dhardline:
Same false prophets that are responsible for so many broken homes!? Please there are standards for choosing a wife in the Bible (a virtuous woman) every other is just cock and bull stories.

going through the same issues now. Ladies and prophets eh hmm the matter tire me o

Pidginwhisper:
That was how a prophet told my paddy that a very good lady who was supposed to be his Wife no be him ordained Wife from above, when he told me, i advised him to mind the prophet, if your ppl don approve here, just go ahead.
Few months later my paddy took another lady to same prophet and he affirmed that the new lady na him Wife, fast forward to 8months after the Wedding, this ordained Wife Stab my paddy for arm over minor argument that ensued after she repeatedly burnt what she was cooking while watching Zeeworld. The rejected one is now married with 3kids while the Ordained one never carry belle sef, everyweek she must break bottle. Pray for God's direction when u dey find Husband/Wife, no let Pastor/prophet dictate to you.

True

Cc: lilyqueeny

No he doesnt,

God only presents, You do the choosing. If God chose spouses for us, he would be taking responsibility for the failures in that marriage.

How can you say God will choose a spouse for you, when he could as well chosen other vital things in your life such as Salvation.

God only Presents , We do the choose. To make the Right choice, we have to WATCH and PRAY!

MuttleyLaff:


When all is said and done, it's you at the end of it all, that makes the choice
God help you, that you find a wife, find a good thing and obtain favour from God

Notice, Eliezer, on behalf of Abraham, and for Isaac, asked for God's direction etcetera
and when the decision time came for action, Eliezer made a choice.
cc ethankareem, Originakalokalo adetayo234

It is criminal you disregard that, a horse can be led to water, but you cant make it drink

Apart from Adam's case and the other time, of God telling Hosea, to take on an unwelcome spouse,
when and where else has God chosen spouses for Man?

Stop misquoting Scriptures

Proverbs 19:14
House and riches are the inheritance of fathers: and a prudent wife is from the Lord

And a foolish woman is from the Lord too.

Ecclesiastes 7:26
And I find more bitter than death the woman, whose heart is snares and nets, and her hands as bands: whoso pleaseth God shall escape from her; but the sinner shall be taken by her.

adetayo234:


God chose Rebecca for Isaac. Your comment is a complete falsehood. Read Genesis 24:14

Who choose Eve for Adam?

MrPresident1:
Stop misquoting Scriptures

Proverbs 19:14
House and riches are the inheritance of fathers:
and a prudent wife is from the Lord

And a foolish woman is from the Lord too.

Ecclesiastes 7:26
And I find more bitter than death the woman, whose heart is snares and nets, and her hands as bands:
whoso pleaseth God shall escape from her; but the sinner shall be taken by her.

Stop doing a strawman

Proverbs 19:14 and/or Ecclesiastes 7:26, whichever it may be, as in having a prudent wife or foolish woman, is dependent on your choice

MrPresident1:


You are a criminal for this nonsense you just spouted.

God controls everything. He is the one that links man and woman, he is the one that makes them marry each other. God is in absolute control of the universe.

Oga God is not in control of the universe for now. The devil took control of universe after the event at the garden of Eden.

If God was in control, the earth would be perfect.

MuttleyLaff:
Stop doing a strawman

Proverbs 19:14 and/or Ecclesiastes 7:26, whichever it may be, as in having a prudent wife or foolish woman, is dependent on your choice

Your interpretation is of no essence.

Prudent or foolish wife is from God

sholay2011:
But what did God tell her personally?

She has met someone else who is ready to marry her now hence this gimmick. God does not choose our spouses. He directs us and it is up to us to make that choice.

Geenosko:


Oga God is not in control of the universe for now. The devil took control of universe after the event at the garden of Eden.

If God was in control, the earth would be perfect.

God is in charge, he only turned his back on you, but he did not turn his back from the ones who love and fear him

MrPresident1:


God is in charge, he only turned his back on you, but he did not turn his back from the ones who love and fear him

God is not in charge of this world.
He only will be after rapture.

Where is God when terrible things happen to those who "love and fear him"

Where was God when that 13 old year old girl was raped to death?

Where was God when innocent people die daily?

