ClassicMan202:


You dey use wetin do shakara??

do shakara

ZINIBANKS:

Am here already

u are too spoilt for me

virgin it is..

can't stay loyal to a non virgin. reason being that someone else already perforated her hymen which was divinely ordained for her husband by God. I want to plant my seeds in a fresh ground, not one ravaged by some unknown dudes in the block.

don't ever yearn for loyalty in marriage if you ain't virgin. and someone is saying it's low self-esteem men that prefers virgin? humor me please. everyone is entitled to their opinion Sha even if it's rubbish that was spewed.

And BTW, I don't see anything wrong with a man desiring a virgin as I cringe when I imagine people irrespective of genders having several sexual intercourses with different people. What I find odd and hypocritical is when the person who wants a virgin lady has a community pen!s and doesn't have money.

MrBrownJay1:


its called spec/opinion, and like an butthole, everybody got one...

the majority of men want a virgin woman because of low self esteem. the simple reason why they want one is because they CANT accept that their woman has been with another man. they CANT take the fact that their woman had a life before them. they CANT accept that they wont be their woman's first.

if a man wants a virgin because he believes of the purity of the body, then unless he is a virgin himself, he is just talking NONSENSE! there is a TON of insecure/low self esteem men in Nigeria.

1. This is a lady hiding under a male moniker.

2. This is like one of the dumbest thing to say. I wish I could see the face producing this asinine logic.

Chi59:

honestly the way these virgin hunters on nairaland keep emphasising in virgin, you'd think they have some ulterior motive. In this era of money rituals, one gat to shine eyes wella. Virgin ko, Virginia ni.

sadly i understand these men... they are so insecure that they need someone who is so clueless in the bedroom, that anything they will do to/with her, would be "marvelous". they are so insecure that they couldnt be with a woman that has already been with a man (that could possibly be better than them in the bedroom), they couldnt handle a woman who actually knows her way around in the bedroom and who knows what she wanted sexually. thats TOO MUCH of a woman for these cheap low self esteem insecure men.

Petyprincess:
I never got worked up because it's their choice! Bt i wonder why guys get worked up when we prefer rich guys?

Apples and oranges.

Gerrard59:
And BTW, I don't see anything wrong with a man desiring a virgin as I cringe when I imagine people irrespective of genders having several sexual intercourses with different people. What I find odd and hypocritical is when the person who wants a virgin lady has a community pen!s and doesn't have money.

bro thats the exact point of the issue... how can a man be fukcing around but yet when he is ready to marry, he would value virginity , like his life depended on it?

ElasticStone:

1. This is a lady hiding under a male moniker.

2. This is like one of the dumbest thing to say. I wish I could see the face producing this asinine logic.

you must be new on NL... oh well... here:

MrBrownJay1:


bro thats the exact point of the issue... how can a man be fukcing around but yet when he is ready to marry, he would value virginity , like his life depended on it?



you must be new on NL... oh well... here:

Lol. Then you must be a very dumb person. No pun intended. Not to sound sexist, but such faulty logic is very common with female feminist.

ElasticStone:
Lol. Then you must be a very dumb person. No pun intended

you see, as this is NL, we would instead prefer that you gave us SOUND EXPLANATION/INFORMATION as to why a man would rather seek for a virgin than a woman with good character... OR why a man would be fukcing around for years but when it is time to get married, he would solely seek for a virgin OR what is so scary about a non virgin OR BETTER YET whats better about a virgin that non virgin do not possess?!?!?!

this is what NL is all about.... bring your valid intelligent point to this discussion.

If all these guys that are clamouring for virgins marry all the virgins, what will now happen to the rest ladies that are not virgins?
Well, I don't care if my future wife is going to be a virgin or not. As long as she won't cheat and is submissive to me, I am all in.
Now, I am too lazy to disvirgin any lady, besides I can't stand blood and stuff. So I am just going to be like Jesus, wait for a John the Baptist to 'pave the way for my coming' and disvirgin my future wife (if she is still a virgin), for me to continue with ease. Kappish?

