed change can't be forced and that making someone to see reasons in a friendly way works better than coercing.
I read some of your comments and I like the fact that you attributed your achievements to God rather than self. You dont have to be emotional about what you went through. Some people went through worst. You should rather be thankful to God. Please let that Word of God guides you in all you do.
You are blessed bro.
Re: Why Do I Always Experience This, Please Advice by sylvez(m): 11:29pm On Sep 01, 2018
Eglobalma:


Guess what? She has a boyfriend that keeps coming every week!!! The guy barely greets me now cuz he noticed she’s always trying to be close with me. She’s not my type, she’s all those over religious and oversabi type of girls..those I know better than u type. I was friendly at first, making her laugh and all but she started pushing it. Would bang on my door and comman me to come outside, then complain that I’m inside my own fucking house? Like WTF

Someone can not play with you again abi

However, na only you need advice na only you still don advice yourself....

Meanwhile, which kind of life you dey live like that Na your wife wey God go use you punish....

Wetin concern me....
Re: Why Do I Always Experience This, Please Advice by Mcslize: 11:32pm On Sep 01, 2018
Liliyann:
Op the lady likes you and simply want more!!
Why not give her what she wants or are you waiting for her to make the first move?
You can be the man in her life and be supplying all her needs!!
That's how real men roll

This is the best advice I have seen so far. Clap for yourself.
Re: Why Do I Always Experience This, Please Advice by Eglobalma: 11:32pm On Sep 01, 2018
Mcy56:

God bless you too. Just keep being yourself and dont allow society or anyone to dictate who you should be to you.
I tried to accept people for who they are and I respect a person's wish a lot.
I believed change can't be forced and that making someone to see reasons in a friendly way works better than coercing.
I read some of your comments and I like the fact that you attributed your achievements to God rather than self. You dont have to be emotional about what you went through. Some people went through worst. You should rather be thankful to God. Please let that Word of God guides you in all you do.
You are blessed bro.

You’re a star, keep shining

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Re: Why Do I Always Experience This, Please Advice by Eglobalma: 11:35pm On Sep 01, 2018
sylvez:


Someone can not play with you again abi

However, na only you need advice na only you still don advice yourself....

Meanwhile, which kind of life you dey live like that Na your wife wey God go use you punish....

Wetin concern me....


Bro if someone does something up to 6 times while u politely tell them u don’t like it and they continue then it’s not play it’s see finish , that one I won’t tolerate
Re: Why Do I Always Experience This, Please Advice by sylvez(m): 11:37pm On Sep 01, 2018
Eglobalma:


Bro if someone does something up to 6 times while u politely tell them u don’t like it and they continue then it’s not play it’s see finish , that one I won’t tolerate

Na so you go dey do "I don't tolerate " so tey you go miss the wife of your youth
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