Parker6:
A virgin with other nice qualities is my preference, any day any time. Women always get uncomfortable whenever I say this.

SpyAC:
babe I dey here, thank God hv finally found u, shall we?

I need a virgin guy

PerfectMaster:
So a man is not free to wish for a virgin but a woman is free to desire a man of her choice?
A woman who is short want a tall man going by your logic she doesnt have the right.
It is non of your business if he has money or not, there is nothing like brostitute.

I hope you know that these virgin ladies have standards? Can/Do you meet any? Do you have money? Are you equally a virgin? What are you bringing to the table for mandating a virgin as a wife? Oh yes! There is what is called "brostitute" aka community pen!s. Men who move around having (un)protected sex with different women during their bachelor's days.

kestolove95:
I need a virgin guy

lol, how do u identify a virgin guy? If u can, am good to go, bcs am team virgin

eyinjuege:
I'm not sure if anyone gets worked up about you preferring a virgin for marriage or not.
However, people get worked up when you start insulting your non virgin mothers and sisters.
Your insults are not warranted.
Everyone will get what they deserve at the end of the day.
Majority of you will not marry virgins, and majority will not marry as men who've never had sex either.
If you want a virgin to marry, then start preaching chastity amongst men, as they are probably drilling the virginity of your future wife right now.

Countries like Pakistan have managed to keep the body count of their citizens low because their men don't sleep with women they're not married to.
Many of them both men and women marry as virgins, on equal standing, and they hardly ever practice polygamy even if its allowed by their religion.

Interesting. Could you please share a link where someone can read about the project?

MrBrownJay1:


you see, as this is NL, we would instead prefer that you gave us SOUND EXPLANATION/INFORMATION as to why a man would rather seek for a virgin than a woman with good character... OR why a man would be fukcing around for years but when it is time to get married, he would solely seek for a virgin OR what is so scary about a non virgin OR BETTER YET whats better about a virgin that non virgin do not possess?!?!?!

this is what NL is all about.... bring your valid intelligent point to this discussion.

If you knew you were going to be this bitter, you shouldn't have given up your virginity.

Emmmm...the thing is this everybody av got a choice....
And that choice should be respected......
Very simple

Gerrard59:


Interesting. Could you please share a link where someone can read about the project?

She is lying those guys sees women as livestock, even worse.

ElasticStone:


1. This is a lady hiding under a male moniker.

2. This is like one of the dumbest thing to say. I wish I could see the face producing this asinine logic.

She claims male have low self esteem but hides under a male moniker.

Omar09:


Oga talk Rubbish joor and commot for my side which one is low esteem?

Yes I believe and I know men have low self esteem and you find these men lowering their standards to accommodate women with characters they don't like and on a normal level won't even condone. You see men settling for less like being with single mothers, women older than them and or women fatter or uglier than their mothers.

Men who wants virgins are those who thinks that because a woman is a virgin the possibility of her to cheat is very low maybe due to factors that made her a virgin up until the time she got married like (low libido, religion and strict upbringing from parents). But to their greatest surprise, not all keeps passing the test.. They tend to cheat more cause they've felt what they've been running from for years only to feel it and be great about it. It is not because they have low self esteem. If for anything, it's women who has more number of low self esteemed being than men but knows how to hide it or maybe men don't know how to figure it out.

Having encountered your posts and Martinez's,I can infer you try to sugar coat sexism with trying to sound logical,albeit you fail woefully. That is fair. At least you are merely 23 there are years ahead for you to wisen up. If your frequent NL posts are for leisure,that will be okay but if all you type are a reflection of your mindset then I am scared for you.
Let's us analyze your post,
You say men with self esteem settle for less? I agree.I only had an issue when you made a list of what less is. UB.unja version of less is what you take up for yourself and bestow on all men?
So you and your cohorts are adjudicators to decide what is standard for a man?
Lol,this is laughable.
I will never set a standard for anyone,neither should you do so. Is it had for you and other redpillers to stay clear off people's personal life? Swallow a capsule of the red pill and walk away instead of making yourselves adjudicators of other people's lives? What do you gain from all of this?you are damaging yourself by the day thinking this is liberation.it is high time you did an introspection.
Harddon was wise when he admonished you guys not to give your all energy into women stuffs. You may think its only chasing a lady for dating/sex that he meant but it Also includes discussing ladies issues. He may not be the most popular redpiller on this forum but the few wise men on this forum will always acknowledge him.
I am glad guys like mjbolt and Capslocked are woke from this depravity you and your fellow u.bunja disciples adopt.I am not a hater or fan,but I have seen life for myself and wonder if you all live in medieval times to draw up conclusions and hilarious stuffs you call truths. After all the brouhaha on this forum you will see for yourself that the rules don't apply in real life, your master says things from his small world, Zimbabwe/SA experience. Most men spec are now smart/intelligent ladies while on this forum you witness goons like Kennedy and your master call the intelligent educated ones low value and still go as far as tagging those who marry them names.I don't know you all motive or passion for all these but I guess there is need for reflection.