Satan is the god of this world because Adam handed it over to him and God doesn't break his laws.

You have a Bible, go and study it for yourself

MrPresident1:
Your interpretation is of no essence.

What imagined interpretation are you talking about

MrPresident1:
Prudent or foolish wife is from God

Of course they both are from God
and the power of choice resides with the picker
The act of choosing between a prudent or foolish wife, just like as in Judges 14:2-3, is with you

God has told only two people to take their spouses,
Hosea was directly told and Joseph indirectly told via an angel.

The girl just wanted to know if you are even thinking of marrying her... smart girl

MuttleyLaff:
What imagined interpretation are you talking about

Of course they both are from God
and the power of choice resides with the picker
The act of choosing between a prudent or foolish wife, just like as in Judges 14:2-3, is with you

God has told only two people to take their spouses,
Hosea was directly told and Joseph indirectly told via an angel.

Psalm 25:12
What man is he that feareth the Lord? him shall he teach in the way that he shall choose.

Lying criminal. Fear God and he will choose the best wife for you.

This is funny... even my pastor and his (now) wife were severely warned... before they got married that they shouldn't try it... warning from all sides... but now they're married and they're doing great... nice children... fine houses... travelling out at any time... hear from God by yourself bro!

Originakalokalo:


The Bible says that the heart of men is DESPERATELY WICKED who can know it?

Regardless of appearance, it is very important to let God choose one's spouse.

you don't know who wants to marry you...God knows him or her.

It was God that brought eve to Adam...

God is still in the business of doing the same IF YOU LET HIM.

Brother read that portion very well, God did not force eve on Adam

NPComplete:
Lol. If the girl is that dumb, u should probably be happy you found out early enough. Lol

u no well o�
on a serious note sha, we should be careful with the so called prophets.

Your babe have enter their one chance o...my advice to you - save her or free her (what do I even know sef)

Leave her ND move on.

bluefilm:
God, if actually he or she or it exists, does not even know you exist not to talk of choosing a spouse for you.

I don't think you exist too because I don't know you

MuttleyLaff:
ethankareem, God stopped choosing spouses for man after the well-known "The woman whom You gave to be with me..." infamous line.
The onus, since after then, is on the man, through proxy or not, to find a wife, a good thing, and receive favor from God.

My best comment ever! This is what used to tell people who cares... after Adam blamed God for the woman He gave him, God decided to mandate man find his wife.

He said "he that findeth a good wife, has found a good thing and obtaineth favour from the Lord" ...

He didn't say "he that I giveth a wife..."

And this has been my watchword.

ethankareem:
Been dating this lady for a year plus now, all of a sudden she said more than 1 prophet told her I am gonna treat her bad in future if we ever get married.......

Was surprised when she told me cause I am a very easy going person and in sight of trouble, I take off. And I hate violence and I let things go easily.

yes GOD chooses your spouse. its called twin flame. your spouse was already chosen for you before you were born. when you meet each other ? that was the illusion of coincidence but it was GOD who put two of you together to meet when you met. your spouse is chosen for you in the spirit world based on your spiritual constitution as in if you need to be punished, then you will receive a wicked spouse. to further help you I can do the spiritual compatibility if you give me both your date of births I can tell you if it going to be a disaster or not.

Geenosko:
Oga God is not in control of the universe for now.
The devil took control of universe after the event at the garden of Eden.

If God was in control, the earth would be perfect.

MrPresident1:
God is in charge, he only turned his back on you,
but he did not turn his back from the ones who love and fear him

Geenosko, Adam and Eve voluntarily gave up what control they had on earth to the devil
God is still and very much in control, please dont get things twisted Geenosko.

Geenosko:
God is not in charge of this world.
He only will be after rapture.

Where is God when terrible things happen to those who "love and fear him"

Where was God when that 13 old year old girl was raped to death?

Where was God when innocent people die daily?

Satan is the god of this world because Adam handed it over to him and God doesn't break his laws.

