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I've Had To Forgive My Cheating GF She Was Talking Sucide. by Worriedguy6699: 8:09am On Sep 17, 2022
What is wrong with women? Continuation from last thread. https://www.nairaland.com/7337097/just-broke-up-girlfriend-middle

After breaking up with her, we argued for a while, and she became aggressive cause it was middle of the night and I can't kick her out. She laid on top my body begging for mercy. All I could think of was how her weight was crushing my lungs and compressing my stomach to the point that I was releasing gas while she was talking. Thank lord for my exoskeleton.

I knew it was manipulation tactics, so I didn't budge. I maintained frame. She then got up and stayed silent for like 10 minutes without moving.

I was worried if she was dead, but when I got close, she was crying silently, her face was covered in tears. I felt bad, but I told her there's not much I can give her, because despite what I've done, she's still spreading her "wings". She swore they're just chats and I'm misunderstanding them.

My girl is extremely present when I call on her. She leaves everything to attend to me. She has other good parts too.

Anyways, she went and curled up by the edge of the wall. I didn't know what she was doing there. I left her for 30 minutes. I felt uncomfortable so I went to check on her. Her whole body was soaked with tears, she's been crying silently again.

I was filled with pity. I made her understand that I want her to be free to be with other guys. I didn't want to lock her up because of relationship. I told her taht her heart/pussy wants to experience freedom, but she wasn't having any of that.

Then she said, "What is life without you." I tried to convince her life would get better after a while. She went back to sobbing quietly. I gave up. I was terrified. She said she's not leaving that place. Omo, I needed to sleep.

I don't want to wake up to a dead girl in my room. So I asked her to promise me that she will never do it again. She did. I just had to say anything to make her okay. She eventually came to bed held me tight and slept off.

I will break up with her when she's out of my house.

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Re: I've Had To Forgive My Cheating GF She Was Talking Sucide. by iamwilliamsfx(m): 8:09am On Sep 17, 2022
cry


Did you Bleep her that night?

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Re: I've Had To Forgive My Cheating GF She Was Talking Sucide. by dollynnn(f): 8:11am On Sep 17, 2022
You are trapped

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Re: I've Had To Forgive My Cheating GF She Was Talking Sucide. by Nobody: 8:13am On Sep 17, 2022
Wahala,your confusion def ehnn.

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Re: I've Had To Forgive My Cheating GF She Was Talking Sucide. by Jashub: 8:14am On Sep 17, 2022
You messed up. Why didn't you tell her the truth and let her do what she wants ?! Mtchww.... undecided

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Re: I've Had To Forgive My Cheating GF She Was Talking Sucide. by FuckSilly: 8:15am On Sep 17, 2022
NEVER FORGIVE A CHEAT
CHEATING IS NEVER A MISTAKE, ESPECIALLY FOR GIRLS...
SHE'LL DO IT AGAIN...
THEY NEVER CHANGE...

OSUigboFlatHead:
It's a WHORÈ, SLÚT, OLOSHO and
FISH BRAIN GENERATION OF GIRLS.

An average Nigerian girl these days within 18 - 28 have between 3 - 8 bodycount.
Note, I SAID AVERAGE. This bodycount includes at least one married man.
I know a WHORĒ personally whom you'd think is a very decent girl but when we hacked through her WhatsApp, this girl has slept with at least 7 people just within 7 months last year when we checked, including with 3 married men, and has done one abortion. This girl has at least 20 bodycount!!! Her parents are okay and quite religious but they don't even have a clue about what she's doing and what she has done.


MOST OF THEM ARE SHAMELESS TO DRESS ANYHOW BUT EVEN MANY OF THE ONES THAT DRESSES MODESTLY HER WHORÈS.

I'm not even talking about runs girl and girls you know that does HOOKUPS.

I'm still just referring to girls like:
Your sisters
Your cousins
Your fiancée
Your girlfriend etc.

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Re: I've Had To Forgive My Cheating GF She Was Talking Sucide. by FuckSilly: 8:15am On Sep 17, 2022
You'll be the greatest fool alive to forgive a cheating girlfriend.

Do you think she was CHEATING based on ignorance?

No girl alive will admit to cheating even if you caught her red-handed. They'll still make excuses, they'll still lie... they'll still tell you that it's not what you think EVEN IF YOU'RE GOD.

She knew exactly what she was doing.
She was enjoying the "favour" she was getting from the promiscuous activities.
She only became sorry and so-called suicidal because SHE GOT CAUGHT.

