ladies please stop fighting or tearing your pants over nothing, u need to understand the logic behind the way certain thing works and probably most of u figured it out already.
never in any way harm or breakup wit your boyfrnd o, because your galfrnd made a move on him cos sincerely speaking and i speak for all men in that situation it never was there fault and please cut the whole bullsh#t talk like "if he loved me then he shouldnt have done it"
instead blame your girlfrnds.
i have been around long enough on earth to know this is true.

to the best kept secret you should know men and everyone

ladies the main reason why your galfrnds would want to sleep with your man is because they think u aint all that which atimes is true sef.
they generally ask themselves this qstns why does he fancies u, u aint that hot and they bet they can have a piece as well.

so men dont worry o jare and dont blame your actions afterall u r only human.

Thank you!!

That is so true !

after posting this topic, i now feel kinda of guilty for having to expose most gals in nairaland and i knw most them will avoid this hot topic

yup, i've been in that situation before, that's why my friends don't see my man no more

it's quite unfortunate.

Hmmmm

@Poster, do you think what you wrote makes sense?

If you have slept with your girlfriend's friend, accept your part in the blame game and not push it on to others.

Be a man!

guilty conscience don dey catch some pple o

The poster is definitely gonna hit some raw nerves with this.

they generally ask themselves this qstns why does he fancies u, u aint that hot and they bet they can have a piece as well.

true to some extent but it's generally loose girls who think this way.

the ones who swear by toto.

@ poster: forbidden fruit is always sweeter.

^^that's true the forbidden fruit is sweeter yes but with my fists I'd give the dude and my ex-friend a taste of bitterness.

that is if I were ignorant enough to fight the girl because in my rational side of my brain (that i dont always use) i see it like this, fighting over a man is like winning the in the special olympics (sorry if i offend lol). And if i were to fight it would be the principle not over they guy. lastly you cannot STEAL a man because a man is going to go WHERE HE WANTS to go.

ladies the main reason why your galfrnds would want to sleep with your man is because they think u aint all that which atimes is true sef.
they generally ask themselves this qstns why does he fancies u, u aint that hot and they bet they can have a piece as well.

so men dont worry o jare and dont blame your actions afterall u r only human.

Am not a Lady ooo, but if am a lady.

I will just settled that my ex-GF with my ex-BF, cause they belong together. shikana

Out!!!!!!

@ Poster thanks for the lecture and most of what you say is true.

na so he be?

No, i wasn't stolen! I decided to walk out cos i had tasted enough of your sweet pie!
I know its cruel but thats how most men think. Can you really blame us? There are too many beautiful women to be tied down to one for too long.

Maybe its true where you guys are but thank God not where i am!! Well they werent real friends if they are after your man, thats crazy talk. And not being the guys fault, yikes!!! It is if he excepts the move. Just keep blaming everyone else and never take responsibility!

;d ;d ;d

SO in order words if your male friend makes a move on your girl and she succumbs, its not her fault right? You brush it off lightly> After all she's human.

its her problem not mine

ThoniaSlim:

SO in order words if your male friend makes a move on your girl and she succumbs, its not her fault right? You brush it off lightly> After all she's human.

Excellent point!!

see $%^&$ (insert whatever insult you like) post of the highest order, and more &^%$* people agreeing with it.
whats good for the goose is good for the gander. would the poster feel the exact same way if some dude stole/fukced his gal?!

parki:

never in any way harm or breakup wit your boyfrnd o, because your galfrnd made a move on him cos sincerely speaking and i speak for all men in that situation it never was there fault and please cut the whole bullsh#t talk like "if he loved me then he shouldnt have done it"instead blame your girlfrnds.

you surely dont speak for all men, you speak for all kids on NL! if you understood anything about that action, you would know that they BOTH are to be blamed, the friend for being a RAT that should have never been called a FRIEND, and the boyfriend for being a dishonest untrustworthy sneaky bast-ard. . . . . . . . then that person should also blame HERSELF for trusting these 2 people who shouldnt have been trusted at the first place (depending on how well she knew them).

not breaking up with such a bf would be the SILLIEST thing that this person could ever do. it would be like accepting this nasty action as RIGHT. dumping that man IS the only option unless she wants to stay with some guy that has absolutely NO respect for their relationship or her. a real man would have turned her gf down and let you know that this person IS NOT YOUR FRIEND.

i have been around long enough on earth to know this is true.

how long is that?! 15/20yrs. you obviously dont have any REAL WORTHY HONEST experiences to know or talk about this act. whats next?! your gf's mother/sister is going to make a pass at you and you are going to go for it?!

ladies the main reason why your galfrnds would want to sleep with your man is because they think u aint all that which atimes is true sef.

being all that is not really the point here, she could look like King Kong and have the worst attitude BUT she is this guy's gf. . . . . . . . .its all about the respect that each and everyone has for one another. your REAL friends wouldnt do that to you, period!

they generally ask themselves this qstns why does he fancies u, u aint that hot and they bet they can have a piece as well.

this person is jealous of her (thus she IS all that afterall) and shouldnt be her friend at the first place, and she should go get some REAL friends.

so men dont worry o jare and dont blame your actions afterall u r only human.

this is the most childish statement ever. where in being human does it state that you should have NO respect for your partner and NO respect for yourself?!

just because most desperate dumba$$ out there decide to do this wrong act doesnt make it more right!

All hail MRbrownJAY!!!!!!

