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Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by ImaIma1(f): 12:57am On Mar 31, 2019 |
I don't understand why my husband's friend will visit when he is not home. I don't buy the idea and it is not safe. He has no right to come into my house and send me on errands like his maid because i married his friend. We should be truthful about these issues instead of covering it up with virtuous wife... obedient wife nonsense. She was even ill!!! 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by ImaIma1(f): 1:08am On Mar 31, 2019 |
IamD18: You should know that guy is a kid... probably one SS1 boy that just reached puberty and unfortunately has access to a phone. At the bolded...my sentiments exactly. Why did he visit knowing that his friend was not home? He has absolutely no right to send her on errands. None of my husband's friends can try it not because I feel too big but because my husband doesn't place me in a way that they can disrespect me or take me for granted. That's why this OP's husband is at fault. He has made his wife public to be used as desired. But most guys here will not understand especially the kids 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by MEGA4BILLION(m): 3:47am On Mar 31, 2019 |
OKOATA:Exactly what I am saying. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by chally100(m): 6:21am On Mar 31, 2019 |
alert01:Lol atleast am matured enough to also know dat you ar a small boy |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by Iziquiel(m): 8:14am On Mar 31, 2019 |
eyinjuege:Yes, that's true but that clearly was not her reason for refusing to go the errand. The Op is obviously not telling us the whole story. If you read her story again you would see where she said that the man came to the house "IN THE EVENING" and in another line she said part of the reasons she didn't go out to get the recharge card was because it was "VERY SUNNY OUTSIDE "(The man came in the evening and it was sunny outside). Honestly, she not going on that errand doesn't portray her in a good light outside the reason you gave. |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by riches4me(m): 12:38pm On Mar 31, 2019 |
Xaos:She stoops to conquer |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by Pataricatering(f): 6:05pm On Mar 31, 2019 |
Guest007:apologize cause someone wanted to send you in an errand like a house girl ? What do men take women for? The man that would come into my house and be sending me on errands has not been born yet ! And for my husband to come and be threatening divorce cause I refused to do housegirk did his friend ? Hmmn - it’s the way one presents oneself sha ! That’s why it’s alwats a problem when women are desperate for marriage ! 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by Pataricatering(f): 6:07pm On Mar 31, 2019 |
Her husband didn’t read the 48 jaws of power before coming to tell her nonsense ! Mscheew luckygeee: 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by Nobody: 11:23pm On Mar 31, 2019 |
Elliot2: Go and marry your agbero friend then...f@ggot. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by Nobody: 11:59am On Apr 01, 2019 |
Pataricatering: Lol! What can we do? She came for a solution, and I gave her one that won't scatter homes In the grand scheme of things it doesn't matter. We need to tame our ego before it uses US. You have to start as you mean to go on in life and she obviously started off on the wrong foot... that friend could be her ex! They obviously have a dysfunctional set up and that is the problem not who goes shop, or who apologises. |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by UbiPetrus: 6:43pm On Apr 01, 2019 |
Iziquiel:What right has the man to send her on such errand, to begin with? Did he not see recharge card where he was coming from? He walks into his friend's house and tries to turn the wife into an errand girl... What nonsense! |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by bakeuhappy: 10:14am On Apr 04, 2019 |
[quote author=TheGreatIYANU post=77116355] I believe she needs to pray but why, 'RUN to your Pastor and tell him every' Is he God? Let her develop a relationship with God and talk to him as a child talking to her father. He hear and answers prayer. ] |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by TheGreatIYANU: 10:28am On Apr 04, 2019 |
[quote author=bakeuhappy post=77252948][/quote] Different levels of faith |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by Nobody: 4:42am On Jul 03, 2019 |
Chinnyrita27:Should I say your husband is a renown gay or what?? And why will a friend stay in your house when your husband is not around?? I don't think you owe that man any apology. But on a serious note. I hope you didn't insult the said man? Because sometimes you ladies can be extremely crazy without thinking about your actions. And if you think you're innocent yet he insist that you apologize. Please consult your people. No man can mess with my sister happiness and go fry unless I'm a dead man. You dare not use my sister for slave just because You're the head of family. Mba nu we go die instantly before going to court and kirikiri prison cuz I doubt if I will find it funny. Unless she doesn't want to tell me anything. |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by Therock5555(m): 1:54pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Hello Chinnyrita27 sorry I can't access my email. If what ever you wanna tell me is important, I'll drop my number. Sorry had to call you out here |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by roseb1(f): 2:14pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
IamD18:This is what we call fatality |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by drnoel: 5:53pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
IamD18: Completely agree. The man crossed boundaries. He didn't have shame to even stay in the house while his friend wasn't home, he even sat and ate and has the audacity to send the sick wife out for recharge card. We Nigerians don't respect boundaries. |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by middlebelter(m): 11:50pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
In my own opinion and based on the story you gave, that your husband's friend has no right to visit your house when his friend is nit around, why did he not call his friend before coming and what right has he to send you in errand? I am a man with well over 10years in marriage, if it were a professional body you will give me the rank of a fellow after 10 years isn't it? Listen it is either the man have no self respect, or he has no respect for your husband. I won't take it kindly with a friend that come visiting when an not around only to insist my wife go buy him recharge card. By getting angry, it shows he has a sinister motive. What if you accept to go and he latter plants strange objects in your house while you are away with the immature manner he has displayed, he is capable of wrecking havoc. On the part on your husband, I think there are other details you choose nit to disclose. If he has self respect, he should have given you the benefits of fear hearing and doubt. So, for the sake of peace, apologise but be very watchful and avoid the man as much as possible. If possible insist your husband should provide surveillance cameras in your house and watch his every steps whenever he comes visiting. |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by Affamefuna(m): 12:21am On Apr 14, 2020 |
Chinnyrita27:Y does nairaland keep recycling thesame story over and over again. I remember this same story like two days back and am surprised to see it hitting front page again. Am beginning to think that all these stories are made up to gather comments and likes |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by MichaelBukamzy(m): 8:31am On Apr 21, 2020 |
Chinnyrita27 whatsup |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by Nobody: 7:25pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
My sister ur own is even good mine is that my brother in law he is a member of this nàiraland posted to all my friends on face book before my wedding that am using juju for his brother and that one-day the juju will end honestly house this is the guy I respect after the incident my husband want me to forget about the matter without apology from the so call brother even the annoying thing is that he claims To be a pastor imagine and the guy convince my mother in law and every member of the family about the juju thing and they hated me for no reason that they even refused to come for my marriage in the year 2017 now my husband want me to flow with them as if nothing happened pls house is it possible I wish they can call this same guy to testify where he saw me using juju and how because for 4years this has been a night mare to me knowing some one beared force witness against me and now he is married and he thinks the law of cama doesn't exist . |
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