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Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by Nobody: 3:26am On Mar 30, 2019 |
OkaNaUbe:definitely he has not...those are bunch of egolistic set of human 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by Nobody: 3:27am On Mar 30, 2019 |
CosmoDroid: I'm shocked this is coming from a 'M' that must stand for medium What IF this disrespectful dog of a friend embarrassed this man in public. In my community, the only etiquette we can't break: A man is forbidden to sit down in the house of a married man, if married man isn't home, it was not her duty to *entertain men* in her matrimonial home, when the husband is out! Forgetting the fact that the said man never visit her. *religion-Islam* If I was her my rule would be no men in my home in the absence of my husband, including his family, no be friend. Then we don't have stories that touch. My mama never entertained "Uncles" 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by okeyben10: 3:35am On Mar 30, 2019 |
this is so weird. seems d friend wanted to be alone for a while in your home more than he needed d recharge. y didn't he accept top up from yuh acct or use his' like he said he could? when his 'mission' failed he began spinning tales to yuh hubby. not to even mention d see finish. I'd b on my toes around a creepy friend like that 14 Likes |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by Nobody: 3:37am On Mar 30, 2019 |
lower your dignity and apologies to his friend just for peace to reign , you can do that via phone call and put it on speakers and make sure hubby is there and listening if possible... and pls watch this his friend close and with suspicion bcuz he can come btw you and your spouse, and cause inexplicable frictions in most serious cases: separation in homes... he's an envious home-wrecker... deep down inside him, he wants what you and hubby are having and perhaps he's not fortunate. they will basically infiltrate into homes as wolves in a sheep clothing. all these envious close family friends can be bloody liars and fabricators pls beware. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by Nobody: 4:20am On Mar 30, 2019 |
pussyAvenger:If you are going to choose your friends over your wife then I don't see the need of you getting married. Your reasoning is like that of a teenager which you are you will say if your father had abide by this your principle of friends over wife that you will still have a place to call home. 17 Likes |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by ashjay001(m): 4:46am On Mar 30, 2019 |
Xaos: Make peace, while it's in ur power to make peace. That's the word. Cos, if not discerning enough, a point will be reached, when sh*t will hit d fan. Just move on quickly, before this goes on too long. |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by Destiblack(m): 5:33am On Mar 30, 2019 |
Do this and get peace and authority in your home (1) Apologize to him in the presence of your husband to have a happy home. (2) Be respectful, kind and formal with your husband friends,next time don't keep them company when they are tired of waiting alone in his absence they will stop coming when he is not around. (3) Never lose Ur dignity in Ur home,he has no right to send u card when u were alone at home. keep Ur eyes on him cos he has a hidden agenda. (4) After two weeks of apology, talk with Ur husband with respect and love.Ask him why he threatened to divorce u.he will say some things important to build on to save Ur home cos Ur home is 50/50% save or lost. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by Zhirinovsky: 5:34am On Mar 30, 2019 |
dont apologize to his friend. What gives him the guts to send you on errands in your own home. Try talk sense into your husband. Use his family members if you are close to them. Are you sure that your husband is not gays?? For the friend to have the boldness to treat you like that and your husband taking sides with him immediately. Sister find out o...gays plenty pass normal people now o Chinnyrita27: 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by omonscloak: 6:01am On Mar 30, 2019 |
When u come on social media to seeks advise you get more confused, because most people here don't even know what being married is all about. Madam if u want advise go ask your mum or dad or elders, because an elder will tell you to apologise because marriage is not like courtship wen u can decide to leave, but you even have a 3 year old kid. It's not all about your pride now, it about humility, apologise it will make you happier and bring u respect from your husband 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by Fundamentalist: 6:33am On Mar 30, 2019 |
Its not even possible for my best friend or my blood brothers to come to my house in my absence, sit and order my wife around impossible . If what you say is true , you husband has no iota jealousy which is unmanly. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by ayenika1: 6:51am On Mar 30, 2019 |
Guest007: Thank you for this. Why would the man sit when his friend is not around? That calls for questioning. Probably,they are business partners, something huge is coming from the friend's side and loyalty is highly needed or they are cult members way back and the friend was the head or an officer who must be respected wherever and whenever. I see no logic in going to a married woman's house whose husband is not around and sit if there is no ulterior motive to the extent of sending her on errand. To me,there is more to this that we need to know. As a Social Worker,the background of the matter is very important before this woman can be psycho-educated. I believe she knows the friend before they got married so, what does the friend do for a living, what type of friends are they,how long has the friendship been,is the friend married, etc? 8 Likes |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by ednut1(m): 7:20am On Mar 30, 2019 |