MRbrownJAY:

see $%^&$ (insert whatever insult you like) post of the highest order, and more &^%$* people agreeing with it.
whats good for the goose is good for the gander. would the poster feel the exact same way if some dude stole/fukced his gal?!

you surely dont speak for all men, you speak for all kids on NL! if you understood anything about that action, you would know that they BOTH are to be blamed, the friend for being a RAT that should have never been called a FRIEND, and the boyfriend for being a dishonest untrustworthy sneaky bast-ard. . . . . . . . then that person should also blame HERSELF for trusting these 2 people who shouldnt have been trusted at the first place (depending on how well she knew them).

not breaking up with such a bf would be the SILLIEST thing that this person could ever do. it would be like accepting this nasty action as RIGHT. dumping that man IS the only option unless she wants to stay with some guy that has absolutely NO respect for their relationship or her. a real man would have turned her gf down and let you know that this person IS NOT YOUR FRIEND.

how long is that?! 15/20yrs. you obviously dont have any REAL WORTHY HONEST experiences to know or talk about this act. whats next?! your gf's mother/sister is going to make a pass at you and you are going to go for it?!

being all that is not really the point here, she could look like King Kong and have the worst attitude BUT she is this guy's gf. . . . . . . . .its all about the respect that each and everyone has for one another. your REAL friends wouldnt do that to you, period!

this person is jealous of her (thus she IS all that afterall) and shouldnt be her friend at the first place, and she should go get some REAL friends.

this is the most childish statement ever. where in being human does it state that you should have NO respect for your partner and NO respect for yourself?!

just because most desperate dumba$$ out there decide to do this wrong act doesnt make it more right!

Man how funny is this dude or this kid, i reckon u r so in touch with your feminine side. . .  how dare u insult my intelligence.
you must be the most honest person on earth then and havent seen this happen in your everyday life
NOTE THIS: the highest offenders are we the older ones and which doesnt include you.
anyone who is of age can relate to what i am saying cos it is an experience they have av lived through so if you dont get it then u probably need to chill and stop getting ahead of ursef.

parki:

Man how funny is this dude or this kid, i reckon u r so in touch with your feminine side. . .  how dare u insult my intelligence.

if respecting your partner and yourself means being in touch with your feminine side, in your world, then YES I AM. . . . . . . .  and get a hold of yourself, there was NO SIGN of intelligence about anything you wrote/claim (unless you are talking about a child of 10's intelligence)

you must be the most honest person on earth then and havent seen this happen in your everyday life.

i have also seen many pedos that are caught rap-ing children, many husbands killing their wives because of jealousy or people killing family member for money ritual. . . . .  do you think its RIGHT simply because many dumba$$es are doing it?! duh!!!
are you talking about whats POSSIBLE to do or whats RIGHT to do?!

NOTE THIS: the highest offenders are we the older ones and which doesnt include you.
anyone who is of age can relate to what i am saying cos it is an experience they have av lived through so if you dont get it then u probably need to chill and stop getting ahead of ursef.

let me help you rephrase that statement of yours:
NOTE THIS: the highest offenders are the IMMATURE, DISRESPECTFUL ones which doesnt include you.
anyone who HAS NO RESPECT FOR THEIR PARTNER can relate to what i am saying cos its the STOOPIDITY they have lived through so if you dont get it then you probably HAVE A BRAIN and WE THE DUMBA$$ES NEED TO USE OURS.

huh what r u chatting or on about r u seriously tryin to make a point out of nothing or did u read the post in the first place

there was NO SIGN of intelligence about anything you wrote/claim (unless you are talking about a child of 10's intelligence)


r u tryin to say it doesnt happen? u talked about breakup, ok good but what about wives r u saying everyone should divorce their husbands?

i have also seen many pedos that are caught rap-ing children, many husbands killing their wives because of jealousy or people killing family member for money ritual. . . . .  do you think its RIGHT simply because many dumba$$es are doing it?! duh!!!
!

and i can swear i wrote 'one of the reasons gals would do what they do'or didnt u read before posting

are you talking about whats POSSIBLE to do or whats RIGHT to do?
and i thot we were all human and subject to act they way we want and if pple lived by your 2 principles then everyone would be perfect wouldnt they?

let me help you rephrase that statement of yours:
NOTE THIS: the highest offenders are the IMMATURE, DISRESPECTFUL ones which doesnt include you.
anyone who HAS NO RESPECT FOR THEIR PARTNER can relate to what i am saying cos its the STOOPIDITY they have lived through so if you dont get it then you probably HAVE A BRAIN and WE THE DUMBA$$ES NEED TO USE OURS.

huh what world do you live in??. . . "immature and disrespectful"  yea maybe i can assign those as blames but it has nothing to do with anything? or u tryn to say tiger wood didnt respect his wife when u went cheating? or david letterman? or bill clinton? or millions of men and one which u r a victim as well? my friend please stop being a hypocrite here.

seriously i dont get what u r on about, and like i wrote one of the reason why gals do what dey do and which still remains true so i suggest u digest it and be grateful that u just learnt something new

@MrBrownJay i do appreciate your line of thought. Its disheartening to see people assume that right is wrong and wrong is right. Where is the lesson to learn from this post? That there is no harm in sleeping with my girlfriend's friend if she makes a pass at me? It is okay not to be burdened if i become dishonest in my relationships? We casually throw our sense of decency out the window because we lack the discipline to say no to our inclinations especially the destructive ones. Sometimes i wonder if our world revolves around what is in betweeen our legs.

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