CHEATING IS NEVER A MISTAKE.

MEN GET MOVED BY WHAT THEY SEE. That is, seeing big boobs - if you're a lover of that, tiny waste, beautiful face, big ass etc. This is different from how females are. I'm not saying good looks don't attract women, but it's not as it is for men. Girls can't usually know how "big" or "strong" or "good" you are down there until they experienced it and it takes a lot for them to give in for the experience.
IT TAKES A LOT OF THINKING, ANALYSIS, CALCULATIONS AND TIME FOR AN AVERAGE GIRL TO SPREAD HER LEGS FOR A GUY TO CONQUER HER.

An average guy can love a girl so dearly and still cheat but it's almost impossible for a girl to cheat on a guy she loves and respect, so when a girl cheats on you, that girl doesn't have an respect or love for you...
No guy should ever tolerate disrespect from a girl he cares and provides for. What most of them bring to the table is the sex and how can you now accept to still tolerate her giving the sex to other guys that are barely doing anything for her?

A CHEAT WILL ALWAYS BE A CHEAT!
THEY NEVER CHANGE.
NEVER FORGIVE AND TAKE BACK A CHEAT.

You should have allowed the SLÚT to kill herself. At least, it'll save us the existence of another slút at large.

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Re: I've Had To Forgive My Cheating GF She Was Talking Sucide. by Worriedguy6699: 8:16am On Sep 17, 2022
dollynnn:
You are trapped

I'm not. I'll do it while she's with her friends so they can hold her down. She's such a good person though. I haven't actually caught her fucking, just the way she chats with guys, even telling them I love you. Still chat with all her ex's. Goes to men's house, etc.

It's not easy to be beautiful though. Guys are literally throwing themselves at her, it's fvcking sick. It would be selfish of me to deny her the possibility of all that could accomplish. That's why I'm letting her go

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Re: I've Had To Forgive My Cheating GF She Was Talking Sucide. by Amb1045(m): 8:18am On Sep 17, 2022
Never forgive a cheating girlfriend. You did well bro. Cut off from her small small. These ladies cannot be trusted.

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Re: I've Had To Forgive My Cheating GF She Was Talking Sucide. by Amb1045(m): 8:24am On Sep 17, 2022
Worriedguy6699:


I'm not. I'll do it while she's with her friends so they can hold her down. She's such a good person though. I haven't actually caught her fucking, just the way she chats with guys, even telling them I love you. Still chat with all her ex's. Goes to men's house, etc.

It's not easy to be beautiful though. Guys are literally throwing themselves at her, it's fvcking sick. It would be selfish of me to deny her the possibility of all that could accomplish. That's why I'm letting her go
mehn I understand your pains bro. Seeing your girl share the attention you deserve with other guys. Don't break up with her yet, she might not recover from it forever. Just cut off with her small small, stop giving her the attention you use to. Discuss with her your fears. Please don't damage her mental state towards men.

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Re: I've Had To Forgive My Cheating GF She Was Talking Sucide. by PerfectStranger(m): 8:25am On Sep 17, 2022
Before you forgive a cheating girl, remember at some point the dicc felt out and she quickly slide it in bck.

Threatening you with cheap suicide, hoeLosho

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Re: I've Had To Forgive My Cheating GF She Was Talking Sucide. by Thanos805: 8:26am On Sep 17, 2022
what kind of rubbish talk is this??
Re: I've Had To Forgive My Cheating GF She Was Talking Sucide. by Worriedguy6699: 8:27am On Sep 17, 2022
Amb1045:
mehn I understand your pains bro. Seeing your girl share the attention you deserve with other guys. Don't break up with her yet, she might not recover from it forever. Just cut off with her small small, stop giving her the attention you use to. Discuss with her your fears. Please don't damage her mental state towards men.

Thanks so much man. I needed a little kind words.

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Re: I've Had To Forgive My Cheating GF She Was Talking Sucide. by Godada(m): 8:29am On Sep 17, 2022


Guy.

I get you.

One thing you should understand about life is that nothing is black or white.

Despite these ramblings about redpill, it's very instructive to know how to use people regardless of what went down.

In this case: your girlfriend.

Don't break up with her physically.

Do that psychologically.

Keep her.

Pull her to your bumper.

Pump her

Don't Dump her.

Watch her if she is sincere.

The truth is women thrive on attention.

That's what drives them.

