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Re: Don't Kill Yourself If You Are Like This Donkey (Photo) by PHIPEX(m): 9:33am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Dreiwizzy:They are the ones that have found freedom. When they find freedom we call them selfish. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Don't Kill Yourself If You Are Like This Donkey (Photo) by Lovelife433(m): 9:33am On Dec 17, 2019 |
ok 1 Like
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Re: Don't Kill Yourself If You Are Like This Donkey (Photo) by Nobody: 9:34am On Dec 17, 2019 |
You are absolutely right. Giving without expecting anything in return is not only the best, but the most rewarding. zexy2030: 1 Like |
Re: Don't Kill Yourself If You Are Like This Donkey (Photo) by TeeBabss(m): 9:36am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Whitefowl:How deep |
Re: Don't Kill Yourself If You Are Like This Donkey (Photo) by UDOKABESTLUV(m): 9:38am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Lol |
Re: Don't Kill Yourself If You Are Like This Donkey (Photo) by hopexter(m): 9:39am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Children go chop for hauz Na, if i no husstle like this dem go say i lazy, dat I get 9 shildren I no fit feed them |
Re: Don't Kill Yourself If You Are Like This Donkey (Photo) by zexy2030(m): 9:42am On Dec 17, 2019 |
usoroh4luv:Yea, I know you are aware of this truth that "to whom much is given much is expected", but consider this to whom expects so much should give so much.. I was in this shoe, inferiority was a problem, self esteem was gone, but one thing I keep searching for is where I am celebrated.. I realized I was celebrated among little children, they love me around..people complained, even my regular friends were mad with my decisions. But I tell you those little children increased my esteem...the parents valued me and lots of gifts accompanied my mentorship...but that time, I wore one particular cloth for one year. There is a friend who is with punch newspaper with lots of award of the being one of their best media personality even this 2019, we hawk together on the streets of Lagos... He had no cash for schooling( schooled in a renown Nigerian university in Lagos) but joined a group of friends who celebrated his talent of being a talkative and a good writer..it was paying him less but he was having fun with what he loves doing. But he did something, he kept relationship with people who had the privilege of where he is targeting ( good university education). He proved his seriousness by scoring 315 in jamb without any assistance. No much talk, he worked on himself, kept a good company, shun gossips and enjoyed his life without depression. If you have fairly good clothing, seek where u r celebrated and be happy. Only you can make yourself happy. Happiness is doing what you love and is making people around you smile. Self pity and self blame, parental blame, won't solve any issue. Rather waste more time. Good association is the key. If you aspire to be a billionaire, seek a billionaire group, if they are 10, definitely you will make the 11th billionaire, I hope you get the vision. Change your cartel, my dear. Choose a cartel of your dream. Se fine. 6 Likes |
Re: Don't Kill Yourself If You Are Like This Donkey (Photo) by isyourboy(m): 9:48am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Vortex369: A friend Just tell me same on WhatsApp this morning. I think I'm going to stick to it 1 Like |
Re: Don't Kill Yourself If You Are Like This Donkey (Photo) by anochuko01(m): 9:50am On Dec 17, 2019 |
maybachmusic:I won't believe until I hear details o. Like his earnings, responsibilities and what exactly you're asking him to do for You. 1 Like |
Re: Don't Kill Yourself If You Are Like This Donkey (Photo) by Nobody: 9:51am On Dec 17, 2019 |
first born responsibility in africa. |
Re: Don't Kill Yourself If You Are Like This Donkey (Photo) by zexy2030(m): 9:52am On Dec 17, 2019 |
hopexter:When you listen to every beats and dance, you will be taken as insane. Get them food first, if there are no clothes, or outing subscribe with 2,000 for GO TV. Then trick their mind into more of church free activities, advice them to seek God as we enter new year..I bet you your children will never lament. Children will take what you give them, if u r indeed the man of the house. But if u have given priority to your wife, women love to be manipulated, just hangout till late night to avoid too much demands and embarrassments. |
Re: Don't Kill Yourself If You Are Like This Donkey (Photo) by emmydiamon(m): 9:55am On Dec 17, 2019 |
ceeroh:Not all first born, because my own brother dont give a damn fu*k about us, we strugle to survive.So sad. |
Re: Don't Kill Yourself If You Are Like This Donkey (Photo) by philip0906(m): 10:08am On Dec 17, 2019 |
anochuko01:Straight up! 1 Like |
Re: Don't Kill Yourself If You Are Like This Donkey (Photo) by Nobody: 10:11am On Dec 17, 2019 |
anochuko01: I am doing quite alright as the last born Not asking him for anything But our whole family generally are not happy with some of his decisions |
Re: Don't Kill Yourself If You Are Like This Donkey (Photo) by Marotzke(m): 10:14am On Dec 17, 2019 |
femi4:There you go with the entitlement mentality. Learn to differentiate between investment and helping others. You invest clearly with an intention to benefit. You invest a required amount of resources and if possible extract an enforceable contract of repayment. On the other hand , you help from your excess, ; time, materials, advice, excess clothes, housing etc. You do not help with needed or investable resources. So you don't have to belittle your self asking for payback from those whom you gave a little from your aboundance. The common mistake is that we invest without securing the investment, or calling an investment help. Differentiate the two and act accordingly. 1 Like |