You have a Bible, go and study it for yourself

God was in the same place He always is, when He was assaulted, brutalised, ridiculed
and lastly put to death on trumped-up charges

God gave the earth to man and it's like when you allocate a room in your house for your son or daughter
Just because your son's or daughter's room is messy doesnt mean you've lost control of the house or home
It doesnt mean you are about, when the bedroom wall was defaced or when the room got dirty

MuttleyLaff:
What imagined interpretation are you talking about

Of course they both are from God
and the power of choice resides with the picker
The act of choosing between a prudent or foolish wife, just like as in Judges 14:2-3, is with you

God has told only two people to take their spouses,
Hosea was directly told and Joseph indirectly told via an angel.

MrPresident1:
Psalm 25:12
What man is he that feareth the Lord?
him shall he teach in the way that he shall choose.

Lying criminal. Fear God and he will choose the best wife for you.

Yes, Psalm 25:12 is evidence or proof of Noah's righteousness
Read Genesis 6:8-9 slowly and loudly, dont blink, or you'll miss the significant favor in Genesis 6:8 meshed in Proverbs 18:22

ethankareem:
no too gallant.....serving at the moment and she is in part 3.

At times na money oh! Most of these ladies are easily moved by what they see. Just pick your hands cross and watch how things unfold. Try your best in showing her love but if she insist on depending on those prophecies, you know what to do.

asuustrike1:
At times na money oh!

What happens then when money fails?

asuustrike1:
Most of these ladies are easily moved by what they see.

"And when the woman saw that the tree was good for food,
and that it was pleasant to the eyes, and a tree to be desired to make one wise, she took of the fruit thereof, and did eat,"
- Genesis 3:6

asuustrike1:
Just pick your hands cross and watch how things unfold.
Try your best in showing her love
but if she insist on depending on those prophecies, you know what to do.

ethankareem, if you're genuine, a version of Matthew 1:19-20,
significantly Matthew 1:20 can be reenacted, to say or do something to remove the doubts and fears of her about you

MrPresident1:


You are a criminal for this nonsense you just spouted.

God controls everything. He is the one that links man and woman, he is the one that makes them marry each other. God is in absolute control of the universe.

You are the one and original Criminal for this nonsense you posted.

When looking for a woman to marry, because you are waiting on God , don't open your mouth and woo a lady with your own mouth. Wait for the angels in heaven to come and do the job for you. By the time you are 75 years old without a wife , your brain will reset to know you go a fishing by your self and for your self.


Wait there on God to find you a woman, He will soon come.

Mumu Christian.

MrPresident1:


You are a criminal for this nonsense you just spouted.

God controls everything. He is the one that links man and woman, he is the one that makes them marry each other. God is in absolute control of the universe.

And you're very foolish for d thrash u spewed up there. What do u know about life? God has given man some responsibilities, 1 of which is to choose a life partner. Another is to read n pass ur exams, its ur type that carries fellowship activities on ur head during exam period on campus, hoping God will show u expo in ur dreams, only to fail woefully.

What brings two individual most especially is karma. To balance each other karma. most times that's what it's all about.

ethankareem:
Been dating this lady for a year plus now, all of a sudden she said more than 1 prophet told her I am gonna treat her bad in future if we ever get married.......

Was surprised when she told me cause I am a very easy going person and in sight of trouble, I take off. And I hate violence and I let things go easily.

Those prophets are right. Please look for another girl. There are many fishes in the ocean.


I wonder what people would have said if the likes of Elijah, Moses, Joshua, etc. were to be in this present age.

Originakalokalo:



If you don't lean on your own understanding... and in all your ways you acknowledge him,

He will direct your path.

All you need to do is ask for his direction, and he will give it unto you.

People still ask....and he still responds.

My case is different. The man I'm seeing said we cannot marry because his parents doesn't approve of my town. How do I seek God's face in this? When we are both compatible? Can prayers change their minds?

Your Bible must be fake, please quote what is in verse 14 because my Bible says something different.

Abraham directed his eldest servant to where a wife for Isaac is to be gotten. Stop twisting the Bible before God twist your life!

Read Gen 24 from the start for clarity.

God is not in business of taking decisions for you,hence the reason you have a brain,mind and heart.

adetayo234:


God chose Rebecca for Isaac. Your comment is a complete falsehood. Read Genesis 24:14