Its not your fault,there has to be something to balance out gynocentrism and misandry(peddled as feminism),this is a clap back for them .The ladies and some male feminists like the animal called budaatum drew the battleline when they incepted the vilifying of men instead of focusing on equality. The red pill on this forum is a well deserved penalty for misandry.

Back to your post,
what do you say about women that marry single dads,men fatter and uglier than their fathers? Do they lack self esteem ?what do have to say about single dads and ugly men?
Answer with your brains and not what you read from u.bunja and earn my respect!

Chi59:

You're on point. This incessant clamour for virgin wives just shows how fragile a lot of men's egos are in this country.
If you're not a virgin, then you don't deserve to marry one, except you just get lucky.

Lol....Wait... so because a man has slept with a woman other men has slept with means he doesn’t deserve a virgin?? I don’t get this logic.??
So because a person acquired and used a car several people have used, the person suddenly doesn’t deserve a new one...I still don’t get the logic by relating it to a car



If he has already got the opportunity to disflowered one or two virgins and jilted them, now he’s looking for one to marry, then maybe I’ll get your logic that he doesn’t deserve one...

PerfectMaster:
All things being equal a virgin is more preferable because she can easily be pleased by her man.
A non virgin are likely to be more unfaithful than a virgin.

Where do u people dig up all this weird logic from??

A virgin is supposed to be a sexually inexperienced person....how is she supposed to please her man...I hope you know sexual satisfaction is more than entering a tight hole...

People cheat most times becos of greed and lack of satisfaction.... you people like to assume that becos a lady is a virgin she will always be satisfied with whatever d!ck she’s getting even if it’s 1min....
Could u explain rationally not mere assumption, how a nonvirgin is likely to be more unfaithful than a virgin...?

SpyAC:
lol, how do u identify a virgin guy? If u can, am good to go, bcs am team virgin

for bin on dix forum alone sef, I dey fear u

kestolove95:
for bin on dix forum alone sef, I dey fear u

lol is the forum infectious?, am falling for u already pls do something.

Korllami007:

I got you.
You will know that he's a community penis or a non virgin guy because is hywomen has been broken.

If a non virgin guy that have dualised so many pussies is looking for a virgin to marry a virgin, it's in your best interest to go and arrest him since it has become a crime in Nigeria.

As long as broke girls are looking for rich dudes to marry because they can uplift them out of porverty, short girls are looking for tall guys to marry because they are short so they don't want short kids, it's right for community dicks to marry a virgin so that the virgins that are pious and prudish can teach them how to live a pious and prudish life and be closer to God.

sense will not kill you ..... kikikiki

Chi59:

You're on point. This incessant clamour for virgin wives just shows how fragile a lot of men's egos are in this country.
If you're not a virgin, then you don't deserve to marry one, except you just get lucky.

Did I hear you say except a guy's just lucky ? What's luck got to do with it anyway ?

Chai,all dis women using male moniker to bash virgins,na wao

Honestly a husband will always respect his virgin wife...

Because they exchanged theirs for ordinary noodles.

By nature, Humanbeings don't like to be condemned.

Only very few ladies will marry as virgins which make virginity a very scarce 'commodity' to be well respected. In addition to this this 'treasure-like' status of virginity is the fact that it can only be lost once in a lifetime.



Saying publicly that you want to marry a virgin is indirectly condemning non-virgin ladies (about 95% of all women). Some ladies get hurt because of such statements and some may hate you for it.



I strongly advise you


1) to stop saying out (but you can have it in mind) that you want to marry a virgin because you are likely to hurt the women that love you and in the process, hurt yourself too.


2) Never mention the word 'virginity' in front of a lady that you haven't fvcked before but you plan to fvck.

PerfectMaster:
They want a tall man, they want a well to do man, they want a fair or dark man etc they all have their spec but when a man says he want a virgin they rant and begin to curse.

If a virgin man should marry a virgin woman then a tall woman should marry a tall guy same goes for anyother expectations.

