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Urgent Advice Please! by pweetygal(f): 2:36am On Jul 17, 2010
My BF n i wre chatttin onlyn n all of a sudden he is tellin me he 1nts a 3-some with any frnd of mine, n am lyk shocked. i told him if it happend we wuld brk up, bt he made it clear 2 me dat he will marry me no mata wot n d@ he jst 1nts 2 feel wot it is lyk, am kinda confused cos i want 2 do it bt d problm is if i do it,my luv 4 him is goin2 die even if we r still goin out n i dnt 1nt dat 2 happen, pls House,wot shuld i do
Re: Urgent Advice Please! by Pweety4me(f): 2:40am On Jul 17, 2010
Did he promise u marriage?if u wanna do it u can it's ur choice. . .\

Hmm but do u think he is testing yu?i dunno but is dis not a insult?
Re: Urgent Advice Please! by omega25red(m): 4:49am On Jul 17, 2010
pweetygal:

My BF n i wre chatttin onlyn n all of a sudden he is tellin me he 1nts a 3-some with any frnd of mine, n am lyk shocked. i told him if it happend we wuld brk up, bt he made it clear 2 me dat he will marry me no mata wot n d@ he jst 1nts 2 feel wot it is lyk, am kinda confused cos i want 2 do it bt d problm is if i do it,my luv 4 him is goin2 die even if we r still goin out n i dnt 1nt dat 2 happen, pls House,wot shuld i do
omo ile iwe o ka we e omo ile we ye ye ye ka we e
poster edit your post by spelling the words completely because i'm getting a head ache reading the garbage you wrote
Re: Urgent Advice Please! by Bim4u: 8:37am On Jul 17, 2010
If you want to do 3some
then do it becos you want to try it
not becos he's promised you marriage
mennnn,they never stop been men
Honestly I think that's an insult
if he wanted to do it
let him to it without your knowledge n he should have
done all this childs-play before going into a committed relationship
like-wise yourself been interested even if u're wanting to experiment do it outside your relationship
A lot of insults would follow definitely that's a sure banker if u both do it while u're together.
Re: Urgent Advice Please! by papa190(m): 8:42am On Jul 17, 2010
pweety
havent i told u before 2 leave this your university BF alone

wen men like us dey here waitin 2 get hooked up ure doin ur NYSC and ure followin a 200L boy

he's indirectly tellin u what he wants
its either ure in or u're out~

meanwhile wher u servin~
Re: Urgent Advice Please! by Henesi2010(m): 9:38am On Jul 17, 2010
pweetygal:

My BF n i wre chatttin onlyn n all of a sudden he is tellin me he 1nts a 3-some with any frnd of mine, n am lyk shocked. i told him if it happend we wuld brk up, bt he made it clear 2 me dat he will marry me no mata wot n d@ he jst 1nts 2 feel wot it is lyk, am kinda confused cos i want 2 do it bt d problm is if i do it,my luv 4 him is goin2 die even if we r still goin out n i dnt 1nt dat 2 happen, pls House,wot shuld i do
Could you pls edit your post.
Re: Urgent Advice Please! by papa190(m): 9:41am On Jul 17, 2010
pweetygurl so u are even willin 2 do it with ur BF,

u wanna hav s3x wit ur BF and any of ur friends


na wa ooh GIRLS DEY SHA~~ grin grin
Re: Urgent Advice Please! by iice(f): 10:01am On Jul 17, 2010
omega25red:

omo ile iwe o ka we e omo ile we ye ye ye ka we e
poster edit your post by spelling the words completely because i'm getting a head ache reading the garbage you wrote

rofl grin grin
Re: Urgent Advice Please! by femmy2010(m): 10:06am On Jul 17, 2010
Please dear,i promise to marry you will you please help me chop off 190's head?
Would you do that for the promise of marriage?
If you do it then it is because u want to do it.
190,na just analogy ooo.
Happy weekend.
Re: Urgent Advice Please! by papa190(m): 10:06am On Jul 17, 2010
femmy2010:

Please dear,i promise to marry you will you please help me chop off 190's head?
Would you do that for the promise of marriage?
If you do it then it is because u want to do it.
190,na just analogy ooo.
Happy weekend.

rotflmfao~ grin grin lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Re: Urgent Advice Please! by Girl846(f): 7:08am On Jul 18, 2010
One of my friends did a triple sin with her boyfriend and another girl and again with another boy.
I tell you, their relationship was never the same. Their jealousy was increased and respect for each other decreased.
That incident caused a lot of problems and arguments in the relationship.Needless to say, they broke up very soon after the incident.
Its not worth it.

