saw a blog were a hubby said his wife give him wahala and go thru his stuff.another say his wife attack him always and shout at him.am weak DAT dese are pple am not sure are a real man. who is stronger between man and a woman? or d wife has become hubby and vice versal. how can a man be begging his wife for sex.how can a woman not cook for hubby.
Most women have ant brain and d way dey think will always be diffrent from a man but I will tell u sometin.did u know ant are wise.wit thier ant brain most are wise and am sorry to say wiser Dan a man who allow himself to be a fool for woman. dey are greedy and selfish who love money. a friend here got angry cos i told her d truth.she say her hubby money belong to her alone witout considering his mum and oda family.i say ok wat if u are a deputy gov or minister and u got money more dan ur hubby is ur money his own? she got angry wit no answer.
who pay bride price.who spend on her, so why let her ride you.most women will take advantage of u in d name of love.how can a man not dicipline ur woman, den how can u control her.it means she choose her friends and dress d way she want. a girl here say if mum in law slap her she will slap her back.is DAT a wife or agbero?
u are a man dere cant be 2 captain wen u talk she keep shot.wen she talk u too keep shot.
divorce is not d answer wen I see marriage DAT end in divorce I blame d man 100%. wen u over pet ur woman u become a fool.teach train dicipline and love ur wife and girlfriend but some of our men today are weak. so tey dem don' dey see period too. No matter how nice and loving u try to act no woman will ever respect a weak man.
NO WOMAN WILL EVER RESPECT A WEAK MAN

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It is all about preferences...

"Women have ant brain"



Oh yeah?

Men act in all manners. There is no clear cut definition of being a man nowadays. If it was that people had to hunt to survive I’ll support your notion. However in those days effeminate, lily-livered and kind hearted men still existed. The only way to ensure all men act in one certain way is if all 4.5 billion of them lived under one roof with one father to guide them, even at that variations will still exist in their individual characters.

weak man as in those men who do nothing all day other than washing woman pant and bra and going to market for the woman or u mean those men who come to nairaland to wail and cry when ther wife refuses them sex at home ;
obvious such men their wives dey busy shack up with some alpha male abi na alfa male in one hotel room for one corner .

jakandeola:
see wat a girl darlenese wrote.is dis right.how can ur hubby be cooking for u and washing and ur happy.

hian she"s married to a house husband..leave her alone

dawnomike:
It is all about preferences...

I dont get

czarina:
"Women have ant brain"


Oh yeah?

I mean wat I said dear. cos d way u guys tink I dont undastand

meobizy:
Men act in all manners. There is no clear cut definition of being a man nowadays. If it was that people had to hunt to survive I’ll support your notion. However in those days effeminate, lily-livered and kind hearted men still existed. The only way to ensure all men act in one certain way is if all 4.5 billion of them lived under one roof with one father to guide them, even at that variations will still exist in their individual characters.

I know we cant be all d same but men must still be strong.some women are so humble dey do d right thing. some u have to shout first.some u have to report dem to pastor or elders before dey act well.some u have to beat sence into thier brain. as a man u need wisdom

lefulefu:
weak man as in those men who do nothing all day other than washing woman pant and bra and going to market for the woman or u mean those men who come to nairaland to wail and cry when ther wife refuses them sex at home ;
obvious such men their wives dey busy shack up with some alpha male abi na alfa male in one hotel room for one corner .

hahahahaha my guy I tire o

"e author=lefulefu post=85381436] hian she"s married to a house husband..leave her alone [/quote]" and she say it so proud

jakandeola:
see wat a girl darlenese wrote.is dis right.how can ur hubby be cooking for u and washing and ur happy.

bukatyne eyinjuege cococandy pocohantas sassysure midnighter fountainofyouth toks2008 wiseandtrue adewumiopeyemi

jakandeola:
I know we cant be all d same but men must still be strong.some women are so humble dey do d right thing. some u have to shout first.some u have to report dem to pastor or elders before dey act well.some u have to beat sence into thier brain. as a man u need wisdom

Strength for men is an outdated concept. Your reply even shows women are different from one another, why don’t you think men will turn out the same? Unfortunately this is my last response since I’m either deactivating this account today or getting a long term ban.

meobizy:

Strength for men is an outdated concept. Your reply even shows women are different from one another, why don’t you think men will turn out the same? Unfortunately this is my last response since I’m either deactivating this account today or getting a long term ban.

are u saying noting wrong in a weak man?