Inconclusion, everyone has their preference and their choice should be respected. As a guy I prefer a virgin for various reason and I dont need to be a virgin, same for a woman. If she prefers a virgin man even when she is not a virgin, it is her choice.

PerfectMaster:
They want a tall man, they want a well to do man, they want a fair or dark man etc they all have their spec but when a man says he want a virgin they rant and begin to curse.

If a virgin man should marry a virgin woman then a tall woman should marry a tall guy same goes for anyother expectations.

Inconclusion, everyone has their preference and their choice should be respected. As a guy I prefer a virgin for various reason and I dont need to be a virgin, same for a woman. If she prefers a virgin man even when she is not a virgin, it is her choice.

I think being Chaste comes with huge benefit...'' one time I told mine fiance who was so busy one Friday, so busy... That I was annoyed he didn't call,, do I pulled a stunt on him! I mailed him... CU's I knew no matter how busy, he reads email.'' Hello Captain, am currently @ domino's with an olddie beau! just gist...'' After sometime Oga replied '' Tell the Olddie I sent my regards... Don't forget He to tell him he remains an olddie! Tell him he can not reap where he didn't sow! He should be careful oo... Oya start going as you see this text...Love you Sweetie!

If you are chaste even if you tell you beau you are currently @ Volcano or Cubana...He wouldnt loose raise an eyebrow, no cheating drama...CU's you have his mumu button, at d end he know the parcel is for him no body if unseal am. Selah

1StopRudeness:


Where do u people dig up all this weird logic from??

A virgin is supposed to be a sexually inexperienced person....how is she supposed to please her man...I hope you know sexual satisfaction is more than entering a tight hole...

People cheat most times becos of greed and lack of satisfaction.... you people like to assume that becos a lady is a virgin she will always be satisfied with whatever d!ck she’s getting even if it’s 1min....
Could u explain rationally not mere assumption, how a nonvirgin is likely to be more unfaithful than a virgin...?

Save your breath for logical beings and not this douche bags...some buffoons have concluded that those male monikers who don't see anything wrong with being nonvirgin are actually females using male monikers to support non -virgins.

A hymen is not the criteria for picking a spouse,what happens before I met her doesn't concern me but all that matters is what will happen after I meet you.
The virginity stuff is meant to objectify the ladies and feed men ego,let them take the trophy of being the first to go in there. As for me,respect and submissiveness is what can feed my ego from a woman. After I tear the hymen,what will keep feeding my ego?
You guys harm yourself a lot with the choices you make in a bid to sham ladies


Virgin or non virgin are both good for me

oyatz:
By nature, Humanbeings don't like to be condemned.

Only very few ladies will marry as virgins which make virginity a very scarce 'commodity' to be well respected. In addition to this this 'treasure-like' status of virginity is the fact that it can only be lost once in a lifetime.



Saying publicly that you want to marry a virgin is indirectly condemning non-virgin ladies (about 95% of all women). Some ladies get hurt because of such statements and some may hate you for it.



I strongly advise you


1) to stop saying out (but you can have it in mind) that you want to marry a virgin because you are likely to hurt the women that love you and in the process, hurt yourself too.


2) Never mention the word 'virginity' in front of a lady that you haven't fvcked before but you plan to fvck.

Why should ladies be pained by guy's spec? If they can trumpet out their spec without caring of how others will feel while should men be mute?

You are comparing apples with Banana.


1) Being rich is RELATIVE but there are no two types of virginity.

Eligible bachelors with monthly income of #300K, 500K, #750k and #1 Million are rich guys to different classes of ladies.

2) Being rich is also time dependent but a non-virgin can NOT improve to become a virgin.

Losing one's virginity is a once in a lifetime experience!



A university undergraduate or a NYSC teacher in 2010 may not be rich but they can be rich in 2020.

Petyprincess:
I never got worked up because it's their choice! Bt i wonder why guys get worked up when we prefer rich guys?

Arthur21s:

Why should ladies be pained by guy's spec? If they can trumpet out their spec without caring of how others will feel while should men be mute?

you should respect a man's choice for wanting a virgin. For you, a non virgin and a virgin are the same, good but not for others.

Gerrard59:


Interesting. Could you please share a link where someone can read about the project?

