nlanders i have dis gurl i like but any time i ask her out she refuses but she always want me around her and even asks for my opinion in every endeavour she wants to undertake. i'm really confused cos i'm tired of running after her . its like i'm runnin after shadows. folks wat am doin wrong

I like to help brodas like you.
That being said, u need to know U've been a BIG WUSSY!!! Dnt start Crying, ok ok. Im Sury, I said dat.

U wanted 2 knw wat U did wrong? THIS IS IT(not MJ's)

U were acting lyk a wussy and girls don't like WUSSIES. U nid to transform yourself in2 a "JACK"! Now you'll ask "how can I do dat?"

I wnt 2 blive U've bin tryin 2 please her cuz U can picture hw perfect U guyz wuld luk 2geda, hw much U luv her, hw much she's missing nt being with U. . . . Blah blah blah! My Guy wake up! It doesn't wrk dat way!! Gurls dnt fall in love with guys dat love'em, dey fall in love wit guyz dey're ATTRACTED to!!! So your problem nw is simply ATTRACTION! You need to get her ATTRACTED to you!

Things you need to STOP doing:

- stop telling her you love her
- stop calling/visiting her often
- stop all unecessary apologies U give her
- stop all your Mr. NICE GUY attitude(try 2 always please her)
- stop taking approval 4rm her(U do everytin she likes, U listen to lagbaja bcuz she adores lagbaja, U run naked every friday nite bcuz she like guys dat does dat, U enrolled in gym bcuz she lyks macho guyz) ok ok ok I'll stop, I blive U get d point

*** Things wey U need to stop too plenty, If I continue we no go comot 4 here***

Things You need to start doing:
- Start being a MAN of your own. Do your thing bcuz it's Your choice. Stand your ground and say this is what I want. You see, Ladies like Guyz dat have a mind of theirs(some won't admit it) she should lyk u, 4U!
- being a Mr. NICE Only makes U filthy and I assure U, U'll be treated like a dirt!
- start hitting on oda gurls, stylishly make her knw abt dem. Always tell her hw much U lyk being wit dose oda gurls and hw much fun U get being wit dem. Tell her hw much U love her frndship and hw U'll love 2b her frnd 4 lyf (dnt 4get she's our No. 1 PRIORITY) be careful wen U're teasing her about oda gurls, cuz wen U ova do am(I NO DEY O O!) U shld knw hw much she can carry!
- Wen ever U wnt her 2 come wit U 2 where ever. Dnt allow her say: "Call me 2hrs b4 d tym, 2knw if I'll be cuming. I've nt decided yet". NO WAY! Dnt act lyk a WUSSY, and say "pick my call o". Act lyk a 'JACK', Tell her: "No. Tell me nw, make a decision nw, so I'll knw if Im going wit sum1 else"
- wenever she ask U for a favour or 4 wateva and U cnt fullfil it or it's goina be very strenous 4U fulfilling it and U've said NO to her. Pls dnt change Ur mind and say Yes to her later. Pls DON'T!

When you do all this, Im assuring you, you're walking on d rite path

There's so many things you need learn, I don tire to type. If You're interested in Succeeding with dat dream girl of Yours, U can contact me: Dave4revolution@yahoo.com

I hope my long post is goina be helpful.

Is she a nigerian gal? If she is, a car is all u nid. Truss me.

^^honda end of discussion for  a start

~^ Any car at all. So far it have 4 legs or more.

bollingjoe:

nlanders i have dis gurl i like but any time i ask her out she refuses but she always want me around her and even asks for my opinion in every endeavour she wants to undertake. i'm really confused cos i'm tired of running after her . its like i'm runnin after shadows. folks wat am doin wrong

She sees u as a friend and not sha.g buddy.