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Re: Getting married At 33 And Mum Still Disapproves. by adosjun(m): 1:04pm On Oct 05, 2010
What a parent sees while lying on d bare floor can't be seen by a child even ontop of the tallest iroko tree,
What i c in dis is dat the poster wants to get married becos age is nt by her side. Have u checked him very well? Hv u prayed abt it? If all d abv questn is yes to tell ur pastor,aunties, uncle or ur mother's friend or close associate to talk to her becos u really needs her blessings, Wishin u success in all u do.
Re: Getting married At 33 And Mum Still Disapproves. by Bim4u: 1:08pm On Oct 05, 2010
@ Zim
If you don't understand the English then ur comment isn't neccessary like anybody gives a shit
Other people that understands are living comment.
Been a man I wonder how ur wife or g/ f sticks you.
If u're going on about someone English such a nitty picky man.

@ Op
Go ahead n marry the man jare
At least one of your parent is in support.
Best of luck in your upcoming marriage.
Re: Getting married At 33 And Mum Still Disapproves. by ZIMDRILL(m): 1:09pm On Oct 05, 2010
y me:

you really need to sit mum down and talk her back into the 21st century

like you said she needs to sit down with her mum and hear her fear why she shouldnt marry him and herself, she needs tell  mum what she sees in the man and how he makes him happy

and the mum should also learn to let go she is damn 33 averagely women of her age in nigeria got 2 to 3 baby aready and herself is being taken like baby at 33,  mum should let loose if she would make a mistake on the guy fair and fine she needs to learn by her self mum wont be always there at 33 she can make her own judgements
Re: Getting married At 33 And Mum Still Disapproves. by ZIMDRILL(m): 1:12pm On Oct 05, 2010
Bim4u:

@ Zim
If you don't understand the English then your comment isn't neccessary like anybody gives a poo
Other people that understands are living comment.
Been a man I wonder how your wife or g/ f sticks you.
If u're going on about someone English such a nitty picky man.

@ Op
Go ahead n marry the man jare
At least one of your parent is in support.
Best of luck in your upcoming marriage.

i respond the way i want and feel if it bothers you then thats your fcuken problem am not here to please anyone
Re: Getting married At 33 And Mum Still Disapproves. by Tosinville(m): 2:30pm On Oct 05, 2010
A desperado whose age isn't on her side again, its extremely scarce seeing a yoruba girl chasing an igbo man for marriage, perhaps just because of the money he has, well u will understand beta when u be the next victim of his luxuries hehehe! just joking.

Poster,

My advice for you is to talk to your dad, brothers, sisters or any relatives members of the family to help u persuade your mum for approval.

Look, i won't lie to you, your MOM's BLESSING is the most important for life "make she no go use her w0mb wey she take conceive u take curse ur marriage o! 4 disobeying her, e go work live nd direct lol" so don't just go into marriage without her consent like the way some idi0ts says here cos these folks are bunch of foreigners that gives silly advice.
Re: Getting married At 33 And Mum Still Disapproves. by bamboke(f): 2:34pm On Oct 05, 2010
@ Tosinville, I would rather you take back your words.

If you are chauvinistic, then hold your tongue. I don't chase rich guys around. We both are hard working, so don't think because you have gals around for your money, that means everyone does it.

Being single isn't been ground and please widen your mentality. Bush man!
Re: Getting married At 33 And Mum Still Disapproves. by Tosinville(m): 2:41pm On Oct 05, 2010
^^^poster, but i said i was only joking with what i type in dat first paragraph na, try to understand simple english, madam
Re: Getting married At 33 And Mum Still Disapproves. by tosyne007(m): 2:49pm On Oct 05, 2010
bamboke:

@ Tosinville, I would rather you take back your words.

If you are chauvinistic, then hold your tongue. I don't chase rich guys around. We both are hard working, so don't think because you have gals around for your money, that means everyone does it.

Being single isn't been ground and please widen your mentality. Bush man!

u need to take things easy woman!!! u are here to seek for advice and u shouldn't be abusive. some people will say things that will annoy u and some will give u candid advice, all u need do is to pick the ones u like and ignore the rest. we understand how u feel and we are only trying to help but if u continue this way, u are gonna drive people away from ur thread.
Re: Getting married At 33 And Mum Still Disapproves. by justwise(m): 3:28pm On Oct 05, 2010
Tosinville:

A desperado whose age isn't on her side again, its extremely scarce seeing a yoruba girl chasing an igbo man for marriage, perhaps just because of the money he has, well u will understand beta when u be the next victim of his luxuries hehehe! just joking.Poster,
My advice for you is to talk to your dad, brothers, sisters or any relatives members of the family to help u persuade your mum for approval.
Look, i won't lie to you, your MOM's BLESSING is the most important for life "make she no go use her w0mb wey she take conceive u take curse your marriage o! 4 disobeying her, e go work live nd direct lol" so don't just go into marriage without her consent like the way some idi0ts says here cos these folks are bunch of foreigners that gives silly advice.