Women are nothing without attention.

Your girl needs a lesson in reality check.

She needs to be shocked.

Hit her where she lives..... In her mind.

The amount of pressure women get especially pretty women is crazy.

I had one back then.

The kind of guys that came for her was mad.

There is nothing, I can give that they can't give times 10.

They push the flashest Vs.

I understood for the first time that it's really up to her to stay or bounce.

Based on she display.

Keep her for recreation.

Give nothing out about how you feel.

If you want her for keeps: put her in the family way. She would lose at least most of her sex appeal.

That's what these clowns want in the first place........ A piece of her

Keep your emotions in check.

The message I am trying to pass here is to learn to attain emotional detachment. Not just with women but with men.

Learn to use people as tools..... Regardless whether they are family, friend or foe.

Learn to use people regardless of what they did to you in the past.

Keep a sane mind.

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Re: I've Had To Forgive My Cheating GF She Was Talking Sucide. by Worriedguy6699: 8:33am On Sep 17, 2022
FuckSilly:
You'll be the greatest fool alive to forgive a cheating girlfriend.

Do you she was CHEATING based on ignorance?
She knew exactly what she was doing.
She was enjoying the "favour" she was getting from the promiscuous activities.
She only became sorry and so-called suicidal because SHE GOT CAUGHT.

CHEATING IS NEVER A MISTAKE.

MEN GET MOVED BY WHAT THEY SEE. That is, seeing big boobs, if you're a lover of that, tiny waste, beautiful face, big ass etc. This is different from how females are. I'm not saying good looks don't attract women, but it's not as it for men.
IT TAKES A LOT OF THINKING, ANALYSIS, CALCULATIONS AND TIME FOR AN AVERAGE GIRL TO SPREAD HER LEGS FOR A GUY TO CONQUER HER.

An average guy can love a girl so dearly and still cheat but it's almost impossible for a girl to cheat on a guy she loves and respect, so when a girl cheat on you, that girl doesn't have an respect or love for you.
No guy should ever tolerate disrespect from a girl he cares and provides for.

CHEAT WILL ALWAYS BE A CHEAT! THEY NEVER CHANGE.
NEVER FORGIVE AND TAKE BACK A CHEAT.

You should have allowed the SLÚT to kill herself. At least, it'll save us the existence of another slút at large.

I have never caught her having sex with another guy. It's just the way she chats with guys. I feel it's a bit to romantic. Telling them she loves them, they wanting her to come to their house and she actually considers it. Has a lot of male friends. I think some guy kissed her, cause one voice note he sent said that "I missed that lips of yours". She also sends money to guys (my money that I give her for upkeep). They think she's some big madam.

Honestly, I don't blame her. If I was getting such mad attention from women, how would I stay faithful? Guys are really out in full force for this girl.

I've talked to her two of her exes, they all say she's a good person. It's truly a dilemma

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Re: I've Had To Forgive My Cheating GF She Was Talking Sucide. by Amb1045(m): 8:35am On Sep 17, 2022
Worriedguy6699:


Thanks so much man. I needed a little kind words.
human creation is a little bit funny, this particular lady might be faithful to you with her couches meaning not sharing her Toto with other guys but she's the type that seek for different attention from men to achieve her self worth. She's not your kind but you can survive if you wish to adapt. Your choice bro

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Re: I've Had To Forgive My Cheating GF She Was Talking Sucide. by ayoncox: 8:36am On Sep 17, 2022
Worriedguy6699:


Thanks so much man. I needed a little kind words.
Break up gradually, take time off. Just look for a way to get her out of your house. Do it gradually

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Re: I've Had To Forgive My Cheating GF She Was Talking Sucide. by Worriedguy6699: 8:39am On Sep 17, 2022
Amb1045:
human creation is a little bit funny, this particular lady might be faithful to you with her couches meaning not sharing her Toto with other guys but she's the type that seek for different attention from men to achieve her self worth. She's not your kind but you can survive if you wish to adapt. Your choice bro

You are so right bro. I went through all her voice notes with a headphone, and read all her text. No one actually talked about them already having sex. But guys are really demanding for it. What if she folds? That's what I always think.

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Re: I've Had To Forgive My Cheating GF She Was Talking Sucide. by FuckSilly: 8:40am On Sep 17, 2022
Worriedguy6699:


I have never caught her having sex with another guy. It's just the way she chats with guys. I feel it's a bit to romantic. Telling them she loves them, they wanting her to come to their house and she actually considers it. Has a lot of male friends. I think some guy kissed her, cause one voice note he sent said that "I missed that lips of yours". She also sends money to guys (my money that I give her for upkeep). They think she's some big madam.