Marriages in Pakistan are majority of the times arranged, same as in India. You can read up on the marriage cultures online.
They also are not known to rape their women as is common in India ( though usually among the lower castes there)
Because of the relatively conservative nature of Pakistan, their women and men hardly have any social interactions alone. Its just not acceptable in their culture.
They do not date, and only meet their spouses on the day of the wedding. They may exchange emails and perhaps even phone calls, but marriages are arranged through their parents and never the children.
I have many Pakistani friends, and the story is same. They do not date in their culture, and they marry young men like themselves arranged by their parents.
A good friend of mine said she only started talking properly with her husband about 3 months into the marriage. Her friend wanted her to marry the brother in the UK snd their parents sorted it out. She never saw him till the wedding day. He had also never dated anyone before either, so they both learned together
It's normal there, and they talk freely about it because it is their culture.
An Indian friend said her own marriage was advertised in the newspaper, and she choose her husband. It is normal for them.
They look at your job, your residency- some of the potential husbands are usually in the UK or US.
You can also check on polygamy rates in Pakistan.
Usually, you are stuck with the wife of your youth, as it was with their forefathers.
Their culturs is not bad at all tbh and they don't allow their religion cloud their reasoning as we do in Nigeria

Arthur21s:

Save your breath for logical beings and not this douche bags...some buffoons have concluded that those male monikers who don't see anything wrong with being nonvirgin are actually females using male monikers to support non -virgins.

A hymen is not the criteria for picking a spouse,what happens before I met her doesn't concern me but all that matters is what will happen after I meet you.
The virginity stuff is meant to objectify the ladies and feed men ego,let them take the trophy of being the first to go in there. As for me,respect and submissiveness is what can feed my ego from a woman. After I tear the hymen,what will keep feeding my ego?
You guys harm yourself a lot with the choices you make in a bid to sham ladies


Virgin or non virgin are both good for me

Nnne to even see the girls with intact hymen hard...small small teenage girls I teach in teenager's Sunday school between 15-23
About 80 percent of this girls are between senior secondary school and year 3...if they are 80 in my class...like 60 has had sex including the boys oo
Come and see oo their response, they were even mocking laughing and jesting, one foreign school year 2 stood up in the class, during contributions and said once you are 18,ur not a minor sex is a fundamental right u enjoy with a person you love! Half of the class clapped for her and shouted in approval! I nearly faint, I had to go call one of the pastor's wife to come intervene. It was mind blowing! I nearly resigned Sunday school teaching! As those children know wetin you can't imagine oo. Our time Sunday school manual... Talking on chastity of a Christian youth. Joseph was the theme center...

Can a non-virgin man become virgin again? So by your logic a fvcked dick can be unfvcked? Lmao, some of you are very far from sense that's why I lmao when girls deceive y'all into marrying them.

jawalis:


That’s just a petty way of seeking redemption. A broke guy can be rich between days and his entire life change for good. But sadly a NON VIRGIN can’t be VIRGIN till eternity.
Fvcked pvssy can’t be unfvcked.
Gotten?

It is your preference but that makes you a hypocrite if you yourself are not a virgin. It's like a thief complaining that another thief just stole from him.

Parker6:
A virgin with other nice qualities is my preference, any day any time. Women always get uncomfortable whenever I say this.

PerfectMaster:
you should respect a man's choice for wanting a virgin. For you, a non virgin and a virgin are the same, good but not for others.

you will like to point out how I disrespected a man choice for virgin or attacked men for their choice. Whoever a man wants to marry is not my business,I will not be the one to live in that marriage.

My post which you quoted was saying ladies should not be pained by guy's spec and a guy doesn't have to be silent on his spec since ladies trumpet "I want a rich guy"

Everybody deserves good things, even a bad man desire to have good things happening to him.

Any man who plan to marry a virgin bride should be wished goodluck even if the man is not a virgin.

I have never met a man who marry his wife as a virgin that is not proud of saying in it out. It doesn't matter if the man is a chronic womanizer, a thief, a teacher or a pastor.

Few things in life are as gratifying as a dream that come true.

Chi59:

You're on point. This incessant clamour for virgin wives just shows how fragile a lot of men's egos are in this country.
If you're not a virgin, then you don't deserve to marry one, except you just get lucky.

kestolove95:
D kind shakara wey I dey use my virginity do en, its for my future husband nd I never meet am sef

me done tire with my own shakara. I wan marry make i rest. E no easy for me again.

Its not just Pakistan, Afghanistanis and Saudis Arabia are like that too. Most unmarried men and women are virgins and I mean 95 to 99% and that is because fornicators are seriously dealt with regardless the gender.

Gerrard59:


Interesting. Could you please share a link where someone can read about the project?