But anyways, you will what you want to do.
Just remember that God sees your every action and Jesus is coming soon!
Re: Urgent Advice Please! by mutter(f): 7:32am On Jul 18, 2010
@poster, you are just a silly little child playing with fire.
What pleasure can you derive from a man shifting from one to another- how unhygienic.
If he wants to do this with you then you can imagine what he does without you.
Even if he does marry you, I can tell you what will happen. He will keep bringing different girls home for a party and when you get older, he will bring two girls home, while you would have to watch him.
Marriage to a pervert can be very humiliating and painful be careful
Re: Urgent Advice Please! by Henesi2010(m): 8:44am On Jul 18, 2010
mutter:

@poster, you are just a silly little child playing with fire.
What pleasure can you derive from a man shifting from one to another- how unhygienic.
If he wants to do this with you then you can imagine what he does without you.
Even if he does marry you, I can tell you what will happen. He will keep bringing different girls home for a triple sin and when you get older, he will bring two girls home, while you would have to watch him.
Marriage to a pervert can be very humiliating and painful be careful
Good talk.
Re: Urgent Advice Please! by kindway: 10:01am On Jul 18, 2010
Why do u want to do it when u know uu love for him will die automatically. Is it because he promised you marriage? Common if he break up with u 'cause of that, u will get a better man. don't be desperate. A man saying that is not satisfied by your sacrifice and his obsession wont stop at that level. beware
Re: Urgent Advice Please! by ice234: 1:14pm On Jul 18, 2010
every guy has fantasized 3some its normal
Re: Urgent Advice Please! by Nobody: 1:26am On Jul 19, 2010
mutter:

@poster, you are just a silly little child playing with fire.
What pleasure can you derive from a man shifting from one to another- how unhygienic.
If he wants to do this with you then you can imagine what he does without you.
Even if he does marry you, I can tell you what will happen. He will keep bringing different girls home for a triple sin and when you get older, he will bring two girls home, while you would have to watch him.
Marriage to a pervert can be very humiliating and painful be careful 

i disagree with what you wrote because SOME men out there prefer to be fully honest and tell their partner about their fantasies and choose to experiment these fantasies with them rather than going to cheat.

what would you prefer: a partner who tells you his fantasies openly and try to fulfill them with you (however sick they may be TO YOU) or rather a partner that doesnt tell you these things and go and fulfill them with the local hood rats?!

in my world, being honest is ONE of the many foundations of  a successful relationship, let alone marriage, and if you cant even be honest to the gal you "supposedly" wanna get married to then there is a problem here. telling her is NOT The problem but FORCING her (blackmailing her) to do it IS what is wrong here. the minute the poster said she wasnt into it he should have taken a hint and basta with the issue.

@poster
here is a simple way to be done with this nonsense. tell your BF that you do not feel comfortable doing it, thinking that it will be the end of your union if you did it and therefore you have decided NOT to do it with him or anyone else.

if he persists then ask him how he would feel if you had fantasies of fukcing him in the a$$ with a d i l d o?!
Re: Urgent Advice Please! by zebra543: 12:36pm On Jul 19, 2010
@poster dont do it, no self respecting quality man will want to have a party with his wife*tobe* AND A FREIND!!! Its different if its a prostitute or a total stranger- he obviously has an eye on your friend. Remember a man will say anything to get what he wants, just because he's making it clear to you he wants to marry you doesnt he does, actions speak louder than words dont do what your not comfortable with under the impression your inconvenience will be notice and love reciprocated. Its good to sexually experiment with your partner but dont be naive about it!
Re: Urgent Advice Please! by PowerIdeas(m): 2:33pm On Jul 19, 2010
Pweety Girl are you NUTS!!!!

