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Why Do Attitudes Change In A Relationship After Some Few Months? by Ademi007(m): 5:53pm On May 09, 2007
In every relationship the starting is always good, u know the flowers or roses the gentleman like or the nice lady stuffs. but why do things change when its like some months old?
Re: Why Do Attitudes Change In A Relationship After Some Few Months? by kiki(f): 5:57pm On May 09, 2007
cos it sucks or boring doing d same thing over and over and over again dat is y ppl always need to spice it up once in a while

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Re: Why Do Attitudes Change In A Relationship After Some Few Months? by luxoire(f): 6:01pm On May 09, 2007
mainly because, ur usually on ur 'best' behaviour when u start dating someone,, but then with time, u relacx more and the real u startes coming out, when u made an effort to go out, u'd much rather a night in, etc

its just nature takes its course and the real u emerges

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Re: Why Do Attitudes Change In A Relationship After Some Few Months? by omega25red(m): 7:07pm On May 09, 2007
Thats when you know if you are in a serious relationship or not because all the fake hey baby hey baby crap gets over and you have to really get to know each other for who you really are and learn to work through the things you dont agree with or break it off.
Re: Why Do Attitudes Change In A Relationship After Some Few Months? by iice(f): 6:55am On May 10, 2007
Because some people act a different way from the beginning or they put on their best behaviour. Then like kiki said, routine bores one
Re: Why Do Attitudes Change In A Relationship After Some Few Months? by kike001(f): 12:54pm On May 10, 2007
people get bored i guess n u will ve know a lot more aboutdat person init
Re: Why Do Attitudes Change In A Relationship After Some Few Months? by cuteass1(f): 3:58pm On May 11, 2007
Beacuse the people involved start resting their tools (the same tools that made them find attraction in each other) which isnt meant to happen

They forget their roles in the relationship, which makes it tiresome

They forget the need to implement and create new ideas other than the ones they're used to . . it makes it boring

Thats when they realise the other wasnt "all that" after all, or that it wasnt such a good idea anyway sad


We all need to put effort in bulding our relationships so we don't suddenly wake up to find our already-invested labour a waste, or a good prospect that varnished into thin air because we were too lazy, non-challant and ignorant.

Like i always say: love is like a flower, when watered it blossoms, but when overlooked withers cry cry
Re: Why Do Attitudes Change In A Relationship After Some Few Months? by Solexdx(m): 10:15am On Oct 31, 2015
[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font][b][/b] because peak of the adventure had been exploit. what else
Re: Why Do Attitudes Change In A Relationship After Some Few Months? by yogoanthony(m): 6:28pm On Nov 02, 2015
They show their attide after a period wen they re relaxd
Re: Why Do Attitudes Change In A Relationship After Some Few Months? by ruky8(m): 7:58pm On Nov 02, 2015
Its itself is change so people change..so its left for the parties involve to work things out in these trying period.. And of course it depends on what they want in d r/ship. It usually hits the rock when one of either parties hv given up and decided not to work on it ..
Re: Why Do Attitudes Change In A Relationship After Some Few Months? by Nobody: 9:02pm On Nov 02, 2015
Ever heard of 'Law of Diminishing Returns'?
Re: Why Do Attitudes Change In A Relationship After Some Few Months? by oshe11: 11:05pm On Nov 02, 2015
exactli y 'sai booha.ri is goin xtinct.....



U jst realise it wasnt all dat afta all

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