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Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by drlateef: 12:07pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
When you said your husband came in yelling, I thought he was yelling because you had the gut to entertain his friend in his absence. Any man with blood running in his veins will be green with envy and suspicion. Rather, he was angry about not satisfying the wishes of his friend. What kind of man is that? A responsible man will set boundaries between his wife and his friends and relatives. Otherwise, what stops that friend from asking his wife to come to bed with him? What can devil not do with a man and woman in seclusion? If the wife starts cheating with his friends, who will he blame? Obviously not himself, he will blame everybody except himself. If I may advice, you should call his parents and elders to intervene. He must be made aware that if anything amorous relationship develops between his wife and his friends, he must have himself to blame. Don't apologise to his friend, but call those elders he respects to talk to his coconut head. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by AndLeo(m): 12:08pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
He wanted to send you away from the house to go and buy recharge card so that he will see chance plant juju in your house. If you value your marriage you may need to apologize and tidy his Bleep up later. |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by Rosarie(f): 12:08pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
Stand your ground and let him do what he wants to do. DON'T BEG. If u dont put ur feet on the ground a bigger one will happen. A man who can not defend his wife or prefers outsiders words to his spouse is no ready for marriage 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by deebrain(m): 12:08pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
Hopefully you are saying it the way you said it to the given friend-- many ladies of today do not have respect... But I give you benefit of the doubt that you are being truthful. Solemn advice. Madam, kindly use your knees in prayers. That's one bad friend who is going to do your husband real harm someday. |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by AkupeMBANO(m): 12:09pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
Xaos:apologise to who? the Olodo friend? what rubbish advice are you giving? she married a wussy gay ass sissy. she should stand her ground. when divorce time reach, we would see the reasons her stupid husband will give that promted the divorce. what nonsense? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by chocolateme(f): 12:09pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
You got married to a boy not a man who does not know the difference between friendship and marriage. No adult will sacrifice his marriage on the alter of friendship. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by Nobody: 12:11pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
Madam,this is not the best place to get advise to solve your problem, i suggest you confide in your pastor or an elder in your family or your husband's family to interject on the issue. But as for my own advise, sorry to say your husband failed you on this one, nothing should make a couple to side an outsider except where the couple is deficient in the ingredients of a good and compatible relationship, that said you have 2 options,either to continue with the marriage and apologized like your husband decreed or to ignore it, save your dignity and face the outcome. i dont know your husband side of the story,but if what you narrated is what happened then even your apology will not save your union,you may still be staying with the man after these problem but the real ingredients of happy marriage will ebb away cos where a man can take such a stand over such a minor issue, i fear for your marriage. i wish you luck, get to your pastor or family elders. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by Zombicmodz: 12:12pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
Your husband is a caveman. Have a male child for him you will see his attitude would change. |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by Truckpusher(m): 12:12pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
Chinnyrita27:Your husband is gay 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by Ezonman(m): 12:13pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
IamD18: Wrong Advice, very very wrong Advice, what will take out of her if she apologizes to her husband's friend and if that is the only way peace can reign. Madam remove pride and go and do what your husband asked you to do if you what peace and your marriage to remain. |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by chally100(m): 12:13pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
You married a boy 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by onegig(m): 12:13pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
IamD18: To what level would she continue such servitude? Expect many more insults after this once she bows. I honestly don't understand the Dynamics of her house or family. But apologizing for doing nothing wrong would only worsen issues not solve them. You are just trying to avoid conflict not sort the main issue on ground. Also one can't give advice based on only one side of the story. There are ways you present cases that maybe alot insulting than the act itself. I would want to give the benefit of doubt to such friend that she did insult him but nonetheless reporting the wife to the husband over such thing seems like what an immature person would do because there's never going to be a positive outcome out of it. If I were to be insulted in such scenario. Highest I would do is just avoid visiting again and not go talking about it to the husband. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by larryking540: 12:14pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
Madam I haven't really heard d other side of the story but if what you said is tru, then this is my advice, apologies, not becus of your husband friend but because of who u married and your daughter, and my candid advice, u are already a married lady, stop acting like u are a single lady, the friend who came to ask after ur husband is ur husband friend and not actually your friend even if he is a family friend, next time wen such person come looking for your husband just give them a reply that wouldn't make them sit or better still give them a reply that shows u are busy or about to leave the hux, I have a neighbor dat wen even d husband leaves the hux she stay by the window to reply any of the husband friends dat comes around, most times she doesn't even open d door, becus u should have called my husband b4 coming and my husband definitely will notify me of your coming,. mama start acting like a married woman not as a lady I have a 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by Oritsewhandey(m): 12:15pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
Apologise on conditions: 1. You will never attend to any of his friends, whenever he's not home, again. 2. That particular guy should never be made welcomed, in your home, again. 3. Tell him never to threaten you with divorce, again. 4. Explore and implore spirituality of your husband, the more. 5. Start to save to build a small 2 or 3 bedroom, for yourself, codedly. A man that raise such a threat ant be trusted. God bless. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by AreaFada2: 12:16pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