PerfectMaster:
Why the over use of emoji?

its a fake laughter, she is pained as well

justnock:
If all these guys that are clamouring for virgins marry all the virgins, what will now happen to the rest ladies that are not virgins?
Well, I don't care if my future wife is going to be a virgin or not. As long as she won't cheat and is submissive to me, I am all in.
Now, I am too lazy to disvirgin any lady, besides I can't stand blood and stuff. So I am just going to be like Jesus, wait for a John the Baptist to 'pave the way for my coming' and disvirgin my future wife (if she is still a virgin), for me to continue with ease. Kappish?

in this day and age where so many now can easily get hymen reconstruction surgery (Hymenorrhaphy) only a very foolish man would actually seek for a virgin, like his life depended on it, believing that virgins automatically possess the best character.

here is a simple clue to them: the biggest wh0res out there were once virgins, and thank god, the dude who took their virginity wasnt MARRIED to them.

MrBrownJay1:


sadly i understand these men... they are so insecure that they need someone who is so clueless in the bedroom, that anything they will do to/with her, would be "marvelous". they are so insecure that they couldnt be with a woman that has already been with a man (that could possibly be better than them in the bedroom), they couldnt handle a woman who actually knows her way around in the bedroom and who knows what she wanted sexually. thats TOO MUCH of a woman for these cheap low self esteem insecure men.

Gbam! Anything to fan their feeble egos. It's sad to see how much low self esteem many young men display. I don't know whether to blame their upbringing and or the economic recession. Because nairaland has not seen it this bad.

justnock:
If all these guys that are clamouring for virgins marry all the virgins, what will now happen to the rest ladies that are not virgins?
Well, I don't care if my future wife is going to be a virgin or not. As long as she won't cheat and is submissive to me, I am all in.
Now, I am too lazy to disvirgin any lady, besides I can't stand blood and stuff. So I am just going to be like Jesus, wait for a John the Baptist to 'pave the way for my coming' and disvirgin my future wife (if she is still a virgin), for me to continue with ease. Kappish?

kestolove95:
do shakara

Ok, continue but am coming for it sha

Petyprincess:
I never got worked up because it's their choice! Bt i wonder why guys get worked up when we prefer rich guys?

That’s just a petty way of seeking redemption. A broke guy can be rich between days and his entire life change for good. But sadly a NON VIRGIN can’t be VIRGIN till eternity.
Fvcked pvssy can’t be unfvcked.
Gotten?

I dont care how many men my wife hav slept wit. I will still marry her. Nobody's perfect

MrBrownJay1:


its called spec/opinion, and like a butthole, everybody got one...

the majority of men want a virgin woman because of low self esteem. the simple reason why they want one is because they CANT accept that their woman has been with another man. they CANT take the fact that their woman had a life before them. they CANT accept that they wont be their woman's first.

if a man wants a virgin because he believes of the purity of the body, then unless he is a virgin himself, he is just talking NONSENSE! there is a TON of insecure/low self esteem men in Nigeria.

Oga talk Rubbish joor and commot for my side which one is low esteem?

Yes I believe and I know men have low self esteem and you find these men lowering their standards to accommodate women with characters they don't like and on a normal level won't even condone. You see men settling for less like being with single mothers, women older than them and or women fatter or uglier than their mothers.

Men who wants virgins are those who thinks that because a woman is a virgin the possibility of her to cheat is very low maybe due to factors that made her a virgin up until the time she got married like (low libido, religion and strict upbringing from parents). But to their greatest surprise, not all keeps passing the test.. They tend to cheat more cause they've felt what they've been running from for years only to feel it and be great about it. It is not because they have low self esteem. If for anything, it's women who has more number of low self esteemed being than men but knows how to hide it or maybe men don't know how to figure it out.

Gerrard59:


And this Mr PerfectMaster is where the hypocrisy lies. You cannot wish for what you cannot offer. Most of these ladies who are virgins are pious or at best prudish, [/b]going to church services thrice weekly[b]. Asking them to be yoked with a brostitute just because you want a virgin is unfair to their vaginas and go against their beliefs. Moreover, if you really desire to marry a virgin as a non-virgin, what are you bringing to the table? Do you have enough money to cover your brostitute status? Or you believe because you want a virgin then any virgin will accept you even though you have a community pen!s?