Honestly, I don't blame her. If I was getting such mad attention from women, how would I stay faithful? Guys are really out in full force for this girl.

I've talked to her two of her exes, they all say she's a good person. It's truly a dilemma
Lol
Here we go again with the SENSELESS mentality... Keep FOOLING YOURSELF grin grin grin

If you want to know the truth,

Tell her to go náked and hold a bible or take her to a very dreadful shrine to swear with her life and womb that SINCE BOTH OF YOU HAVE BEEN DATING, SHE'S NOT HAD SEX WITH ANOTHER GUY... YOU'LL BE SHOCKED BY HER BODYCOUNT cheesy cheesy grin

IF DEM BORN YOU WELL AND YOU WANT KNOW THE TRUTH, TRY THAT AND COME BACK TO TELL ME BULLSHǏTS grin grin grin

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Re: I've Had To Forgive My Cheating GF She Was Talking Sucide. by Worriedguy6699: 8:44am On Sep 17, 2022
FuckSilly:

Lol
Here we go again with the SENSELESS mentality... Keep FOOLING YOURSELF grin grin grin

If you want to know the truth,

Tell her to go náked and hold a bible or take her to a very dreadful shrine to swear with her life and womb that SINCE BOTH OF YOU HAVE BEEN DATING, SHE'S NOT HAD SEX WITH ANOTHER GUY... IF DEM BORN YOU WELL AND YOU WANT KNOW THE TRUTH, TRY THAT AND COME BACK TO TELL ME BULLSHǏTS grin grin grin

Challenge accepted. I'm actually going to do this.

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Re: I've Had To Forgive My Cheating GF She Was Talking Sucide. by Streetmovement(m): 8:46am On Sep 17, 2022
Wotoporiously cool speaking

With women you never know what to expect

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Re: I've Had To Forgive My Cheating GF She Was Talking Sucide. by Amb1045(m): 8:49am On Sep 17, 2022
Worriedguy6699:


You are so right bro. I went through all her voice notes with a headphone, and read all her text. No one actually talked about them already having sex. But guys are really demanding for it. What if she folds? That's what I always think.
it boils down to you, what do you want from her? Do you see yourself settling down with her in the future. If yes. Is she mentally industrious or slay queen? Do you fancy other of her characters apart from her body. This where you fight for your love. If the gain out way the lose. Your choice bro. She's not your kind unless you want to adapt. Hope you're succeeding in funds since you started dating her. Calculate yourself

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Re: I've Had To Forgive My Cheating GF She Was Talking Sucide. by Uncle96(m): 8:53am On Sep 17, 2022
The worst combination of personality in a woman God can give to a man is a good woman that shares her emotions, attention with other men apart from her man. That one man isn't enough for , flirting blah blah blah.

A mistake might happen one day with a guy she can't resist . They might not even have sex with her but an ass lover will squeeze the hell out of her ass, boobs lover will suck the hell out of her breast while she enjoys it.

You'll probably be out there not knowing she's being smooched where she is. With the look of things , she loves you... You can try to let the relationship die down bit by bit.. it will save u future heart break

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Re: I've Had To Forgive My Cheating GF She Was Talking Sucide. by Sucre6: 8:58am On Sep 17, 2022
You are a weak ass nigga, this girl will wreck you emotionally financially and leave you broken and suicidal , mumu

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Re: I've Had To Forgive My Cheating GF She Was Talking Sucide. by FuckSilly: 9:00am On Sep 17, 2022
Worriedguy6699:


You are so right bro. I went through all her voice notes with a headphone, and read all her text. No one actually talked about them already having sex. But guys are really demanding for it. What if she folds? That's what I always think.
Lol
I pity you grin
So you think she doesn't delete sensitive messages?

She's way smarter than you, i swear.
Try hack her phone with hacking software for a month and you'll definitely see WONDERS.

Girls of this generation are out of this world.
IF SHE COULD BE SLEEPING WITH YOU AND HER PARENTS DON'T KNOW ABOUT IT, THAT SHE'S SLEEPING IN A GUY'S HOUSE, SHE CAN EASILY SLEEP WITH OTHER GUYS TOO.

WHAT MAKES YOU THINK THAT YOU'RE SPECIAL??