Sorry to say ma but if your story is even 80% correct you married a very "mumustic" man. To begin with, in this age of mobile phone, why can the friend not control to arrive your when hubby is at home? He arrived so early to have enough time to eat and turn you into a messenger. Did he not pass where they sell recharge cards on his way there? Your hubby can send you on an errand in the same way you can politely send your hubby. NOT his friends. Aside your FIL and MIL, who before the law and tradition are also your parents, nobody else can do that. What nonsense. A friend you cooked for got angry over a recharge that you did not even refuse but offered an alternative way to recharge it. Your hubby should know where loyalty to his friends ends. Try to explain to him calmly again what happened. No apology to the friend. Your hubby can sweet talk his friend however he likes. Madam, beware of that so called friend. He does not mean well for your family. He wants to sow discord. But loyalty won't allow your hubby to see it. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by pennywys(m): 12:16pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
Chinnyrita27:if what you wrote down here is true then relax ur heart cos you don't have a problem nor offended anyone, but to be on the safe side apologies to that fake friend of his since that the only sacrifice you must make to keep ur home and leave the matter for God to judge |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by whitebeard(m): 12:17pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
The man is a coward...even if she even called him poor (which she didnt) first of all as a guy...he suppose attack him friend for trying to send his 'wife' an errand..! E no make sense na 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by carbon1224(m): 12:17pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
But sincerely why would your husbands friend even stay when he clearly knows your husband is not around and still you still manage to attend to him with your situation .its better to be wise and it’s simple.simply go and apologize to buy more time for your self cos this kind of situation will still occur in another manner but buying time means gettting what ever you think it’s good for you to stay on top which means money. |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by Creampro: 12:17pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
That the friend deliberately wanted to send you out of the house meant he had other ulterior motives. |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by jeff1607(m): 12:17pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
Chinnyrita27: there's something you ain't telling us, no man threatens his legally wedded wife with divorce over a friend , you can't play the fool to keep your marriage ? I suspect he has complained about your pride before. probably your husband's friend is the breadwinner of your family? simple apologize to him and let all the troubles go away, there is more to this story |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by crackhouse(m): 12:20pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
Sorry my dear. U are just worthless to ur husband if not he won't dare try that. How did u guys get married?. Did u tie him down with pregnancy or he married u willingly? Check how the relationship started cos it might be a contributory factor to this whole mess. Another thing is that, that his friend might be the reason why he's feeding his family. |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by adamsoghene: 12:20pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
U don't have to be scared because nothing will happen to ur marriage IJN, amen. Just for peace to reign btw u & ur husband, pls apologise to is friend but trust me, after now that friend will never repeat what he did by trying to send u on an errand again especially when ur husband isn't around. God is seal ur home with peace, pls relax ur mind for u have nothing to fear about ok. |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by hrykanu231(m): 12:21pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
Nairaland30: Not in this regard, bro you can't even send my current gf unnecessary stuff like "buy me card" when you are not in sambisa or sick. Baba recharge from ur phone... You can't even try this with my wife, who doubles as the mother of my children 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by biebs: 12:21pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
Nairaland30: she's a wife nt a bitch friend .... a good woman. please do wat he wants it will hurt ur ego buh won't change u. ur child needs a home and a family do it for her |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by jacoik(m): 12:21pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
IamD18:lolxxxxxx I swear to ancestors u r wicked and heartless with dis thunderous words of urs to this monkey. bro u really made my day today with this brutal statement to this mosquito. more money to ur phone 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by Sluvist(m): 12:22pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
There are things that you didn't tell us here, i witnessed many of this kind case but actually the woman are the cause of it. Your husband friend is not your enemy, there must be another thing that you didn't tell us, not that you didn't go to his message. |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by Rosarie(f): 12:22pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
OkaNaUbe:I am.and no she should not apologize. U know why A bigger one will happen. What u know u can not finish pls do not start it. Love ni. Love ko If reverse is the case will u tell him to apologize 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by Sluvist(m): 12:23pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
The solution to your problem starts when you learn to tell the truth. |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by friendl: 12:23pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
Your husband na better mumu ,how many women will behave the way you just did , rubbish |
Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by alert01(m): 12:25pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
EVILFOREST: Exactly my point. Women have innate power of destruction. They can manipulate to have their ways. Let me narrate a story here : A friend of mine just get back to naija from the UK. He visited our best friend in his crib. The friend introduced her wife to our UK friend and everything ends there. The guy went home. A weeks later, the wife told her husband that the guy he brought home last week is making pass on her and wanna sleep with her. She even falsified whatsapp message ( She bought a new sim, give it to her friend and made her chat her pretending to be her husband's UK friend...........They made a plan together).She told her husband not to believe anything his friend say about her, because his friend is a destroyer who want to see their end. You can guess why?. This is what happened. The UK guy met our friend's wife in another man's house who is equally a friend. That friend also introduced her as her wife to be, but fortunately for her, the guy couldn't recognise her as the girl she once met in his friend's crib. Had it been the woman knew this, she would'nt have disturb herself about finding alternative way of covering her misdeeds. Inorder to cover this up, she resort to tarnishing the guy's image.Had it been the husband too is a woman wrapper like most guys on nairaland, he wont even attempt to verify his wife's claim. he will neglect the said friend in a jiffy. But no he never did that and the truth later resurfaced. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
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