You are a complete waste of space, some of you tribalistic morons will NEVER grow up. Absolutely rubbish!!!!!!!!!!!
Re: Getting married At 33 And Mum Still Disapproves. by Bim4u: 3:29pm On Oct 05, 2010
@ Zim
When u're insulting towards others it does bother me but don't exchange words with fool like you.
Have you read your reply
I think it needs amending.
English lecturer that can't even write a sentence without an error.
Pls remove the dirt from your eye b/4 u remove some-elses.

Becos this is a faceless forum doesn't mean u don't respect each others feeling.
Most of nairaland members are so use to been disrespectful.
Re: Getting married At 33 And Mum Still Disapproves. by justwise(m): 3:30pm On Oct 05, 2010
tosyne007:

u need to take things easy woman!!! u are here to seek for advice and u shouldn't be abusive. some people will say things that will annoy u and some will give u candid advice, all u need do is to pick the ones u like and ignore the rest. we understand how u feel and we are only trying to help but if u continue this way, u are gonna drive people away from your thread.

Why should she take a advice from a cave man? When some cretins refused to grow up then they shouldn't be taken seriosuly.
Re: Getting married At 33 And Mum Still Disapproves. by nanidee(f): 4:36pm On Oct 05, 2010
lol @ this thread, Engrish teashers plenty for here o, (teasher no teashi me rubbish), lmao
Re: Getting married At 33 And Mum Still Disapproves. by donyomi(f): 4:38pm On Oct 05, 2010
@Bamboke
Don't marry this guy because you are turning 33. Marry him because you truly love him enough to wanna spend the rest of your life with him. The years we spend in marriage can seem too short or too long because of the partner we choose. Goodluck!
Re: Getting married At 33 And Mum Still Disapproves. by ZIMDRILL(m): 4:46pm On Oct 05, 2010
Bim4u:

@ Zim
When u're insulting towards others it does bother me but don't exchange words with fool like you.
Have you read your reply
I think it needs amending.
English lecturer that can't even write a sentence without an error.
Pls remove the dirt from your eye b/4 u remove some-elses.

Becos this is a faceless forum doesn't mean u don't respect each others feeling.
Most of nairaland members are so use to been disrespectful.




nigga pliz i never said my english doesnt need amending becoz i know that we all makes mistakes

quote me were i said am better

the problem is --- you think once one corrects you it means s/he is saying is better than you ---- nope nigga it just a correction ---period
Re: Getting married At 33 And Mum Still Disapproves. by spikedcylinder: 4:48pm On Oct 05, 2010
Tosinville:

A desperado whose age isn't on her side again, its extremely scarce seeing a yoruba girl chasing an igbo man for marriage, perhaps just because of the money he has, well u will understand beta when u be the next victim of his luxuries hehehe! just joking.

Poster,

My advice for you is to talk to your dad, brothers, sisters or any relatives members of the family to help u persuade your mum for approval.

Look, i won't lie to you, your MOM's BLESSING is the most important for life "make she no go use her w0mb wey she take conceive u take curse your marriage o! 4 disobeying her, e go work live nd direct lol" so don't just go into marriage without her consent like the way some idi0ts says here cos these folks are bunch of foreigners that gives silly advice.  

Ain't life grand? Look at you talking right out of your arse. If it was a 20 year old girl wanting advice about inter-tribal marriage, would you call her desperate? Some people and their giringori mentality sha.

@ OP
I think you should insist, regardless of her blessings or not. As long as you know within your heart that you are doing the right thing.
Re: Getting married At 33 And Mum Still Disapproves. by ZIMDRILL(m): 4:52pm On Oct 05, 2010
[/quote][quote author=Bim4u link=topic=525513.msg6880207#msg6880207 date=1286288968]


Becos this is a faceless forum doesn't mean u don't respect each others feeling.




do you really think i joined this forum to  respect other's people's feeling ? nope nigga

i joined to air my views  who get offended thats his fcuken problem
Re: Getting married At 33 And Mum Still Disapproves. by Brownteeth(m): 5:01pm On Oct 05, 2010
@op. Your mother needs some naira notes.
Re: Getting married At 33 And Mum Still Disapproves. by ksena(f): 5:59pm On Oct 05, 2010
why did you cheat on your wife angry did you think about the vowes, i mean you just flushed it down the toilet when you put your manhood in that young girl the first time, the vows don't mean nothing no more, you just got yourself back at the place before you got married, and now you want to know what you should do about the situation are you serious, you made the choice to sleep with the chick not ones but many times, so you knew what you were doing, you got yourself in this mess, now you get yourself out of it, and then i wonder why men say that we women go crazy, and honestly you should tell your wife and let her decide if she still wants to stay with someone she can't trust, cause i'm not sure how she would react if she would find out about this when the baby is born, ppffffff you've got to check yourself man,
Re: Getting married At 33 And Mum Still Disapproves. by ksena(f): 6:00pm On Oct 05, 2010
sorry wrong thread
Re: Getting married At 33 And Mum Still Disapproves. by ksena(f): 6:03pm On Oct 05, 2010
oooh and by the way, if you are sure he's the guy for you, then go for it, you still need to make babies,
Re: Getting married At 33 And Mum Still Disapproves. by Omolola1(f): 6:06pm On Oct 05, 2010
I would even rent parents for her, its just 10 grand! hehehe
Re: Getting married At 33 And Mum Still Disapproves. by Tosinville(m): 6:41pm On Oct 05, 2010
Stillwater and spikecylinder,