Re: Don't Kill Yourself If You Are Like This Donkey (Photo) by miidae(f): 10:14am On Dec 17, 2019 |
That's the method I'll adopt this xmas I cannot come and go and kill my self Vortex369: |
Re: Don't Kill Yourself If You Are Like This Donkey (Photo) by Lastmankc(m): 10:15am On Dec 17, 2019 |
ceeroh:Bro, not all first son, I am the second son but the responsibility no be here ooo! |
Re: Don't Kill Yourself If You Are Like This Donkey (Photo) by freezyprinzy(m): 10:16am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Slawormir:You are a real niggur bruh much respect. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Don't Kill Yourself If You Are Like This Donkey (Photo) by buzorcharles(m): 10:17am On Dec 17, 2019 |
ceeroh: especially family way no see road |
Re: Don't Kill Yourself If You Are Like This Donkey (Photo) by Danialuone: 10:24am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Op you are very correct...this is a typical African life but i agree and disagree with these Yes .....yo don,t kill yourself yes hummmm----ask for help from a true friend ,very few oooo No---Les-sing the load .....how,this load was imposed on you ...this is practically impossible No----Loss the rope....this is practically impossible,unless you want to break the family tied that bonded you together yes----you can run freely ...only if you abdicate your responsibility and you will face the consequences in some days or years to come No-you can be useful for somebody....you that you are already immersed in problem and not even useful to yourself....how did you want to be useful to somebody my take bro... |
Re: Don't Kill Yourself If You Are Like This Donkey (Photo) by Nobody: 10:26am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Only the wise will understand this Like the wise need your dirty advice. If you're giving a smelly advice explain it well for people to understand wise or unwise. Because advice is to help not to confuse further. |
Re: Don't Kill Yourself If You Are Like This Donkey (Photo) by 12inchDickson: 10:26am On Dec 17, 2019 |
I am currently like this....... My business has hit a low. But I knw there is hope 1 Like |
Re: Don't Kill Yourself If You Are Like This Donkey (Photo) by femi4: 10:27am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Marotzke:Do you even know what the discussion is all about? You just jump in and spit nonesense |
Re: Don't Kill Yourself If You Are Like This Donkey (Photo) by Nobody: 10:36am On Dec 17, 2019 |
zexy2030: Thanks man. I'm going to write out these words. And always read them every morning to keep me going. 1 Like |
Re: Don't Kill Yourself If You Are Like This Donkey (Photo) by Nobody: 10:40am On Dec 17, 2019 |
zexy2030: By the way, I have really done so many stupid things that I don't even know where to start from. I don't know where I am been celebrated. |
Re: Don't Kill Yourself If You Are Like This Donkey (Photo) by zexy2030(m): 10:40am On Dec 17, 2019 |
usoroh4luv:That's so great. You are very relevant. |
Re: Don't Kill Yourself If You Are Like This Donkey (Photo) by anochuko01(m): 10:42am On Dec 17, 2019 |
maybachmusic:Then your family should let him be. Your parents are responsible for y'all. If your first born helps, it's just a privilege... He's under zero obligation. "a wise man leaves inheritance for his children"... So says the Bible. |
Re: Don't Kill Yourself If You Are Like This Donkey (Photo) by Nobody: 11:16am On Dec 17, 2019 |
anochuko01: Funny enough no one disturbs him Dude just has an I dont care attitude towards everyone Heck we even had to hide his azz in several cases to avoid shame |
Re: Don't Kill Yourself If You Are Like This Donkey (Photo) by gbagyiza: 11:21am On Dec 17, 2019 |
What comes to mind is my position as the first son in my family. I am the center of most of the financial issues. As I type this, the request I have compiled is equivalent to the picture in the post but glory be to God, I am the type that doesn't like pleasing people, I always do things according to my means, I can't kill myself to satisfy people. When people pressurized you, you need to relieve the pressure by yourself in other to stay healthy. 1 Like |
Re: Don't Kill Yourself If You Are Like This Donkey (Photo) by Conceptman: 11:22am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Once you are carrying lots of responsibility please make sure you slow it down and take care of yourself, some of us can't just watch people in needs, we always want to lift their burdens but one needs to be wise doing such. The lesson I learnt in this life is never put your life on the line for anybody because if things go bad with u, nobody go send u 3 Likes |
Re: Don't Kill Yourself If You Are Like This Donkey (Photo) by Damicares(f): 11:31am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Slawormir:Hmmmm touching. It's really not easy. God is your backbone bro |
Re: Don't Kill Yourself If You Are Like This Donkey (Photo) by Nobody: 11:34am On Dec 17, 2019 |
zexy2030:I was like that at a time, but no job now, owing rent and even want to sell my house. I'm also using this opportunity to look for placement as a mechanical technician. Marine/Industrial engines. A closed mouth is a closed destiny! |
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