The typical nigerian woman endures all manner of shit becos of mrs title. Since u hold marriage dear apologise and move on. I wonder where una dey see this kind men marry 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by Nobody: 7:35am On Mar 30, 2019 |
I know this sounds somehow but 1. You have a job dat u go 2 normally, so who did Baba expect to see @ home when he came? 2.y would ur hubby b OK wit him staying with u n he was not around, when some marriage wahalas are caused by 'friends'? 3. y would d friend send u out of d house under d guise of buying airtime when u're home alone? My instinct is telling me dat uche nwoke ahu adiro pure cha cha (blame Nollywood) 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by femi4: 7:38am On Mar 30, 2019 |
Chinnyrita27:You first, before his friends 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by trilobite: 7:41am On Mar 30, 2019 |
While the friend was wrong to send you on am errand, i suspect your reaction to both him and your husband is what led to this situation. You must have been aggressive to both men and challenged their egos. Men don't like that. You need to learn to achieve control by being humble and respectful even if you disagree with them. Call the friend and apologize in the presence of your husband and watch the both of them more closely before he ruins your marriage. Be humble, respectful, careful, and smart. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by Akeem1759(m): 7:46am On Mar 30, 2019 |
Well as for me, my instinct is telling me OP is not giving the full details of the whole Scenario. Before your lovely husband can threaten you with divorce and made that statement " If you choose not to respect my Friends and family, I'll divorce you" there's more to it. My advice, just look at your attitude and the way you talk and treat your husband's family, if it's not that perfect, please adjust Madam. Your family, Your Happiness. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by optm(m): 8:19am On Mar 30, 2019 |
if this story is the whole truth, it shows ur husband's friend has no respect fr ur husband or his marriage. if u apologize, u send a wrong signal to him that he has control over ur husband and ur marriage and u ve given him d license to do more that would eventually cause an unsettling in ur home leading to d breakup that u so fear now. if ur union doesn't pull tru an issue as this, forget it, it's not gonna last. find a good time to discuss d issue with ur husband, do not show any form of desperation fr settlement . if he still insists, inform his family or anyone he respects and u know would not b biased in judgement . your husband needs to grow up as it seems he's immature . 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by iPrevail(m): 8:27am On Mar 30, 2019 |
Nairaland30: You are so stupid. That's his wife (family) and not some street girl. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by paulpery: 8:32am On Mar 30, 2019 |
Just apologize and move on. Period |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by luvyaself95(m): 8:36am On Mar 30, 2019 |
Your husband is behaving like kid |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by Nobody: 8:40am On Mar 30, 2019 |
ayenika1: I agree with you, the back story must be interesting die |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by OKOATA(m): 8:53am On Mar 30, 2019 |
Na you cause this yourself, next time your husbands friend comes around and ur hubby isn't home just tell the fool that you are about going out and you will see him turn back. What if he rapes you and turns the table on you, I'm sure your hubby will believe him. Think deep. Never apologize to ur hubby's friend, if ur hubby threatens you don't talk back at him, if he doesn't speak to you or wants to keep malice let him do it. Na him go tire. I'm a man and one of the things a man hates most is when you argue with a woman and the woman doesn't talk back he will begin to wonder why you aren't speaking and he will be the one to later ask you whats wrong, then you can pour your heart to him. Simple logic. 17 Likes |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by Beblessedbaba: 8:59am On Mar 30, 2019 |
JasonScoolari:Are you married ? |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by BecaciaBarbie(f): 9:00am On Mar 30, 2019 |
BookEditor:Best advice!!! Op, follow this advice and watch your home turn into paradise. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by Vado(m): 9:14am On Mar 30, 2019 |
Op which tribe are you? Your hubby and his friend has a dirty secret between each other. |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by JONNYSPUTE(m): 9:27am On Mar 30, 2019 |
You,your husband, his friend are all at fault. Why should you even entertain your husband's friend in his absence.Well,the deed has been done. Try and apologize to his friend for the sake of your family and be careful how you talk to the members of his family because for him to also raise it up seems you talk to them rudely and he is not happy about it. |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by Nobody: 9:34am On Mar 30, 2019 |
only fools will believe this story. if u really know girls u will know that they never report a story exactly how it happened. they report a story to favor themselves and to get simparty. how would a guys friend come home and send his friends wife recharge card does it makes sense I grow up around women so I know how manipulative they can be. it can be that she's jealous anytime she sees are husbands friends in the house. so she decided to give him attitude. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by Emotionss: 9:49am On Mar 30, 2019 |
[color=#006600][/color] Chinnyrita27: My Dear the only wrong thing you did was marrying an over grown baby. How can a man believe his friend side of a story without hearing his wife side of the story. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by Triniti(m): 10:21am On Mar 30, 2019 |
Damn!! So men are crazy walahi, why would my friend send my wife to buy her credit? Is he mad? I can’t never tolerate shit like that 7 Likes |
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