A girl in my class was crying and complaining to her friend how her boyfwend left her cos of a supposed infection he contracted from her which took him 4 months to treat,she said she was faithful to him and dat the only infection she's ever had was toilet infection which she treated,she said her main problem isn't that he left but that he now hates her more than the devil and wouldn't talk to her,she's been trying her best to get him to let go of what happened and atleast just answer her greetings to no avail.(which makes her wonder if he ever loved her)she still loves him very much but that doesn't even matter,she just wants him to forgive her cos it bothers her alot,she doesn't know how or whatelse to do so she needs help on how to go about it. P.S her friend is a friend of mine,she told me everything and i decided to ask people that know better than me(you).especially the guys will you continue wiv a girl who transmitted an infection to you even when you know she's faithful?and what will your lover do that you won't forgive?

Most of them always claim its toilet that gave the infection but is it so? The guy should thank God for deliverance and stay very far from that girl.

otokx:

[size=15pt]Most of them always claim its toilet that gave the infection but is it so[/size]? The guy should thank God for deliverance and stay very far from that girl.

Hmm You mean we[b] should not trust her claim[/b] She might be lying and putting all the blame on toilet infection Real food for thought

freecocoa:

infection he contracted from her which took him 4 months to treat,

HELL NO, Cant turn my life to a casino. Supposing it was HIV+ , She would have ruined my health career

freecocoa:

A girl in my class was crying and complaining to her friend how her boyfwend left her cos of a supposed infection he contracted from her which took him 4 months to treat,she said she was faithful to him and dat the only infection she's ever had was toilet infection which she treated,she said her main problem isn't that he left but that he now hates her more than the devil and wouldn't talk to her,she's been trying her best to get him to let go of what happened and atleast just answer her greetings to no avail.(which makes her wonder if he ever loved her)she still loves him very much but that doesn't even matter,she just wants him to forgive her cos it bothers her alot,she doesn't know how or whatelse to do so she needs help on how to go about it. P.S her friend is a friend of mine,she told me everything and i decided to ask people that know better than me(you).especially the guys will you continue wiv a girl who transmitted an infection to you even when you know she's faithful?and what will your lover do that you won't forgive?

I will 4give IF and only IF that infection is contracted from the toilet, as we all know, not every infection is contracted from the toilet.

You see am! Wear condom! Protect yourself!! All these advertorials, campaign and seminars is all a waste?

In this 21st century, fellas still dey Zap raw?
Una no like una life??
You think AIDS dey show for face
Damn

Toilet disease? I'm not going to believe that sh!t, ordinarily I don't think toilet diseases can be transmitted to men through sex.ual intercourse (may be the doctors in the house can help) however, it is possible for ladies especially to contract STDs from toilet but in most cases it usually due to the lady's careless attitude and uncleanliness, all the same I don't think I'll be comfortable to continue a relationship with that girl. The guy may be too harsh but don't blame him too much treating a disease for 4 months is not a joke!

Ijele-igbo:

You see am! Wear condom! Protect yourself!! All these advertorials, campaign and seminars is all a waste?

In this 21st century, fellas still dey Zap raw?
Una no like una life??
You think AIDS dey show for face
Damn

or better still ABSTAIN like i do.


Topic.

She should give him time to pick up the pieces left of his life. He just escaped been infected by sheer luck, na by mistake person dey use change status from negative to positive.

Time might heal the wound.

3 is certainly a crowd in scenarios like this. Most folks would rather outta shame keep it to themselves.

She told her friend, her friend is cocoa's buddy, cocoa now knows, Cocoa has alerted Nlers.

Meanwhile toilet infection can hardly mutate as to pose a nut cracker for 4 months. Story aint complete yet.

Specialist900:

or better still ABSTAIN like i do.


Topic.

She should give him time to pick up the pieces left of his life. He just escaped been infected by sheer luck, na by mistake person dey use change status from negative to positive.

Time might heal the wound.

Its actually been over 9 months since the incident,she feels that he'll never let it go.come to think of it my friend told me the guy said the infection affected his heart 2 the extent an operation was almost performed on him,now am just wondering,how come this guy is the only suffering and the babe who is the supposed carrier is okay?

holydante:

3 is certainly a crowd in scenarios like this. Most folks would rather outta shame keep it to themselves.

She told her friend, her friend is cocoa's buddy, cocoa now knows, Cocoa has alerted Nlers.

Meanwhile toilet infection can hardly mutate as to pose a nut cracker for 4 months. Story aint complete yet.

Bros its not my fault naw,i just wanted to know what you guys think,besides i don't even know the guy in person and y'all don't either so their secret is still safe(somehow sha).I actually thought the same cos i don't understand how someone who transmitted an infection to another person can be okay while the contractor will be suffering from heart problem,backache,blurry vision etc as a result of the infection.

freecocoa:

Its actually been over 9 months since the incident,she feels that he'll never let it go.come to think of it my friend told me the guy said the infection affected his heart 2 the extent an operation was almost performed on him,now am just wondering,how come this guy is the only suffering and the babe who is the supposed carrier is okay?

That explains it, the guy almost died. Don't mind my asking but what kind of infection was that?

As regards why the guy is the only one suffering and the babe okay, women are really good carriers of infection at least one prominent infection which we all know that could be in a lady without it been noticed is the gonorrhoea. Or another explanation could be that there are infections which could be dormant in the carriers but when transmitted becomes active.

toilet infection My goodness what a load of rubbish. I would hate to think of the state of the toilets wherever the poster is. That excuse would never fly here. Even public toilets are regulary cleaned. When are people going to stop using that excuse, its not true!!!!