Why quoting me

jakandeola:
bukatyne eyinjuege cococandy pocohantas sassysure midnighter fountainofyouth toks2008 wiseandtrue adewumiopeyemi

Wow, that Darlenese is a lucky woman indeed

See how the man pampers her.

jakandeola:
I mean wat I said dear. cos d way u guys tink I dont undastand

Issorait

CHoccolaTE:
Wow, that Darlenese is a lucky woman indeed

See how the man pampers her.

I know ur saying dis to get me mad.but I ask is dis right? u will born a baby one day.boy. wen he marry will u like he wash and cook for his wife. u go and visit ur son one day and see him washing his wife pant and bra will u happy.pls say d truth witout been a hippocrate

czarina:
Issorait

visit right a man wash for his woman

jakandeola:
I know ur saying dis to get me mad.but I ask is dis right? u will born a baby one day.boy. wen he marry will u like he wash and cook for his wife. u go and visit ur son one day and see him washing his wife pant and bra will u happy.pls say d truth witout been a hippocrate

@ bold, get you mad ke?
I meant what I said, she is a lucky woman. You dont know what kind of relationship she and her husband have. They could still be very much in love with each other and wanting to make each other happy. Maybe she on her part is very loving to the man, maybe she always makes him happy or acts as a good friend and companion to him, cooks his favorite food and so on.
Maybe he genuinely loves her and wants to make her happy.

As for your question about my son. If that is what makes him happy then who am I to stop him? He is an adult and is free to decide how he wants to live his life.

CHoccolaTE:


@ bold, get you mad ke?
I meant what I said, she is a lucky woman. You dont know what kind of relationship she and her husband have. They could still be very much in love with each other and wanting to make each other happy. Maybe she on her part is very loving to the man, maybe she always makes him happy or acts as a good friend and companion to him, cooks his favorite food and so on.
Maybe he genuinely loves her and wants to make her happy.

As for your question about my son. If that is what makes him happy then who am I to stop him? He is an adult and is free to decide how he wants to live his life.

no mom will accept DAT. is easy to talk. wen u born and train him only to see him end up washing his wife pant u will know is not joking mata

jakandeola:
I know ur saying dis to get me mad.but I ask is dis right? u will born a baby one day.boy. wen he marry will u like he wash and cook for his wife. u go and visit ur son one day and see him washing his wife pant and bra will u happy.pls say d truth witout been a hippocrate

its African mentality , there is nothing wrong , stop seeing women as slaves , they are not born to do make babies and do chores.

Sighs......

My take is that with authority comes responsibility. If you want to teach men to retake their full authority, ensure that you teach them to bear full responsibility.

In the past, our forefathers never expected that women should bear the burden of providing for the family. Now we call a woman who does not contribute to the finances a lazy woman; yet we do not call a man who does not contribute to sweeping, cooking and childcare a lazy man. This is injustice. If we want our wives to share in what should be our responsibility for providing for the family, we should also share in their responsibility of taking care of the home, and relinquish authority over at least that part of the home expenses that we expect them to finance.

Men should either be men and step up to the plate, or they should stop crying over the emasculation and pussification that they are bringing on themselves.

Humans are unique. Depends largely on what you want from a woman. I've come to understand it's not easy being a woman.

Personally, I subscribe to the Mafia code in handling all the women in your life. God bless our women.

I think moderation is the key word,a man should learn to assert his position in His home but not overdo it,I think maturity of the mind comes mostly into play thats why marriage isn't for small boys ,overgrown mummy's boys and irresponsible men. Women who can manage these types,Una well done.