What kind of relationship are you trying to build! If you want to try a party, be my guest but be sure you will throw away any chance at a meaningful realationship with you certified mad man BF.

Everything in life comes with a price, if you truely luv this guy don't even think of a party with him.
Re: Urgent Advice Please! by djojo(m): 3:19pm On Jul 19, 2010
I think u should be ashamed of urself, is it because u want to satisfy ur guy that is why u agree with him to do the party with u, let me tell u this this is Nigeria and with the way and manner in which we behave and u think of our culture, do u think the guy will later marry u,
come to think of it this way if ur brother is dating a girl that as already perform 3some with two guys and u know about it will u allow ur bro to marry if he succeed in doing so u will blame urself.
i dont know why some are so dump on this Nairaland for given the lady an advise to go ahead with the stupid thing she want to involve herself
Re: Urgent Advice Please! by Girl846(f): 10:44pm On Jul 19, 2010
I do not even know where to start lipsrsealed
Re: Urgent Advice Please! by cantell(m): 11:09pm On Jul 19, 2010
Poster,
Get a copy of Gossip Girl Season 3 and get to the episode where dan humpherey(i think) had a party with his girlfriend & friend.
It'll explain better .
When guys wanna cheat, they always come up with an excuse.
Re: Urgent Advice Please! by deniyor: 11:19pm On Jul 19, 2010
Goodluck with that. Maybe he wants to do your friend and vice versa. This has absolutely nothing to do with marriage and will impart his marriage decision really.

Why don't you just tell him that you would do it only on one condition. You also have a triple sin with a friend of his choosing. It should shut him up real good.

In a committed relationship, a 3som is a way to cheat legally grin
Re: Urgent Advice Please! by StRichy(m): 9:01am On Jul 20, 2010
CHOOSE BTW THE EGYPTIANS & THE RED SEA!
but remember that God made a way for them wen they didn't turn back.
Please Daughter of Zion RESPECT thy BODY!
Re: Urgent Advice Please! by MrCork24: 1:39pm On Jul 21, 2010
Darlin, I do 3some everyweek & its ok

I will marry u if he dosent marry u
Re: Urgent Advice Please! by Omolola1(f): 1:51pm On Jul 21, 2010
shocked shocked shocked
wow! what an INSULT!!!

and for thinking of agreeing to this, you accept the insult and want MORE
Re: Urgent Advice Please! by LOVE4BUG(f): 2:12pm On Jul 21, 2010
What an insult!!! you you actually thinking of considering this!! what a shame!!! shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked

He will throw you out after that tongue tongue tongue

Marriage ko Marriage nie angry angry angry

why are you so DESPERATE
Re: Urgent Advice Please! by Gift19(f): 2:12pm On Jul 21, 2010
My dear, naturally all guys fantasize abt things like dat. I even heard a true story where a guy told his gf dat his fantasy is to mak love wit two girls at d same time, and she made his fantasy cum thru because she lovd him deeply. Maybe ur bf is just trying 2 test ur love for him. Its up 2 u 2 decide. Can u risk it?
Re: Urgent Advice Please! by MrCork24: 2:19pm On Jul 21, 2010
pweetygal , hon why do we try it first, u, me and my secretary.

This would help u make yo mind up
Re: Urgent Advice Please! by selfmade(f): 3:22pm On Jul 21, 2010
what an INSULT, what kind of a lady are you? what your bf said says alots about the kind of friends you keep cos i do not think any good friend will accept that from you or anybody.please do not listen to him cos i do not know why he would even think about 3some in the first place. wonders never stop shocked
Re: Urgent Advice Please! by MrCork24: 3:37pm On Jul 21, 2010
pweetygal , babes just ignore the room coz they have no clue.

3some is great.

Been there done that

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