I totally agree with Specialist900, That perticular transmitted disease i think is the only one that can cause problems in other parts of the body. Affects the brain too. Only one way to catch it is by sex with someone else. The toilet excuse is rubbish. She needs to be honest and own up. Her bf should run if she has given him that.

Specialist900:

That explains it, the guy almost died. Don't mind my asking but what kind of infection was that?

My friend told me the babe said when they both went for a test she was said to have weak abi na developing Staphylococcus while the guy had Staphylococcus and Heavy Coliform spp.now am wondering which person be the real transmittor here.P.S the babe doesn't believe she infected him but the problem is that he says she's his first girlfriend and the one who disvirgined him at 24(i don't believe that) so all the blame goes to her.

Guys listen.Am a doc.aint no BS called 'toilet infection'.Candidiasis(vaginal yeast) which manifest as non-itchy discharge is transmitted thru fomites-towels,panties etc;BUT ur innocent toilet,whether or not, does not give any genital infection. And yes girls can have an infection which may b asymptomatic but give d man symptoms,like someone pointed out.Thing is,they may come down later with arthritis n subfertility.In this story,what i think she had was gonorrhea(which by d was is sexually transmitted)n d young man is havin pericarditis,which is a complication.

freecocoa:

My friend told me the babe said when they both went for a test she was said to have weak abi na developing Staphylococcus while the guy had Staphylococcus and Heavy Coliform spp.now am wondering which person be the real transmittor here.P.S the babe doesn't believe she infected him but the problem is that he says she's his first girlfriend and the one who disvirgined him at 24(i don't believe that) so all the blame goes to her.

staph aureus, wahala dey o. If she is denying it how come about the toilet infection?

The stuff is the guy wasn't used to all these life and the first time he tried it it backfired therefore he is trying to run atleast steer clear.

oh ok, so there is more to the story. Somehow now it sounds a bit fishy. If she isnt infected then it could of been him and he wanted an excuse to dump her. If my guy come to me with this info and i knew i hadnt cheated then i would know it was him. Why does she still want him if he is treating her this way if she is sure she is innocent?

jaephoenix:

Guys listen.Am a doc.aint no BS called 'toilet infection'.Candidiasis(womanly yeast) which manifest as non-itchy discharge is transmitted thru fomites-towels,panties etc;BUT your innocent toilet,whether or not, does not give any focal place infection. And yes girls can have an infection which may b asymptomatic but give d man symptoms,like someone pointed out.Thing is,they may come down later with arthritis n subfertility.In this story,what i think she had was gonorrhea(which by d was is sexually transmitted)n d young man is havin pericarditis,which is a complication.

doc abeg o, pericarditis, na yara'dua?

Tink_sh:

oh ok, so there is more to the story. Somehow now it sounds a bit fishy. If she isnt infected then it could of been him and he wanted an excuse to dump her. If my guy come to me with this info and i knew i hadnt cheated then i would know it was him. Why does she still want him if he is treating her this way if she is sure she is innocent?

I wondered too o(but you know how stoopid a girl can get for love)From everything my friend told me i don't think the girl is lying,you know how it is when a girl confides in her closest friend especially when it has something to do wiv a guy,we usually bare it all.she was faithful and had staph not gonorrhea.

Inked_Nerd:

@OP: If this friend is indeed telling the truth, then there may be an possibility that he boyfriend may have been messin' around with some other girl. He dude may have just been looking for a reason to break up with her. And another thing, what kind of infection is this? There are many types of infections that a person can get. You never though whether or not it was a sexually transmitted infection. Besides its even possible that he may have had the infection before and is just seeing the symptoms for the first time .

She was diagnosed of WEAK STAPH AUREUS only and him STAPH AUREUS and HEAVY COLIFORM SPP(i wonder what dat is)can anyone please explain.

freecocoa:

She was diagnosed of[b] WEAK STAPH AUREUS only and him STAPH AUREUS and HEAVY COLIFORM SPP[/b](i wonder what dat is)can anyone please explain.

Stafilokokos!
ori mi ma jen ro ran, koju ma ri bi gbogbo ara loo gun e

tunnytox:

Stafilokokos!
ori mi ma jen ro ran, koju ma ri bi gbogbo ara loo gun e

Ogbeni speak english naw.ah oti o + oga o.

Inked_Nerd:


Here's some info on what staph is >>> http://kidshealth.org/parent/infections/bacterial_viral/staphylococcus.html sorry it was too long to copy and paste. As for coliform SPP, ummm from what I can remember, you can contract that from bad drinking water. I could be mistaken.

Na wa o,from the article staph is really common and everywhere.(even kids do get it)i'm convinced the girl is innocent even if he got it from her it wasn't as a result of cheating.i feel for her sha.

freecocoa:

Ogbeni speak english naw.ah oti o + oga o.

Abegi no vex my sista i just can't help it, when you hear about that kind of infections to avoid trouble one must just run comot before any yawa go gas

190:

That gurl has gotten that STI from somewhere else

not any crappy toilet infection,

please freecocoa disassociate yourself from thoes kinda miserable runs-girls

thank God the guy has used his sense,

but too bad she loves him but she shud tell you the truth,

i suspect Gonococuss infection is at work here!!

Thanks for the advice dear but this girl is one of the good girls we know and a bookworm too,am not defending her but i really feel for her,you need to hear the tori from my friend and see the babe crying,u'd be touched too.

^^

Hmmm,

she should let go, the guy is obviously tired since she even had a disease in the 1st place

tell her to move on