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Your Advice Will Be Appreciated by kelish(f): 6:00pm On Mar 03, 2019
I am lady of 22 years, 5 years ago, i was this teenager with a very big dream which by my own calculation would have been partly achieved by now. But the wind life choose to blow against me, my dreams barely achieved, i have lost so much time already.


I rounded up my ND program in computer science in 2016, but since then, i hav'nt been able to make any head way. I have been unable to collect my result, to seek a reasonable job, i have been through quiet a number of interviews but couldnt get the job after passing the interview because i couldnt provide my result.

I have also done a number of non-result required jobs to save up to go get my result, but i have been unlucky with the jobs regarding payment. This is the 3rd month of 2019 already and am still confused, jobless and depressed.
I want a way out of this suituation.
so i need an advice on how to get out of this.
Re: Your Advice Will Be Appreciated by DanDeeBoss(m): 6:17pm On Mar 03, 2019
What's stopping you from collecting your result??

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Re: Your Advice Will Be Appreciated by donstan18: 6:18pm On Mar 03, 2019
DanDeeBoss:
What's stopping you from collecting your result??
Is it not obvious?

Carryover!!!
Re: Your Advice Will Be Appreciated by DanDeeBoss(m): 6:27pm On Mar 03, 2019
donstan18:
Is it not obvious?

Carryover!!!
Chaiiii... Thought as much
Re: Your Advice Will Be Appreciated by kelish(f): 6:28pm On Mar 03, 2019
donstan18:
Is it not obvious?
Carryover!!!
sorry, i dnt have any carry over.
Re: Your Advice Will Be Appreciated by kelish(f): 6:33pm On Mar 03, 2019
DanDeeBoss:
What's stopping you from collecting your result??


Financial constrain.
when i was in school, i was unable to collect my registration, which has now doubled.
Have being trying to save for it doh, still not ready yet.
Re: Your Advice Will Be Appreciated by DanDeeBoss(m): 7:29pm On Mar 03, 2019
kelish:



Financial constrain.
when i was in school, i was unable to collect my registration, which has now doubled.
Have being trying to save for it doh, still not ready yet.
No help from your family members or Church??
Re: Your Advice Will Be Appreciated by kelish(f): 8:15pm On Mar 03, 2019
DanDeeBoss:
No help from your family members or Church??

No help from family members. My own parent are having financial issues, reason why things turned out this way in the first place.
Re: Your Advice Will Be Appreciated by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:39am On Mar 04, 2019
kelish:
I am lady of 22 years, 5 years ago, i was this teenager with a very big dream which by my own calculation would have been partly achieved by now. But the wind life choose to blow against me, my dreams barely achieved, i have lost so much time already.

I rounded up my ND program in computer science in 2016, but since then, i hav'nt been able to make any head way. I have been unable to collect my result, to seek a reasonable job, i have been through quiet a number of interviews but couldnt get the job after passing the interview because i couldnt provide my result.

I have also done a number of non-result required jobs to save up to go get my result, but i have been unlucky with the jobs regarding payment. This is the 3rd month of 2019 already and am still confused, jobless and depressed.
I want a way out of this suituation.
so i need an advice on how to get out of this.

very simple, lower you unrealistic expectations, and instead live in the REAL world.... what you are going through is just the same as MILLIONS of Nigerian graduates.

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Re: Your Advice Will Be Appreciated by kelish(f): 8:20pm On Mar 04, 2019
MrBrownJay1:


very simple, lower you unrealistic expectations, and instead live in the REAL world.... what you are going through is just the same as MILLIONS of Nigerian graduates.

unrealistic expectations you say! I dont think there is anything unrealistic about my expectations, i want to work my way to realising my expectations, only want advice on how to go about it.
Re: Your Advice Will Be Appreciated by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:43am On Mar 05, 2019
kelish:

unrealistic expectations you say! I dont think there is anything unrealistic about my expectations, i want to work my way to realising my expectations, only want advice on how to go about it.

you were a teenager with unrealistic expectations thinking that by a certain age you would achieve your "very big" dreams... but sadly you didnt. now you are jobless and desperately looking for employment AND/OR seeking for a way out of this quite unwanted situation, and STILL having unrealistic expectations..... but as I have said to you earlier, open your eyes and look around you to start realizing that you are not alone in this situation, and millions of graduates find themselves in your shoes.

the unrealistic expectations that you should have a job by now, when there are very few good jobs out there (to begin with), is the reason why you will always fail to understand your situation.

there is nothing wrong with wanting to work your way to realize what you desire... the catch is to have the right means/tools to do so.