It is those women with holes the size of Florida that's usually in church mostly because they're nearing their peak in age and praying for a man to get married to them.

kestolove95:
u are too spoilt for me

Spoilt.??
How

MrBrownJay1:


better than what exactly? are you claiming a virgin is BETTER than a non virgin?! how exactly?

you see... the above clearly shows your low self esteem insecurities shining out of you... if you believe that a virgin is AUTOMATICALLY better than a non virgin then INSECURE LOW SELF ESTEEM man you are.

All things being equal a virgin is more preferable because she can easily be pleased by her man.
A non virgin are likely to be more unfaithful than a virgin.

Gerrard59:


And this Mr PerfectMaster is where the hypocrisy lies. You cannot wish for what you cannot offer. Most of these ladies who are virgins are pious or at best prudish, going to church services thrice weekly. Asking them to be yoked with a brostitute just because you want a virgin is unfair to their vaginas and go against their beliefs. Moreover, if you really desire to marry a virgin as a non-virgin, what are you bringing to the table? Do you have enough money to cover your brostitute status? Or you believe because you want a virgin then any virgin will accept you even though you have a community pen!s?

So a man is not free to wish for a virgin but a woman is free to desire a man of her choice?
A woman who is short want a tall man going by your logic she doesnt have the right.
It is non of your business if he has money or not, there is nothing like brostitute.

MrBrownJay1:


sadly i understand these men... they are so insecure that they need someone who is so clueless in the bedroom, that anything they will do to/with her, would be "marvelous". they are so insecure that they couldnt be with a woman that has already been with a man (that could possibly be better than them in the bedroom), they couldnt handle a woman who actually knows her way around in the bedroom and who knows what she wanted sexually. thats TOO MUCH of a woman for these cheap low self esteem insecure men.

An insecure man wants a Lady that is more experienced then he is, to cover for is inadequacy.
As a man I dont need a woman's sexual experience, it is useless to me. I am not saying non virgins should be totally discarded but All things being equal a virgin should be the first choice of any sane man.

A woman that has a low body count of maybe 1 is also preferred to a many body count woman.
No sane many wants a baggage.

Gerrard59:


And this Mr PerfectMaster is where the hypocrisy lies. You cannot wish for what you cannot offer. Most of these ladies who are virgins are pious or at best prudish, going to church services thrice weekly. Asking them to be yoked with a brostitute just because you want a virgin is unfair to their vaginas and go against their beliefs. Moreover, if you really desire to marry a virgin as a non-virgin, what are you bringing to the table? Do you have enough money to cover your brostitute status? Or you believe because you want a virgin then any virgin accept you even though you have a community pen!s?

I got you.
You will know that he's a community penis or a non virgin guy because is hywomen has been broken.

If a non virgin guy that have dualised so many pussies is looking for a virgin to marry a virgin, it's in your best interest to go and arrest him since it has become a crime in Nigeria.

As long as broke girls are looking for rich dudes to marry because they can uplift them out of porverty, short girls are looking for tall guys to marry because they are short so they don't want short kids, it's right for community dicks to marry a virgin so that the virgins that are pious and prudish can teach them how to live a pious and prudish life and be closer to God.

kestolove95:
D kind shakara wey I dey use my virginity do en, its for my future husband nd I never meet am sef

babe I dey here, thank God hv finally found u, shall we?

I prefer virgin . Non virgin ladies are prone to promiscuity.

Sirvingeo:
I prefer virgin . Non virgin ladies are prone to promiscuity.

End of discussion.

Korllami007:


As long as broke girls are looking for rich dudes to marry because they can uplift them out of porverty, short girls are looking for tall guys to marry because they are short so they don't want short kids, it's right for community dicks to marry a virgin so that the virgins that are pious and prudish can teach them how to live a pious and prudish life and be closer to God.

Can't argue against this sound logic, sir. Here, have a like.

I'm not sure if anyone gets worked up about you preferring a virgin for marriage or not.
However, people get worked up when you start insulting your non virgin mothers and sisters.
Your insults are not warranted.
Everyone will get what they deserve at the end of the day.
Majority of you will not marry virgins, and majority will not marry as men who've never had sex either.
If you want a virgin to marry, then start preaching chastity amongst men, as they are probably drilling the virginity of your future wife right now.
Countries like Pakistan have managed to keep the body count of their citizens low because their men don't sleep with women they're not married to.
Many of them both men and women marry as virgins, on equal standing, and they hardly ever practice polygamy even if its allowed by their religion.