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Why Would Someone Hate Love? by BuikemWillz(m): 8:26am On Dec 13, 2019
I've always thought love is one of the most beautiful things on Earth, but then you hear or read some saying “I hate love". I need to understand the reasoning behind this.


So, why would anyone hate love?
Re: Why Would Someone Hate Love? by DanDeeBoss(m): 8:28am On Dec 13, 2019
Coz of some bad experiences they've had with love....

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Re: Why Would Someone Hate Love? by Lightangel65: 8:36am On Dec 13, 2019
Cause love isn't always sweet like Disney butterflies or Barbie's happy endings, in the real world it's filled with heart break which makes people scared lf it and hate it to avoid dissappointment. In the real world love is a fantasy, Money rules over love here.
Re: Why Would Someone Hate Love? by BuikemWillz(m): 8:47am On Dec 13, 2019
DanDeeBoss:
Coz of some bad experiences they've had with love....

Love in itself isn't bad, it's just you didn't get it right once or more... probably loved the wrong persons or so
Re: Why Would Someone Hate Love? by DanDeeBoss(m): 8:57am On Dec 13, 2019
BuikemWillz:


Love in itself isn't bad, it's just you didn't get it right once or more... probably loved the wrong persons or so
Rightly Said
Re: Why Would Someone Hate Love? by Nobody: 9:06am On Dec 13, 2019
They do not hate love, they hate the vulnerability that comes with love. They hate the fact that love opens them to hurt, so they try not to do love or give it a chance. The irony though, love comes unexpectedly before they know it, they are in love again. grin

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Re: Why Would Someone Hate Love? by Akinbahm(m): 9:11am On Dec 13, 2019
Lightangel65:
Cause love isn't always sweet like Disney butterflies or Barbie's happy endings, in the real world it's filled with heart break which makes people scared lf it and hate it to avoid dissappointment. In the real world love is a fantasy, Money rules over love here.
...Tell him to limit the way u watches Zeeworld and Yoruba movies in other to aid in facing the reality of LOVE....
Re: Why Would Someone Hate Love? by nuelsam: 9:27am On Dec 13, 2019
I hate love because i cherish my sanity.....this days Love is just like an illusion......people dont love you for who you are, they love you for what you have rather......so i aint stupid enough to chase love when i should be chasing money and a king sized lifestyle.
Re: Why Would Someone Hate Love? by Lightangel65: 11:56am On Dec 13, 2019
Ariza:
They do not hate love, they hate the vulnerability that comes with love. They hate the fact that love opens them to hurt, so they try not to do love or give it a chance. The irony though, love comes unexpectedly before they know it, they are in love again. grin

It's a bullet you can't Dodge and it doesn't miss
Re: Why Would Someone Hate Love? by Nobody: 12:10pm On Dec 13, 2019
Lightangel65:

It's a bullet you can't Dodge and it doesn't miss
Very true. smiley
Re: Why Would Someone Hate Love? by BuikemWillz(m): 7:16pm On Dec 13, 2019
Ariza:
They do not hate love, they hate the vulnerability that comes with love. They hate the fact that love opens them to hurt, so they try not to do love or give it a chance. The irony though, love comes unexpectedly before they know it, they are in love again. grin


They should just say it the way it is then. I think you made a really valid point here and that's how I think it is too. Thanks for sharing your thoughts
Re: Why Would Someone Hate Love? by BuikemWillz(m): 7:17pm On Dec 13, 2019
Lightangel65:
Cause love isn't always sweet like Disney butterflies or Barbie's happy endings, in the real world it's filled with heart break which makes people scared lf it and hate it to avoid dissappointment. In the real world love is a fantasy, Money rules over love here.

Hmmmm
Re: Why Would Someone Hate Love? by BuikemWillz(m): 7:20pm On Dec 13, 2019
nuelsam:
I hate love because i cherish my sanity.....this days Love is just like an illusion......people dont love you for who you are, they love you for what you have rather......so i aint stupid enough to chase love when i should be chasing money and a king sized lifestyle.


I think there are still people people who'd love you for who you are. They might be few but they're there. Sometimes, we are so consumed in our wrong generalizations and misconceptions that even when someone genuinely loves us, we stay suspicious and end up ruining it...
Re: Why Would Someone Hate Love? by Lightangel65: 7:33pm On Dec 13, 2019
BuikemWillz:



I think there are still people people who'd love you for who you are. They might be few but they're there. Sometimes, we are so consumed in our wrong generalizations and misconceptions that even when someone genuinely loves us, we stay suspicious and end up ruining it...
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Boy I envy your untainted heart, but even if you find that person, they would leave you for someone better/richer/cuter. This isn't Barbie or Disney cartoon. There is no Happy ever after. Romantic was wasn't created to be everlasting. When you experience it you would know.
Re: Why Would Someone Hate Love? by tobechi74: 9:02pm On Dec 13, 2019
when love do you something, you will hate it
Re: Why Would Someone Hate Love? by DoubleEngine007: 9:54pm On Dec 13, 2019
When you fall inlove with the wrong person,you will hate love.. After love showed me pepper ,and I could remember me telling my frds then," E no go better for love" Make I hear say I fall inlove again.. Love ko,Loving ni
Re: Why Would Someone Hate Love? by vickvan(m): 10:16pm On Dec 13, 2019
Heart has been misleading men since 19BC.
Re: Why Would Someone Hate Love? by BuikemWillz(m): 12:13am On Dec 14, 2019
Lightangel65:
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Boy I envy your untainted heart, but even if you find that person, they would leave you for someone better/richer/cuter. This isn't Barbie or Disney cartoon. There is no Happy ever after. Romantic was wasn't created to be everlasting. When you experience it you would know.


Ok. Thanks for sharing your thoughts
Re: Why Would Someone Hate Love? by BuikemWillz(m): 12:18am On Dec 14, 2019
tobechi74:
when love do you something, you will hate it


What happened to “hate the player and not the game?" I don't describe Love as a game; just using that maxim to make a point. Love doesn't hurt people, people hurt people. I think if there should be hate, then people should hate the person who hurt them, who took their love for granted, not love itself.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts though
Re: Why Would Someone Hate Love? by Powersurge: 11:23am On Dec 15, 2019
Philophobia- the fear of loving.
Re: Why Would Someone Hate Love? by tobechi74: 8:06pm On Dec 15, 2019
BuikemWillz:



What happened to “hate the player and not the game?" I don't describe Love as a game; just using that maxim to make a point. Love doesn't hurt people, people hurt people. I think if there should be hate, then people should hate the person who hurt them, who took their love for granted, not love itself.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts though

it is love the sinner, hate the sin
Re: Why Would Someone Hate Love? by Nobody: 8:25pm On Dec 15, 2019
Mtchew::: when did love letters get lost in translation
Re: Why Would Someone Hate Love? by BuikemWillz(m): 11:58pm On Dec 15, 2019
tobechi74:

it is love the sinner, hate the sin

Anything you say
Re: Why Would Someone Hate Love? by xperienced(m): 8:10am On Dec 16, 2019
Love is just a word in the pages of Bible and Dictionary.

What we have now is Charity and Lust.

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