IMHO the way to go about it is to find other means to gather funds (aka start a small biz, apply for different jobs, seek help donation from family/friends etc)

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Re: Your Advice Will Be Appreciated by jeff1607(m): 11:00am On Mar 05, 2019
kelish:


unrealistic expectations you say! I dont think there is anything unrealistic about my expectations, i want to work my way to realising my expectations, only want advice on how to go about it.


what type of job can you do and your skills set?
Re: Your Advice Will Be Appreciated by DanZenithh(m): 1:44pm On Mar 05, 2019
Pm me
Re: Your Advice Will Be Appreciated by DanZenithh(m): 1:44pm On Mar 05, 2019
Pm me
Now
Re: Your Advice Will Be Appreciated by FreeMejoor1(m): 2:49pm On Mar 05, 2019
DanZenithh:
Pm me
Now
have pm you
Re: Your Advice Will Be Appreciated by kelish(f): 5:05pm On Mar 05, 2019
MrBrownJay1:


you were a teenager with unrealistic expectations thinking that by a certain age you would achieve your "very big" dreams... but sadly you didnt. now you are jobless and desperately looking for employment AND/OR seeking for a way out of this quite unwanted situation, and STILL having unrealistic expectations..... but as I have said to you earlier, open your eyes and look around you to start realizing that you are not alone in this situation, and millions of graduates find themselves in your shoes.

the unrealistic expectations that you should have a job by now, when there are very few good jobs out there (to begin with), is the reason why you will always fail to understand your situation.

there is nothing wrong with wanting to work your way to realize what you desire... the catch is to have the right means/tools to do so.

IMHO the way to go about it is to find other means to gather funds (aka start a small biz, apply for different jobs, seek help donation from family/friends etc)

thank you very much
Re: Your Advice Will Be Appreciated by kelish(f): 5:23pm On Mar 05, 2019
jeff1607:


what type of job can you do and your skills set?

job wise: am flexible, provided i am taught the basics. Skill; just the major basic computer knowledge.
Re: Your Advice Will Be Appreciated by OlawaleBammie: 10:45pm On Jul 09, 2019
kelish:



job wise: am flexible, provided i am taught the basics.
Skill; just the major basic computer knowledge.
Hmmmm, this is tough, only those who are in ur shoe wil understand u better dear, but wait, can u do dis.......
Re: Your Advice Will Be Appreciated by EhisChelsea1(m): 10:48pm On Jul 09, 2019
kelish:
I am lady of 22 years, 5 years ago, i was this teenager with a very big dream which by my own calculation would have been partly achieved by now. But the wind life choose to blow against me, my dreams barely achieved, i have lost so much time already.


I rounded up my ND program in computer science in 2016, but since then, i hav'nt been able to make any head way. I have been unable to collect my result, to seek a reasonable job, i have been through quiet a number of interviews but couldnt get the job after passing the interview because i couldnt provide my result.

I have also done a number of non-result required jobs to save up to go get my result, but i have been unlucky with the jobs regarding payment. This is the 3rd month of 2019 already and am still confused, jobless and depressed.
I want a way out of this suituation.
so i need an advice on how to get out of this.

Pm me if u don't mind
Re: Your Advice Will Be Appreciated by HeliosHay(m): 10:58pm On Jul 09, 2019
kelish:
I am lady of 22 years, 5 years ago, i was this teenager with a very big dream which by my own calculation would have been partly achieved by now. But the wind life choose to blow against me, my dreams barely achieved, i have lost so much time already.


I rounded up my ND program in computer science in 2016, but since then, i hav'nt been able to make any head way. I have been unable to collect my result, to seek a reasonable job, i have been through quiet a number of interviews but couldnt get the job after passing the interview because i couldnt provide my result.