una head don knock like 1989 volkswagen motor engine.
Re: Getting married At 33 And Mum Still Disapproves. by Bim4u: 6:54pm On Oct 05, 2010
@ Zim i can now understand ur mentality about this it's becos u're from the very bush part of Africa.
Even ur president treat u like animals so i can understand where u got that behaviour from,my apology for trying to correct u for good manners.
Who born monkey banana.

Did u just learn the word nigga.
Instead of u to pick the good from the bad.
U prefer to pick the bad ones.
Keep going on nigga.If u think calling someone a nigga is like an insult then u need to learn n study things properly.
Since is a faceless forum n respect can only be given to those due,definitely u're not one of them n only illiterate behaves n write the way u do.
Saying illiterate doesn't necessary mean u didn't go to school but people with low mindset n trash speaking people.
Keewriting the bit of English u can write n from ur writing it definitely shows how u talk as well.
Bush man.
Re: Getting married At 33 And Mum Still Disapproves. by Bim4u: 6:55pm On Oct 05, 2010
@ Sim i can now understand your mentality about this it's becos u're from the very bush part of Africa.
Even your president treat u like animals so i can understand where u got that behaviour from,my apology for trying to correct u for good manners.
Who born monkey banana.
Did u just learn the word nigga.
Instead of u to pick the good from the bad.
U prefer to pick the bad ones.
Keep going on nigga.If u think calling someone a nigga is like an insult then u need to learn n study things properly.
Since is a faceless forum n respect can only be given to those due,definitely U're not one of them n only illiterate behaves n write the way u do.
Saying illiterate doesn't necessary mean u didn't go to school but people with low mindset n trash speaking people.
Keep writing the bit of English u can write n from your writing it definitely shows how u talk as well.
Bush man.
Re: Getting married At 33 And Mum Still Disapproves. by spikedcylinder: 7:36pm On Oct 05, 2010
Tosinville:

Stillwater and spikecylinder,

una head don knock like 1989 volkswagen motor engine.

You have drunk some of your shekpe again. Where did you see stillwater?
Arindin. undecided
Re: Getting married At 33 And Mum Still Disapproves. by ZIMDRILL(m): 7:44pm On Oct 05, 2010
Bim4u:

@ Sim i can now understand your mentality about this it's becos u're from the very bush part of Africa.
Even your president treat u like animals so i can understand where u got that behaviour from,my apology for trying to correct u for good manners.
Who born monkey banana.
Did u just learn the word nigga.
Instead of u to pick the good from the bad.
U prefer to pick the bad ones.
Keep going on nigga.If u think calling someone a nigga is like an insult then u need to learn n study things properly.
Since is a faceless forum n respect can only be given to those due,definitely U're not one of them n only illiterate behaves n write the way u do.
Saying illiterate doesn't necessary mean u didn't go to school but people with low mindset n trash speaking people.
Keep writing the bit of English u can write n from your writing it definitely shows how u talk as well.
Bush man.

wake up nigga

the world is never fair people say what they like if you get offend deal with it and it is your fcuken problem

i cant air view that only agrees and makes you happy --- nope nigga----- if i do i will end up being a puppet to everyone becoz i have to please them of which i wont be myself

wake wake
Re: Getting married At 33 And Mum Still Disapproves. by cold(m): 9:32pm On Oct 05, 2010
@op this is the last chance you'll eva get to tie the knot in this lifetime.Call me a god if you lyk but if you blow this opportunity based on some frivolous reason as tribe then you can sadly look forward to menopause,single & still living with your mum who'll be ready to settle for anything even making you a the fifth wife of some Baale somewhere.
Re: Getting married At 33 And Mum Still Disapproves. by hackney(m): 9:47pm On Oct 05, 2010
If your mum does not want you to marry at 33, she needs to find you a yoruba man then.
Otherwise, if you miss this chance because of her what you need to do is pack into your mum's house and live with her so that she will marry you.
Then she will hear nwiii.


hope she not one of those terrible mothers.
Re: Getting married At 33 And Mum Still Disapproves. by pharmking: 11:06pm On Oct 05, 2010
@ Poster!
You are 33 and you are still seeking your parents advice about who to marry?
Is marriage still about who is from this tribe, who is from the other? Isn't it about compatibility, love and interests?
I know you are in Naija but Personally if I find somebody from my country that will be enough for me. If not somebody from my africa will satisfy my need as long as we match and we have common ground for understanding.
Go get married. Your parents will cope with it

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