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Re: I've Had To Forgive My Cheating GF She Was Talking Sucide. by Amb1045(m): 9:01am On Sep 17, 2022
Worriedguy6699:


Challenge accepted. I'm actually going to do this.
please don't do this baba. You're going to damage her forever.

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Re: I've Had To Forgive My Cheating GF She Was Talking Sucide. by Sucre6: 9:02am On Sep 17, 2022
FuckSilly:

Lol
Here we go again with the SENSELESS mentality... Keep FOOLING YOURSELF grin grin grin

If you want to know the truth,

Tell her to go náked and hold a bible or take her to a very dreadful shrine to swear with her life and womb that SINCE BOTH OF YOU HAVE BEEN DATING, SHE'S NOT HAD SEX WITH ANOTHER GUY... YOU'LL BE SHOCKED BY HER BODYCOUNT cheesy cheesy grin

IF DEM BORN YOU WELL AND YOU WANT KNOW THE TRUTH, TRY THAT AND COME BACK TO TELL ME BULLSHǏTS grin grin grin

Ahh comrade, I sight valence from this angle, for quick action, make op use Amadioha for the swearing grin

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Re: I've Had To Forgive My Cheating GF She Was Talking Sucide. by marlow1962(m): 9:03am On Sep 17, 2022
Nawa o
Guy are you turning into a red piller or a simp?
Can’t you make one decision and not look back, jezz man wtf
Re: I've Had To Forgive My Cheating GF She Was Talking Sucide. by Mercury12(m): 9:06am On Sep 17, 2022
Worriedguy6699:


I'm not. I'll do it while she's with her friends so they can hold her down. She's such a good person though. I haven't actually caught her fucking, just the way she chats with guys, even telling them I love you. Still chat with all her ex's. Goes to men's house, etc.

It's not easy to be beautiful though. Guys are literally throwing themselves at her, it's fvcking sick. It would be selfish of me to deny her the possibility of all that could accomplish. That's why I'm letting her go
More correctly you letting her go for your peace of mind. I hope you strong enough not to go back begging when you miss her charm. Some guys can be confusedly pathetic though. Like they don't know what they want.
All in all. Make your decision and stand by it.

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Re: I've Had To Forgive My Cheating GF She Was Talking Sucide. by Sucre6: 9:07am On Sep 17, 2022
FuckSilly:

Lol
I pity you grin
So you think she doesn't delete sensitive messages?

She's way smarter than you, i swear.
Try hack her phone with hacking software for a month and you'll definitely see WONDERS.

Girls of this generation are out of this world.
IF SHE COULD BE SLEEPING WITH YOU AND HER PARENTS DON'T KNOW ABOUT IT, THAT SHE'S SLEEPING IN A GUY'S HOUSE, SHE CAN EASILY SLEEP WITH OTHER GUYS.

WHAT MAKES YOU THINK THAT YOU'RE SPECIAL??

That girl is way smarter than the mumu op, she only leave behind what u want him to see, I was banging one of my ex last weekend and the boyfriend was busy calling, she finally picked and put the phone for loud speaker, the guy was very straight with his question, who Is sucre to you and where are u?

She said sucre is a family friend and that's it, the mumu hacked her whatsaap and saw our chat where she was telling me that she misses my digs, that'ss our code name for sex, alas the mumu still belived i was her family friend, when I am banging the hell outa her grin

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Re: I've Had To Forgive My Cheating GF She Was Talking Sucide. by Mercury12(m): 9:12am On Sep 17, 2022
Worriedguy6699:


Challenge accepted. I'm actually going to do this.
now I can see that you are truly confused...

If you keep playing some kinda games with daughters of eve. Six feet you gone or they mess u up.
Make a decision and stop going for silly games
Re: I've Had To Forgive My Cheating GF She Was Talking Sucide. by SenecaTheYonger: 9:23am On Sep 17, 2022
Sucre6:


That girl is way smarter than the mumu op, she only leave behind what u want him to see, I was banging one of my ex last weekend and the boyfriend was busy calling, she finally picked and put the phone for loud speaker, the guy was very straight with his question, who Is sucre to you and where are u?

She said sucre is a family friend and that's it, the mumu hacked her whatsaap and saw our chat where she was telling me that she misses my digs, that'ss our code name for sex, alas the mumu still belived i was her family friend, when I am banging the hell outa her grin

So this your ex you never did anything for her when you guys were dating? It was just banging?

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