I have also done a number of non-result required jobs to save up to go get my result, but i have been unlucky with the jobs regarding payment. This is the 3rd month of 2019 already and am still confused, jobless and depressed.
I want a way out of this suituation.
so i need an advice on how to get out of this.

What do you mean by the part in bold? you mean you've done some jobs that didn't require your result yet they didn't pay you?

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Re: Your Advice Will Be Appreciated by Apination(m): 12:36am On Jul 10, 2019
kelish:



job wise: am flexible, provided i am taught the basics.
Skill; just the major basic computer knowledge.
If you had applied to teach in a secondary school since 2016, I bet you would be working and earning something no matter how little. undecided

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Re: Your Advice Will Be Appreciated by kelish(f): 4:54pm On Aug 07, 2019
OlawaleBammie:

Hmmmm, this is tough, only those who are in ur shoe wil understand u better dear, but wait, can u do dis.......
yes, i can
Re: Your Advice Will Be Appreciated by kelish(f): 4:55pm On Aug 07, 2019
Apination:

If you had applied to teach in a secondary school since 2016, I bet you would be working and earning something no matter how little. undecided
i wish you can understand
Re: Your Advice Will Be Appreciated by Apination(m): 4:56pm On Aug 07, 2019
kelish:

i wish you can understand
Make me understand
Re: Your Advice Will Be Appreciated by kelish(f): 4:56pm On Aug 07, 2019
HeliosHay:


What do you mean by the part in bold? you mean you've done some jobs that didn't require your result yet they didn't pay you?
exactly, an being owed.
Re: Your Advice Will Be Appreciated by kelish(f): 4:59pm On Aug 07, 2019
Apination:

Make me understand
i have taught on different occasions, the pay isnt enough to sustain yourself not to take of saving. plus family contributions.
Re: Your Advice Will Be Appreciated by Apination(m): 5:59pm On Aug 07, 2019
kelish:

i have taught on different occasions, the pay isnt enough to sustain yourself not to take of saving. plus family contributions.
Which state do you live in?
Re: Your Advice Will Be Appreciated by CanadianNaija: 6:13pm On Aug 07, 2019
Why is your family expecting you to contribute when they're not paying your schools fees? shouldn't they let you save up the money you earn for school?
Re: Your Advice Will Be Appreciated by kelish(f): 11:59am On Aug 08, 2019
Apination:
Which state do you live in?
kaduna
Re: Your Advice Will Be Appreciated by toks1610(m): 12:25pm On Aug 08, 2019
kelish:
I am lady of 22 years, 5 years ago, i was this teenager with a very big dream which by my own calculation would have been partly achieved by now. But the wind life choose to blow against me, my dreams barely achieved, i have lost so much time already.


I rounded up my ND program in computer science in 2016, but since then, i hav'nt been able to make any head way. I have been unable to collect my result, to seek a reasonable job, i have been through quiet a number of interviews but couldnt get the job after passing the interview because i couldnt provide my result.

I have also done a number of non-result required jobs to save up to go get my result, but i have been unlucky with the jobs regarding payment. This is the 3rd month of 2019 already and am still confused, jobless and depressed.
I want a way out of this suituation.
so i need an advice on how to get out of this.


Call or WhatsApp me on 07067474230
Re: Your Advice Will Be Appreciated by Apination(m): 2:48pm On Aug 08, 2019
kelish:

kaduna
Sent you a dm
Re: Your Advice Will Be Appreciated by EhisChelsea1(m): 9:56pm On Dec 31, 2019
kelish:
I am lady of 22 years, 5 years ago, i was this teenager with a very big dream which by my own calculation would have been partly achieved by now. But the wind life choose to blow against me, my dreams barely achieved, i have lost so much time already.


I rounded up my ND program in computer science in 2016, but since then, i hav'nt been able to make any head way. I have been unable to collect my result, to seek a reasonable job, i have been through quiet a number of interviews but couldnt get the job after passing the interview because i couldnt provide my result.

I have also done a number of non-result required jobs to save up to go get my result, but i have been unlucky with the jobs regarding payment. This is the 3rd month of 2019 already and am still confused, jobless and depressed.
I want a way out of this suituation.
so i need an advice on how to get out of this.

So sorry, just seeing u sent a DM months back. I didn't know how to check before now... Kindly resend a DM please... Thanks

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